A lot of guys struggle in this community to get this area of their life handled. They read books, they go through different products, they look at YouTube videos and post on forums. I get it. I've been there and I used to do the same thing.

Yet the BIG question is how long will it actually take you to get good? I'll be honest with you - I'm a lifestyle dating coach and YES I am good. When I say good, I mean that I can go out today or TONIGHT at get results(solid phone number, date, sex, social circle, etc). However, it took me a LONG time to get to this level. And let me tell you, if I knew what know now 10 YEARS ago, I would have saved tons of time.

I don't care who you are (student or instructor). There are FOUR basic components that you need to develop in order to get really good with women (and life).

  1. Inner Game (Beliefs)
  2. Social Intelligence (Social Adaptation)
  3. Outer Game (Personality & Expression)
  4. Lifestyle (Living Situation, Hobbies & Social Circle)

Now you can get good the slow way OR the FAST way. The slow ways is putting too much focus on only ONE of the 4 components (like outer game or inner game).

Now if I had to pick ONLY one component to work on first, I would focus on social intelligence. WHY? It allows you to adapt to any ANYTHING (any social situation, any social context, any person, etc). Listen, If you can't adapt to different social situations (cold approach or social circle), your results will suffer. If you can't dynamically deal with social pressure, your results will suffer. And frankly, I'm sick and tired of seeing guys struggle with social intelligence and social calibration....so over the past few months, I've gone out of my way to develop training that sheds YEARS off your learning curve.

In fact, if you want to get really good FAST, I recently put together a free 3-part video training series that you can use to adapt to any social or romantic situation no matter who you are, how you look, where you live, or what your social status is.

You can check it out here: https://www.reddit.datingdojo.io

If you have any questions about social adaptation or social intelligence, pm me or email me at [email protected].

Talk soon!