How do I start?

abstractpickupartist · 2017-03-18T15:46:05+00:00

1) Talk to everyone. A lot of people freeze when talking to a beautiful woman because they don't talk to anyone else. Talk to people who don't make you freeze up until its natural, then talk to beautiful women like that.

2) Practice situational awareness. Look at everyone you meet. Find something that stands out, even if only a little. Comment on it. (jewelwry, tattoos, clothing, haircut, body language. If it's their space, decorations, pictures, books). Most people go through life half asleep. Be better than them to win.

Pay attention to the environment. Anything unusual happening? Comment on it. Shared annoyances can be great ice breakers. Anytime you are in line is a time to talk to people.

3) Do things besides pickup and time-wasters (reddit, tv, video games, porn). Get rid of these, and you'll have a lot of time to do interesting things. Even as simple as "I went for a hike last weekend in XX, it was beautiful. Where's your favorite place outdoors?".

If you take all the time you spend on time-wasters, and do interesting things, you'll never run out of things to talk about.

Arellius_M · 2017-03-18T20:45:57+00:00

I agree with abstractpickupartist and would like to add just a few things.

4) Question her beauty, indeed she is beautiful but what else does she have going for her? Is she cool? Sense of humor? It comes back to that old chestnut ''Beauty is very common, so can you tell me some interesting things about yourself?'' Her: ''Like what?'' You: ''Are you spontaneous, adventurous? Would you go to a rock concert or sit in and watch your favourite tv show?'' That sort of thing.

5) Read more books, some good literature maybe. Find the right sort of books and it might inspire you to be more adventurous. Jack Reacher stories by Lee Child boosts my confidence and The Art of Seduction by Robert Greene inspired me allot!

6) Watch some seminars on YouTube by a big name in the seduction scene of your choice, the movie scene from Magnolia with Franck TJ Mackey gets me hyped. Same thing with music (colorful glam metal usually does it for me, Motley Crue - Girls, Girls, Girls or the Top Gun soundtrack)

Lastly, work on the basics. Gain confidence, eye contact, voice tonality, body language and physical escalation are key. Nothing can be done without confidence. And if at first you don't succeed, try try again. Fall down 7 times, get up 8. That sort of thing :)

All the best.

77Se7e77 · 2017-03-19T17:36:41+00:00

Thanks for the advice guys!!

Title	How do I start?
Author	77Se7e77
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	March 18, 2017 11:43 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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