how do i text?

tfortroy · 2014-07-06T04:20:53+00:00

You don't want to have extended conversations over text, you should only be using it to set up dates so you can actually talk to her.

pralinematchbox · 2014-07-06T03:38:51+00:00

Someone please answer this, I'm fine with girls in person but idk I can't react to emotions over text, fuck the digital world!

piggsy1992 · 2014-07-06T08:44:18+00:00

Ask questions in the form of causal conversation, maybe add bits in about yourself. Don't rapid fire questions like you're interviewing her.

FireLavaDragon · 2014-07-06T02:32:34+00:00

Another post I commented on.

betaphaggott · 2014-07-08T00:00:51+00:00

Simply put, texting should mostly be for logistics, and to maintain/slightly increase attraction until the next date. If you ARE able to meet her soon, screw the small talk, just tease/remind her about something that happened when you met at the venue, flirt a bit, then seal the date and don't contact her anymore until then.

You can usually gauge her reaction. After asking her about herself, she'll usually respond, "how about you? ect ect.". Usually means she's pretty interested in getting to know you. If she doesn't, just back off and try to seal a date asap in minimal words possible. You have MUCH more to lose from over-texting or blabbering, then not saying enough. There is a very thin line regarding texting game, and the return on investment is extremely risky, if you are unexperienced.

thenakedwarrior · 2014-07-06T12:37:27+00:00

STOP asking questions! At this stage in the game, the only question you should ask her should be specifically about meeting up, and even then it's unnecessary. Stop trying to do all the rapport building over text message.

So instead: Just make statements!!! It you ask a question and she doesn't answer it for a long time or at all, or gives a lame answer - you lose value.

My advice is; anytime you can -- simply make statements instead of questions, and always be doing something fun. Let me give an example:

NO: "Hey I'm going to be in your area Friday night, would you like to go out for a drink with me?" (Easily rejected, easily ignored, probably not going to hang out with someone she just met, let alone on Friday night. Basically the chances are you will lose value somehow)

YES: "Hey some friends and I are going to 'some bars in your area' on Friday night, grab some girlfriends and meet us."

Ask for nothing. Always be doing fun stuff or at least representing that you are. If she responds positively to your "statement," call your friends and make the plans real. And then she can see you around people who think and act like you are cool, and that awkward coffee or happy hour date you are going to invite her too will seem like the worst idea ever.

Title	how do i text?
Author	masterdebater117
Upvotes	4
Comments	9
Date	July 6, 2014 2:19 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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