If you are a newbie that still has trouble approaching, stop reading this right now, go out and APPROACH.

So, you're great at approaching. You can hook girls, get numbers, and go on dates. But now what? If you find yourself struggling to close with girls that you've attracted and gone out with, read on.

The attitude you need to have if you want to get laid is realize that the girl is ON YOUR SIDE! Who doesn't want to have sex with an awesome person? She is rooting for you to close the deal. Women love sex as much if not MORE than men. She wants to get laid dude, realize that, and embrace it.

The first thing you have to do is get her to a sex location. Invite her back to your house for a drink or a movie or to watch the latest episode of blah blah blah. The excuse doesn't matter, women are not stupid. If she agrees to come back to your house, she knows that there is a real possibility of sex. If a woman is on a date with you that means she is attracted, so just be cool and invite her back to your place. If she gives you an excuse for why she can't, disarm it. "I have to get up early tomorrow for work", reply: "We're just going to hang out for a bit, it's not a big deal. I want to show you my awesome rock collection, just 10 or 15 minutes." This step is easier if you've already gone for the kiss with her at the date location, and have already introduced her to your touch, but it's not ABSOLUTELY necessary. You should certainly be doing it though because your results will get much more consistent if you do.

So now you're in a sex location. The number one thing you need to do if you want to get laid there is PHYSICALLY ESCALATE! Commonly referred to as kino. What does this mean? It means that you can't just take out your dick and shove it in her vagina homie, you have to build up to it. When you're making out with a girl and you want to have sex with her, you MUST escalate the situation. You can't just make out with a girl all night and expect her to suddenly take her pants off. Start rubbing on her and seriously turning her on. Specifically? Rub her ass and tits, guide her hand to your pants, try to take her shirt off, talk dirty, bite her neck and her bottom lip, etc.

The other thing you must do if you want to get laid and you don't have a ton of experience is PERSIST. Now, that does NOT mean fuck her even if she doesn't want it. What it DOES mean is women have a lot of social bullshit programming floating around in there head that says that if they sleep with you, they are a slut. So if you're on a date with a girl and you're making out and she randomly says "I'm not going to have sex with you", don't give up! 95% of the time what she's saying is "I WANT to have sex with you, but I don't want to feel like a slut, so how are you going to deal with this?" In order to navigate a girls "anti-slut-defense", you need to show her 3 qualities to get her comfortable in the situation.

A) You want her, and are open and cool about sex, and you are NOT going to judge her for sleeping with you.

B) You couldn't care less if she decides ultimately not to sleep with you. Having multiple fuck buddies in your phone that you can call at any time will help with this.

C) It's going to be good, passionate sex. No girl is going to risk it if she thinks you're weird and in your head and aren't going to fuck her right.

Display those 3 qualities throughout the interaction, and realize that the game is not over until she is gone. For example, I've literally had a girl decide she wanted to leave, I said OK and walked her to her car. We chatted for a bit outside her car, started making out again, and then went back inside and had sex. If at any point during your sexual escalation she stops you, STOP! Don't shove her down and force her into anything. Back off, tease her, be playful, show her that it's not a big deal to you, then get back to making out and escalating. This will drive her craaaaazy and will seriously turn her on, which is obviously what you're shooting for.

And last but not least gentlemen, you SHOULD be persistent, a lot of women get turned on by that, but also recognize that NO means NO. There are some women out there that will NOT have sex with you on the first date regardless of what you do, especially if you don't get laid a lot. That's OK, don't panic, she still wants you to fuck her, it's just going to take a bit more time. Go out with her again and escalate the situation again.

I hope this post will be of help to some of you out there. Everything I have put into this post was based on my own experiences as well as different ideas I've gotten from various other sources. Good luck.