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Well at least you talked to a girl. We must crawl before we walk, and walk before we run, and run a lot before we marathon.
/r/seduction17/05/17 06:03 AM
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Fat works against you. Guys don't like fat girls unless they're chubby chasers. Girls don't like fat guys unless they have daddy issues. Fat implies laziness, lack of self control and its hard to look neat in clothing because the fat bulges and pulls on fabric. Women like the golden rule, broad shoulders, narrow waist, tiny butt, strong legs. Big muscles aren't necessary, just good proportions. Oh and neckbeards, fedoras, cargo shorts with sandals, vaping and fidget spinners....ditch all that fo…
/r/seduction17/05/17 06:00 AM
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Its okay just don't cross state lines with her or feed her alcohol and weed. If her parents find out make sure they see you wearing nice clothes, not wigger stuff with $500 sneakers and a crooked hat
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:57 AM
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or tell her you love trump and have her flame you for an hour straight
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:56 AM
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if you bothered to read her profile, chat with her about her hobbies and stuff. don't be afraid to have a real conversation that doesn't involve you making sex talk. whats important is making the connection. If you want to talk dirty you can do that for $1.00 a minute on a chat line.
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:53 AM
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Simple rule, 5th date is when to make a sexual move. It doesn't mean you have to get laid, just to a point where the touching goes beyond simple romantic handholding and hugging.
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:51 AM
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tall order. You don't have to keep everything as fresh and new as your 3rd date. One thing about a relationship is that it settles down. The fire no longer rages its just now a fireplace. As for sex, well you just have to work with her, bounce ideas off her and see. Girls are pretty filthy, you would be surprised what they think of in sex. A mature relationship is a friendship as well as a romance.
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:48 AM
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Don't ignore her completely, then you are back at square one because she's forgotten you. If you have already established the link you have to keep the connection going. Remember that a lot of girls don't friendzone guys, they simply give up when you stop communicating. They assume you have interests somewhere else and they are not very good at being rejected so they're sensitive
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:44 AM
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She's intimidated by you. You may be creeping her out and she doesn't want to say outright "get the fuck away from me, creep!".
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:43 AM
2

Trust me, if a girl says she doesn't want to date because she just broke up with a guy, actually means she doesn't want to date YOU. If you are a good listener, if you give her the impression you can be fun, interesting and intimate, she will go from one relationship to the new one without blinking an eye.
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:41 AM
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Make a connection. Phone numbers, face sucking, rubbing her butt, none of that makes an emotional connection with a girl. She gets what she wants (a free drink, a kiss so she feels attractive), and then she moves on and forgets you 10 minutes later. To her you're just another club guy. They want a guy that wows them, one that they remember and actually want to see him again.
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:39 AM
1

your indian, let your parents find you a wife
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:37 AM
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cheap motels
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:37 AM
1

you should have copied her photos from her phone to your laptop
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:35 AM
1

If you date 4 girls in 3 months you may have some intimacy issues
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:34 AM
1

35mm digital camera. Don't take selfies with grainycam phones.
/r/seduction17/05/17 05:32 AM
1

Exactly. Permission is rarely given verbally for something like kissing. 90% of human interaction is nonverbal.
/r/seduction16/05/17 11:44 PM
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What are you, 12? Girls get sent dirty texts all the time and 99% of the time they go into the digital trash bin.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:17 AM
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Stop thinking about yourself so much, focus on others and your surroundings, your daily objectives and goals.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:08 AM
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Quit thinking that a kiss is a close, it is not. A girl wants to be comfortable before she kisses a guy. There's no shortage of pushy suck face guys in the world, and woman hate them like the plague.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:07 AM
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You're pushy and creepy dude. Women want to be comfortable around a man, not date a guy that sprouts 8 arms and treats her like she's covered in breasts.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:05 AM
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Scars can be kinda cool, much better than tattoos. Scars tell a story, don't be afraid to tell yours.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:03 AM
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There's nothing wrong with being actually nice in the regular sense. A "Nice Guy" in the pickup vernacular is a guy who lies to a woman pretending to be a friend hoping the can hook up with her when she's drunk, vulnerable or alone.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:03 AM
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Its a frat party people want to hook up, just walk up to chicks and talk to them.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:01 AM
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Work on your self-esteem first.
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:01 AM
1

Filming them, lay off that a bit Ricky Fitts
/r/seduction16/05/17 01:00 AM
1

she likes to use the word bro, so what.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:58 AM
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An artist should have a mystique about him. Be prepared to give her good stories about your art, how you made it, what inspired you all that stuff. they get dazzled by a man who is serious about something.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:57 AM
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don't neg, its just stupid and its kind of childish if you keep doing it.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:56 AM
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a dance is not a relationship. you need to hang out with more people at a house party, make more friends, be more social.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:54 AM
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Many girls are intimidated, so they look for cues of interest. You are not broadcasting any cues of interest, so they move on.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:53 AM
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roller skating. its fun, its social, you can hold her hand, its like a disco without drinking and embarassment of standing around looking stupid.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:52 AM
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Just message her and say "whasup girl?" If she doesn't respond within 24 hours, she changed her mind about you
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:51 AM
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PUA is basically a scam, which is why there are so many geeks, idiots and retards running "bootcamps". The success of the students hinges mainly on the fact they're so pepped up about the 'secrets of pickup' they actually go out and talk to girls, which they wouldn't have done otherwise.
/r/seduction16/05/17 12:36 AM
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take a break from it, then go back
/r/seduction15/05/17 06:21 AM
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Quit thinking about yourself so much. When you talk to chicks, think about THEM. Talk to THEM, look at THEM. Your attention should be focused squarely on THEM, not on you.
/r/seduction15/05/17 03:44 AM
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That was one chick. Try again with another.
/r/seduction15/05/17 03:41 AM
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Vegas baby, hit the casino strip, lots of single people looking to have a good time. If you live in Las Vegas, NM, never mind.
/r/seduction15/05/17 03:39 AM
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You have to be seriously interested in what she has to say. Yes its possible to make a connection over texting, but the impersonal nature of text can be problematic.
/r/seduction15/05/17 03:38 AM
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yeah probably a mistake.
/r/seduction15/05/17 03:36 AM
1

Mastery defined is pretty simple, when get to be so good at something its barely an effort to even do it and you are confident when you do.
/r/seduction15/05/17 03:35 AM
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She obviously believes her boyfriend is better than you, otherwise she would have cheated on him. Move on.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:30 PM
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Its not really hard, think "situational awareness". Where is she, where are you, think of something that is relevant. I once talked to a girl who was laying down under a tree in the parking lot of my work, I simply walked up to her and said "are you alright?" she responded she was just reading. I joked "Ah okay I wanted to make sure I didn't have to call an ambulance". She chuckled and the opener was done. I didn't go up to her and say "excuse me, who cheats more men or women?"
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:29 PM
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IOI's are not 100%, heck they're not even 50%. A hair flick doesn't mean she wants to suck your dick.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:26 PM
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About 3 relationships
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:25 PM
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just wait a bit, sometimes people get busy and can't keep up with their texts. even my steady GF has to endure me not responding for hours because frankly I don't check my phone that often.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:24 PM
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Just smile and say hello, if she's interested she will comment about something you are buying, and thats your signal to make a convo.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:23 PM
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Pardon me do you know where the Grey Poupon is?
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:22 PM
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Stop communicating with her, if she doesn't respond back then you never had her.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:22 PM
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Laci Green from youtube suggests you should ask a girl if she wants to be kissed. That means the advice is total garbage because everything Laci Green spouts is wrong.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:21 PM
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Its obvious from just the fact you're thinking about it means you want OUT.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:20 PM
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Make sure she didn't die in a car accident or something.
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:19 PM
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(cringe)
/r/seduction14/05/17 10:17 PM
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Don't say your name, you're not a salesman.
/r/seduction14/05/17 08:00 AM
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Smiles are a little creepy, dial it back a bit. Otherwise pretty decent, you dress well, you show off your hobbies. your profile needs tightening up, cut out the judgmental stuff and make it sound more naturally readable, like if you are in a conversation. Also try to be more visual in your responses, say things that make her visualize her and you together without actually saying "you and I will be..."
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:13 AM
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There are 2 major groups of people, those who date for fun and those who date with the long term in mind. Problem is you don't know who they are until you get to know them. Just make sure you know what group you are in and what group you want to be in.
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:10 AM
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Are the girls you approach tall themselves (aka taller than you). That can be an uphill battle, girls will not want to be hit on in public by a shorter guy but in private they may like you anyway. You also have to make an emotional connection with a girl, once you "open" a girl you can't just keep on opening her forever, she will get bored or weirded out. Keeping her interest, then making her want to see you again later is important. There's no need for kino or kiss closes, she will do that hers…
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:08 AM
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Confront them, find out why they said that. The only way it could be embarassing is if they weren't pointing at you but some cute guy behind you. Awkward!
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:05 AM
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Speed dating is good, but you had better be fun. You only have a few minutes per date and the cruel wheel of fate will strike you down when you don't expect it.
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:04 AM
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You don't know how to attract with your eyes. There's stages to it, the first is the notice, when you first lock eyes with her, then there's the acknowledgement, where you perhaps raise your eyebrows, smile or smirk. Then there's the approval, where you look away while still smiling, and finally there's the invitation, where you look again and hint that you want to meet her. At that point its either you or her that will approach, based on her responses, which if positive she will mirror yours.
/r/seduction14/05/17 06:03 AM
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If you are not enthusiastic and positive during the 1st date, you won't get a 2nd date. A woman doesn't want a quiet, moody and negative person unless she's goth or aspie.
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:59 AM
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Liquor is how ugly people reproduce
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:57 AM
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Lucky you, I encountered 2 hot girls in a liquor store looking to get drunk and they were wearing those black tights that accentuated their great bodies. I couldn't chat them up because I was with my GF. It sucks.
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:47 AM
2

Do something fun, go to a convenience store that has a good selection and tell her to pick her favorite childhood candy, and you pick yours. Then you can both discuss the why's and such.
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:45 AM
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She's a psychology major
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:43 AM
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Talk to her group, whats the big deal. https://youtu.be/yTpfP0w0_iA
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:41 AM
31

Don't approach pretty girls, leave them to me.
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:40 AM
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Liquor reduces inhibitions, and impairs judgment. Do the math.
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:39 AM
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people with poor self-esteem tend to say the opposite of how they really feel
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:44 PM
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Its the internet you can do anything you want, so can she.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:41 PM
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I've gone out with wing girls, it pretty much keeps other women away, don't do it.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:40 PM
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Get a new girl
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:39 PM
1

This is just trolling
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:39 PM
1

Why not, get on instagram.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:38 PM
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texting is asymmetric. you have to understand that a text can be ignored, it can be forgotten about, the phone can be put on mute, it can be left in another room, etc. There are many reasons for a person not replying to a text, so don't freak out about it.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:38 PM
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Its a small victory, just like your first kiss, your first handjob, your first real GF, your first paycheck, your first car, etc... Of course it will give you a confidence bounce.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:36 PM
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I think you are misinterpreting it. It isn't the clothing, its the care in which they dress. If you dress well people notice. if your hair is well taken care of, if your skin is good, if you are careful to have a good appearance, people notice. It doesn't matter that you have a $350 jacket, it matters that you wear it well, its clean, not wrinkled and you wear it confidently.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:34 PM
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church singles, they all wanna get married.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:33 PM
1

No, business cards suck, don't ever do that, ever. just write your number on her hand
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:32 PM
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I'm tiny and get laid, it isn't height. heck I've seen 5' tall mexican guys toting around 5 kids, they obviously have no problems with women either. Your depression may be part of the issue, people want to feel comfortable and happy around others, if you depress them they just want to get away from you.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:32 PM
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Smoking is not a good thing. Hollywood is paid by cig companies to have their movie stars smoke on the screen in order to get you hooked on their product. It also gives you bad lungs, and when you have sex you really need good lungs.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:30 PM
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dating sites can be depressing, because most of the girls on there are fat and can't get dates the normal way, and most of the guys are pathetic and can't get dates the normal way.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:28 PM
2

Generally don't hit on girls at the gym, most are there working out so they can go to the club later with a better body, but while they're sweaty and busy they don't want to be bugged.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:27 PM
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Do you have a high pitched whiny voice, many guys unconsciously talk that way when they're nervous around girls.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:26 PM
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Three times, the girl has to look at you three times.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:26 PM
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Sex is never overrated, you are just interested in the physical part and don't quite understand yet what it is to be a real adult and understand the role sex plays in a relationship. You're just 18 so its okay. Maturity comes later.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:23 PM
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Watch dance movies, emulate them and find your own style. https://youtu.be/8S68Rl-N1Gg
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:20 PM
1

Best way to get over a girl is to find a new girl
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:18 PM
1

You have self-esteem issues.
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:18 PM
1

Drink a coca cola with a tiny straw in it and claim its a cuba libre
/r/seduction13/05/17 10:12 PM
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What can you do? Does she at least suck your dick?
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:53 PM
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Of course women like sex, duh. Problem is many guys are so horrible at it and don't care to improve, women can get pretty cynical about the whole thing.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:52 PM
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WHY are you ignoring? you are way past making the girl chase you. Now you're just acting like an ass.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:51 PM
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Men misinterpret dominance. A woman has a need for security and safety, and a friendly and approachable man is far superior to a muscle hunk, which projects pure raw power. Power appeals to a man, but it only appeals to a woman in much smaller doses. A man that is decisive, mature and a decision maker isn't necessarily a dominant silverback ape type.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:49 PM
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Not true. Go find a Seventeen Magazine or a Cosmopolitan and look in the cute guys section. Many of them are just regular dudes, normal weight of course but not muscleheads. if you think you can pull chicks while being 100 pounds overweight and sporting a neckbeard though, well then you have an uphill battle.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:46 PM
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I hooked up with a librarian, had some internet chat with her, then met her in person, and had about a year and a half relationship. She was freaky in bed, loved the sex yet she was a very good girl, never cheated, rarely cursed, very nice. Nerdy girls are the bomb.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:40 PM
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I had a friend who had a unique way of doing stuff, he would stare at a girl, make a funny face like an excessively happy smile, wink at her, and just make her crack up. It was a method for without saying a word, drawing her closer to him because he is essentially creating a private moment between them.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:10 AM
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You are a "nice guy" (aka you are lying to her pretending to be her friend when all you want is a sexual relationship). This won't end well.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:05 AM
1

you should just have had an evil grin, look at her and say "I really don't want to do homework, what do you think?" Overall the less talking the better, start with the hand, hold her hand, feel how warm it is, interlock your fingers with hers, pull her closer.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:03 AM
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You need to imagine yourself as a tiger, not a doe
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:02 AM
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I never drink at the club. In fact the only time I drink these days is with a woman in a private romantic setting, and only 1 or 2, not to get rip roaring drunk.
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:01 AM
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Go where the nerdy girls are, at the library
/r/seduction11/05/17 06:00 AM
2

you got rejected because you freaked them out, 2 minutes and you already have monkey hands. You probably bailed yourself out by hanging out with them more a bit and being playful and fun, but you darn near blew it.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:45 PM
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book club, knitting circle, learn to roller skate, they do it in groups you could find friends. learn guitar
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:43 PM
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Its not WHAT he says but how he says it. I think you're focusing on the wrong aspects of him. Is he confident, how does he present himself, what is his body language. Is he very friendly with all of them? He could very well be simply "a natural", one of those guys with magnetism, and he could say he's an astronaut and the girls don't really care, they're more interested in the nonverbal signals he gives off, the comfort he makes them feel. The worst thing in the world is a dork who says he's ric…
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:42 PM
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She's either joking because she's nervous or she likes to be inappropriate. Just say something like "Well, WE won't tell him then will we". Make it edgy.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:39 PM
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there are zones of touch. the ones that are least intimate are hands, thats why the handshake is a universal greeting between strangers. arms are next, then legs, waist/back, and then you get to erogenous ones such as butt, face, feet, boobs, crotch. This is the escalation ladder, and you really need to be careful, if you climb that ladder too fast she will get turned off. She really needs to be turned on with your conversation, your mind. Girls will self-escalate if they are comfortable around …
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:37 PM
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Are your ears REALLY sticking out or do you just think they are? Some people tend to have a real problem with perspective, overly focusing on a problem they may very well not have.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:33 PM
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Do you speak with a higher pitched tone when around people? Try to lower your tone a bit and slow down how fast you talk. Don't go robotic but go for relaxed.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:32 PM
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Here's what you do, put your barbell and bench in the driveway, get some beers and lift with your friends. women in the suburbs who are jogging by or cycling will see you all sweaty and muscular.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:31 PM
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https://youtu.be/T9W_jW4e_uY
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:28 PM
3

Never ask, always make it a statement.
/r/seduction10/05/17 11:28 PM
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I don't recommend negging girls, its a very poor tactic.
/r/seduction10/05/17 08:32 AM
1

Why do these "pickup artists" dress so poorly?
/r/seduction10/05/17 06:43 AM
1

She's probably just making up her mind. Haven't you ever had a situation like homework you really needed to do but ignored as long as possible? I'm sure she's busy talking to her friends about what to do and such. All you can do is wait.
/r/seduction10/05/17 06:42 AM
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Whats your comfort level when you are interacting with a girl. Do you actually feel relaxed or do you just fire off some canned routines you learned? 90% of interaction is nonverbal and if you are broadcasting nervousness then they feel it and don't want to be around you. Nobody likes to be nervous, and its infectious like yawning.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:23 AM
1

Wow thats a lot of money. How long is the session.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:19 AM
1

They're women, not men. Logic and responsibility are fairly alien to them. Do you really want to hook up with a known cheater? If she cheated on him she will cheat on you, it sounds like a fairly consistent pattern with her, and frankly you won't like it because it sounds like you want a steady (and a loyal one at that).
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:15 AM
1

You become friends with them, and understand they have friends as well, you're not stuck on an island. Friends can introduce you to other friendship circles and other opportunities.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:06 AM
1

penis height is the only one they really care about. I'm 8" and I'm so used to hearing "oh my god" when I whip it out I don't even acknowledge that anymore.
/r/seduction10/05/17 05:05 AM
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Gossiping with the girls, no wonder they think you're gay. It looks like both of them made subtle offerings and you rejected both so of course they will think that. I woulda had a threesome, forget the comedy club.
/r/seduction10/05/17 04:59 AM
2

Shit happens dude, you might realize that some people have real responsibilities to deal with outside of satisfying your need for fun. A mature guy will just let it go and not pressure her. Go see the concert, tell her later how it was. Don't show up like a stalker at her house hoping to get laid.
/r/seduction10/05/17 04:55 AM
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Getting mad just because a chick doesn't go all the way with you when you want it is just pure beta male reaction. She just got off a relationship, you might consider she's still dealing with that before you fly off the handle because you didn't get any pussy. Its probably better you let her go until you mature up a bit.
/r/seduction10/05/17 04:51 AM
3

You already know a lot if you're a nerd, talk about movies you like, talk about stuff in the news you heard about. Watch TMZ, see what hollywood is doing, most women love that stuff and it never hurts to know what the kardashians are doing.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:56 PM
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Use observational approaches. Observe what she's doing, adjust your approach to suit. If she's in line getting coffee with you, try a simple opener like "Is the mocha good here?". Its not really what you say its if you are confident and relaxed when you say it. Just don't say something stupid like "excuse me, do you think girls or guys cheat more?"
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:55 PM
2

Just fucking call her, texting is one of those bizarre communication methods where somebody can miss a text because its on silent or they left their phone in the car, and the other person gets all pissy about it without understanding the circumstances.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:52 PM
1

I don't pressure myself to do so, its complicated by the fact I have a steady GF. They don't like that much if you're trolling for chicks.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:51 PM
1

just dance in her direction, facing her, making sure you have eye contact with her, preferably a smile. If she's interested she will mosey towards you and dance with you. You can even do a double finger "come here" gesture and see what happens, if she refuses, just do a double hand pushaway gesture of disapproval and move on, see you did it without even saying one word.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:50 PM
1

Oh yeah the Jerk store called, they want you back!
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:46 PM
1

Bring up something like an upcoming concert, or a really good restaurant, see what her opinion is on it, then you can segue into "we should go to it" or "lets do dinner there".
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:46 PM
1

Even worse, PUA scams are mainly geeky ugly ass guys teaching even more socially retarded geeks stuff they already know but never use in real life. The reason PUA works is because the "students" will go from ZERO approaches in their entire life to 100 approaches, of course they will get some success even if its just 1 hit, so they think the $3000 bootcamp is worth it.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:44 PM
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Thats the wonder of internet dating, you can reject without feeling bad. She probably was just not into you or she had a few other dates lined up and wanted to go to them before making her decision. Welcome to the cold, unfeeling internet.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:42 PM
1

Just talk to her and listen to her responses carefully. Talk to her like a man, don't be her gay shopping buddy. That means the moment she starts talking about her ex or girl talk, change the subject. Flirting isn't about sex talk its about communication and establishing a "link".
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:41 PM
1

Just get a job, any job. An unemployed man is wasted talent.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:38 PM
2

Never be afraid to check out a girl, you're a man. Don't be embarassed about having a Y-chromosome. Just don't make animal noises, sucking sounds or pucker faces.
/r/seduction09/05/17 11:37 PM
-2

I would always wait until the 5th date before trying anything sexual with a girl. You were too much in a hurry and she bailed on you. Girls are used to fending off horndogs, what they want is a guy who will hang around for more than just the pussy.
/r/seduction09/05/17 04:00 AM
2

thats because you don't consider those other girls as possible sex partners, so you are relaxed and it makes interaction easy.
/r/seduction09/05/17 03:58 AM
1

90% of human interaction is nonverbal.
/r/seduction09/05/17 01:09 AM
5

All the time. In fact women tend to be the main instigators, you just don't realize it. They drop hints and guys just act on them. Thats why cold approaches seem so odd to most guys, because it really is rather unnatural. Men display but women actually choose.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:27 AM
2

Try to avoid rating girls in the first place, its not a contest.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:25 AM
2

You acted lame because you were nervous, and you made her feel nervous and uncomfortable. The whole idea of making a connection is being at ease with each other. If you make her feel relaxed around you, she will do the touching, she will hint at more closeness, and when that happens you darn well better reciprocate. Women are terrified of rejection of any kind. Thats why its not a good idea to "neg" a girl. It just poisons the atmosphere between you. Don't be in such a hurry to escalate, she wil…
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:22 AM
3

On a date, if you are comfortable with yourself, she feels comfortable around you. The best way to kill a date is to be nervous, it makes her nervous and she wants to just get the hell out of there.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:16 AM
10

I'm a manlet, the tallest girl I've dated is 6'3". Lucky for me I have a tall fetish and I'm not so judgmental about height.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:14 AM
1

Don't talk about your ex to your new targets.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:12 AM
3

If you enjoy the fucking without strings, why stop?
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:11 AM
0

Romance novels, its what women REALLY fantasize about. Men are way too involved in the mechanics of sex so those advice books written by dudes tend to be useless. Some of the most disgusting sex I've ever read came from a romance novel I read a bit from in highschool, a 16 year old girl classmate left her romance book on the desk and I perused it a bit until she came back. Basically it was a story about a woman who was kidnapped and repeatedly raped (consensual of course) by her captors, hunky d…
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:10 AM
1

No they don't they want a man that can pleasure their mind and their body. Your money toys are not even important to them, they use men who are stupid enough to blow cash on them in hopes of getting laid. Ever wonder why a rich woman will fuck her mexican gardener? Because his dick is huge and he can plow her for hours, while her jewish lawyer husband is at work making her money.
/r/seduction09/05/17 12:03 AM
1

Don't drink, smoke or take drugs around them. Be the rebel. A girl is less likely to drink around you if you refuse to participate with her in it.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:59 PM
2

Girls like bad boys, but the LOVE bad boys who are really good boys underneath.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:58 PM
1

they see you as a harmless sexually weak guy, great to talk to about girl stuff but not intriguing or challenging. your confidence may be low and you're broadcasting it to them.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:57 PM
1

its fate
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:55 PM
5

burn your silly mystery method printout. Just go up to them and talk to them, a simple hi and a smile should suffice. its highschool, all you need to do is a "whasup". girls love to talk to guys, they're horny as hell at that age.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:54 PM
1

I've been talking to this girl for a couple of months now You may already be in the friend zone, thats way too long before doing something.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:52 PM
-1

when she looks at you, smile just a bit, then look down, then look back at her while still smiling, then look away.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:51 PM
1

Don't masturbate so much, mr winky gets tired if you use him too often and he's not available in a pinch.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:51 PM
12

You are needy and giving your power away. You are so obsessed with the mythical "kiss close" you forgot to develop a closer connection to her emotionally. You also talk too much, and your responses are rather bizarre and lame sounding.
/r/seduction08/05/17 11:47 PM
23

He will probably want a video of that, we do too.
/r/seduction08/05/17 06:15 AM
4

Get a really good haircut, wash your face, trim your beetle brow. Make yourself as good looking as you can get and you will feel better.
/r/seduction08/05/17 06:14 AM
2

There is no magical formula for sexual attraction. One of the strongest sexual attractions I've ever had to a girl was a cuban american chick, probably not the prettiest but there was something about her that made my brainstem kick into overdrive. I ended up dating her for a few months and had some seriously terriffic sex. There really is no way to quantify such things.
/r/seduction08/05/17 06:10 AM
1

You don't have friends? Then you're not as good at pickup as you think. If you can't even find friends you are literally at square one.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:46 AM
6

Lie to her, promise all sorts of things you can't possibly deliver. What most guys do.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:36 AM
1

Look into yoga and mediation or simple quiet time for yourself. Girls do this all the time, while guys end up drinking and making things worse.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:22 AM
2

A girlfriend means a commitment from both her and you. It sounds like you aren't willing to make a commitment at all. Girls can smell a PUA a mile away, they don't want that.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:21 AM
3

look into mental health services at the college. Dont' drink or take drugs to compensate for your depression, thats a very bad road.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:17 AM
1

call her, texting is not the way to go
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:16 AM
1

When you go on your date, be open, happy, inviting, friendly. I once got a date with some random yahoo dating chick, we chatted a bit, and set up a date. I saw her at the movie theatre where we were supposed to meet, I walked up to her and exclaimed "hello there yahoo friend!" and gave her a big hug, then put my baseball cap on her head (ownership). I talked her head off at dinner because she was shy so I kept the convo going, I held her hand as we walked, we stopped at a bar, i kissed her, just…
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:15 AM
1

Just be nice to her, is it really all that big a problem to you? Perhaps you are antisocial.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:10 AM
3

Texting is good for opening the door, but its the fast track to the friend zone if you are overly reliant on it.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:10 AM
1

Lesson learned. Put it in your memory banks.
/r/seduction08/05/17 02:09 AM
1

You will go nowhere with escorts, its no better than buying a fleshlight
/r/seduction07/05/17 05:48 PM
1

Lots of times they go to the bathroom to get away from you.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:40 PM
7

You don't need a reason to talk to her, just talk to her.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:23 PM
2

Proof that mystery method is total shit, written by an autistic 6'4" wierdo in a fur hat. If she did fuck you, she probably was a hooker. Lucky for you she wasn't. She was just trying to figure out how to get away from you and hoping you don't murder her.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:19 PM
1

German is such a romantic language. https://youtu.be/41lZmGcRWHU
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:10 PM
1

Take her to lunch then, she's starving to have a normal lunch.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:08 PM
6

There's nothing wrong with dating a co-worker. just don't date a subordinate or a boss, thats all you need to know.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:08 PM
2

Asians are horribly racist, they don't like to see race mixing in their country. you were just a victim of this.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:05 PM
2

Dull convo, typical college talk. Other than "whats your major?" its probably better to lay off the school talk. You have to talk about subjects that will keep them in the conversation. Being playful without being sexually crude, being interesting. Also don't talk about friends you have that do cool things, etc...thats Mystery Method crap, she doesn't give a shit about your friends, the reason she is talking to you is she wants to know more about YOU. You should also want to know more about her,…
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:02 PM
21

Thats nonsense, there are plenty of average looking girls that know how to flirt. I knew a chubby korean girl who was a master at it, she could get a bunch of guys to surround her within seconds of meeting them, entranced by her. I think the problem is YOU. Really pretty women may actually be courteous to you, not flirty, you just misinterpret it as such.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:57 PM
2

Unless she's into WOW herself, but thats just a gamers sex fantasy
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:55 PM
15

You submitted to a cock blocker, total beta move dude. Next time it happens, stick your hand out and say "Hi I'm ....... whats your name?" to the male interloper. That way you're establishing your dominance without being mean about it. And then you can ask follow-up questions like "so how do you know her?". You're also distracting him and breaking his train of thought. Then you can go back to her and say "so, anyway...."
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:52 PM
3

Girls hand out phone numbers all the time, don't treat a phone number as some sort of victory. You may have "kiss closed" whatever the fuck that means, but you didn't establish a closer bond to her, you just sucked face and rubbed her body....there are tons of guys who do that and never get a callback because to a girl you're just another drunken molester they met at the club. They forget you the moment they walk out.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:51 PM
1

Call her, texting is not for setting up dates really, at least not for serious ones.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:49 PM
1

Conversation is also the art of thinking. you're thinking about yourself too much, think about the conversation itself, think about her, actually LISTEN.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:49 PM
5

there's nothing wrong with initiating, you're the man, women want to follow. they don't want a beta male who wants the girl to do everything.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:48 PM
2

Thats the creepiest thing I've read in awhile. You might try /r/nosleep
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:46 PM
10

A girl pretty much knows within 3 seconds if she's gonna suck your cock. You can't read minds, however so you just have to play the game until she actually does.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:44 PM
1

Ask the salesgirl for advice. Don't ask a sales dude they're just as incompetent as you are when it comes to fashion.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:43 PM
1

Don't use emojis, come on man you're a dude.
/r/seduction07/05/17 06:57 AM
1

Fuck a fat girl, its not as bad as you think, plus it sounds like you really need the experience. You will learn nothing from an escort, other than you may end up hating women from the experience.
/r/seduction07/05/17 06:52 AM
1

Just do whatever you're comfortable with. Some girls live to sponge off guys for free drinks, trust me you won't get anything in return for your generosity.
/r/seduction07/05/17 06:51 AM
1

this sounds like the ending of "The Stoned Age"
/r/seduction07/05/17 06:50 AM
7

She's just not that into you. Some girls are very social so they give off signals you may misinterpret.
/r/seduction07/05/17 06:49 AM
1

no its not weird.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:36 AM
1

Older women are easy to pick up especially if you're young, nubile. They care little about all the giggly stuff of younger women in regards to mating, so the best thing is to simply approach. They know the drill, they know what they want, and they're far more direct than a younger woman, so put away your opening lines, KINO escalation and kiss closes, its not needed. Just remember to act mature, that way you are a mature man in a younger more appealing package.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:32 AM
1

A girl that cheats on her BF will cheat on you
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:30 AM
1

until you have a magic horny chick detection machine you will just have to grit your teeth and take a chance
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:30 AM
1

the reason you go to a party or a bar is to interact with people. interact with friends, if you don't have friends find some! fun is done in groups, ever try to have fun at an amusement park by yourself? its pretty challenging and gets old fast.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:29 AM
1

Quit worrying about 'closing' a girl and focus more on getting a better communication going. There's friendly talk, then you move to a more intimate level (it can be subtle) of conversation and then you know her enough so that you and her are signaling to each other its time for something really good. There is no magic formula for 'closing' a girl.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:27 AM
1

You don't do "kino" (stupid word) on a cold approach. Nobody likes being touched by strangers, and really, the only way to touch a stranger is with an "excuse me" and you really don't want to go down that road with an apology opener. You want to make her feel comfortable enough so that she touches you to signal she's more interested in something other than a chat.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:24 AM
1

If you like yourself others will like you. going to the gym and getting your body healthy expresses that to others.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:22 AM
5

Get a better picture.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:21 AM
2

You really don't seduce a woman, unless you're a needy begger looking for a pity fuck. She opened the door and you slammed it shut. its all on you to re-open that door again.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:21 AM
1

Why are you waiting so long? You should have forged a closer communication with her from day one.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:19 AM
5

EVERYWHERE! women are all over the place.
/r/seduction07/05/17 04:18 AM
2

Use your peripheral vision, does she look at you more than she needs to? If so...then act young man, the door is wide open for you.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:29 AM
5

she will glance at you more than once, usually 3+ times.
/r/seduction07/05/17 03:11 AM
1

Wygant has the energy, the other PUA's seem to be just whiny voiced nerds who run routines on chicks. The hardest part is teaching somebody how to have energy.
/r/seduction07/05/17 02:56 AM
1

Do you want to be her daddy?
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:53 AM
2

about a week.
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:50 AM
1

You can only attract her by seeking out her mind. Most guys want the body or the money or her weed. To pique her interest you have to be open and honest and take an active interest in her as a person. the less sex talk the better, because she's heard it all before. Once she's ready for you she will initiate.
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:50 AM
1

you may have self-esteem issues, lots of attractive people think they're ugly because their self-esteem is in the toilet
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:48 AM
1

nice hair, neatly dressed, confident poise and posture. Clear skin, nice glasses if you have them, and a man who isn't afraid to look her in the eyes.
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:47 AM
1

Be nice, funny, interesting and listen to him. Take an interest in his hobbies and learn about his goals in life, etc...do all this while wearing a pushup bra.
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:45 AM
1

Its all ridiculous fantasy. If you want the gist of it, its basically catering to what all women want, a man who is decisive and is willing to get who he desires.
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:44 AM
1

Make a new rap song and send it to them
/r/seduction07/05/17 01:43 AM
1

As i said before, baseball caps are not formal wear or even informal wear. Lots of women are in silent agony as they can't keep their husbands from wearing those things out to restaurants. I won't even get into cargo shorts....
/r/seduction05/05/17 11:06 PM
1

You waited too long. You have a narrow window of interest, and if you go past it, she assumes you aren't interested, she gets angry and friend zones you. After all, she knows there are others waiting...
/r/seduction05/05/17 09:49 PM
1

Kino is unnatural when you arent' doing it right. And for gods sake stop calling it kino. You should strive to be a natural at the art of human touch, don't boil it down to empirical technique, because it just doesn't work that way.
/r/seduction05/05/17 09:48 PM
1

Thats so deep
/r/seduction05/05/17 09:47 PM
3

Virginity can be a bonus, in these disease ridden times you are cherry and safe, some girls like that, knowing they won't get crotch rot from you.
/r/seduction05/05/17 09:47 PM
1

Baseball caps are way too informal, you need something that will work better with a jacket or blazer. Maybe a kangol, or a british wool cap. Even a trilby is okay as long as you don't wear something too strange with it. There are literally dozens of different types of hats men can wear. An unusual one can draw attention, the good kind, just don't be Mystery and wear a fucking fur hat.
/r/seduction05/05/17 09:45 PM
1

I only browse reddit when I'm not at work. Excuse me I have to go, my girlfriend is coming over and we're gonna get stinking drunk and fuck.
/r/seduction05/05/17 09:40 PM
1

Any amish chicks nearby?
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:22 AM
1

Just tell her to go through her routine and you follow along.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:20 AM
2

Sounds like she was being professional, you were being a lonely puppy dog. Don't over interpret your meeting with her.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:19 AM
2

Facebook is a lie. People select photos to give an image they have the most exciting life possible. Its just natural, who would want to post a bunch of dumb boring photos? Just think about you and her sharing that fake exciting lifestyle in her photos.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:18 AM
1

AY YO GURL LEMME HOLLA AT YA.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:17 AM
1

If you're a guy don't emoji, ever. If she says she's drunk she may be inviting you to something, probe that comment carefully for more info.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:15 AM
1

Change your attitude. Even in that post you sound way too much about yourself. The first thing is stop paying attention to yourself and pay attention to others, focus on them.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:15 AM
1

Remember you're most likely not the only guy she's talking to.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:13 AM
1

Head to town! Use your weekend, gas up the car and go to the city
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:12 AM
1

Have a chat with her so you both are on the same understanding.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:12 AM
5

As long as you don't have a tiny dick you're fine.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:11 AM
1

Ask her why she gets angry and frustrated around you. She will fess up as to why.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:10 AM
8

There's no problem with dating a co-worker, just make sure its not your boss or an employee that works for you.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:09 AM
2

Just date her already. Flying solo is interesting for about a week then you get bored.
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:09 AM
1

So I guess dressing up like a rapper with a crooked baseball cap doesn't help??? Who knew!
/r/seduction05/05/17 12:08 AM
1

Being thin is great, you can wear anything. You have fallen into the male mental trap believing girls like muscle jersey shore hunks. They don't, only a tiny segment of girls like that. Here's an experiment: Go to a magazine rack, look in the teen and young woman magazines and look in the "cute guys" sections (yes they have them). The guys are not muscleheads, the majority are thin, some are muscular but thin muscular, some are just normal skinny. If you're thin wear a european cut blazer, it fi…
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:31 AM
1

you have to get a conversation going where she's comfortable enough to give you her number without asking for it, because she wants to continue the connection later.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:26 AM
1

youtube, I love watching mystery make a fool of himself
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:25 AM
1

Just say something, she won't run away or hit you unless you say something bizarre like "Got hit by da cong!"
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:23 AM
1

If she wants to slow down, slow down, don't be an ass about it. Take her out for food, fun and buy her something. I once had a GF who freaked out when I bought her a $10 necklace, she had never gotten anything from a guy before. She treasured that wal-mart special. The objective is not pussy, its the girl herself.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:22 AM
0

You're from India, just let your family set you up with a wife.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:20 AM
5

Girls love real nice guys. Real nice guys are open, honest, friendly and you know where you stand with them. What you believe is a "Nice" guy is actually a liar, a beta usurper who pretends to be friends with a girl in order to sneak in and push her into a romantic/sexual relationship under false pretenses. THAT is why girls don't like "Nice" guys.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:19 AM
2

Please Respond
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:16 AM
2

Dating Combat: How to storm her foxhole.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:16 AM
2

"I love to laugh and have fun". Well say something like "do you like comedy clubs, or have you been rollerskating lately". Probe her for information she will volunteer what she means if you ask.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:13 AM
5

Tinder is the dating tool for the short attention span type. Girls can get 10-100 messages a day from horny guys. You either waited too long, were too slow to act or she found a guy who didn't wait too long or was too slow to act.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:11 AM
1

Just act like a man, be dominant (no I don't mean grab the chicks and slap them around). Just don't be afraid to talk to them, smile, be friendly. When a girl likes you she will do 90% of the work, you just need to continue communicating your interest to her. Girls very quickly can give up on a guy the moment he gives off one negative vibe. They're not persistent like guys. Thats why its so easy to get friend zoned, they simply give up on you if you don't make moves.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:09 AM
5

Well at least you know what to change to fix that problem
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:07 AM
2

I would think Vegas is a grand opportunity to find girls. Tourist town, girls coming in/out all the time, fresh crop every day. Go to the casinos, its free to walk in and hang out. Casinos have dance clubs why not check them out. You're past drinking age and am of club age.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:07 AM
1

Do things that make you good looking (haircut, face regimen, clean proper fitting clothing, smile, good attitude). Always be ready to communicate, because opportunities to talk to girls come randomly and unexpectedly.
/r/seduction04/05/17 05:04 AM
2

oh don't be such a pussy, know what I'm saying meow
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:05 AM
2

just hang out in the lobby playing with your phone until she arrives.
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:04 AM
2

Well...its a start. Now you know what one feels like.
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:03 AM
1

Take a class with a lot of chicks in it.
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:02 AM
-2

I jack off a lot and have a GF. You don't necessarily have to give up hamburger just to enjoy a steak.
/r/seduction04/05/17 12:00 AM
3

Contemporary / modern. Stay away from the fu-fu furniture. Your layout should be conservative and have a full/queen bed. No nude posters, no smelly vanilla candles, no Xbox. No bob marley / weed-themed hangings. And for god's sake it had better be CLEAN. Scrub the toilet until its perfect, toss anything in the bathroom thats grubby or messy, no dust bunnies or hairs in the tub/shower. Clean the carpet/floor, repaint/patch the walls. Simple but modern artwork on at least 2 of the walls. the laund…
/r/seduction03/05/17 11:57 PM
8

Improve thyself young man. A woman won't like you unless you like yourself.
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:36 PM
0

Don't expect a threesome unless they're both addicted to crack and you're a dealer.
/r/seduction03/05/17 01:35 PM
4

Try for a conversation, not a phone number. Getting a number and running off will not garner you much success, women hand out numbers all the time, it means very little. Work on your skills of talking and more importantly, listening. Adjust your openers to the situation.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:54 AM
0

Just be a man. Never be afraid to be masculine. That means don't be scared of feminists, don't be concerned if a woman doesn't like you to hold the door for her. Yes its okay to pay for the meal, it is your privilege to do so for her. Never be embarassed about your hobbies, interests or taste in music. Treat other guys as bros, not competitors, and always respect a woman.
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:51 AM
13

Does she have to wallop you over the head with a mallet before you realize she's into you?
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:49 AM
1

Ask him what he's doing for dinner
/r/seduction03/05/17 07:48 AM
1

Add to that the fact that most women don't find me physically attractive, What does this mean? Why?
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:48 AM
1

Focus on her, not yourself.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:46 AM
1

just look at her, she will notice you then smile a bit and look away for a second, then look back.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:45 AM
1

Go jogging on the school track, lots of girl runners from the track team are there, probably a lot of cheerleaders practicing too. Go where the fitness chicks are.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:43 AM
1

You should always look at any new relationship as having potential for long-term. Don't treat it like a "fling" otherwise they will realize you're just there for the pussy and they will bail on you. The other possibility is you're a lousy lay. Work on that. Nothing makes a woman more loyal than a man that can give her memorable pleasure.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:42 AM
1

Well, they're trying anyway.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:40 AM
4

Make sure your tinder photo is great. use a 35mm and not the potato-cam from your phone. Wear good clothing, make sure your background enhances the photo, have good lighting, and for gods sake don't wear sunglasses. They want to see your eyes, and it never hurts to smile. A smiling guy isn't creepy (well most of the time).
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:40 AM
2

Girls don't care about MMA. There's no need to brag about it. A woman is interested in a man who is dedicated to something be it art, sports, hobbies. The moment he starts showing off well....not good.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:37 AM
1

You may have a drinking problem.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:36 AM
3

Ask a girl to prom at school, your parents aren't there. Don't you interact with others while in class?
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:35 AM
1

Don't neg, its stupid.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:34 AM
2

"You wanna get outa here?" The universal code for "lets have sex"
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:34 AM
2

Try talking to them as if they were guys.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:33 AM
1

I don't really like high heels. I do like pumps (low or high) because i have a female business suit fetish.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:32 AM
1

Sleeping with anybody in your direct chain of command (whether up or down) entails serious risks. Perhaps you could get re-assigned to a different part of the company and then try, or get with him first but only if he can get you moved to somewhere else and you're not a direct report to him.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:31 AM
4

Thats weird, dude.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:30 AM
1

Where are you most comfortable, and who are you most comfortable with? You say you're a nerd, well have you tried sci-fi conventions? You should realize lots of sex goes on at those things in the hotel rooms. nerds need it too. Don't go to places that make you uncomfortable like clubs.
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:29 AM
2

The best cure for getting over an ex is a new GF.
/r/seduction02/05/17 04:13 AM
1

I have a policy of never fucking on the 1st date. The only time I ever have was a girl I knew for 10 years so it pretty much escalated out of control anyway.
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:39 AM
1

Your conversation skills need honing. I dated a girl once who was extremely shy, she hardly said a thing but I talked her ear off. She loved listening to me, go figure.
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:38 AM
1

Ask one of them if they have a single friend who is looking for a BF. Networking...you have the network so use it. Lots of girls enjoy matchmaking
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:36 AM
0

IOI's don't mean a thing. Many women give off fuck you body language if they're shy even if its not what they want.
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:35 AM
1

Text her and say "sup girl"
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:33 AM
0

Relax they're not competition, you're not in africa and you're not competing with the silverback for females and bananas.
/r/seduction01/05/17 04:13 AM
8

Sounds like the first 15 minutes of "Shallow Hal"
/r/seduction01/05/17 04:06 AM
5

Look into therapy, including exposure therapy to combat your social anxieties
/r/seduction01/05/17 04:06 AM
2

I was a teen, and one thing about all teens is they think they're smarter than their parents. Focus on yourself and your dynamic with your family. Remember your parents were teens too. Its a rough time, all those new hormones flowing into your veins, it makes a teen crazy and stupid. So just chill, the world is not what you think it is.
/r/seduction01/05/17 04:05 AM
9

Sounds like you are just hanging with stoners, all they care about is weed.
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:36 AM
2

4 months isn't forever unless she's a real slut. Just tell her you'll be back. It shoulds like you really do care about her so tell her after you get back from Basic you two will go off on a weekend together, ramp up the seriousness in your relationship.
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:35 AM
6

Sounds like you are the "other guy". Not a good position to be in. Cut her loose, there's nothing to gain here.
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:32 AM
1

you mean like masturbating 1 hour before a date?
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:30 AM
2

She might have been a hooker just testing you for being a potential customer
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:48 PM
1

Yes go to the prom! Just ask some girls even ones who are friends. Its a fun time and you will regret it if you don't ever go.
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:46 PM
4

I never take a girl home from the club, but I do invite her to 4am breakfast at the local 24 hour restaurant after the club. That way you both sober up and recognize if you really like each other at all. Then you both go home and connect later.
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:39 PM
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Blame homosexuals, they run the fashion industry and make women do all sorts of bizarre things to their body for beauty. If they would only ask heterosexual men what we really want, things would be far simpler for them.
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:37 PM
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Join the chess and wargames club or computer club. Lots of other aspies there usually.
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:36 PM
1

Tinder girls just want to fuck. If you aren't up to that you won't get much out of the experience.
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:35 PM
3

Give her a piece of jewelry, like a necklace. That way she's "tagged" and she will brag to her friends that her boyfriend bought that for her.
/r/seduction30/04/17 10:33 PM
1

Isn't that what tinder is for, F without all the dating rituals?
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:42 PM
1

date, its part of life and makes you well rounded as a human being.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:37 PM
1

inderal
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:36 PM
2

Best thing would be to text her "Just wondering, but why haven't we had sex yet?"
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:35 PM
1

Go back to the Mystery method at least its harmless.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:33 PM
3

Married women are trouble
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:33 PM
1

I knew this black kid in highschool who had elephant man syndrome. he was popular and had lots of friends. Now if you want to talk about deformed skulls, this guy had one!
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:32 PM
3

You will have to buy her a really nice gift as an apology.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:30 PM
1

They seem to like the immigrant black guys in sweden, apparently the modern swedish male is too effeminate for them.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:27 PM
0

Welcome to the reality that phone numbers aren't what they seem and kiss closes don't exist. Next time try to make more of a connection to a girl rather than demand her digits. Girls hand out phone numbers and filter out guys with voicemail and the ignore button on their phone. lots of times they give their number out just to make you go away, knowing you will never ever get to talk to them again thanks to technology.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:24 PM
1

You can do both. You don't need to own a lot of things to appeal to women. Everybody thinks you need to by brand label clothing or $500 sneakers, you don't. I get my blazers at thrift stores for $6. A shirt is a shirt is a shirt. Focus on your body, it makes your clothing look a lot better if its hanging on a guy the proper weight. Losing weight and fitness is inexpensive too, just run and work out. $50 worth of weights, sneakers and your free time. Women don't care about your bling, don't be th…
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:22 PM
2

Sounds like she has a drinking problem, stay away from her dude. I'm always wary of a girl that can only talk about drinking and liquor, it masks some serious psychological problems she's hiding.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:17 PM
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If you only meet women in bars, don't be surprised if you end up dating alcoholics. Just about anywhere is where the women are. In the old days even funerals were dating opportunities (probably not a good idea now).
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:15 PM
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Isn't that the whole idea to get chicks? I don't go to clubs to drink or listen to that awful music or smell all that cigarette smoke. When I was younger I had the opposite problem, my friends were so focused on everything else they refused to go when I said "lets go out and get some pussy".
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:14 PM
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You have a very short period of time between initial contact with a girl and getting a closer communication with her. If you wait too long she simply decides you don't want her, or she figures you have friend zoned her. Just remember to "always be on". When an opportunity to talk to a girl arises or you are in a situation with a girl, always be ready to communicate. The main problem with a lot of guys is they shut down and refuse to do that. So they sit and wait for something that never happens …
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:12 PM
1

You wait too long = friend zone. Getting out of the friend zone is like escaping a black hole. It just doesn't happen.
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:09 PM
3

Just have fun! Girls are there to have fun too. You proved at least to her you're a fun individual with a playful abs photo and letting her rub your stomach muscles. You just need to continue the contact and be responsive to her overtures. I once did a thing with mardi gras beads, offering them to women who show their boobs. One girl did and her boobs were amazing and I must have made a googly eyed response because she was following me around the whole night (yes she got her beads). She knew she…
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:08 PM
1

Freshmen. They rarely have boyfriends and are always looking to find one by the end of the 1st semester
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:05 PM
1

Offer them free candy?
/r/seduction30/04/17 05:04 PM
1

I'm not being mean, but in my city a local radio station plays the voicemails of the loser line and wow are they cringe-inducing to hear. Just stating the truth. Put the loser line # in your phone so you know if she's punking you.
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:58 PM
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Bump her back, if she punches you punch her back. If she kicks you kick her back. then transition to rough sex. Honestly I would say "whasup", she' initiated you just do the rest.
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:42 PM
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If you are seeing her regularly she is your girlfriend. Just tell her you want a commitment and give her a nice gift.
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:40 PM
1

Girls hand out phone numbers like tissues at clubs, don't think you're anything special if you get a number. You might want to check to see if you were given a loser line to a local radio station.
/r/seduction29/04/17 07:37 PM
4

By other PUA's. Come on this is a business first and foremost. Thats why Pickup Artistry has become so popular, it makes money. Its also why most PUA's are goobers and don't know what they're talking about, they're con artists preying on the naive. 99% of the success you achieve with pickup is the mere fact you even tried to pick up a girl, not because the PUA gave you pearls of wisdom. The reason guys don't get girls is because they don't even try.
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:18 PM
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Talk to everybody in the group, you are too focused on your "target". Its advantageous to do so because the girl you like may not be too keen on a guy that ignores her friends and is trying to isolate her away from them.
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:15 PM
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I'm attractive, and yes it happens to me too, a girl says hi and acts like I've known her forever and I've only met her once at some social thing tears ago. Its not a problem though, because I SHOULD be remembering people more, so it always means I have to step up my game. The trick is always to dispel the awkwardness if possible, just be relaxed and if you honestly don't remember her just ask her. Its better than pretending, hemming and hawing. I always find it a very pleasant experience when s…
/r/seduction29/04/17 05:13 PM
1

alcoholism, hiding other problems behind their drinking.
/r/seduction29/04/17 04:29 PM
1

To summarize: You haven't really improved yourself if you don't even feel like you have achieved that.
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:11 PM
1

Polish women are hot, how can you fail?
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:11 PM
1

Just keep trying. If you have ever shot a gun, did you miss on the 2nd try and give up or will you just keep shooting until you are good at hitting the target? You at least can read a girl, if she shows disinterest from the very beginning you have rough seas ahead. If a girl shows interest her answers will show it. Most girls click into dating mode the moment they interact with a guy they like, so check that feedback!
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:08 PM
3

Are you at a muslim mall or something where its all men? They're everywhere like an infection.
/r/seduction29/04/17 03:04 PM
2

Thats because you opened her. Many guys can't even get that far with a woman. If you can open a girl, relax and just let things happen you don't have to worry about kino escalation, IOI's, negging, stories or kiss closes. Thats why they call some guys naturals at pickup, they're not worrying about that stuff either. I have a friend who is a real dork but he's a natural at talking with women, he can chat up chicks within 5 minutes of arriving at the club. He opens, the women do the rest. He knows…
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:58 PM
1

Just do it.
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:56 PM
1

Practice you conversational voice. Its all a matter of slowing down the speed of your voice and being a tad more calm. Mystery does this but he's so autistic it makes him sound like a robot. I'm sure you can do better than the black-fingernailed weirdo PUA. Then again you might see a doctor, a crackling voice could be something serious medically.
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:55 PM
1

Maybe the problem is you look like Doug Henning, not that you perform magic. http://imgur.com/gallery/gs6b8
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:53 PM
1

The game is a story its all made up. Neil Strauss is a short bald guy with a high pitch lispy voice. Its a good story though.
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:48 PM
2

It would have been better if you had just said "cool" instead of "Nice talking to you". You essentially ended the conversation with a line that indicated your lack of interest. If you had let it be open-ended and walked away, she might have come over to you wondering why you left. Still you at least opened....
/r/seduction29/04/17 02:47 PM
1

Why is it awkward unless you DO have feelings for her. Time to make the break permanent in your mind.
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:17 AM
1

well you really shouldn't show sexual interest to a stranger outright. The whole point of opening lines and such is just to get a conversation going. "Dammmm gurlll!, youu fiiinee!!" really doesn't get many women unless she's a slut in the first place.
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:15 AM
1

She was just not into you, women make up stuff as justification. Whatever it was that happened on the date she made a decision that you weren't what she wanted. No big thang. Thats the whole point of the 1st date....its like a job interview.
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:11 AM
1

Don't ask for a date, phrase it as a statement. 1) Would you like to go out with me plzzzzz? - BZZZT wrong 2) We should go out sometime - DINGDING right
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:09 AM
6

Wow those are really cheesy
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:04 AM
3

I can summarize 50 shades in a sentence: Women want YOU to take control, thats it. They don't want to be whipped, or given a free porsche, or have 100 flowers delivered, they want YOU to be a man. Thats what the entire book series was about, a man who took control and wanted what he wanted....her. The S&M stuff was just to get people to read it since its lascivious.
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:02 AM
1

Just grit your teeth, look back at them and smile. Once you get into the habit you will feel far more relaxed. You're thinking too much about yourself you need to be opening up and stop that.
/r/seduction29/04/17 10:00 AM
1

THE MALL. Teenaged girls love to shop, its their form of masturbation.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:58 AM
1

How to be good looking: 1) don't be ugly 2) be attractive 3) look good
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:57 AM
1

Rule #1: A blazer makes just about everything look better on you.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:56 AM
2

Never drink alone, ever. Drinking is for social occasions. I have a full bar with about $1000 worth of liquor in it. I never use it unless a woman is over. Women love a man who knows how to mix a drink but they don't like a drunk.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:55 AM
1

Go for it. I've done it, there are no repercussions. The only rule is don't sleep with a boss, and don't sleep with a subordinate (aka somebody you supervise yourself). The good thing about co-workers is at least you know who they are and have some idea about their backgrounds, unlike a random freak you pick up at a bar, who could be a serial killer, a psycho or an obsessive depress-o.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:54 AM
1

Something as simple as a smile and a hello can often be good enough.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:53 AM
1

Be nice, don't get all wierd on her. Be honest as to why, most people lie or just get distant. That freaks the other person out, so just be open and don't treat it like its something awful ("Nooooooo not heerrrr!!!, run away!!!!")
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:52 AM
1

Just scale back a bit, and try to LISTEN more and talk less. React to what they are saying rather than trying to inject your coversation into it.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:50 AM
2

I don't have insecurities, but my family seems committed to ruining my life.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:49 AM
1

I don't like girls that drink too much, neither should you. They're trouble.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:48 AM
1

Lighten up a bit, if you are too moody and inward you are not paying attention to the here and now. The other issue is you are chasing, not leading. Lastly, if she isn't interested....who cares? Is she the only girl on the planet?
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:48 AM
4

Trial and error, dude. Welcome to the planet.
/r/seduction29/04/17 09:42 AM
1

Anything over 7 inches
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:45 AM
2

I find even wearing a simple blazer women treat me differently. They are very clothing focused so yes clothes do make the man.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:39 AM
6

Girls take a long time, guys generally are 3 pump chumps, don't be that guy. 1) Romance - details are everything, learn how to pour wine, how to set up for a romantic evening. Foreplay is more than massaging her nipples. 2) Time - A romantic evening should take time. Don't be in a hurry, she isn't. 3) Foreplay - Tease, don't just go for boobs and vag. Try moving your hand between her breasts, avoid the erogenous zones, give her hints. Don't use fingertips it feels creepy. Use your entire hand in…
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:35 AM
1

She's dropping a hint like a bowling ball on your foot.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:27 AM
1

Wow you waited an entire semester, not good. You might just time your final exam turn in to co-incide with hers, and as you walk out chat her up and ask how she think she did and go from there.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:26 AM
4

Thats the great thing about being older, you are more mature and so is she. You both know what you want in life and its reflected in your dating habits.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:25 AM
2

you have to learn how to analyze the flow of a conversation. the problem with texting is when you start getting into serious talk it gets awkward, and is better done face to face anyway.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:23 AM
2

The soviet system was very good, almost too good. abortion on demand as the primary method of birth control too. Again a real problem that the communists never took into account, causing the birth rate to drop. alcoholism was of course a problem but it was more of a side effect than a cause. The Communists obsession with making the sexes "equal" and making everybody worker bees rather than encouraging family units. The breakup of the family was a huge contributor to depression and alcoholism. Th…
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:21 AM
1

usually single people go to these, good way to find new contacts
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:13 AM
2

Don't have friends that insult you. Friends should never do that.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:12 AM
1

You might try a test date with a female friend, maybe your dating persona has something odd about it that is turning girls off.
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:10 AM
1

that only works if your dick is yuge
/r/seduction28/04/17 04:09 AM
1

I just chat with her and don't worry about her intentions. After awhile if she has intentions at all they will come out sometime. The important thing is to make her feel comfortable talking to you then she will tell you one way or the other if she's interested in you or just chatting.
/r/seduction27/04/17 05:08 AM
1

Women are less likely to blow off a cheesy line if the guy is attractive. Just like how a man is less likely to turn down a hot girl even if she says something remarkably stupid to him.
/r/seduction27/04/17 05:06 AM
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More single people is a disaster. Its what helped disintegrate the Soviet Union. The Communists almost completely destroyed marriage and the birth rate and population plummeted. who writes these articles?
/r/seduction27/04/17 05:04 AM
1

A really good photo. Your photo is not the best, you need to be smiling, wearing something really nice and your background should be something interesting that contributes to the shot. An unusual shot can also make it more trendy, like from above at 45 degrees off-angle. Girls like friendly looking guys.
/r/seduction27/04/17 05:02 AM
4

Of course. Don't wait the 3 days, thats stupid. Just text her and say "sup". If you wait too long you broke the momentum.
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:59 AM
1

You just do the same thing, sit on the couch. Eventually you and her will lock eyes and just smile.
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:57 AM
2

Lift. Weightlifting dumps lots of feel good chemicals into your bloodstream, gives you self-discipline and improves your self-esteem and general well-being. Its quite insidious how it works, it sucks for the first 30 days as your body gets used to it but all of a sudden you feel great.
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:56 AM
1

What hypnotizes a chick is a guy who is friendly, fun to talk to, makes great eye contact and is enjoyable to hang out with. Her roommate will just get sick and tired of her talking about you all the time too.
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:55 AM
2

Who cares, move on, she isn't the only girl on the planet.
/r/seduction27/04/17 04:50 AM
1

Don't get physical on the 1st date, hornydog. You're in college, talk about college, your future plans, her plans, that shitty music you young people listen to, etc... Quit worrying about closing, work on getting to know her better.
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:01 AM
1

isn't that the same thing as tossing a kid in a pool to get him to swim. scary at first, but you lose the fear quickly.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:47 AM
1

Listening is far more important than talking, and remembering what she says is extremely important. girls are used to guys that shut down when they talk to them, and they get irritated at being ignored (who knew!). You don't have to be a chatterbox, but you can simply continue the conversation along by commenting on a point or topic she's discussing and then letting her continue.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:47 AM
1

what is it about boring girls you hate the most? then don't do that kinda stuff yourself
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:44 AM
1

are you comfortable around guy friends? well guess what you can talk to girls just like you can talk to guy friends. Its the exact same method.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:39 AM
2

You sound like Elliott Rodger. He made the same mistake, he dressed well, stood around and expected women to come to him. He made no effort to be social or to take the risk of talking to people. Then he shot his friends and random people and killed himself out of frustration. It didn't have to be that way.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:38 AM
1

Isn't that called "spring break"?
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:36 AM
4

there's no such thing as a kiss close there's no such thing as picking up a girl there's no such thing as opening a girl there's no surefire way of knowing what she's thinking she's better at it than you, trust me Just enjoy the hazy gray world known as women
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:35 AM
1

wow you waited a long time. Not good. Just mention something like "hey did you do the assignment yesterday, did you think it was hard?" or something like that. don't introduce yourself or say "excuse me". heck you two have seen each other in class an entire semester anyway.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:34 AM
2

Eat dinner, tell her it was delicious, suggest drinks and a movie (bring wine, and your netflix account). You can figure out her mood by what she wants to watch, if its a RomCom then things look good for you, or a scary movie. Don't be afraid to sit close to her touching her, get a snuggle blanket. After awhile if she's horny, she will begin to lose interest in the movie and she will want to rest her head on your shoulders, so let her. If she leans in for a kiss, kiss her, then turn the TV down,…
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:31 AM
2

Girls generally don't want a younger guy unless he acts mature. about 99% of teen guys aren't mature though so it can be though to have enough of a presence that can get them to not reject you.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:28 AM
2

I've seen some guys do that but they usually are bull riders. heck I've seen them wear their paper number on their backs to the club. I guess it works if the chick is looking for an authentic cowboy
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:25 AM
3

The less talking you do the better. A simple "lets get outa here" will suffice. Women don't like blunt dirty talk at the beginning, a bit of subtlety is better.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:24 AM
3

You shouldn't need to ask for contact info if you have established a communication with her. You were way too early in the process and she obviously wasn't interested anyway. its not about islolating a girl its about spending enough time with her to get a rapport that she doesn't want to break off.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:22 AM
3

nerdy girls, so go for nerdy stuff like in the library, in your computer science classes (pickings can be slim though) and look for girls that sit alone with their noses in books.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:20 AM
1

Don't do pickup lines.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:19 AM
1

No need to be cynical, just have fun and don't be too much into it one way or the other
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:18 AM
1

She changed her mind. She may be still deciding if she wants to stick with her ex or you. Give her space, if she doesn't come back you never had her.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:18 AM
2

If she answers like that she isn't interested in you in the first place, move on.
/r/seduction26/04/17 06:16 AM
0

Women don't like muscleheads. Go to any chick magazine that has a cute guys section, the guys are all thin and lightly muscled, look friendly and are always smiling. Only a tiny slice of women like the Jersey Shore type male. Men actually like muscles more, so you are more likely to attract gay males with muscles.
/r/seduction25/04/17 05:44 AM
2

You have self-esteem issues and feel that only mentally weak women would be attracted to you.
/r/seduction25/04/17 05:35 AM
2

if she's waiting for a message, send a message. the longer you wait the faster the drive to the friend zone. Oh and don't send a novel about how much you are in love with her and how many babies you want. Just a simple "sup girl" would suffice initially.
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:48 PM
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Kissing on the first date, no no. Kino? Well don't get touchy feely its only the 1st date. You have about 5 dates before you can really go for anything sexual (aka boob grabbing). Whats more important than Mystery Method shit is to build a connection with her, learn more about her life, tell more about yours. The best way to friend zone is to be too aggressive. I've had girls openly tell me they went out with me because I DIDN'T paw them or say sexual stuff to them initially. Yes they want to kn…
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:46 PM
1

Every city in the USA has chicks, its not like thailand where you're trying to find the best city whores.
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:43 PM
1

Yeah, no big thing. Don't freak out because she refused a kiss. Why would you kiss a girl you barely know anyway? The concept of a kiss close should be jettisoned, this isn't junior high.
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:41 PM
2

Okay first of all its time to ditch the Mystery Method. You don't neg, you don't escalate kino and you don't kiss close. IOI's don't mean what you think most of the time and isolating a girl in a social situation doesn't have the desired effect (why force a girl having fun to leave a happening party? Would you?) Your goal is to build a connection, not run down a airline pilot checklist of things written by a guy in a fur hat and goggles. She's there to have fun, you're there to have fun, the goa…
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:38 PM
8

Crushing is okay at first but then it gets creepy. Its highschool stuff and doesn't translate well to the adult world.
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:35 PM
3

She's just not into you, it happens.
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:34 PM
0

text her, but don't put smilies and gay shit in there.
/r/seduction23/04/17 05:29 PM
-2

shave that beard, BTW. the only guys with beards are taliban, cucks and nu-males
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:53 PM
2

You obviously don't have time for her, why should she waste time with you? Girls love to text, deal with it. Women are hardwired to communicate, thats why you see them blabbing about nothing on cellphones while they drive, or calling people for no reason other than to say whats up, i had the best mochachina coffee today, etc... A guy that can't communicate with a woman might as well be a hermit.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:45 PM
2

Have you ever thought there might be girls that are into geeky things too? Don't try to be something you aren't.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:43 PM
1

Stay away from game in gyms, 99% of women are there to work out not socialize. They're getting fit so they can socialize later with a better body. Now if you're gay thats different, gay guys love to socialize in gyms with other dudes.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:39 PM
1

If you approach a group talk to ALL of them. If you concentrate on one and ignore the others they will get angry and the girl you talk to will get angry because you're ignoring her friends.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:39 PM
1

What's wrong with "average" women? Weren't they interesting enough to talk to? Don't you see women in terms of something other than a display piece to brag about with your friends?
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:37 PM
1

Don't wait, ever. Do it now, get to da choppa!
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:33 PM
2

Send her a funny picture
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:33 PM
5

She's trying to start a conversation with you, why aren't you responding? Also is she snapping things JUST to you or to a group (I don't know anything about snapchat, i assume you can do that to many people). The longer you wait, the friendzone looms quickly on the horizon. Be nice to her, don't neg her, and don't hesitate, she apparently isn't.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:23 PM
1

Forget about the concept of a kiss close, it doesn't exist. The important part is getting a connection to a woman. Lots of girls kiss guys and never think much about it, to them you're just another guy macking on them. Do you want to be that guy, one of many, or do you want to be the guy the girl remembers.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:21 PM
2

Don't start with a name, start with an opener. names come later in the conversation. you sound like a salesman if you blurt out your name at the start
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:18 PM
1

go out with both of them, ya neva know
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:17 PM
1

Its like robbery. Analyze, seek weakness, exploit weakness, profit.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:14 PM
1

sunglasses, NO! bad idea. Girls want to see your eyes so they can gauge your reactions. You just look silly wearing sunglasses indoors.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:13 PM
1

She was unsure about her safety so she brought a friend, a chaperone of sorts. Don't overthink it. If she's comfortable with you her friend won't be back.
/r/seduction23/04/17 04:12 PM
1

Jokes get irritating and old easy. I make jokes but they're more low key and I NEVER laugh at my own jokes. Dry, fun humor tends to be much better than puns, wild crazy slapstick or just random jokes for no reason. Oh, and your voice, make sure you don't do that loud whiny voice that Tyler has. Women respond more to a lower more calm voice than a loud high pitched one. Girls do the opposite, they tend to raise their pitch around a guy, it makes them sound younger and more feminine, because hones…
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:32 PM
4

The problem with drinking is you think you are doing great when you are probably just screwing up. One thing women detect is your breath, and if you are smelling of alcohol she will think you're just a drunk. She may be courteous but good luck with anything else. Just eat a good meal before, it will fill you up and make you feel better without liquor. Liquor is not supposed to be courage, its more liquid stupid.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:30 PM
0

maybe message her once halfway through the extended period, and nothing more. Neediness is a huge turn-off. Now if SHE is messaging you all the time, you are obligated to respond to her neediness.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:28 PM
0

situational approach, analyze what she is doing, use an opener related to what she is doing or where she is.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:27 PM
0

she knows I'm a closeted crossdresser I think your problems started there, time to see a qualified therapist
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:25 PM
1

Swedish women like masculine men. Don't be feminine, ever.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:23 PM
2

See the ball, BE the ball.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:22 PM
3

The goal of a first date is to build comfort, its not an extreme X-games competition. Once comfort has been established you can both relax, put down the 1st date shield and talk normally.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:22 PM
1

You are boring them, why would they want to date a boring guy. They want you to inspire them, challenge their intellectual mind, make decisions on where to go, what to do. Women are followers, not leaders, thats YOUR job.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:20 PM
2

Glasses make you look smarter, lots of women like smarter guys, especially if they're good looking too (yes they want it all). Women follow trends. I knew a girl who literally got prescription glasses because it was fashionable to wear them and she has 20/20 vision.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:18 PM
2

There's nothing wrong with expressing your opinion if it doesn't agree with her assertions.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:18 PM
2

Tinder is based mainly on looks, perhaps you don't have the best photo, and should do a re-take.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:16 PM
2

Who knows, maybe she was joking and it didn't come out right, maybe she was nervous. let it slide this time and make your plans.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:15 PM
1

She could very well be busy, and if thats the case she's too busy for you. One thing about women, if they really like you, they will MAKE time. I've had a girl cancel a date with another guy just to go out with me. She didn't even give it much thought.
/r/seduction22/04/17 04:14 PM
2

You talk to them like you would your regular male friends.
/r/seduction22/04/17 03:47 AM
4

you never really become alpha, you just learn to minimize your beta tendencies. alpha types are born with it. doesn't mean though you can't learn some of their techniques
/r/seduction22/04/17 03:46 AM
1

Its not a problem, just don't date your boss or somebody you supervise. Dating a co-worker has its advantages. First of all you already know her to some degree, so she's not some random bar girl. Second of all you can date and still keep the secret (as long as both of you are prudent) from the job. And lastly, don't sweat it, I've seen many co-workers date. Some work out, others don't. Its really not a huge deal.
/r/seduction22/04/17 01:26 AM
2

Extend your elbow for her to hold.
/r/seduction22/04/17 01:22 AM
3

Like NOW. Tinderchicks don't want to wait.
/r/seduction22/04/17 01:20 AM
1

Life is full of regrets but you still have to move on.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:54 AM
1

No. You're dealing with women. they don't deal in rational thought or behaviors.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:52 AM
1

Its possible to escape from a black hole too, in theory.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:51 AM
1

asking a girl to go shopping, how can they refuse, they love to shop.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:51 AM
1

the longer you wait the closer you get to friend zone
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:50 AM
1

tough it out, snowflake. Welcome to life. School is a cakewalk compared to a job.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:48 AM
1

Getting eye contact first is preferable, otherwise you're just some random guy that shows up and makes her spit out her drink when you suddenly pop up.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:46 AM
1

I'm honest. If I find her strikingly attractive I point it out, and maybe if I see something exceptional like a nice piece of jewelery she has on I point it out, and see if there's a story attached to that. After that complement there's no reason to keep laying it on, then it starts to get annoying. Just get back to conversation.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:45 AM
1

david wygant but he's not really a PUA coach
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:42 AM
2

Feedback is good as long as you don't go overboard. They want to hear you enjoying yourself and at least know when you're about to come. I'm silent for the most part, if a GF asks I tell them I'm busy concentrating, its a lot of work!
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:42 AM
1

You friend zoned yourself. hello Mr. cockblock. Girls are clever, don't forget that. Remember girls are far more prepared for the dating and interaction world than guys. You should have challenged her "maybe I don't want to hang out with you (jokingly)". She has to see you're confident and worth hanging with.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:40 AM
3

You have to start thinking like a predator, no not a pervert, but more like a lion looking for a mate. Do you think lions get friend zoned? And don't apologize for being a man, or having sexual inclinations. Its just that you have to be subtle with the sex stuff and the sex talk. Women don't like a crude man, but they do like a man who knows how to sweet talk a woman sexually.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:35 AM
2

You are not looked at as a possible sexual partner. Masculinity, you really have to make sure that you act like a MAN. That doesn't mean smoke, wear a leather jacket and spit, it means be decisive, be assertive, and be traditional (aka old school cool, hold the door for women and such). Do you think actor Michael Cera exudes masculinity and sexual prowess? http://www.imdb.com/name/nm0148418/ You and him may have a lot more in common than you think.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:32 AM
1

Women are EVERYWHERE. They are 55% of the population, you are in the minority. Its typical to get really attached to your first lay, its happened to many of us.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:29 AM
19

She just needed an ego boost and free attention. I doubt it was something you did. The other possibility is she just isn't into you. Many women know if they will be sucking a guy's dick later, 3 seconds after they meet him.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:27 AM
1

banged a girl for about 3 months, she broke up with me pretending to be angry. I think she was just using me for sex. I felt used and violated (not)
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:25 AM
2

its probably not even a she, but a weirdo guy
/r/seduction20/04/17 02:32 AM
0

A kiss isn't a close, why do guys keep thinking it is?
/r/seduction20/04/17 02:32 AM
3

Meh, she's not interested.
/r/seduction20/04/17 02:30 AM
1

Depends on how naturally horny are you.
/r/seduction20/04/17 02:29 AM
3

Sure, why not. Better than losing it to a man, and less painful.
/r/seduction20/04/17 02:28 AM
2

You're being too PUA, try to be more natural.
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:03 PM
1

Quit worrying so much. There is no master template for friendships
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:03 PM
1

Prostitutes dress like prostitutes.
/r/seduction19/04/17 08:02 PM
1

go ahead and date her. whats the worst thing that could happen
/r/seduction19/04/17 04:04 AM
1

tinder is for fucking. don't expect much else.
/r/seduction19/04/17 04:03 AM
1

There are no shit tests, she most likely really doesn't like you at all.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:57 AM
1

Actually look like you're having fun. I once was hanging with a group of girls, I heard a song I really liked (honestly) and I said out loud "oh I love this song!" grabbed a girl and danced with her. I was lip syncing the song, having fun and it was infectious, she was suddenly having fun. She actually demanded my phone number saying I was fun to be around. Simple as that.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:57 AM
1

well there's playful and then there's weird. playful is a poke, weird is a punch.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:54 AM
1

Make a demand, tell her you want a commitment. Just say "I like how things are, but I want more". never ask, state your case. Treat it like you are challenging her, and take charge. Taking the emotional tack can make you look weak. Think of the relationship is at a certain level and you want to raise it. Offer more for her too, so she understands she will benefit as well. Co-habitation....even letting her borrow your car or no more sharing the bill at dinner ( you pay). She may make a counter de…
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:49 AM
2

Your approach may be too 'random'. You need to be situational. See what she's doing, where are you both at. Don't just blurt out "who cheats more, men or women". Also 90% of communication is nonverbal. What is your body position, how do you carry yourself, what kind of clothing do you wear. Also when you approach don't be a hoverer, like hang out near her for 15 minutes gathering up the will to approach, she knows what you are doing, you have just become creepy guy. The last thing is don't be to…
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:44 AM
1

Sometimes she's just friendly because she's at work. A worker can often get reprimanded for being less than nice to a customer.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:40 AM
1

Repetition. The first few times will be horrible, but after awhile you fall into a pattern and style and it gets easier.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:39 AM
2

Man, he's a smoothie, like Billy Dee Williams smooth.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:38 AM
1

You didn't develop proper familiarity and intimacy with her. Dating is a game, but don't keep playing it as a game once you get to know her. A girl wants to feel comfortable and relaxed with a guy. She doesn't want a Pickup Artist. The other possibility is you are the "other guy". In that case well there's not a lot you can do.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:37 AM
7

You might want to look into your sexual techniques, you may be a plain old bad lover. After 2 months the girl is just sick of you. If you can give a girl good sex and make her look forward to seeing you then she will hang around like a puppy dog forever. A lot of girls won't tell you that you suck in bed, its like going to a restaurant. A lot of people won't complain, they just won't ever go back there.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:35 AM
2

childhood friend = treat her the same as you always did. There's no need to get familiar with her, escalate, etc. all that crap. Just be in charge, make decisions on what to do, where to go. Be spontaneous, but always be ready to make the decision, girls are expecting that.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:33 AM
7

If a girl sees you, look back and smile or smirk, and see what they do. Don't do the vietnam 1000 yard stare. Look at the george clooney way of doing it, look at her, smile, look down, then look back up at her again. There is no such thing as a kiss close, don't even bother. Your goal is to develop a sense of closeness and familiarity with a girl, that that is done through time spent with her. If you're just one of those grab and kiss guys, be prepared to fail and fail often. Girls know guys lik…
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:31 AM
1

Claim her, don't let her drive the conversation or the moment. You're the man, she's hoping to respond to you.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:28 AM
0

Take half a hydrocodone before making out.
/r/seduction19/04/17 03:27 AM
3

Be courteous regardless. Attraction is more than just looks, you may end up fascinated with her conversation or her life experiences. And chicks generally look a lot better in person than online from a single photo.
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:48 AM
3

Its more about facial expressions, she's looking at you. If you're dancing stonefaced, yes she will bail on you asap.
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:51 PM
2

Rollerskating. its a good excuse to hold her hand
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:50 PM
2

Be specific about your approach, you didn't even give us the script of what happened. We can't evaluate without info.
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:49 PM
0

These PUA guys have such whiny voices they need to cut back on the caffeine. 8-)
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:49 PM
2

Think of sex not as a goal of itself, but a stairstep towards a closer relationship with a girl. If you are only doing party girls, don't expect much in the romance field. You're just one of a long train of penises in their lives, nothing special to them. Consider sticking to a single girl at a time too. If there's a girl you like, then throw down the gauntlet of exclusivity....you only date her and she only dates you. if she refuses, she was never what you wanted in the first place.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:30 PM
1

Just wait, not everybody is a texting addict. Sometimes hours can pass between texts with my GF, and we already know each other. worse case scenario though: she texted the wrong person.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:27 PM
1

Just approach, she might like goofy nerds.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:26 PM
1

Like I said, fixing the damage is pretty tough. I really don't recommend it. Its happened to me before and frankly it never works out.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:25 PM
1

Just learn how to chat up people in general. I have a friend who is a natural at that, so he ends up knowing folks everywhere, even guys at auto parts stores, dudes at the golf course, auto mechanics, salesmen, etc. He doesn't care about their age either. I personally limit my friendship circles so I can stay sane.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:20 PM
2

You waited too long. WAY too long. You have to show interest in a girl quickly or risk being put in the friend zone or worse. Once the damage is done, you may get back with her but once you're back both of you realize why you broke up in the first place. Of course you can always continue with her, but it will never be the same as before.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:17 PM
1

Yes women are a game. They treat it like a game, so should you. The problem with guys is they keep treating it like a game after they have established a relationship. Game over, man.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:46 PM
1

3 hours is about all I can tolerate in a club. The smoke alone drives me out after 2 hours.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:45 PM
1

The first 1 minute of talking to a new girl is always the worst. Once you get some positive feedback you're in. Most girls always say the moment they see a guy they know they want him. So really you don't "seduce" a woman, you just don't fuck up the beginning conversation.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:44 PM
1

i hear ya. My best friend is a natural cockblocker. He doesn't even realize what he's doing.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:42 PM
1

Everywhere else obviously. Even the grocery store can be a good place, or a retail store during working hours. lots of women who work evenings shop in the daytime.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:41 PM
113

Do stuff you like. Don't take up a hobby just because you think its "cool". Women like a man who is actually passionate about his hobbies. They can smell a fake a mile away.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:39 PM
1

walk by her and poke her in the side with your finger, then smile when she looks at you.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:38 PM
-2

Pretty much anything is legal in the UK. Muslim gangs are banging 10 year olds and the liberal government doesn't seem to do anything about it.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:37 PM
15

"smashed at her parents place" Are you out of your mind? Spend the money and get a hotel room you cheapskate.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:36 PM
3

Why even bother separating her, if you are going to get to know her you had better get to know her friends too, you will be seeing a lot of them more.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:35 PM
3

SEX. If you can give a girl the best sex she's ever had, she won't care about money, your car, your pad or your social status.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:34 PM
3

How can it be awkward? She knows you, you know her. Just say "sup girl!" Shooting fish in a barrel, so don't miss.
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:34 PM
1

Other girls think you are already attached to one of your female friends, so they don't look at you as having potential. this is just logic.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:17 AM
2

Fascinating, provide examples this ought to be gud.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:16 AM
8

If you can't be yourself you have self-esteem issues.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:15 AM
2

Treat your sexting conversation as if you were sitting next to her and talking.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:15 AM
10

call her, you're way past texting phase, and you are dangerously close to friend zone territory
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:14 AM
1

Too passive, you should have said "Sup girl, lets go eat". You torpedoed your own chances with weakness.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:13 AM
1

You're friend zoned, move along.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:12 AM
2

Get a motel room, they're not expensive.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:11 AM
1

Be nice, friendly and open.
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:10 AM
1

Thats not good if she's paying attention to the dog. I'm a dog lover so I would lavish attention on the dog, and it would show her that I really like dogs and her dog. If she's interested in you she will take the dog to another room so you and her could have privacy. The fact she didn't means you have a problem...
/r/seduction16/04/17 05:09 AM
1

Ooh you don't want to do that over texting. Not a good strategy.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:27 AM
3

The gym is the worst place to pick up girls, they are there to work out and GET pretty, and unless you look like a greek god they don't want to be interrupted by some dude that is trying to correct their form.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:17 AM
1

FUCK SCENTED CANDLES. Thats pussy shit. You want your place to look like a mature man's pad, not some smelly flowery wierdo palace. Go 100% Ikea, ultramodern, minimalist. Hide the X-box, make your place squeaky clean. Women love a clean bathroom! Replace the single bed with a full size bed, its sized for a small apartment yet its big enough for 2 people to comfortably fuck on. Make your apartment look old school classic chic. Don't put out toys (action figures) or anything else that makes you lo…
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:15 AM
-1

Interestingly when you get older its easier to pick up women your age. Dating in youth is more difficult, as women are less mature and the competition is greater. Head to the clubs where the older folk hang out, mature women know what they want and you don't have to deal with the young girl BS.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:08 AM
0

You wait too long to tell a girl you want her.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:06 AM
-5

Who fights these days? Seriously. If a guy wants to fight you say "fuck that, I will bet I can out chug you". A drinking competition is a much better challenge and you might just win. Even if you lose its not a huge loss.
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:03 AM
-1

She stood up to your challenge, you should have done something to clarify your intent. Like gesture her to be closer so you can whisper in her year and just say "I...really LIKE you...".
/r/seduction14/04/17 04:01 AM
2

You already know she has a thing for you, she might as well get those airport flashlights and gesture you in. At this point there's nothing wrong you can do unless you do nothing at all. you don't need to escalate at all, you're already there. Stay with the group, you have to be nice to her friends too or you will be a jerk.
/r/seduction13/04/17 12:52 AM
2

Here's a tip, if you are sitting next to a girl make sure your body is touching hers, and don't make it too subtle. She will get creeped out if you are sitting some distance away. Maintain an intimate distance of 1 foot so when you talk you are very close. 3 feet is friendship distance you don't want that. After awhile she will stop talking and that is the time to start kissing. She may do something like remove her glasses or make a sigh and look at you. Quiet is a good thing not a bad thing, sh…
/r/seduction13/04/17 12:50 AM
9

Just enjoy yourself. 1st year of college everybody wants to get laid. Don't cockblock yourself. Oh and study and get a STEM degree, if you flunk out chicks will be the least of your problems.
/r/seduction13/04/17 12:47 AM
1

There's always that arab app that allows you to track her phone, hence track her wherever she it.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:38 AM
1

Work and distance are big factors. I only see my GF on weekends, because she lives a good distance away and we're both 8-5 work rats.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:38 AM
1

If you're in your 30's remember you are not a typical 18 year old's first choice in a man. She will easily steer towards a guy in his early 20's instead of you. Just get used to it. That being said, its not impossible as long as you have older guy game.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:36 AM
0

Quit worrying about YOU so much. When you're about to have sex with a girl, concentrate on her for once.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:35 AM
1

You're probably getting played, she's using you to make her boyfriend jealous.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:34 AM
1

Don't go for the sex until at least the 5th date. Consider it a vetting process.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:06 AM
3

You have to find the right girl if you want to "settle down". Having a regular GF is not a problem, you just have to not have wandering eyes and be willing to build a trusting relationship.
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:04 AM
6

A smoker, and a girl who drinks way too much.
/r/seduction10/04/17 12:04 AM
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Diet, exercise. Remember your appearance broadcasts your lifestyle to women. If you're big and fat you are percieved to be less athletic, less healthy and more lazy. It may be completely untrue, but its what they perceive. Most women don't want a muscle dude, they're fine with a guy in decent shape, so your pathway to that is a lot shorter than if you wanted to look like a bodybuilder or a male model.
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:55 AM
1

I disagree. Office dating is not hazardous at all, as long as you avoid women in your chain of command (whether up or down). I've known many a person at work who dated, some even ended up marrying a co-worker. The great thing about co-workers is you know a lot more about their backgrounds, professional and personal. Its very unlikely you will end up with a psycho as sometimes occurs with internet dating or random bar chicks.
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:45 AM
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Just pay attention to her. Treat her like she's the only person in the room. Its not necessarily what you say but how you say it. Women hate when you're talking to them and your eyes are darting around staring at other chicks asses.
/r/seduction09/04/17 07:14 AM
1

She gave you the local radio station's "Loser Line" phone number.
/r/seduction09/04/17 01:05 AM
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