Hey guys, so it's been just over two years since I really slept with a new girl. The only girl I've had sex with in this time is one weekend when my ex came to visit. Aside from that I've had a few hookups, several of which almost led to sex but never quite happened. I know it sounds kinda weird but it almost feels like I'm like cursed or something lol. At this point I feel like I have zero game or confidence with girls any more, and never really have. Since it's been so long I feel super uncomfortable and nervous around sex, almost like it's a second virginity. I just don't really feel like a sexual person anymore which pisses me off. Girls generally don't seem interested when I try to pursue them. Girls who did seem interested suddenly seem to lose interest when I do try to pursue. I'm pretty frustrated and honestly pretty embarrassed about it, especially since my other buddies don't seem to have nearly as hard a time with this stuff. I'm a pretty good looking dude and take good care of myself, although I just had orthopedic surgery a few months ago so I've lost a lot of muscle mass. I've always been kind of awkward and shy around most people, although this is more in my head I think at this point. I'm not really sure what to do at this point since everything I've tried hasn't seemed to really work. It's effecting my confidence and self-esteem pretty severely at this point.