Hey there seddit!

Well, I'm here for few months, didn't make any real approaches or anything, but I did learn some really important things and got my questions answered - how the fuck did I really attract women.

So here I am, a guy with confidence nearly 0, zero social skills, no interesting hobbies or anything. Computer geek, sleeping in the classes, bragging around about playing Diablo 3 for 72h straight. Oh, did I mention problems with getting girls that I tried to pick up?

And there are three most beautiful girls in my life.

When I met first of them, I was a total looser - I was kind of a 15 y.o. that got beaten up often and stuff. And I saw her and french lessons, we were staring at each other for a long time, until I complemented about her clothes - but I was too young/stupid to see that if she's wearing skirts that show much more legs that she does usually then there's something about it. She ended trying at a point where she called me her prince, and someone read it up, whole school laughed at her. And she was the most beautiful girl in the school, everyone just wanted her.

And i didn't fucking know why did she like me so much. We were friends for a while, but recently she said I should stop telling myself there's something more between us (which I obviously never did)

Then there was my first girlfriend, well, I just wanted someone next to me, I fallen in love to her because of my investment in her (I helped her get out of really big family problems, which included some police office visits).

After 2,5 LTR I wanted to try something new, found those PUA things, and wanted to go to Norawy, but I needed 3 ppl to get a good deal. Found a girl that was looking for one guy to their cabin, we meet just so that I can give her money, turned out we talked few hours. Next day we went on a long bicycle trip, at the end of which she said she has cold hands, so I said hey, I'll give you some warmth! She was astonished, and I was aswell that were kissing few days later, and she broke up with her BF because of me (extremely toxic, where he called her a bitch pretty frequently). And I didn't fucking know what I did. Why did she like me, how the fuck did she liked me so much in 3 days?! Also, I tough that I'll give up those PUA methods cause hey, she likes me the way I am, even tough I look like a loser. Thanks to her I started to go to a gym and stuff, I was much more sincerere that I'm usually, and after 4 months I mistakenly took her to meet my friend, that was a moving pussy magnet. Well, to cut long story short, I woke up 5am with them both almost fucking in my room, in my second bed. Ouch, I said no more and just removed them both from my life.

And there's another one, that I'm going with to a company party in a few days, that looks almost like marylin monroe (just with red hair), just after I posted a picture with her 10 of my facebook male friends wanted to know if she's free. No guys, she's with me. And no, I didn't use any of those PUA methods.

But after reading few chapters of "Models" it hit me - i didn't care, I just had a good time, I was sincere, sometimes even too much, I wasn't fearful. If I wanted to get a girl that I think that would go out with me, I wouldn't ever try to touch her hand at second date (shy type), I wouldn't be sincere cause I'm Mr. nice guy. But with all those 4 girls, I was. I was myself, I had my life and my small buisness that I cared much more about that anyone or anything else (sometimes I had to move dates due to some extremely important things).

So yeah, here I am now, still learning how to be such a guy to every other girl. There's much room for improvement, like body language and some workout.

Oh, and guys, I've found my dream job thanks to you, don't even ask how, I don't know, but I know i'm getting a promotion after 2 months of work :D

tl;dr - I was sincere, myself, confident, didn't fake anything, escalated without fear, and didn't ever know that those small things can get you the most beautiful women. And the only time I've fallen in love so much was when I invested in girl too much.

btw. I did an interesting experiment with third girl (that one before Norway trip) - I knew that my friend was hitting her up, I knew PUA strategies he was using, so I told her - hey, he's going to be with a female friend to lower your status and make you easier, he'll flake you to make you easier, he'll do bla bla bla bla. She was laughing at it first, and saying that no way it's gonna work. Also, he was a serial liar, lying about seriously everything, and she also knew it. But she said he was a one big mystery. And she cried every time he was flaking her. Well, I broke contact with her when in tears in her eyes she told me that she's in love with him. After 4 times seeing him. Well, I guess it worked for him :D