What are your views on this topic?
If you ask twenty women what they find attractive in a guy, at some point you'll come across at least a couple of them claiming that a man should be interesting, should have hobbies and passions.
I feel like it's a double standard. If a hot guy (or just one a girl is already attracted to for whatever reason) says he likes to vape and play video games, she'll be like "OMG this guy is fascinating, he has passions!". When an average guy says he likes mountain biking and playing bass guitar, she responds with "fuck off, you boring weirdo"
The example I just provided is ridiculous and obviously made up by me, but you get the idea.
I actually experienced both sides of this - I had girls attracted to me while not giving a fuck about my interests and what I have to say. And also I've been rejected for not being cool enough.
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