I've been cold approaching for about 2 weeks now, and i've talked with a LOT of girls. I haven't had any lays yet, and that's fine, because i'm just at the beginning of my journey and I have a long way to go.

However, what keeps coming to my mind everytime someone tells me cold approach is hard are a few guys in particular that are a part of nearly every social circle I go into. I know a handful of guys who can go out every weekend and get laid when they want to. These guys aren't 10/10's look wise but they can get laid whenever they want to.

Then I talk to PUA's and other people practicing seduction and they keep saying it's a numbers game and cold approach is EXTREMELY hit and miss. But that's not what I see when these particular guy's i'm talking about walk into a club/bar and leave with a hot girl.

Is it foolish to aim that high? I'm just trying to get a good grasp of what I should expect when i'm cold approaching. The rejection still stings a little bit (even though i'm getting better), but sometimes I get the feeling it's not me, it's the nature of cold approach, and sometime's I get the opposite feeling, which is that i'm fucking it up.

Any advice, guys?