RSD preaches a lot about being non-reactionary to what women/people say, that way you can't be taken off guard, etc., what ever. This of course takes practice so I'm not beating my self up that I failed on this, but I'm still curious to hear what you guys have to say.

Basically this longtime crush I've had called me out today by saying that my face gets red when ever I'm around her. (Disclaimer: my face gets red when I smile, which I'm usually smiling around, but in this particular incident I came inside from the cold, so my face was red.) Well that being said, it's pretty irrelevant because the fact of the matter is that I do have a crush on her and she knows it. When she said that all I came back with was "I just came in from the cold!" and she said "suuure" or something like that. I'm not really sure how I should have responded in this case. This subreddit preaches alpha responses, etc.

Also, if I were to align my thoughts, words, and actions, I probably would have told her flat out because I think she is cute and fun, but I'm not sure this would have been the way to go. See the thing with acting with out a filter is that... sometimes you need a filter. Any help with this?

I'm still a big noob to all of this.