I wouldn’t say I’m totally unsuccessful with women, but I feel that I could do a lot better if only I made an effort to approach more, and I don’t understand why it’s so difficult for me. For some background about me, I’m a college student at a mid sized school, I’m in a fraternity, (which does give me some social proof), and I think I’m generally liked by a lot of people. I have hobbies and interests I enjoy(theatre, leftist politics) so I meet people that way, I’m in relatively good shape and go to the gym regularly, and a couple of girls who I slept with because they came onto me have even told me they find me very attractive. I know looks aren’t everything but I feel I have a lot of friends and a pretty expansive social circle, but I can’t seem to translate that into sex, dates, or relationships very reliably. I mean, yeah I can grind or make out with some random girl at a frat party and maybe go home with her, but that’s not exactly emotionally fulfilling. There’s lots of really interesting women around me that are really attractive and I would like to get to know (and sleep with), but for some reason I just don’t understand how I’m supposed to approach someone I hardly (or don’t) know. Any advice?