First Date Tips?

Tren_Black · 2017-04-26T02:04:51+00:00

Get the date, then worry about the first date tips. I get the feeling you're emotionally invested

dayrone150 · 2017-04-26T02:25:50+00:00

Just think of hanging out with a best friend. Talk about things you guys always been talking about. Most time keep the subject on her. She should be doing most of the talking. I don't know how to get physical but of course hug her when you guys meet for the date. Not sure how to close sorry. Try not to act nervous and be confident.

NewbieCasanova · 2017-04-26T12:02:08+00:00

Have fun with her. Make everything playful and fun, but at the same time be serious if needed. Do talk about your jobs, career, etc if she brings it up. Natural chemistry will help make sure you guys dont stop talking., if its really there. Fuck the people who says dont kiss or touch on the first date. Hold hands. If she rejects it, dont be butthurt. Try kissing her, if she backs off, then at least you have the balls to go for it. You tried and thats all it matters. A walk in the park on a sunny day would be great.

When you meet a new friend, what do you talk about? Exactly, you try to get to know eachother. Bring everything into playful and fun. Girls love that shit.

Closing? If everything goes well, try for make out. But make sure you establish the sexual part of the relationship or the make out would be all of a sudden. If she really wanted to fuck, she would literally stick that shit in your face.

Dont over think, have fun

MrEros · 2017-04-26T15:29:42+00:00

Honestly I'd say be bold, if you wanna close and feels right go for it. You actually have better chances on having sex with a girl on the first date because attraction is still hot and new. The trick though, is to be in the moment and just have fun. I'd say go for a simple date and make sure the venue is not too far from your house. Build up kino patiently, listen to her, let her talk and be free around you, don't just listen because you're waiting for your turn to speak really listen. And just have fun .

MonkeyFist4150 · 2017-04-26T07:01:39+00:00

Don't get physical on the 1st date, hornydog. You're in college, talk about college, your future plans, her plans, that shitty music you young people listen to, etc... Quit worrying about closing, work on getting to know her better.

chadjugo · 2017-04-27T01:16:41+00:00

Build rapport/comfort. This works with everyone: male, female, old people, children, etc.
Break any silence you get from step 1 with a kiss early on (not a make out). This lets her know you're not going into the friend zone, and it spikes her emotions.
Continue the date literally talking about anything else...anything. Basically, act like the kiss wasn't a a big deal.
Bounce to another location with or without her depending on how interested she is in you. She's supposed to qualify herself to you, not the other way around so end the date if you're not feeling her.

Title	First Date Tips?
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Date	April 25, 2017 11:12 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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