Ok so iam the kinda guy who doesnt really care, laid back, upfront and dont really need to get comfortable with someone to take or dish a joke, but it seems many girls aernt like that they always need to warm up to you and slowly opening up, whereas iam just open to all. So my question is how can i learn to be more subtle when talking to girls rather then looking like a creep who just wants to know the deeper you?... btw i have been told that i am good looking but that doesnt really help if my way of talking to girls is to blunt.