Guys, when it comes to seduction, we can take a lot of cues from women here. Let me explain.

Women, more so than men, seem to have this inherent and uncanny ability to just be naturally seductive. They just know how to have the right look, vibe, energy, attitude, posture, body language, etc. that attracts men. Many of them just ooze a sensual feminine sexuality. This is part of the reason why seduction seems so effortless for women.

Most men on the otherhand, can't seem to do this at all. We tend to get deep into game and pickup which is often more about psychology, tactics, and techniques. It's the intellectualization of seduction.

Yet, the men that I see that are actually good with women. And good in a way that looks and feels natural. They tend to simply BE seductive men. They don't memorize a bunch of tips, tricks, and tactics to appear more seductive. They ARE seductive. Rather than carrying themselves as a salesman, they carry themselves as the product.

In all my years studying game and pickup, I've noticed that for whatever reason, this does not come naturally to most men. Yet, for the men who have it, it gets the most results. How does a man make himself seductive? This is the question we need to ask ourselves and others. What can a man do to become a more seductive man?

I've noticed that men like this often have a strong presence. They have a vibe that is very strong, present, self-assured, and they aren't afraid to sit with tension. What else?