I'm 18 years old and I just started my first year at university. Where im from, the first week of uni is known as freshers week and its a time where partying and making friends is emphasized. I am a confident guy, have been told im good looking and have had a few relationships in the past, granted i do have some insecurities. I share my apartment with very tame people who dont go out a lot. I've been here at uni 3 days now and everytime we go out i do not enjoy myself. I feel like i constantly have to make an effort to be chatting with others and no one actually wants to talk to me. At pres my flatmates dont really engage with me, and im left to fend for myself. Tonight is the 3rd night were i danced by myself trying to make new friends. I dont know how much more of this my confidence can take, i feel like i havent found anyone i can bond with and going out tonight was a mistake. I'm drunk and rambling but quite stressed that everyone else at other unis are having great times and im not, please give me advice on what i should do, or some motivation to keep going. Love