Girls almost never come on to me by their own initiative nor flirt that much either. Yet, when I take the initiative it almost always works. How should I interpret this, am I not easily approachable or is it just not common for ladies to make the first move? If it's the first, can you be both at the same time, a strong alpha who takes the women he wants as well as a relaxed guy who is easily approachable?

Edit: I mean first encounters, the ladies who judge me by the looks before I've even spoken to them