How fast do you guys burn through venues when out

2018-05-09T18:43:06+00:00

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ThrowawayPUA · 2018-05-09T19:10:49+00:00

If you're "burning through venues" then you're doing it wrong.

At first, you should do lots of short sets. But as you gain experience, you should focus on fewer sets with longer interactions. You will start to learn what sets are going nowhere, so you can focus your attention on better prospects.

7mile_ · 2018-05-10T00:20:48+00:00

Too many approaches. Work on calibration

recyclablebanthas · 2018-05-10T02:59:58+00:00

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I’m working high volume doing 40+ approaches a night.....

This depends on your style of approach. If you're handling your approaches in a certain way, then they won't be on anyone's radar.

How are you opening? What do you say?
How would you characterize the style?
How do you come up with your opener?

I ask because a.) you shouldn't be needing "high volume," and b.) how you define approaches and social interactions in general, affects what footprint you leave behind.

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I also almost got kicked out twice but gamed and befriended the owner and bouncers by pretending to be a promoter hosting a private party on the weekend.

Gonna be real here. You shouldn't be "burning" through venues. Even if you want regular sex. If you're getting the attention of the owners and staff like that, then you're standing out in ways you shouldn't be.

Also, lying, isn't going to save this for you. Sooner or later, the lie will be revealed and with the kind of footprint you're leaving behind, you're going to find yourself closed out from a lot of venues. (Organizers and venue owners often run in the same circles.)

You need to take a hard look at what you're doing, because something isn't sustainable at all.

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Other females are noticing this.....

It's not about this. Jealousy is not why you'd be in danger of being banned. Women complain when guys come off as predatory. And while the owners and security might not always notice or care about that, they certainly will if women complain about feeling unsafe.

That hits their bottom line. If women feel unsafe and might not come there, then they lose the men soon after.

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.....it might be a bad tendency I used to spend 90 % of the time trolling girls and using them to pump state.....

Depending on what you mean by "trolling" or "using them to pump state," if sounds like you need to find a way to bring yourself up without poisoning the well for yourself and others.

Because, what you do, doesn't only affect you, obviously. At the beginning of the night, everyone is generally more open and relaxed. If you're doing things extreme enough to get yourself targeted for being kicked out, then chances are that your actions are contributing to the overall attitude in a venue shifting to girls being more closed off to strangers.

In short, your style might actually be kind of burning it down for ALL the guys in the venue. Or certainly creating more difficulty for them. Which wouldn't be cool.

Haffiesprolapse · 2018-05-09T19:56:19+00:00

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WIA20XX · 2018-05-09T20:07:30+00:00

If I work the crowd, it's fact finding mission plus social proof.

First, It's always my birthday, I always just got a promotion, epic day at the gym, sweet burrito from Chipotle.

You guys are from cross town, great (next)
Oh, your wedding anniversary, great! (next)
Bachelorette party, sweet (next)
Feminist book club/wine crawl (Score!) Who here drinks malbec? Enemies for life!

possum8616 · 2018-05-09T19:01:24+00:00

Girls are definitely noticing what you’re doing. They’ve caught on that they’re far from the only one in the room, so they don’t feel special. Girls like to feel special. I know this because I’m a girl. Also, what you’re doing isn’t attractive. Actually, I’m willing to bet most are turned off by this. You want to seem more attractive, right? If so, you’re going to need to change your tactics.

Title	How fast do you guys burn through venues when out
Author	Haffiesprolapse
Upvotes	0
Comments	27
Date	May 9, 2018 6:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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