How to continue being myself?

Serbian_Lawyer · 2015-11-08T02:40:59+00:00

By remembering one simple thing - life. Life is too short for one to waste on overthinking or worrying about making yourself look good infront of others. Focus on the moment and free yourself from those boundaries. Only then will you be able to truly enjoy interacting with others.

What if someone doesn't like the "real" you? Who cares, it's their loss. You just dust yourself off and prove that you're stronger than one's opinion. No one should be able to stop you from reaching your full potential.

Tjodleik · 2015-11-08T03:12:58+00:00

So, if I'm reading you right you made a very good first impression without much, or any, conscious effort, but since you got a compliment from her you're letting the rather irrational fear of possible future consequences - my guess would be fear of losing validation and/or being "disliked" - dictate your actions. You do know that the human race has not developed neither telepathy or precognition yet, so you're basically reacting to assumptions you pulled out of your own ass, right? And when you think about it, ain't reacting to your own fantasies like they were the goddang truth kinda ... I don't know, not productive?

I'll let you chew on that for a while ...

Title	How to continue being myself?
Author	slugcanter
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	November 7, 2015 11:56 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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