I just don't get anywhere when asking girls out. They are always say they don't want a relationship right now or something similiar. Wich they only say to not hurt my feelings I suppose. I feel like asking them isn't enough and I lack some confidence or something. Do you have any idea what I'm doing wrong? The asking her out part isn't the problem but the coming further part.

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I feel like to a girl I'm just yet another guy that asks her out and has nothing quite special to offer compared to the other dudes she rejected as well. How can I change this? It's frustrating if it works out so seldom, and I think the girls also feel uncomfortable if they have to reject me.

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Some short information about me: I'm male, 22 years old and currently I'm on a university in Austria. Most of the time I ask them out on campus during the day and occasionaly when I'm on a party or some sort of event in the evening.