Alright, theoretically I have all the tools to be a good pick up artist. I'm 19 years old. 1. I am fairly good looking, at worst. I am average height, an athletic build, have near perfect teeth, thick brown hair, and tanned skin. I'm not saying I'm Ryan Gosling, but I have been complimented about my looks before. Also, I dress better than average for sure. 2. I really have my future together. I'm in finance in uni, and I'm a dean's list student, in a ton of clubs, etc. 3. I'm a really nice guy, and I have a ton of friends. The only issue is that I have never been great at forming super close friendships. Also, people find me funny. 4. I'm athletic, and really into sports. I'm doing some running races, and I just generally have hobbies that girls typically find attractive. 5. I have a wealthy family, which gives me the chances to do cool things like travel a lot, which would theoretically make me cooler.

However, I have always had somewhat limited success with women. I have had some success with women, probably about 15 girls over the last 3 years where I was "wheeling," however nothing has ever really materialised. A lot of this was just the fickle nature of girls in high school, and the one girl I got super close to we had a falling out (basically her family wouldn't let her date anyone at 20 years old...long story). Basically, I am not that good at sustaining interest from women.

If I had to sum it up, my main issues are that I: 1) Can't demonstrate my value to women 2) Am not good at forming bond with them 3) Not Generating lots of prospective women to be interested in me

The main reasons, I think, for this are: 1) I am perhaps too modest about myself 2) I often feel like I am too nice 3) lots of girls I know seem to be stuck up bitches, I don't know why.

So, how do I improve myself? Also, it would be awesome if you could look at my askseddit submission from yesterday and let me know what happened there,