So I danced with girls at a club tonight for the first time, but I had no idea to do it--at they ended up walking away because of that. Are you supposed to grind your hips against theirs, or use your thigh? How does it differ when they're grinding on you vs when you're face to face? Also, I get a boner when I do this; do I try to hide it, or just push it up on them?

Thanks everyone!