I'm sure this will get down voted to hell and back but seriously... how do you make things move along without it being painfully obvious or awkward? It's not fair that a girls only responsibility is to glance at you with "fuck me eyes" or say something that could be interpreted in a million ways if they wanna fuck you, meanwhile were expected to do literally everything else.

I'd really like to get your advice. It would be so much less frustrating if I could just blame it on being ugly but I'm objectively a pretty decent looking guy, although a bit short at 5'8. I've even had several girls from within my social group asking me why I don't have a girlfriend and the same ones have hit on me later on but unfortunately I had to reject them due to being the exes of my friends (major downside to social game). The final straw for me has to be this ultra sexy redhead with an amazing butt and the sharpest eyes ever who gave me so many IOI that my friend pulled me aside and told me to just go for it. I literally didn't know how though, like what does that even mean..."just go for it"?

This wasn't some bar chick I could just spit a line at and walk away from however, she was a close friend to one of my close friends and we were all hanging together but I still would have made a move if I'd had any idea of what move to make. How do I go from small talking with someone I just met to getting physical and talking about sex? Everytime I try it just feels really unnatural, painfully obvious, and somewhat forced and I can tell other people pick up on it.

Is there a way I can flirt so ambiguously that neither of us feels weird doing it in front of all our friends? Is there maybe some kind of jedi mind trick that's helped you maintain the right mindset in these situations? I will be so grateful for any help you can offer me, thanks for your time.