I've just passed the 1 year mark for the first time and ever since the first date where things turned sexual after calling her a blōodslut, the level of intimacy keeps raising. However, I hear that, as time goes on, a lot of couples get comfortable and don't feel the need to impress their mates (make-up, working out, hygiene, dressing up). Perhaps your SO likes the way you look in flip flops and sweatpants, do you change.