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[–]defkalion1 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don’t message her or him all the time. You should message them only when you have actually something to say and don’t start with wyd. If something worth sharing happened go ahead and say it. Ask them nice and interesting questions about their life like why did you choose to become “”. Open ended questions that are out of the ordinary. You can google that for ideas as well. ( Interesting questions to ask when dating) If they are interested as well they will keep the conversation going.
Also try to get him/her on FaceTime because once you start talking via video or phone it’s a whole different thing. Wish you the best💪
[–]Vivid-Smile 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Not just for dating, also keeping friendships
[–]defkalion1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same thing. Try and find interesting questions to ask and be honest. If it starts to feel like an interview say it “I feel like my texts look like more of an interview than a conversation. Do you want to hop on a call sometime because I feel it’s better that way?”. That’s was something I just came up with but you can get the idea. Do what feels natural and again best thing to do is call them and don’t force anything through text because in the end it will feel weird.
Side note this subreddit is for seduction so I don’t know if it’s the best place to ask for friend advice.
[–]learnfemalenature 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
The best way to keep interest is to get her imagination going.
The best way to get her imagination going is by not texting her 24/7.
When you don’t text her 24/7 and other guys do, it makes you stand out.
When you stand out from other guys, that’s what makes you interesting.
Also, not being available all the time.
[–]Vivid-Smile1 point 6 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
True
[–]cec_vano 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you feel needy... drop your phone, go do something else.Don’t text just for the sake of texting. Only text, snap or whatever when you have something to enrich her day with. If you keep texting her for no apparant reason, you’ll just annoy her.
[–]Vivid-Smile 6 years ago* [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Makes sense
[–]cec_vano 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Good luck bro!
Thanks
[–]PaintedCat19 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t have conversations about the same thing everyday.
Don’t be annoyed if they leave you on read because sometimes (I do this) I read a message and have intend on replying but I’m called to do something immediately.
[–]bemore_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
By not texting at all
[–]quinnmcd[M] [score hidden] 6 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
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