Every girl I've dated/fucked I've had to make the first moves, that's how I prefer it, I have a formula, and I have time frames.

Recently I made some changes to my wardrobe and my haircut. I've been getting approached a lot more and also been getting a lot of messages from girls on tinder first. It just never seems to work out. I get ghosted every time. Then I pursue a girl and bam we have sex.

Like I matched with a girl on tinder a few days ago, and she messaged me and said hey cutie :), I messaged back, and got her Snapchat. I was busy the next 2 days and injured myself wakeboarding the next day after those so I didn't really talk to her. Then today she sends me a Snapchat of her in the shower, I respond 'nice' and then sent her a shirtless picture. She sent some more pictures of herself, and then I replied with a teasing picture of me in my boxers about to pull it out, and then she sent me a picture of some chipotle her dad got her, and so I put my clothes back on and replied and then she never messaged me again.

I also had a girl at the club who was hot af just get right up on me and start making out. We exchanged Snapchats, and the next day she snaps me, I snap her back, she sends me some nudes, I replied, we kept talking for a few days sending nudes back and forth and then I ask her to chill and ghosted.

It's a phenomenon. Meanwhile I'm talking to 3 other girls who I had to go out of my way to talk too and they're all about me, and I have a long time fuck buddy flying out in a couple weeks to stay with me for a few days. So it can't be that my dick is small or that I don't know how to talk to girls.

Any one else have this phenomenon?