How do I handle this?

Hmurie · 2019-04-09T15:24:42+00:00

Do not fucking message her again, please god you will come off as so needy, seriously do not text her again for AT LEAST a week. If she doesn’t respond by then feel free to attempt to set up another date.

Waterk0ker · 2019-04-09T19:09:18+00:00

If you like her, don't text her back (aka rewarding negative behavior = her not putting in effort). Next time don't say "let me know when you're free", just say "ok" and afterwards let her initiate the contact. If you show her neediness her attraction for you will (further) dissappear.

I know it's hard to not text her, but you really shouldn't.

zincSF · 2019-04-09T22:12:34+00:00

wait a week or more. do a photo ping (cool/funny picture, ideally with maybe your feet in the foreground for example). just a very brief note. pure fun. and no questions to her. just let her know you exist, implicitly that you are still interested, are having fun (w/o her!) and are fun to be with.

wait another week or two if you get nothing, try another or go for it and suggest getting together.

nothing back, fuhgeddaboudit.

Title	How do I handle this?
Author	shitpostthrowawayact
Upvotes	1
Comments	3
Date	April 9, 2019 2:10 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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