How long should I wait, to plan something after our first night out?

sorry_mommy · 2017-09-14T15:03:33+00:00

Since you didn't do any kino, you should probably move faster than slower. She won't be waiting around desperate for the next time she gets to see you, so ride out that positive vibe while it lasts. Go for like 3-4 days after, for the next one. But make sure you escalate QUICKLY this time. Another night of platonic nice conversation and you're toast. If you ask her out again, she will be wondering "gee I wonder why he wants to see me so soon... I will go with him to find out." So if you quickly start the kino and make it much more romantic/sexual than last time, she will think "oh I see, he likes me... do I like him?" then the rest of your date will be convincing her that yes she does like you. Otherwise if you fall back into easy interesting conversation, she will think "oh he's pretty nice, but I don't have time to do this for hours every week" and you will see less and less of her.

G-Dalf · 2017-09-14T16:48:24+00:00

Any time I have a good first date, I like to at least mention wanting a second one within the next day or two to make your intentions clear (ie. that you enjoyed the date and want to see her again). You don't have to set it in stone right that second, but float the idea and you'll quickly see how she feels about it.

If there wasn't much kino on the first date (which is fine, it happens), make sure the second date is more conducive to it. Sounds like the first date went well, but maybe you were having drinks across the table from one another which is not ideal for kino - no problem. Just make sure your second date is something that allows for more of it, like a walk, or mini putting, or anything where you're moving around and not sitting across the table from one another.

Best of luck

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-15T05:37:10+00:00

Next day of course. Don't wait 3 days.

Title	How long should I wait, to plan something after our first night out?
Author	Theking1243
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	September 14, 2017 2:52 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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