So, I think my personality I come across as too serious. So when it comes to talking to girls its always like oh so you going to school? what are you studying? etc... I don't tease them much, I have no game. I probably come across as bland and boring. Plus I am not quick witted, so when girls tease me I just laugh and don't really know what to say lol. An example would be I was working out and returning a work out equipment. The chick was like you didn't give me enough time to miss you in a flirty way and I turned all red and sheepishly laughed. I had no idea what to say then it got awkward and I got my stuff and got the hell out of there. I am good at one on one situation, but it turns to more of a material talk if you know what I mean. Like what do you do for a living? What you do for fun? I had a girlfriend before and girls that liked me. I dress nice and I work out often, but whenever I open my mouth they instantly get turned off. Or they gradually become disinterested.

One of my friend is a ladies man, he gets a lot of girls. He said he probably slept with 40 plus girls and its like half the year lol. I notice that he is very situational, funny, teases a lot, present and very smooth with the ladies. I respect his game, he is probably the best among my friends. We are all busy and we don't hang out with each other a lot, so I can't learn from him as much as I would like. Doesn't hurt that he is a 6'2 good looking white guy. I remember we were talking and he is ALWAYS thinking about sex and wanting to sleep with girls while that stuff doesn't even cross my mind that much. I think when it comes to goals in life his is probably about sleeping with as much women as possible while I am more about making as much money as possible lol. But this is not to say I don't want to sleep with a lot of women too, just that I have different primary focus.

As far as building game goes, how do I develop this? He is naturally extroverted, while I am more introverted (found this from a myer briggs personality test) Now is this more of a personality thing? Or something you can acquire? I am not a funny guy to begin with. I am introverted, but I can definitely talk to people. It is hard for me to begin the conversation, but once it gets going then I can be more social. I just don't seem to have that spice or edge like my friend does.