What's up guys...I've been following the sub awhile and trying to improve myself and I've noticed that while most of the technical stuff is super solid, I seem to do a lot better when I don't think about that stuff too much. I'm not sure if this falls under "natural game" or whatever but my state of mind makes 100% difference in my ability to be charming.

Unfortunately I'm an over thinker and most of the time I get awkward and nervous and can't think of anything to say because I'm trying so hard to think of something to say. However, sometimes when the stars align just right I get into this mood where I'm just too tired to care or yesterday for example, I was in a rush to hit the post office before it closed and I had so much other stuff to do that it didn't throw me off when there was a new girl working the desk that happened to be really cute.

Whenever this happens I somehow become really good at conversation and witty remarks start flowing easily. I actually had this chick smiling and laughing with minimal effort. Now I just need to learn how to get into this mindset at will. I really appreciate any advice or recommendation you can give, thanks for reading.