Fortunately I consider myself to be, though I have my good and bad days like everyone.

Last night on a date I channelled some Conan energy and we had great banter, which I enjoy but it left me feeling a bit mentally exhausted, especially since I'm a natural introvert.

I know guys who I would consider to have the conversation skills of a soundboard with no wit whatsoever, who still seem to do well with ladies (on dates).

So I feel like perhaps I've become too reliant on my verbal game to carry me.

Am I overrating the importance of conversations? Should I try to focus more on physical? Or should I just embrace this?

At this point I'm sort of expecting that all dates will have talk show level banter, and it's great when they turn out that way, but it just seems a bit daunting because I'm not always in a highly social mood myself.

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P.S. I'm talking about more formal dates, not booty calls or night club pick ups or anything. But even then, I'm not someone who can just let me body do the talking.