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[–]FailingBillionaire 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends.
Generally decide if you want to do it "direct" or "indirect"?
Start with high energy, like "HI! yada yada yada..." instead of "hi, yada yada yada".
Though people don't like it, I believe canned material is the way to go for beginners. Plan some openings at home and then just fucking do it.
Example for indirect:
"HI! I am not from here and am searching for [something], because [add excuse and false time constraint], [add open ended question, f.e. where could I find such a place?]"
Generally good advice is to talk bullshit, because it doesn't really matter what you say, but what you convey.
F.e. a buddy of mine asks: "Sorry, I am lost. Where do I have to turn, to go straigt?" and then he takes the direct route.
Another buddy often starts with two questions: "1. Are you single? 2. Do you find me attractive?" If both questions are answered with yes, he goes for the kiss. It also helps that he looks like a German adonis.
[–]MonkeyFist4150 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't say your name, you're not a salesman.
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