So I have been lurking on seddit for a good time now and have been seeing the building confidence posts. Perfect advice guys helped me out alot. I must be a fast learner because in the past few months after being scared shitless to go up and talk to girls. I have been working on long eye contact and smiling. More recently I have been able to joke around and get girls numbers and such. So thanks guys for the tips. Ya'll help all the lurkers out there!

P.S. could you guys give me a list on active date ideas. I am sick of going out to dinner and movie thing. I saw rock climbing as one. Bowling is another. ight thanks for your time