Hi, I'm in my mid twenties,a brit in Australia for a few months and over the weekend i drunkenly slept with my neighbour whos in her early 30s after we've been hanging out for a few weeks . we've carried on hanging out since.

Im a confident guy that doesnt need a kick up the arse but im confused what direction to go in. Instinct is saying message her, find when shes free, be keen, but thats idiotic and a recipe for disaster. Best if we take things slow, shed prefer that. But how do I stay attractive and ensure that im the sort of guy that she'd want to sleep with? How to play the game to make sure she's interested in me?

What conversation should i be having more than anything