How do I stop overthinking everything I say to girls over text, as if I’ve offended or said something weird?

smoothmax · 2020-04-14T19:19:28+00:00

Are you texting lots of girls? Or at least, as many as you can?

These problems of overthinking and anxiety are really common when you only have one girl to text. But they disappear in direct proportion to the number of girls you communicate with.

If you have at least 3, 4, 5 or more girls to game with text you can still think about what to text them and try to come up with the best response, but it takes away the pressure and fear of "blowing it".

You also get a lot less anxious if a girl takes a day, a week or more to reply. You can go ahead and ghost them back.

When you're less anxious and more relaxed about texting girls ... because you have so many of them on the go ... women can sense that from what you text and how often you text them. So they tend to text you back more frequently and with more friendly texts.

Also with lots of women to text you can try out the same "canned" texts, jokes, teases etc. and learn by experimenting. Like, if you haven't heard from any girls for a few days you can send them all the same text and see what happens. Such as "Hey trouble" or "How's my babe". Try to stir them up then go silent, see how they react.

DJ_Bobby_Spindal · 2020-04-14T21:42:00+00:00

Definitely scarcity mentality. Stop trying to fit into their world. I always frame a conversation as she needs to prove herself to me. If she doesn’t like my sense of humor, she loses points. I’d rather offend or say something weird then be too timid. It makes you stand out. Most guys are timid and talk like asexual friends. Just relax have fun and get her to talk to you. Not the other way around.

JinBas22 · 2020-04-14T18:11:21+00:00

Of you overthink what you're writing,there won't be any flow.Tou could trick your mind into thinking ,that you chat with a friend.You can practise as well with some unknown to you women.If you feel insecure don't text to close friends ,that you want to hook up with.Try tinder.Try insta.As long as these women are not in your close circle.

GoldRaise · 2020-04-14T21:07:56+00:00

text more girls

Whopper209 · 2020-04-16T02:48:53+00:00

Easy STOP treating them like YOU are less than them! Don’t care what they think worse case they move on but 90 percent of them are not for you. What do YOU want? Someone who you have to walk on eggshells around doing monkey tricks for? Come on dude...

Title	How do I stop overthinking everything I say to girls over text, as if I’ve offended or said something weird?
Author	paris0630
Upvotes	7
Comments	7
Date	April 14, 2020 5:01 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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