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| 1 | 4 years married, 7 kids, high‑value husband, 8+ weeks dead bedroom, secret antidepressants – I’m furious and need a hard reality checkDon't need to read any further once you said you married a dead beat mom. What did you expect? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/05/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Disrespectful wife success stories?Not a wife. But during my younger years I dated this girl who was very disrespect to me. We had sex and saw each other often but she would always some how get mad at me and call me names. I became super successful financially, and I decided enough is enough. So I started checking her, calling her shit out and putting boundaries. She had no choice but to submit to me because I was the best option to her. But regardless before I became financially successful, I was still jacked and consistently tr… | /r/askMRP | 21/11/24 10:36 PM |
| -9 | When Your Wife Makes More Money than YouYou're not a man if your wife makes more than you. Swallow the pill and man up. That's like saying I'm a redpilled man but my women has more muscle mass than me. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/24 08:24 PM |
| 19 | If every girl is a disloyal cheater, then how come you can't get laid?After COVID. All the PUA and Red pill subs went to shit. Most comments are literally cucks and afcs responding. you can't find much geniune rp guys. Where did everyone go | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/24 11:31 PM |
| 22 | You'll never find the right girl, until you pick herNice post. Needed to hear this. Majority of online girls are indeed trash | /r/TheRedPill | 14/06/24 09:33 AM |
| 1 | how do you leverage social media as a grown man?Lol you just defended my point. Thank you, come again | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | how do you leverage social media as a grown man?Look at cry baby trying to defend his frail ego with emotions hahah | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/24 04:38 AM |
| 3 | how do you leverage social media as a grown man?The most successful people have an online presence. If you're a brokie just say that | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/24 03:06 AM |
| 5 | how do you leverage social media as a grown man?You're missing the point. Why would someone of status/value want to network with a broke loser. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/24 03:04 AM |
| 3 | how do you leverage social media as a grown man?Posting on social media takes less than 1 hour. So i don't think your point is valid. I cold approach, drop Instagram to baddies, they see my lifestyle, and then easy pulls. I meet high value dudes, show them my Instagram, now i have a strong network. Where as you meet someone in real life without a good social media. You gotta do the work to show that you're high value. Waste of time | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/24 01:09 AM |
| 4 | how do you leverage social media as a grown man?Lol the entire redpill is so bad at keeping up with the technological revolution its actually terrifying. Social media is one of the largest and most efficient ways to network with high value men and women. Where else in the world would you be able to talk to hb10 and millionaires across the globe? If you aren't doing well with social media, then you are probably doing one or more things wrong. You're life is so boring and uninteresting that you have nothing to show off and talk about. You're to… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/01/24 12:43 AM |
| 1 | how to deal with losing your best womanI relate to you on a personal level. You dont know what you lost until shes truly gone. I wish i could've turned back time and change things but it seems like shes gone emotionally. What led to my demise is always wanting more and more women. It led to me being a fucking whore addict that would stare and approach every chance i get. Even on dates with her. So this destroyed our relationship | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/24 12:42 AM |
| -9 | This sub is being plauged with feminists/chodes, it's clear as day.It's not wrong to defend someone who has helped you in areas of life. You're defending the ideology moreso than the person. The other point of my post is more chodes in this sub getting upvoted for invalid points. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/22 11:56 AM |
| -2 | This sub is being plauged with feminists/chodes, it's clear as day.Honestly his comment is a prime example of what I'm talking about. Dude got 3 upvoted for saying bs. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it a Double-Standard to Sleep with Other Girls, While Wanting a Monogamous Girlfriend?This post is fucking gold bro! Thank you so much for sharing. All the mass joins of recently modern feminist and simps really ruined seddit. This should be at the top with hundred of upvote right now. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Is it actually that hard for short guys?You're right. But those cuckoldry fetish and men wanting to be degraded and watch their wives being fucked are called outliers. Most of time when people say all or just using a gender to specify. We mean most, 99%. Surprisingly women who are more intelligent, aka higher IQ or have more educational success. They are less likely to be married or courted. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it actually that hard for short guys?The term high value is universal across everyone. Also know as sexual market value. For men it's "high salary, social proof, good looking" For women it's "submissive and good looking" | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 12:00 AM |
| -2 | [deleted by user]All the information you need is on this YouTube channel. He is undoubtedly one of the best PUA. RSD the largest pick up community unfortunately stopped putting out content due to social back lash. I've learned a lot from this guy. https://youtube.com/channel/UCanxC-SZpsNCUYO8LRxKPDw | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I'm a 5'4 Asian and PUA works wonders for me. You guys just haven't been trying hard enough | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:52 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Can vouch for you. The members of this forum has gone down. It's been degraded by the overall corruption of leftist and mainstream media advice. Most legit and helpful posts are downvotes because it doesn't "fit the narrative". | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:51 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]A member who has been here since 2015. I can without a doubt say that this sub is plauged by simps and feminist. There are very small minority who actually does game and wanna suceed. It's not what it use to be. A Pua forum. Now it's more of a mainstream media self help Group. Sad to see | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop getting cucked?The advice in this sub Reddit has gone to shit. It's a bunch of mainstream media advice. Stick with PUA content not "from a girls" advice. You need to control your environment. You had the ability to lead the girl but instead you walked away. Next time bring her with you. She was with the other guy because you didn't build enough value. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRgay jokes. Sounds like you've been taking it up the ass for some time now. Your daily internet times up, wife's gonna be home after being run through by a train. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRThanks for reaffirming my assumption. Obese whale internet jockey aren't welcomed here. Please go back lurking on Reddit, what a shitty job | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRIf anything your posts reeks fat turd with a declining marriage. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRI'd be ashamed to have 100k points as a married dad. Nothing going on in your life other than posting on Reddit. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRMarried with kids isn't a measurement of anything. Any cuck putting in a bit of work could get married with kids. It's the quality of marriage and the understanding that matters. You're probably being fucked right now and have no clue of redpill. If you haven't realized by now, all successful happy marriages involves the many traits/actions suggested in redpill. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRIn her frame by punishing her indifferently and having her emotions mess up mines? The other mitigation is take away attention and affection so she feels the need to work for me more. Thanks for your comment, but can you explain your response further? | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTR100k points, all your top posts are random shit posts. internet geek jocky trying to tell me how social dynamics works haha. check my top posts and comment, when you're giving value back to the men community then come back with a better reply. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRAlpha Male Strategies makes the girls lick his ass and suck him off as a punishment for leaving and coming back. So no I don't understand your point. AMS is a reputable redpiller | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 04:10 PM |
| -1 | Punishing LTRHe's making general assumptions based off my posts. Just correcting it. Edit: I don't know the answer, no one has replied with a logical and rp reason as to how my method is wrong. Asides from Horn dabbling into why it could be wrong. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Punishing LTROperant conditioning, negative reinforcement. Massages are exhausting due to the amount of pressure required. She's asked to do it weekly, and so when she feeling the exhaustion. Then she understands not to throw tantrums again. Can you explain how you perceive the way Im approaching this is wrong? | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 07:49 AM |
| 0 | Punishing LTRPsychology 101, also called operant conditioning. https://explorable.com/operant-conditioning It applies to ALL living things. But we want to specifically apply it to women. Check this out. Dude is reputable https://youtu.be/QurYJ5XSz4g | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 07:31 AM |
| 0 | Punishing LTRA fucking massage. An exhausting one. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 0 | Punishing LTRLol she can't do girls night out, wear/dress provocatively, or act masculine. It's not that she can't, but if she does. To the streets she goes. Controlling is when you force someone with no other options. By me giving her a choice, it's no longer forcing. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 07:03 AM |
| -2 | Punishing LTRI can see why you ask that question. Half these cucks are giving bad advice. I've been in the red pill and pick up scene for nearly half decade now. Diving into other areas to get a sense of balance Is great for self improvement. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Punishing LTRShe's fine with massaging me. It's just that doing it daily could be exhausting. I understand where you're coming from. But it's more about keeping her in check. Because at one point, all women will test and give shit to you. It's how you handle it. You must always keep a women in line one way or another. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 06:59 AM |
| -1 | Punishing LTRThere really is no correct way. It's what works for you and her. Assuming you're socially calibrated. Been doing the massage punishment to keep her in line for a year now. Each time I do it, she's been acting better. If you watch AMS strategies. He tells girls to eat his ass or suck him off daily as a punishment. And he's fucked hundreds of girls. He's currently dating 3 girls atm. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 06:55 AM |
| 0 | Punishing LTRI'll spank that ass if you don't keep urself in check | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 06:51 AM |
| -2 | Punishing LTRLooks like you don't have a full understand of social dynamics. Women act up in a relationship when there is too much certainty. By showering her with gifts and attention, I'm giving her the certainty. Therefore she feels the need to not be as careful with her actions as opposed to someone who would walk instantly. That's why women tend to act better in the beginning of an relationship rather than later. Because the certainty is not yet fully established. You will often hear how men marry women … | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 06:45 AM |
| -5 | Punishing LTRI showered her with gift and attention this holiday to show my appreciation for bringing value to my life. For example, she cooked lunch and dinner everyday this year as just an LTR. She does wanna fuck me multiple times a week. To point where I turn her down a few times because it's too much sex for me. But massaging because I get really tense from working out. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 02:44 AM |
| -5 | Punishing LTRTrolls are generally low value men. The act of trolling is a feminine behavior. Better stick to the side bar | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 02:28 AM |
| 0 | Punishing LTRLol she wants to fuck me every day. To the point where I reject her advances few times a week. Got any more solid advice? | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 02:27 AM |
| 0 | Punishing LTR1 year. Surprisingly massages keeps her in check. Massages because I'm always tense from working out | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 02:04 AM |
| 0 | Punishing LTRThing is I always tell her she can make her own decisions to not massage me. But that comes with consequences | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else have the same issue with sex?It's sad but reality is harsh. Men are loved conditionally. Maybe our parents give unconditional love but that's it. Good brother, keep at it and watch everything fall in place | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 02:00 AM |
| -3 | Punishing LTRExplain. Every women needs to be trained to become a good wife. There are no unicorns | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else have the same issue with sex?You are fat as fuck and a disgrace to men if you continue with this life style. There is no reason to be fat in the 21st century unless you're some LGBT Fat Shaming activist. She doesn't want to fuck because you physically look unappealing. Get your health in shape and watch her want you more. | /r/askMRP | 01/01/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]This sub reddit has turn into a hippie nesting bunch of fags. Her history absolutely matter in terms of long term relationship. Anyone who say it doesn't, is 1 aren't well versed with psychology, and 2. think women and men operate on the same playing field. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:38 PM |
| 11 | My goal is to have my first date by the time I'm 40.You've been a virgin for 40 fucking years and you're doubting our advice? Go out and approach. Its normal to socialize with strangers outside. London, New york, Vegas, etc. You're a virgin cause you're too pussy to approach and go out your comfort zone Edit, not 40 but either way you're in mid 20s. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Always get tested by guys when out with girlThat's a hella good response. Definitely using it next time. But in my case would you say I lost frame? And be won? | /r/seduction | 01/10/21 12:39 PM |
| 9 | 🔥 🤯 Esoteric Testosterone and General Endocrine Hacks from the Greek Pantheon 🤯🔥Lol this is definitely not unrealistic. Checking every single thing off? Debatable. There is so much information on here and you decide to shit on a post giving value to the community? Sounds like you're toxic and pessimistic, maybe once you start checking off the list you'll start feeling optimistic. > I’ve won 2 natural shows on top of 8 years of competitive powerlifting and Olympic lifting while competing in competitive contact sports through my late teens all the way to my late 20s. Good job… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 0 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?5 foot away is like 3 steps. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:19 AM |
| 2 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?5 feet away implies it was said immediately. Judging by her facial expression, she was bothered. There's a clear difference between that and a shit test. This was straight up attempted sexual assault. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:18 AM |
| 1 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?i swear half of these dudes are pacifist. If you're all about peace, go become a monk. Not trper | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?I like how you broke down the scenarios and interaction. I wouldn't have done so if she she didn't look so bothered and frozen. Ass grab (sexual assault) is beyond battery and stealing. A step above that is rape, which you are legally allowed to kill for that reason alone. Secondly, mate guarding deals with everything besides physicality to an individual of which you care for. Verbal shit tests, etc. So no your definition doesn't apply to this senario | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:15 AM |
| 0 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?Attempt, burglary, rape, murder are all charges even if its an attempt. Does not matter if it took place or not. If someone attempted to grab your mothers ass without consent and you let it go. You're a bitch. To put it nicely. In this scenario it would be attempt sexual assault. Just a step above that is rape. You are legally allowed to kill someone for in the act of performing rape. | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 04:06 AM |
| 1 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?Though he was talking softly and innocently when I was grabbing him and just bitching at him aggressively. He denied everything. I settled down and I walked away. Thats when he decided to yell back | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 01:12 AM |
| -2 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?I pushed him away when he got too close to comfort. Right after pushing him away my girl told me that I pushed him away at the right time before his hand almost slid down her ass. Yes I went after him because that is sexual assault or at least attempt | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?I had my thumb on his windpipe, to be specific. I have some background in boxing. In a chaotic environment where its hard to hear people and the energy is generally very high. I thought it would have been better to be higher energy and intensity than everyone/thing around me to settle the situation | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 01:02 AM |
| 4 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?The thing is that I'm already shredded. I have been working out for 5 years. I am short, 5'4. But I dont know what else it would have been? | /r/askTRP | 14/06/21 12:56 AM |
| 5 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?there is no rules in fighting | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 11:44 PM |
| 23 | guy tried grabbing my girls ass?It was a concert with my favorite DJ | /r/askTRP | 13/06/21 10:13 PM |
| 5 | Turns out my dad was a player.You'll probably learn one or two sticking point. But you need to realize most naturals don't know why they're doing what they're doing. That's why they are called Naturals. The gist is that you wont learn much from him. Highly unlikely to emulate your dad by listening to his perspective of getting woman unless you're good at game and know how to translate his words | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 11:14 PM |
| 4 | Hotter girls pulls all the way back if you show signs of disinterest?thanks, more exposure and social calibration. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 06:37 PM |
| 5 | Hotter girls pulls all the way back if you show signs of disinterest?AMS talks about this. As im aware, hes probably one of the more experienced redpill coaches | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | "you're confusing" text from girlThanks bro, this pretty much clarifies the entire situation | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | "you're confusing" text from girlHmm, shit test aren't an issue. The problem is what to say if she's saying that out of insecurities | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | "you're confusing" text from girlI already do 2 times a week. She wants to see my at least 5 times a week. She said im confusing because im not giving her attention on a daily basis | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With GirlsAgreed | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Here is the ONLY Thing You Can Do To Get Better Results With GirlsThese are not direct ways to get better results with women. Have you seen the homeless guy that picks up women? Yea... These are things to become the better you. But not better with woman. Correlation is not causation. Just because you have your life together does not mean you will get better with woman. Getting better with woman is an entirely different subject that is sometimes learned solo. You learn to get better with woman by practicing picking up woman. You learn to get better with money b… | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | How to fuck Christian girlTough one. There are some girls who break rules for that one guy. You fuck a girl by communicating through emotions, not logic. Still go for it. The worse outcome is you get told hard "no" in which case back off. | /r/seduction | 13/03/20 07:01 AM |
| 2 | 2 lays in under 24 hours (fr, motivation, advice)Men communicate through logic, women communicate through emotions. You can never convince a women to bed with logic. Doesn't work that way. In order to learn Pick up well, you need to know how women work. This is through experience and reading materials. Matter fact, some girls do the same. Learning to feel the vibe of an interaction is greatly important. Oversimplified, but have you ever seen two toddlers get along? They dont even speak proper english. Its through smiles, giggles, and intention… | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 0 | 2 lays in under 24 hours (fr, motivation, advice)A healthy normal man who exercises have high testosterone in his prime. Does that mean all girls want to rape him? No, correlation is not causation | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 03:31 PM |
| 2 | 75% of this sub... something useful for newbies!Approach should be a way of life for anyone learning social skills/seduction. Would you give a big applause to a toddler drinking water? You wouldn't. It makes no coherent sense to over-blow something that should already be normal. Because mainstream has so much self-help content its like entertainment for people now. Pulls, more intermediate topics have been posted, but rarely is it they ever up-voted. There is too much applause for something that should be the norm. So I dont see your point. | /r/seduction | 06/03/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | How to be more interestingThis sounds very familiar to julians program videos | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Long time lurker, I HAVE to speak up on how to increase your success with MINIMAL effort and there is no BS trick - it's a simple path that doesn't include anxiety.This is so right and wrong on many levels. Firstly, cold approach is no gimmick or failed concept to get better with women. Cold approach works when done right. This means you must still have a fundamental of social calibration. You must understand how to adapt to your environment in a smart way. The only reason I wont see cold approach working is if you go at it blindly hoping approaching ALONE will work. There's no reason why cold approach along with social calibration will not work. | /r/seduction | 10/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | How can I be a ‘challenge’ to get with, after approaching a girl?You're right. Dont ever tell a girl you straight up like her. That ruins your agenda most times. That is unless she's been chasing you or has high attraction towards you DESECRATIONSMILE4 is obviously the fish. Based off her response that is one solid reason you should never take advice directly from women. Also never try to obviously impress women. | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 06:30 AM |
| 2 | How can I be a ‘challenge’ to get with, after approaching a girl?Some of these user advices are cancerous. You provide girl with challenges by disqualifying her. "Beauty is common but what else do you have going on besides looks"? You challenge by congruently, in a conversation. Throw in hoops for her to jump through. "Usually my type is blue eyes blond hair, but I like your personality". Obviously these lines/tools should be used with social calibration. Never spam it. Using it sparingly is the trick | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 06:15 AM |
| 10 | Is push/pull necessary when she's showing interest?Agreed. Push/Pull is a tactic used to make the girl more engaging and invested. If she is already invested and you just keep pounding her with lines and tools thats used for a fresh cold approach. Eventually you will just kill the set. She realizes that you aren't being authentic and have zero social calibration. | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Advice need about the pursuitYou fucked up by not fucking! Fuck and make decisions later. You can f close and keep her around. Eventually if you see her enough she will bring up the relationship part. Give her time, persue other girls and just realize that you messed up this set | /r/seduction | 04/02/20 06:23 PM |
| -1 | 48 and newly single - My approach to getting a kiss on the first dateTry younger women, bet you will feel more satisfied with results. As women age, their SMV drop. Opposite goes for men. I dont seen any reason/benefits for dating women your age. Good start though. Challenge yourself. It's fun and rewarding | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | 48 and newly single - My approach to getting a kiss on the first dateGirls dont like been seen as the "slut". Doing it in private saves face. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 06:52 PM |
| 0 | 48 and newly single - My approach to getting a kiss on the first dateAS a female... This bullshit again ahahah. Just because you are a single female, does not mean you represent the entire general population of women. Those are your opinions and means shit when comes to learning seduction. Ask a fisherman how to fish, not the fish | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 06:51 PM |
| -3 | 48 and newly single - My approach to getting a kiss on the first dateThose aren't assumptions, its fact. It's clear OP is getting kisses, not sex. Older women has lower SMV, that is a true statement. | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 06:47 PM |
| -6 | 48 and newly single - My approach to getting a kiss on the first dateHmm, 48 dating same age group. Not so smart on your hand for jumping back into a relationship so quick. If you want a challenge, date younger ladies and learn to be a pimp. Yes you haven't gotten new pussy for many years. Congratulate you for taking action and putting yourself out there. But... A kiss doesn't mean shit, nor should that be your goal. Yes, connecting and vibing with women is a great thing. But you should also be looking for sex... Not kisses, that's middle school shit. Old dogs ca… | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Ever since the PUA landscape changed on YouTube, this sub also changedJulian is the god | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | re-approaching girls from a year ago?Its a fake number app. It's used for when you want to keep your real number private. Download it on Google store or Apple store. My real number is 123-456-7890 With google voice i can change it so that i can call and text using 456-789-1234 That way when you text her. She wont she your previous msg | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 06:04 AM |
| 2 | Me 42. Her 50 need adviceHere, psychology tip. Open up about yourself, show vulnerability but not weakness. Share a little personal story about yourself and she will most likely reciprocate. This lets her know you guys are beyond small talk and want to talk about little something more. OR Make statements that baits her. Example "back in my days, i use to go swimming with friends on a sunday night at 3am while it was 50 degrees out. Our parents thought we were crazy, but I thought of it as breaking my fears and being spo… | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 05:58 AM |
| 2 | Paying for girl's drinks on the date after fucking her?If you fucked and you're asking her out. A drink means shit. Just do it. If anything get her to invest and frame flip. "Only if you get me one". | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | re-approaching girls from a year ago?Lol, here again. 1 year ago is a long time. Anything could have happen to her. While you are busy gaming other girls. If you happen to see her again, approach with familiarity but keep it mysterious. If your frame is strong enough, she will fall for it. Download Google Voice and give her that number. | /r/seduction | 22/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Hoe phase"and i kind of want to call people up and see if theyd let me try stuff to become more confident." You're lacking social Dynamics. Best advice I can give you is go out more with friends and enjoy socializing because from what I'm reading it seems like you're missing a whole lot on social calibration. | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | First ever cold approache(s) (at 25 years old)Take that negativity as motivation to push you foward. Enjoy the process, results are fun too. But the journey is what matters. Think of this as your first step. You will suck, fail, and mourn over rejections. Embrace and accept it. It happens to everyone. Read up on pua material as you progress! Good luck | /r/seduction | 21/01/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The fastest way to get a girl on a date through text is by going SLOW | Texting 101 |anyone who opposes the game of todd should be exterminated. | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 09:36 PM |
| 4 | How your actions speak more than your words do | Honest Signals |So glad to see real seduction content being posted on this sub | /r/seduction | 18/01/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareWas he extreme for posting the picture of hands around neck. Yes, but we all know the intent wasn't to sexually assault the girl. If you actually watch the infield, the girl was into him. Otherwise we would have seen charges by the supposed victim. Either way, medias portrayal of this topic is less than positive. Feminists have gone an extra mile to make the situation worse | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 12:32 AM |
| 2 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareTo each of their own. I appreciate your breakdown of my post. But the mainstream media topic still holds. Have you heard of the "julian blanc scandal". Matter fact look at how society perceives seduction/PUA. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist A majority of topics in seduction/PUA are related to something negative. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareAgree. But AMS is more about keeping women after meeting them. So I would follow AMS in combination with a Pick up artist. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareBest quote I've heard | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! Bewaresadly these people dont think you can create your own reality. It always has to be stuck on some past... | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareIf you want advice from women, there's a requirement. You need someone experienced to interpret the women perspective. Most people on this thread aren't going to do that. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! Bewareu/Hardlander Here's another fine example of someone clueless about seduction and dating. Hardlander rarely knows about the perspective of women and men. Biologically we are wired differently, which affects the way we think. This is why most the time men shouldn't listen to women advice on seduction. We are not talking about relationship. That is an entirely different subject. Go ask your grandma how to survive a jungle against predators. It is not hardwired in women to fight for survival . Yes… | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! Bewareagree. But recently there has been an increasing amounts of these responses especially from people who just post random bs. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareGeneral talk at best. You tell your parents, friends, teacher about learning dating/seduction. You will be shamed. That's almost a certain, maybe not 100% of the time. But it has been done. Now think of multiplying the audiences and spreading the idea of PUA, Seduction, Dating advice knowledge. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:22 PM |
| 0 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareThere must be more new moderators, carefully selected | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:21 PM |
| 5 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareWe both seem to have different interpretations of stoicism. Stoicism in my sense is used when shit is being thrown your way. Always being stoic is not health, i agree. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareIn your defense, if a newbie asks 'is game legit' and another person does the same. Then he must be plagiarizing. Still have no idea what tangent you are on about. Either way you should probably change your RAS focus to something more purposeful. Good luck | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareNever heard of groping women as a tactic. Most of the time be yourself is used entirely incorrect. so I believe it is safe to exempt that from useful advice | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareHaha I was skimping over your post. Thanks for catching it | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareNo one person has a solitary idea. This is from my view and experience with responses in this sub. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareI agree but you can develop yourself into a better version, more refined in areas of life you were naive about. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! BewareCan agree. It's a fact that most women give horrible dating advice. This has been said over and over again in the history of pua. Though there has been a handful of females giving good advice such as kezia noble | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Seduction's being plagued with mainstream media advice! Bewarehttps://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/el43fq/comment/fdfho8n Here you go! | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 07:54 PM |
| 0 | My boss sent me to a training bootcamp. I arrived late and was seated next to a cutie for it.Women make a lot of emotional decisions. | /r/seduction | 14/01/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Does your flirting style change when you're interested in a date/dating vs. casual/hookup?Nope all are the same. Because it's part of who you are. In terms of where you want to lead it, you verbally define it. | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 05:51 AM |
| 3 | I'm good at first dates but I'm bad at the next steps and end up in the friend zone.Second dates occurs only after a great first date. It's clear that you are having trouble keeping the date man to women. Since we have no feedback about what went on with your dates. I can safely concur that the issue is kino and charisma. It's a simple fix in terms of just steering the conversation to be more sexual or potential to lead to emotional conversations rather than platonic. Hence "you'd be better off as a friend". You showed the women that you don't have a dick. Try learning KINO a… | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 04:54 AM |
| 2 | How to move forward with a guy I had a one night stand with?Ask him to hang at a bar/club and make an excuse to head back to your place or his. Get him up and do your thang. Or if you're feeling confident, be direct | /r/seduction | 08/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Finally had the balls to approach a girl after the gymExactly my point. People like him have zero empathy/sympathy, therefore should not give out self-help/dating advice. Being yourself is the worse advice anyone could give to someone struggling having conversations | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Blew a prime shot...recovery?She probably wanted to talk to you. Just keep her on your radar and occasionally say hi or drop comments. There were lots of other machines but she for some reason asked you | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Girls talking a lot on a first dateThat's means she is really interested or she just has a blabber mouth. Its called investment. Girls invest in people they see value in. Whether its looks, connections, etc. Either way you are in charge of leading the conversation and how the interaction goes. Hope you tried pulling or at least kiss | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 02:33 AM |
| -16 | Finally had the balls to approach a girl after the gymThis is bullshit advice. People like you should not comment because it makes newbies like him worse than better. Please gtfo, doors -> | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached a girl with her friend at a library today- no regrets"i admire your confidence" hints, appreciate you approaching me. But ultimately I see you below me in the SMV, I see you more of a friend than a potential mate. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Had the MOST magical interaction with the most beautiful girl I've ever seenJesus fuck this is the type of shit that gets hundreds of upvotes by horny PUA Content nerds on seduction forums. Lmao what a joke. Nice story to tell | /r/seduction | 01/10/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Not being acknowledged in group sets/night gameThought does he steal attention from you unknowingly? | /r/seduction | 30/09/19 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Exposes me on IG for ghostingadded me to her close friends | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Exposes me on IG for ghostingIt was through close friends list | /r/seduction | 25/09/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Always be a hard-closer!True, but at times kissing and then pulling back. Builds even more sexual tension if she decides to chase | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Always be a hard-closer!I need pills | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | How many girls per semesterDepends on college size... Do not cold approach with direct or constantly doing so in a small school. You will get fucked over. Practice social circle game and apply your methods there. Cold approach is nice for college bars and parties though. For some reason college girls are wired different. The more social proof you have, the better your results. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 06:29 AM |
| 7 | For some reason, guys do not want to date me, just fuck me and move on.Maybe your standards are too high... Unfortunate but sad truth. Possible conclusion of the thousands. But guys pump and dumb girls below them. Keep the girls that are of same smv or higher | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 06:27 AM |
| 4 | How to do your first ever approach?Read the side bar and use google search. Seriously you will get better answers. This question has been asked millions of times. | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 06:24 AM |
| 3 | How to approach and pickup at college barsSo many variables come into play. Is the bar big or small? How's the volume? What type of college are we talking about. Either way general gist is to be a social butterfly to make things easier for you. Talk and get to know the bouncer, bartender, hosts, anyone who is big there. This gives you leverage when approaching. You won't be that weird guys sitting alone and hitting on girls constantly. Your main focus is to enjoy yourself. If it's a small college, try avoiding super direct as it might r… | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Isolation gone wrong in a group?Last quote rephrased! | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | (Tips & Infield Report) Music festival game, porta potty pull ;)thanks man! | /r/seduction | 04/09/19 07:30 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys watch out for STD?Solid, tho how about kissing? | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Yeah so i fucked up twice with this girl. Should i even continue anymore?Possibly, anything can happen. Literally anything! Went chode mode with a girl i met 3 years ago. And then pulled another few years later. Take it slow because it's in school. Dont ruin your reputation | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 01:59 AM |
| 0 | HOW TO GET WOMEN INTO BED FAST!!Very surprised people still watch Kezia Noble | /r/seduction | 24/08/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Short Asian dude pulls tall 10/10 blonde. If can do it, you can too.Even though some people finds this post scripted, the mindset and belief system should still stand true. Short asian guys can't get xxx chick was another self-limiting belief a while ago. | /r/seduction | 26/07/19 12:31 AM |
| 0 | How do I become less normal and serious ond my dates and daygame?"less normal and serious" possibly states there is a mental blockage in his normal interactions with women. Similar to how being serious can often correlate to having anxiety causing the seriousness in ones interaction. Although OP lacks information about the issue, there is no way in hell you're going to get laid using logic. Women are lead by emotions and validation. In this case, being serious usually means they lack the knowledge to push further into the interaction or is afraid of the uncer… | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 09:00 PM |
| 0 | How do I become less normal and serious ond my dates and daygame?This is stupid advice to "be more light-hearted and sexual" | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do I become less normal and serious ond my dates and daygame?You have to establish premise, so what that means is instead of telling her "you like her or you're interested in sex". You instead give compliments, teases, and "push/pull" in ways that are sexualized. So for example replace cute and beautiful with hot or sexy. That way you set the tone of the interaction as men and women. You still are required to perform these in a calibrated way. That requires more approaching and investment in altering your ways of game/approach. High energy attracts, tha… | /r/seduction | 24/07/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Toxic People (GET THEM OUT OF YOUR LIFE!)This is generic advice from social media about self-improvement and definitely shouldn't be implemented unless under extreme circumstances. Getting rid of negativity in your life is like telling someone to block a natural vibration. The only time this type of advice should be followed is if the person is negative MOST of the time and is impacting you heavily. Everyone at some point will be negative whether it is their fault or not. If you cut off low vibrational energy, you would basically be cu… | /r/seduction | 02/07/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedSum up some more for us | /r/seduction | 15/06/19 05:46 PM |
| 28 | The dangers of ONEitis, and how it will affect your game.I agree. Many new guys that have come into game eventually falls in love with that ONE girl. Usually because it's comfortable and gives them a sense of accomplishment. "I've already made it, lets take a rest" and from then on, they completely halt self-improvement. This is a very important point to hit on because it can become progressively worse if you don't catch yourself | /r/seduction | 21/05/19 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Feeling disappointed in myself because I didn't approach a girl?Happens all the time. Move on with it, next time just approach to meet her. Action defeats overthinking | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Just played myself and alienated everyoneSounds like you are very indecisive. Your primal instincts wants her, but your logic says no? I'd say just go for it but you had already blown yourself off. It's just a single girl, I'd rather put the energy into meeting new girls | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedRead the sidebar of this sub reddit | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedHes awesome | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 11:09 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedSidebar is all you need tbh | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 11:08 AM |
| 2 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedDefinitely matters. But to an extent. Id say if you have a solid 4.5 and above and you know how to work it. Then you're good. Need endurance and be able to go longer than 5 minutes | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 11:07 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedHaha as if only it was that easy! I like your approach on this though | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 11:03 AM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedSaid no one ever... I've done well over a few hundred approaches and banged a few girls during the journey. Im here NOT in jail to tell my story and give inspiration! Perhaps you should take a couple advice hahah. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 11:01 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedLike how you do it at events or library | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 05:46 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedYup | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 05:32 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedIts fun, give it a go haha | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 05:28 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedFrom what i heard on this PUA youtuber, Latin america really is one of the least racist place. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 05:26 AM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomed10 women isnt even remotely enough to produce any sort of analytical statistics. Approach more often and come back with results my dude | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 05:20 AM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedIndians are chinese's bestfriend. Same stereotype my guy | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 05:02 AM |
| 2 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedLol that is the reality of things. 10 to 20 is too high. Think of it as population and approaches. You may get 10 or 20 percent in terms of number closes. But out of those 10 or 20 only half will respond. And out of the half that responds. Only half will commit to doing something. Sounds crazy but 1% is amazing. 1% of 100000 is 1000. Fucking 1000 women is crazy enough. Imagine 10%. Not possible unless you pay up | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 04:56 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedThanks for the read! | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedYup, many redditors here deem it cultish. But there is so much value to attain from them that it's hard to avoid it all together. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 12:03 AM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedIf you're in school, it makes meeting women a lot easier. I met a majority of the women in center city downtown. Clubs mostly, that's night game. During day time, I like walking around popular crowded places. For example, Manhatten, New York. I've seen many approachable women on my walks down there. Tinder and online game helps. Game is seen as part of life. It's not something you switch on and off. But try not to cold approach on your own campus. Dont shit where you eat | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 12:00 AM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedThanks for the input! | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:59 PM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedThat''s typically true about Asians. They are cold, emotionless at times. Though it's mostly how you were raised. Thanks, I'll add it to the post | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedDamn bro, just another story to prove that Asians can pull stunners! | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:49 PM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedThanks for the input | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedThanks for the read! | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:46 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedThanks for the read! | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:45 PM |
| 2 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedDitto. I'm glad you took the time to read this! | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:45 PM |
| 13 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedI dont know why you guys are so focused on that. But i guess its a matter of what stage you are in self-development. You shouldn't be putting energy into areas out of your control! It's useless and a waste of energy. Rather, put more emphasis on what you can manipulate and change. Which is yourself | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 11:42 PM |
| 5 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedIs your attire fitting and stylish? How is your hygiene? Does your haircut match your head shape and face? Groomed? Are you physically in shape? Are you socially calibrated? Were you staring creepily? How were you coming off? Are you generally very social and easy to make friends with strangers? All of this comes into play. Start getting rejected and learn from it. You're probably not taking enough action. Action defeats overthinking. Everyone can make it bro. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:38 PM |
| 4 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedAll limiting beliefs bro. Follow some of my advice and keep going out. Expect to pull 1% of the girls you talk to | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:37 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedThanks! Yup, some people here are misinterpreting the message. This post is towards everyone that is different and have limiting beliefs. Not just asians | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:29 PM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedLmao naww bro. It's just preference. You dont need every single girl to like you. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:26 PM |
| 3 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedStarted reading material at 15. Had conflicts and doubts of this working. I went to many free RSD seminars and honestly with a room full of players, it has done nothing but push to start sarging. I'm 19 now. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedBro i see my black friends killing it all the time. I can't speak on your behalf. But it should all generally be the same if you have limiting beliefs. Though there are lots of racists, I see many girls that are into African Americans. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedHaha some people just needs a tough pep talk. Great post | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:33 PM |
| 5 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedOn it | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:27 PM |
| 4 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedYou're right. But many people lacking social skills wouldn't even know where to start. Especially if you're in areas where all odds are against you. Game comes a long way. Building a solid foundation to help with "seduction". People that live in places where Asian men are generally looked down upon in the dating scene wouldn't be able to come up with the idea that there are girls out there into Asians. | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedEven I need this from time to time | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:16 PM |
| 2 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedhahah hell yea | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:15 PM |
| – | If you're Asian, you are not doomedDon't think you're able to comprehend this post lol. This post is to help guys that thinks everything is against them. The media, society, and so on. I'm not sure what ethnicity you are. But if you fit with the majority of Asians, you would resonate. I've had friends sending me the statistics for Asian mens desirability in the dating scene. That would definitely kill the slightest hint of "you can do it". And bitch you are not right, lol | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedAgreed! | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | If you're Asian, you are not doomedUNITED STATES, east coast big city! The part where women gives you the most shit. You're right, countries definitely affect the pull % | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to use a big dick as a means of getting laid?If that's the case, become a pornstar.. | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Had success with acting uninterested towards very attractive girlsEveryone questioning why this is so contradicting and/or doesn't work when they have tried. Needs to realize that every girl is not the same. Every guy is not the same. There could be millions of reasons why OP worked with using that tactic, but when you tried it didn't work. The girl could have been looking at your signals wrong or you could have came off a little too much on the opposite end. She could have been a little smarter or one of those hot girls with a low ego. Game and its tactics … | /r/seduction | 13/03/19 04:46 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThis is what we're all looking for! Nice post! I think this pretty much destroys the height debate, "Short guys cant get tall hot women". Throughout this journey, what kind of pua content did you watch? | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 11:57 PM |
| 1 | I actually did itthe second you say 'Hi', you won | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Girl jokingly tells me she'll be my late night booty call...you're thinking too much about this bro. Just text her something cool/funny, keep it short and simple. Save it for when you fuck friday night. You wanna be a little mysterious. It wont be fun if you keep texting the throughout the day. Then again, every girl is different. Just keep it simple | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Girl jokingly tells me she'll be my late night booty call...This one's all yours ;)!!! Just be sure to text her an hour or two before the meet up for confirmation that the dates still on. She explicitly states she doesn't have a bed time. That's already a good sign | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 02:51 AM |
| 2 | [FR] After 5 years of failure, I have finally succeeded.Nice job bro! I'm glad that you didn't give up after so many years and continued hitting it! | /r/seduction | 04/06/18 03:03 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls?lol this is confrontational, especially to us teenagers with high ass egos. Be ready in case he tries something | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 10:53 PM |
| 1 | New at PUA. The only numbers I've been given are fakePlayful, ehh there isnt really a how to method. You need experience it genuinely. Best way i found to do this is to go out and chill with naturally charismatic playful friends. Thats the exact same playfulness you want with a girl, but with just a little female to male interaction. Humans dont remember much of what happened logically. We usually remember how that person made us feel, its the feelings you give them. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 05:49 PM |
| 2 | New at PUA. The only numbers I've been given are fakeRegular conversation like "wyd" are very blunt and habitual. What you want to be is the unusual. The one that spikes their emotions and make their day. You have to figure out your intentions too obviously. What do you want from them? I suggest that you flirt and make it "playful". Thats probably the easiest way to get a phone number and the quickest way to see if shes interested. If shes not interested, she will most likely not be receptive to you flirting. The surface reason why girls give fake… | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 04:59 PM |
| 1 | fwb with my exI hope you arent the one to give a kiss and pull your dick right out lmao. Learn how to touch the girl to turn her on | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 04:45 PM |
| 3 | New at PUA. The only numbers I've been given are fakeWithout knowing anything about the approach, its hard to tell. Tell us some info so we can give you a direct answer | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 04:37 PM |
| 3 | New at PUA. The only numbers I've been given are fakeYea, high points are usually the easiest to do nearly anything. Keep it playful. If you're getting fake numbers keep on trying until you get real ones. Learn from your mistakes and shorten your learning curve. Theres no easy method to this, just dedication and hard work. | /r/seduction | 04/03/18 04:33 PM |
| 2 | A girlfriend...I ask close friends for a reality check. Realest and easiest way to know whats wrong with you. Assuming you guy arent in the same boat. | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsYea, these tricks and techniques aren't ment to work 100% of the time. Even 5% of the time is still considered a high percentage because you're not meant to be attracted to every single women. 5% of the 125 million women is around 6 million. Thats a shit tons of chances if you ask me. I'd be happy if it works at all. . That still a large proportion of people. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsId still like to hear your feedback with Todd in replacement to Mystery and Owen. Not just your analysis of each pick up instructor... CasanovaJester | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsLol, okay chill bro. Just please pull the dicks outta your ass. You're taking this too seriously. Like seriously... | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsLets use good old Todd Valentines for example. When his rep wasnt fucked over by RSD. There were a variety of videos about physical escalation and outer game. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsNot even kidding, this is damn hilarious. You're arguing with someone a lot younger than you are. Work must've taken a toll on you. Take a rest old guy. I find this as hilarious as you do. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsI agree, but if they have half a brain. Then they can figure out that THIS is a long term process. Which is probably most of the people who are very interest in getting girls or having trouble with women. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsLets say beginner questions are those having trouble with confidence, talking to girls, awkwardness when around girl, and such. Then intermediate is where there are different levels of confidence. Sure the newbie could have gone out and pretended to be confident to get a kiss. But he soon realizes that pretending to be confident only lasts for so long if he doesnt keep trying. Because sooner or later, that "confidence" will wear off. That is until you learn to be confidence as a whole. Not just … | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsJester, not sure when you started gaming. But many people (Owen Cook, Mystery) started with just techniques and "outergame". Owen became amazing at pick-up because he also used inner game when he figured out that all outer game wont do it. I dont use it as much, but its definitely useful in situation where I've already figured out the girl. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsYea, fucked your mom back in the days. I should've listened and left the condom on. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsLol, I guess???? I'm beating a dead horse. Its best that I stop here, until you can learn to read exceptionally better. Knucklehead... Not to worry, I'll work on my grammar. Least I can do is be open minded, not arrogant like some people. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsYou still seem to be very dumbfounded by the main purpose of this post. This is literally elementry school comprehension. Sub reddit stated, "advance/intermiddiate post are to be made here.". This points to all other beginner and personal related questions to be made in "AskSeddit". Perhaps reconsider taking an 8th grade english class again... if you haven't already. And we'll discuss why this post was made in the first place | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsYour logic seem to be flawed in this area. Just because someone is experience doesn't mean they dont have value to give or questions to ask. Entirely irrelevant to what I'm attempting to insinuate. But since your name is Stringdaddy does that meant you're a Daddy of strings? Yea i dont get it either. Point is, more than not, repeated questions that were answered thousands of times are being posted here. And this isnt the sub reddit it should belong in. It pushes down others with better more expe… | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsMost forums now a days pretty dead unless you pay to get into one of those rsd ones. I can easily find advanced questions being asked/answered in RSD special telegram group chat. But thats not the point. And yea i understand what you're getting at. Though the mods arent doing jack to moderate postd | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 12:39 PM |
| 3 | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsIm not talking about me specifically. Im referring to the sub reddit itself. Advance/intermediate topics such as hook points, when and how to pull, gaming a girl with an over protective friend, social calibration. All of the good stuff. If you havent realized yet. Most the questions being asked are simple beginner questions being reiterated over and over again Edited: by advance/intermidiate im referring to ideas/advice that are ONLY RELATABLE if you have been approaching for quite a bit. For ex… | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 07:03 AM |
| 2 | The hook pointIf she's talking and investing her time into you. then she's hooked. But try to realize the different between a friendly hook and a sexual hook. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:28 AM |
| 3 | How do you get a LTR to chase and invest a bit more?Well, you must have done something wrong to start off with. The feelings you experience during those first few months happen all the time. But then what keeps her attracted to you in the long run, is your true self. You can only pretend to be someone you aren't for so long. You need to step up your game and work on yourself before worrying about her. You barely gave any information about yourself. By the sound of it, you dont have much going on in your life. Love/treat yourself well, others will… | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:17 AM |
| 6 | How often do you guys have a girl chasing you?I found that the deeper I am into self-development and pick-up to becoming the best version of my self. The more girls will chase after me, especially in school. I've noticed this over time and it's something I would have never expected before starting this journey. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | anti-social after nutting? Lollol, i dont quite understand | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Trying to be cocky-funny, sometimes end up being too cocky, am I missing something?Never try to express emotions through text with a girl you barely know. Unless she truly knows how you act and who you are, I suggest not using sarcasm and any other "expressive" lines. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 05:12 AM |
| 1 | I make out with girls constantly, but getting laid seems too hardYes. Don't kiss her to build up the emotions so that she will be even be more horny. | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Getting in my own head way too much.I'm pretty sure this is common especially for beginners in this area of life. This will last for a bit, but will eventually go away like the rest of us (hopefully). You just need to know how to have fun. One of the ways I've learned to have fun is by partying. I've done a year of straight partying with no drugs or alcohol. And then another year with "stuff" and alcohol and I realized that it shifted my mindset and changed me as a person. Though i believe i could achieve the same results not doin… | /r/seduction | 04/01/18 05:09 AM |
| 2 | Can you build a connection with a girl again after she stops replying?Yea, it took me 3 years. I met this girl 3 years ago and she was interested. Nothing happened because I was an introvert and completely "creep" that's what i was called. I always had her on social media so it was easy to see each other social life. 3 years later, I texted her and we hung out and all was history. She seen the change and complimented me on it as well. Walk by and just give her a Hey/Hi. Don't be needy, because as of now. It seems as if that's the only girl you're available to. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | [Question] How do you calibrate ur approach based on girl's situationYou're reading too much and not taking action. If RSD instructor is your role models, then you should know that they recommend dozen approaches per 1 hour of taking in theory. You learn to calibrate not by reading, but by experiencing. That is the only way... Unless you're a robot. | /r/seduction | 11/12/17 01:16 AM |
| 1 | I almost lost my virginity but performance anxiety is a bitch.But most guys don't watch those type of porn... We like that weird shit that rarely ever happens in one night stands and real life. But yea i see where you're coming from about the couple stuff | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | I almost lost my virginity but performance anxiety is a bitch.Where did this theory come from? Sir | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 08:23 PM |
| 32 | I almost lost my virginity but performance anxiety is a bitch.+1 I can vouch that alcohol fucks with being able to get hard | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 08:22 PM |
| 70 | I almost lost my virginity but performance anxiety is a bitch.Stop jerking off to porn. Its frying your brain!! The type of pussy you see in porn is different from real life. Cut off the meat beating and im sure you'll be thirsty to fuck. | /r/seduction | 09/12/17 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Should the guy establish the relationship with a girl hes just messing with?? | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 06:42 PM |
| 6 | My game is solid, but cold approach is hard..Lol, so contridicting. Your game is not solid if you can't cold approach. As simple as that. You know what to do for improvement. Game more ofte . | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | BOIS I NEED HELP, HIGH STATUS WOMANYou know the damn answer. It's just that you have to take it as what it is and move on... there's logistical problems in your way and obviously shes more interested in the guy that had the "audacity" to ghost her. She has all the validation from you, but the guy who ghosted her. You're probably not on par with her and she finds him more physically attractive. Since the guy ghosted her, i assume he has more abundance. Game on bro. This isn't worth the effort. You can spend this time out gaming ot… | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 09:07 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a toxic wingmanYou should use this chance to improve your AMOG game. Yes learn what he uses to take attention away from your girls. If you do it back to him and he gets aggressive, then you need to talk to him about it. Or just cut him off. | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | EDM club game?How you carry yourself as a person is utmost important. This is the same as RSD Tyler doing the eye stare challenge. He goes up to a girl, looks at her eyes and see if the girl stays. If you by any chance seem needy, reaction seeking, she will walk away without a doubt. Move them around the club and meet their friends. Meeting their friend and taking care of their logistical problems are YOUR top priority when trying to pull a girl. Gaming girls not sober are sometimes easy and sometimes hard. I… | /r/seduction | 25/09/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.No I said I'd beat the guys ass for clearly disrespecting my relationship. If your friend was hitting on your girl and suddenly they were fucking while acknowledging that you're in a relationship with her. Both are at fault. Beat him up and dumb her. Lol. On the other hand if the guy fucked my girl but didn't know she was in a relationship. I'd congratulate the guy and dump her ass. There's a difference | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.If he knew I had a girlfriend and still continued on hitting on her while your girl doesn't resist. Might as well beat his ass and dump her. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with a guy that is trying to pickup your my girl? The guy is actually her dance partener.I've had this exact experience before. That's how we broke up and it's pretty sad. Chances are that he's already seducing her. Ever heard of kino? We'll they interact physically in a romantic way no matter what dance it is. They are touching in intimate ways when dances requires it. Im not trying to think cynical, but you'll eventually lose her because of him. And acting upon this such as confronting him will make you look "insecure". I'd beat his ass for disrespecting your relationship and brea… | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 02:09 PM |
| 21 | 30 yo Asian doctor can't get dates to save his life, advice requested!You hit that point nicely! OP talks down about himself. He talks about how hes more successful professionally than the rest of his friends which is essentially bragging rights and useless in pick up. Hence why his friends have more success than him in this area of life. He also seems to be very formal and boring. OP if you are reading this, please take none of this to offense. I'm a 5'4 chinese. | /r/seduction | 30/06/17 12:54 AM |
| 1 | 3 tipsI seen a this hot blonde at the gym the other day. She look really good in general but her face was ehh. I noticed that she was judged by her overall appearance, not just her face. | /r/seduction | 26/06/17 10:16 PM |
| 4 | I'm a short asian guy. Anyone help...?Short Asian here as well, 5'4. Acknowledge that you're fucking short and there's nothing you can do to change that. Though you can make yourself look taller, but not by much. Wear fitting clothes, it will help significantly. Go for shorter girls, but not too short. From what I've experienced and heard, shorter girls usually go for really tall jacked buff guys. While girls 5'4+ usually go for average height guys. Idk why this is, but its just is. You're Asian, so you will be at a minority disadva… | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Another lay by a short Asian. Destroyed LMR by pulling back.My school has 4k people. I approached 2 popular girls in my school as a complete introvert, whilst lacking in social intelligence. So essentially i came off as a complete creep toward girls and had no prior cold approach references/experience. That literally freaked the girls out and words went around... i was called a creep, werdio, "that guy". I agree, if i had all of what i have now. Then the approaches shouldn't have ruin my rep. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 12:09 PM |
| 6 | Another lay by a short Asian. Destroyed LMR by pulling back.My school has 4k people. I approached 2 popular girls in my school as a complete introvert, whilst lacking in emotional intelligence. So essentially i came off as a complete creep towards the girls and had no prior cold approach references/experience. That literally freaked the girls out and words went around... I went on a journey of self-development. I made a social media, added tons of people from my school. Cold approached in my city day and night. Daygame/nightgame. Then soon i was able to … | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Another lay by a short Asian. Destroyed LMR by pulling back.On spot! | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Another lay by a short Asian. Destroyed LMR by pulling back.Yea but when you arent a bit at all known, quiet, and awkward socially, thats a big problem haha | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 11:58 AM |
| 8 | Another lay by a short Asian. Destroyed LMR by pulling back.A text that offers value, reply is not needed. "Was waiting in line today and seen a grandma carrying 2 bottles of Vodka, must have been a crazy party girl" Look up re-start text | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 03:45 AM |
| 1 | If I have no social circle, am I fucked?Build up your social circle. Go to clubs, activities, frat parties, college. Therese tons of places to meet people. Until you have done good in social interactions in general, girls shouldn't be your main priority. Because if you don't even have a small social circle, how can you pick up a chick? | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Date with girl but felt like we were joking too muchBut what if I'd actually like to learn the technical stuff haha. I've done it tons times through daygaming and clubs. But often very little with dates. | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Date with girl but felt like we were joking too muchpersist | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Date with girl but felt like we were joking too muchHey, i couldnt find the Madison video. But here is todds video, essential same concept. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojfp1nN-SL0 | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Date with girl but felt like we were joking too muchMay you elaborate on "once you have build attraction". Thanks | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 09:27 PM |
| 6 | Date with girl but felt like we were joking too muchWe'll probably because you had a good upbringing. Good for you that you dont have to go through this. We're here to improve with women, not be a random douchebag going around saying "be yourself". | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 08:32 PM |
| 3 | Date with girl but felt like we were joking too muchIve lost my virginity with my last gf, its just that this time i want to go through the process while learning at the same time. And fixing the mistakes ive made | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Any chance if you dont have social media?Yup. Having a quality instagram and snapchat can increase your value to girls. Just build it up. Find your friends, follow them. Everytime you meet a new person, ask for their instagram or snapchat. | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Girl is being wishy washy with hangoutSolid. Thanks | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl is being wishy washy with hangoutSure sounds nice. Would be willing to try it. What do you have in mind | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Girl is being wishy washy with hangoutGirls who are like this drives me crazy and confused. Like im currently also talking to another girl, and we set up a date on saturday. But like she responds to me on snapchat but confused on Instagram | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl is being wishy washy with hangoutOh shit haha. I meant her friend told me that the girl currently ignoring me finds me attractive. Hence why she hit me up | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Girl is being wishy washy with hangoutShe was also the first one to hit me up. Cuz her friend said i was attractive. | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Girl is being wishy washy with hangoutIts a public place in downtown | /r/seduction | 12/05/17 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Girl kisses me back at the end of the date, but rejected it earlier?You sound very outcome dependence. Drop that shit and enjoy the moment. | /r/seduction | 09/05/17 02:46 AM |
| 6 | Conversation starters for DM's?Well first of all build up your instagram and post quality pictures. Or else no chance unless you're super attractive. And do follow her | /r/seduction | 08/05/17 10:56 PM |
| 3 | Conversation starters for DM's?If she posts stories on instagram often, you can comment on that. | /r/seduction | 08/05/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | I'm 17 years old. Help!Go to center city and game in that general area | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | I'm 17 years old. Help!It takes me 40 minutes to get to downtown from my place. I do it every weekend. No excuses bro. My friend use to take a 2 hour bus to NYC for work and game. Take that 40 minute route! use http://articles.rsdnation.com/groups/ to meet up with people with your same goals | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 02:40 AM |
| 1 | I'm 17 years old. Help!Now thats difficult for you. Take transportation to cities if possible. Because there will be no way for you to game in a 500 people town. Nearly impossible. Everyone who games, does it in at least a semi-popular town. But for now you should work on your social circle. That is how guys get girls without PUA. It's also one of the easiest way to get girls. Work on it at school :) | /r/seduction | 01/05/17 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I'm 17 years old. Help!First of all, are you taking care of your body, hygiene, personal health? Are you working out and keeping your hair in check? Are you intentionally going out to socialize and meeting new people? If you have all of those check, then work on your inner game. If you have yet to finish any of those, then proceed to do so. People say looks dont matter, but they do. If you look like you take care of yourself you are way more attractive. We're both the same age yet I'm under average at 5'5. I have ever… | /r/seduction | 30/04/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of my cringey personality?Gain emotional intelligence/social intelligence. If you keep seeing yourself as a cringey person, you will reinforce that and actually become more cringey. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 10:06 PM |
| 3 | First Date Tips?Have fun with her. Make everything playful and fun, but at the same time be serious if needed. Do talk about your jobs, career, etc if she brings it up. Natural chemistry will help make sure you guys dont stop talking., if its really there. Fuck the people who says dont kiss or touch on the first date. Hold hands. If she rejects it, dont be butthurt. Try kissing her, if she backs off, then at least you have the balls to go for it. You tried and thats all it matters. A walk in the park on a sunny… | /r/seduction | 26/04/17 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Girls never invite me places? Lots of friends and hookups but I am always the one initiating, is this normal?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6665z0/lets_forget_getting_laid_for_a_second_how_do_you/?st=j1pi7nds&sh=0054a93f Check this out. Same post | /r/seduction | 19/04/17 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Taller girls are more friendly? Shes 4 inches tallerHoly hell this is so mind boggling. Everybody has their own theory. I guess the only way to figure this out is to only approach girls taller than me | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:31 AM |
| 1 | Taller girls are more friendly? Shes 4 inches tallerYes. I couldnt take it because she was fucking tall as shit. I just exited myself from a possible pull lol | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Field report - another bad approach.Yes its too time consumimg to choose wisely. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Field report - another bad approach.Yes. Its too time comsuming to be choosing wisely. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Field report - another bad approach.Tip : Look better. Take better pic. Swipe right on all | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Field report - another bad approach.Its hard to tell if your question has been answered because you only tell us whats bad. You never give us a direct response on whether you understand what we're saying or not. | /r/seduction | 18/04/17 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Field report - another bad approach.Use other methods like online dating apps. Tinder, bumble, etc. Trust me, your first lay with a little knowledge of Pick up knowledge will make your lay so much more solid and smooth. You will learn a lot. But keep on approaching man. That alone feeling, hold onto it and use it to leverage your approaches. Always approach with 100% effort and never HALF ASS the approach. With emotional leverage by your side, you can literally do anything! | /r/seduction | 17/04/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Thanks seddit/rsd for helping me with my first lay and relationship. I'm now single, but learned a lot!Yes | /r/seduction | 15/04/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Am I reading too much into this?If you think that you guys are fit and compatible. Go ahead, make the move to date her. Ask her out to movies or hiking. After several dates, you can ask her to be in a relationship with you. Or after enough dates, she will eventually ask "What are we" | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Am I reading too much into this?Find your motive. What do you want from this girl and what are you asking us? | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | How to help my best friend get girls?I noticed that if i try to tell my bestfriends about pick up and seddit, they will never listen. They'll think its cool and interesting but never actually take action. UNLESS you literally go out with them and let them see you approaching girls and getting numbers, making out, etc. My bestfriend never really was interested in pick up. Until i went out, fucked a girl and poured it into his face on how pick up is not a scam and its an actual thing. He does it daily now. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 05:16 PM |
| 2 | What would make it okay to chase a taken girl? If so, how?Do not persue a girl that is taken. You and your girl broke up and yet you still attempted to get her back. You feel desperate and insecure. Dont try to break someone elses relationship to feel better and validate yourself. You wouldnt like someone taking your girl | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to be someone that girls just aren't attracted to at all?How tf do you know?!! Did you talk to 99% of the girls from where you're from??? | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Was this a one night stand or should i text this girl?First find out what the heck you're trying to do. Are you looking for a one night stand, fuck buddy, or relationship? But do hit her up to meet up again | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Is it possible to be someone that girls just aren't attracted to at all?You want get laid? Pay for a hooker. You have the internet, everything you need is on here. Go on utorrent, download rsd tengame | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Is it possible to be someone that girls just aren't attracted to at all?I think your problem is out of our reach. Seek a therapist | /r/seduction | 06/04/17 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Turning gf into wing girl/polyamarous relationship. I feel conflictedI recently just got back on my path. I hit the gym 4 times a week for the past 3 years. On top of my school work. And make time to enjoy my own time and hobbies. I have pretty good friend circle. Just that the problem is girls. There must be things I'm missing ;/ I was told to break it off at the beginning of the relationship due to other issues, but I persisted and ended up learning shit tons of things. | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 11:09 PM |
| 4 | Turning gf into wing girl/polyamarous relationship. I feel conflictedShes 18 im 17. She hasnt found out about my age until we progressed further into the relationship | /r/seduction | 03/04/17 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Fucked a girl, got into an relationship. Now i feel like I'm going towards a downwards spiral.Thanks bro. This is a nice insight on everything that's been going on. It seems as of everyone on here figured out whats wrong. My goal is off point and i have to maintain one to keep developing and keeping my masculinity | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Fucked a girl, got into an relationship. Now i feel like I'm going towards a downwards spiral.Game as in Rsd Max the natural program. I read models by mark manson. Started my own path in self development. We went on a couple of dates. All of the dates were initiated by me and I have been making all of the big moves. But she was the one to ask me about where the relationship was going after we had sex on a regular basis. She agreed with everything i wanted to do. When I found out that she asked about the relationship too early. She got mad because i confronted her about asking way to earl… | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Fucked a girl, got into an relationship. Now i feel like I'm going towards a downwards spiral.How does that solve the problem though? | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 02:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach a girl after being gay for so long?Why is the most interesting topics being down voted? "How to get laid" gets 1000 upvotes. | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Books for Inner game and confidence?Models By Mark Manson. Everyone should know this book by now haha | /r/seduction | 15/03/17 02:15 AM |
| 3 | I think I did something impossibleShe gamed you? | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble being social in school compared to being out ?Yea I wonder if anybody has a good insight on this | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 02:52 PM |
| 1 | She asked what relationship i want. Wants more deep convo??I'm asking if that's a indicator of something else? | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Girl verbally telling you that you're pushing it?thanks! | /r/seduction | 27/01/17 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl verbally telling you that you're pushing it?I have already fucked her. But there are certain part of gaming her that i have yet to understand | /r/seduction | 26/01/17 11:53 PM |
| 14 | thanks sedditCongrats! Hard work pays off. Remember, the game doesn't end here. If you stop working on yourself, she will leave. Be sure to continue gaming her to keep the sparks alive | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 02:35 PM |
| 1 | A bit of advice? (Sorry for the text-wall)I'm 17 years old and started at 15. Got my first lay a few weeks ago. You miss every shot you don't take. Instead of getting girls only after you're done self-improving, which should be never. Go for girls while on your journey! Go talk to her like a friend. Do this for a few days. Get her SnapChat. Let her see your cool and amazing life outside of school. Ask her to hang out with you. And fuck what other people think. What got me here is the chaos i have put myself through when i first started … | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Confirmation text the day before?Yes. ALWAYS confirm. Some people end up at the location just to find out the girl was "busy". Before heading out, text the girl "Hey (name), I'm going to be 15 minute late. Lets meet up at ...)". Or if you haven't set up the time and place yet then... "Hey "name", looking forward to see you tmr" or "... Still on for tmr?" | /r/seduction | 13/01/17 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Girl sees RSD/PUA content on my computer...So i shouldnt embrace it? | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 12:47 PM |
| 3 | How do you set the relationship status?Thanks. Also may you elaborate on "cute shit " lo | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 08:11 PM |
| 3 | As a Korean guy how do you potray to western girls that your an alpha male or break the stereotype that the western media gives to asian guys?A few days ago i full closed my first white girl and it turns out im her first asian guy shes been with. I thought there was no hope. But eventually with dedication and work, i got there. Fyi, im chinese 5'5 and lean | /r/seduction | 06/01/17 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Learning game at age of 16I'm sure there are people who goes out. Just take your time to find them | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I think i've been rejected too much lately because i'm asking for a date too soon after i get a girl's number.You're approach is all that matters. Not even the best text game can help you with a shitty initial interaction. I up Lynfast. The problem lies else where | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Learning game at age of 16I live in Philly and started "reading theory" at 15. Trust me, cut that shit off right now. The second you spend 6 month learning theory and not approach. You will literally forget everything when you do approach. Find a RSD Inner circle group in your area and game with them. Also what is your city population? | /r/seduction | 03/01/17 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Zero social skills, dont know where to startI one up BJLMAG. Focus on developing yourself as more social individual before diving deep into pick up. I mean you can use cold approach as a form of improvement, but you will need volume in your area. Else girls will know you as that creepy guy. One thing not to do is cold approach in high school, I've been there and done that... | /r/seduction | 17/12/16 09:40 PM |
| 1 | I've reached a turning point.Nice you're realizing. Not sure why people are down voting these post, 99% of the post in this sub are literally newbie stuff thats been getting massive upvotes | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 10:46 PM |
| 2 | College Pickup - Why classic "game" will hurt youSolid advice. But those 2 types of approaches and methods comes with different results and skills. So i wouldn't say to completely cut off cold approach unless its appropriate. Cold approach comes with its own positives and negatives, so does social circle game. But working on both at the same time would make you a beast. Some of the stuff you listed were true, such as cold approaching in at the school you attend, words spread fast. But through that you can get girls and they can see you with th… | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 03:53 AM |
| 8 | How effective is game in high school?DO NOT COLD APPROACH IN HIGHSCHOOL. But do social circle game | /r/seduction | 06/12/16 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Trying to do daygame everywhereYea bro look for a RSD inner circle in your city on Racebook. In every city there's a Facebook group page made for guys like us. http://articles.rsdnation.com/groups/ Good luck! | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:43 AM |
| 1 | How does social circle game even work when you're no longer in school/college? How does it help you get girls?Show them you go out having fun. Usually on your social media. They might be interested and get engaged by that. Then invite them out with you to have fun | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:33 AM |
| 2 | Trying to do daygame everywhereDon't shit where you eat. To be completely honest, girls say "I have a boyfriend" because your game sucks. Its a way for them to say "please back off". But there are many times where they honestly do have a boyfriend. But I believe every girl has the time to stop and converse with people. If you are good looking and working out, but girls don't acknowledge you then you are not confident. Go out more bro, do street game with a buddy of yours and have them give you feedback | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | For former skinny guys. Have any of you gone from really skinny to lean with muscle and noticed a difference with women and how they interact with you? And being taken more seriously by guys? If so, please explain how things changed from before?2 years ago i was a extremely scrawny dude. 5'4 101lb. Seriously 101lb... I wouldn't get much respect from guys and girls in general due to my confidence. And what caused their initial judgement of me was my appearance. As i got bigger and more lean, I've noticed girls glancing at me and get way more respect from guys. I can't believe that in a 2 year time I got called being a skinny guy to buff. But no seriously, confidence is what matters the most. But that doesn't mean to not go and work on y… | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:24 AM |
| 2 | How many failures before you finally started getting good at "the game"25 approaches is what i do a single night. Geez. Don't count how many approaches you do, it does no good. Focus on what you're doing wrong and right. Write a field report for every single approach you've done because it will help with your game 2x. 2x the results is what you will get from doing fr. Just know that every single time you talk to a girl, you get better. Doesn't matter how big of a improvement you get, every single approach will do you better than not approaching. You can get good fa… | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Seducers experienced with hair loss/are on finasteride..how has your game been effected?Look man. The uglier you are the better your game haha. Look at RSD Tyler for example, for godsakes hes a fucking balding ginger. | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone done the RSDMax's The Natural?That's not how you use the program sir. Doing this will cause you to be extremely in your head while out there infield. What you do is for every 1 hour of video you watch, should be 2 hours out approaching and gaming. Watch some videos and game some. Bit by bit. It will be better than watching the entire thing and then going out. This is through experience and tons of stories | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | [Looking for] A sub where everyone is trying to become the best version of themselves and supporting each other in doing so togetherHaha i read shit from bodybuilding... Sometimes it can be taken the wrong way | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | 12/3/16 FR Nightclub/Dance floor gameBut why would that matter? At the end of the night, they're all gonna forgot about you anyways. And yeah I see where you're coming from about women noticing me getting blown off. | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 01:25 AM |
| 1 | 5 ways picking up girls is like a video gameWhy was this post removed? | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Handling logistics over text... confusingHahah | /r/seduction | 11/11/16 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Teach me your ways...Fix your inner game. Read some books about inner game. Models by Mark Manson Day Game By V Roosh Watch RSD videos on self-help and self-improvement. RSD Julien video "Happiness Manifesto" that video is fucking amazing! I'm telling you right now! If you want to improve and become the best version of your self, take the damn time and read/watch the books/videos. Change comes slowly, it can take months before you notice significant changes. As long as you keep persisting and going for the change, y… | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Second time clubbing? I killed it.Nice job! I wish i knew game back when i was 15 and clubbing hahaha. I lost so many opportunities at raves with girls. Totally beta and shit with girls. Now im 17... But the clubs are not 18+ so basically fucked for another year and no night game. | /r/seduction | 06/11/16 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Persistent suckingThis particular situation happened to me when I was trying to daygame along the first time. Best bet is to join a Facebook RSD Circle Inner group and approach with a guy that has experience | /r/seduction | 06/11/16 01:12 AM |
| 3 | How important is going to the gym?It gives me confidence, at least for me. It depends on how you perceive your physical appearance. For people with higher game like Luke Or Tyler says, your physical appearance probably won't matter at all. But for beginners and people who are starting off, looking good can help quite a bit | /r/seduction | 30/10/16 04:58 PM |
| 1 | University student here... is it good idea picking up girls in it?Do social circle game | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Battling with Approach AnxietyIm surprised that you have never heard of RSD (Real Social Dynamics). http://articles.rsdnation.com/groups/ https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDTyler It's a group/community. Basically a group of guys that goes out and do pick-up and is involved with the RSD community. | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 10:30 PM |
| 3 | [META] Does anyone know why are low-score posts so high up?I've noticed this. The Moderators aren't doing much. Majority of users on here are just posting beginner stuff to help reinforce their reasons into not approaching. All of the tips are either in the sidebar or in this sub-reddit. | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Battling with Approach AnxietyOne way i got out of my way and approached was gaming with someone more knowledge and experience than me in game. Weird huh? When i tried approach while out with my regular friends, i couldn't do it. But when i went out with a group of RSD guys, i could easily approach. Idk what's behind it, but it works. Try it out. | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Intermediate PUA? (Beyond inner game)Yea may you please delineate whwt you are looking for | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Infield of me literally chasing down a girl lol let me know what you thinkNumbers arent results. If the interactiom was not solid, the number is most likely going to be non responsive and flakey. Based on this interactiom, he literally broke everything in "game" haha. A girl giving out her number can be her way to get rid of you, i know from experience. I dont wanna bash on op, but what made me cringe the most was his tonality. He sounded extremely reaction seeking, aka seeking rapport. | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Intermediate PUA? (Beyond inner game)I learned lots of inner game from RSD Videos. Happiness Manifesto, tylers newest video, max the natural killing it, etc | /r/seduction | 25/10/16 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Tons of numbers yet little to no repliesNever. I always text/call her before leaving with the number :) | /r/seduction | 23/10/16 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Tons of numbers yet little to no repliesOne problem im having is keep the conversation going. I could dabble on about random shit for like 3 minutes. But i dont think so for 15 minutes. Any tips or videos you would recommend? | /r/seduction | 22/10/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I think I fucked up today.You put the ball in her court by giving her your number. Next time, try always getting her number into your phone. | /r/seduction | 26/08/16 10:05 PM |
| 1 | I've reached a roadblockI'm in highschool too. If you suck at game or you're a newbie. Do not smash through with cold approaches and get on a rejection spreed. You will ruin your reputation. My advice is to become friend with the hottest most popular girl, and then social proof from her. Ask her to hook you up with her friends. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Need help figuring out how to approach a girl at workYou'll see her everyday at work. Best bet is to not cold approach and fuck up, because you will be in the same area every day. It would be extremely awkward. Approach her as if you're trying to make a new friend | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Introverts NotesWeren't some of these notes taken when watching the new RSD Todd video? He explained the concepts exactly the way you wrote here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UZXdGDMShk | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 05:22 PM |
| 1 | [Fr] Uk girl in china. #closed due to resistance. Advice neededTurns out that she said "i will pay you back" | /r/seduction | 06/08/16 04:25 AM |
| 1 | A message to all the younger guys out there.Sorry, i worded it wrong. But what i meant was the lonely guys that was not able to get a girlfriend because of something blocking them mentally, could either be social anxiety, lack of social skills, or/and afraid to talk to women. On the other hand, you didn't want a relationship until your late 20's which is fine. But I'm essentially talking about the guys that have been trying for a while and haven't succeeded with any girls. | /r/seduction | 04/07/16 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Maybe pick up isn't right for you?+1 | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 08:33 PM |
| 3 | A message to all the younger guys out there.Thanks man, that got rid of any confusions i had along the way reading your post. I appreciate your straightforward honesty. Great post! :) | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 08:31 PM |
| 1 | A message to all the younger guys out there.If you're ugly you have to work as twice as hard. The end result, you will have better chances with girls or equal to those with good looks | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 08:20 PM |
| 7 | A message to all the younger guys out there.I agree and disagree with this. Growing up as a introvert significantly impacted my social life and my happiness. I stayed in most of my childhood due to strict parents, so hanging with friends and going out playing wasn't a option for me. Now that I am moving up to a junior in highschool, I have been given much more freedom than ever. HOWEVER IF I HAVEN'T discover seduction and self-improvement, I would of stay the introvert non-social guy forever. If you're stuck as a introvert growing up, the… | /r/seduction | 30/06/16 07:48 PM |
| 1 | In need of some advice!It should be lighthearted. Mine is "All about them aesthetic. Looking for a fun distraction from my hard work saving little African children. #IDoYouCondom | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 04:13 PM |
| 4 | Girl texting in a manly way.You're main objective is to get her out. | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring them so they start thinking about you moreWe don't know that until we've actually dug a little deeper. | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Ignoring them so they start thinking about you moreI can confirm. They can be the nicest thing the first few minutes you meet them. But then if you do something that aggros them, they are one of the bitches girls you'll ever meet | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 02:17 PM |
| 1 | The hardest part about beginning this journey is believing that I am worthy of having beautiful women in my life...https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OVZ9xk1B-o Check that video out. You have to realize you're not getting the girls because you fucking suck. Go through the pain and allow it to affect you. But at the same time, know that sitting there whining like a bitch won't help either. All of us went through this stage. Honestly, it only gets easier | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 02:36 AM |
| 3 | What is a teen to do when he no real friends or social outlets during the holidays?Because you have pointed out each and every single one of the technique you have learned and used during the interaction, he states that you are "over exaggerated pickup shit". You were just being extremely explicit about the things you've done during the interaction. Nothing's wrong with that. At best, it helped us understand what went on. | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 12:23 AM |
| 2 | What is a teen to do when he no real friends or social outlets during the holidays?You have to experience both the overly gamey guy and the under gamey guy in order to know and find the balance. For example, cooking. Let's say you're cooking something and it would taste bad if you didn't cook it long enough, but at the same time it would also taste bad if you cooked it for too long. You won't know the balance in between those 2 until you have either pushed too far, or pushed too little. Check out Real Social Dynamics. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2cr3hPEdKE | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 11:48 PM |
| 3 | A fucking girl made me wait for 1 hour before flakingWelcome to pick up!! You shouldn't be too invested with girls you haven't fucked or been on a date with. You clearly are trying to change her mind instead of her mood and you were easily aggravated by her rejection. That is not how you should be doing pick up. Think of it logically, this is only 1 girl. There are millions of chances for you out there. Expect this to happen a few hundred times if you're approaching or talking to a lot of girls. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Moving to America from India, what should I expect?This question should not belong here. You shouldn't base your game off of ethnicity. Also read the side bars. Creating friends here are the same. No difference from India. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/16 04:53 AM |
| 2 | (17 M) Girl in high school rejected me the last year, giving me IOI's nowThe worst that could happen is you getting rejected and learning from that. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/16 11:55 PM |
| 3 | I've been following seddit's advice and started smiling at girls I make eye contact with when I walk down the street. Lately I've been getting a few smiles back! In this context, is a smile a sign to approach, or are they just being friendly?I do that with old ladies walking down the street | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 01:21 PM |
| 1 | how can you come off creepy?Maybe you are not congruent with who you are. The first few seconds you're mr.nice guy and the next second your all touchy and sexual. That comes off creepy and weird. Maybe try showing more intent straight from the beginning instead of being the friend at first | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 01:15 PM |
| 8 | How should you act around people you don't like?I just tend to not give them any attention. But if you're talking about an amog. You shouldn't ignore them if they are around are going for the girl you're after | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 01:13 PM |
| 1 | thoughts on keeping girls that rejected you as friends?If she's really hot and has a big social cricle. Use her to social proof, meet her hotter friends. But it looks like she's willing to invest in you. But I'm not sure if you're coming off as friend to friend or male to women. If you are friend to friend and try to escalate. You would come off as a creepy and incongruent | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 04:54 AM |
| 2 | I'm 16 years old and I've never kissed a girlI'm 16 as well. If you have yet to come close to dating a girl. Thats a sign you need to work on yourself! The first thing I did when starting pick up, was to self improve. I noticed that with a bieber cut from 2010 wouldn't get me anywhere, especially with below beginner game. So I decided to improve my looks by a significant margin. But that only helped me a bit. Possibly just getting a few girls attention, but since I am the minority (asian). I know that I'd have to work harder and improve my… | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Hitting up girls you haven't texted in a whileI've tried this line a redditor came up with. "If I was giving out grades on your call back skills, you would definitely get an F!" 10/10 would text back Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/t5qc5/texting_trick_that_has_never_failed_me/ | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 03:08 AM |
| 1 | I want to hear about your experiences with girls going hot and coldWHy dont you wait a few days and snapchat her again. Or better yet text her. Just remember to try and set up the date every other text | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Is what I'm doing wrong? I need helpYou aren't suppose to be their tinder text buddy. You throw out a funny opener that spikes their emotions. Do a little small talk, grab their number and set up a date for the 2 of you. And are you sure that you're pictures aren't blurry and shitty? That would affect your matches significantly. | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | I cant get anywhere with this girl! Help neededYea man. Don't be the orbiter guy. You have to escalate to achieve what you want | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:33 PM |
| 2 | I want to hear about your experiences with girls going hot and coldYou spent to much time being her sc/text buddy. You should of escalated faster and set up a date right on the spot. I've experienced this tons of times. Its either I didn't ask for the date fast enough, or I became their text buddy and lost interest through text. I'm almost certain you didn't spike her emotions. Therefore she didn't feel the need to reply back. | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Do women ever make the first move?Yea women makes first move. But it's the small subtle things, and thats as far as they go. Unless you are super attractive or have a high SMV value. The rest are for you to figure out and take action on. | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:21 PM |
| 2 | I cant get anywhere with this girl! Help neededIt could be that shes playing hard to get. Why don't you go up to her in real life and ask her on a date? Then later escalate from there. | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend Destroying, Help?If she sees you better than her boyfriend. She will happily drop him | /r/seduction | 12/06/16 04:46 AM |
| 2 | Super excited/nervous - Going out for first time with a group of gamers!Approach all! Minimize time between approach. The longer you wait to approach, the more you're going to get into your head and the more excuses you're going to come up with. Just know that you would probably never see those girls again, so go all out. Get them to push you to your limits! | /r/seduction | 11/06/16 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Introverts of Reddit, how do you handle being socially exhausted during going out?If you're doing mild dancing, slow especially. I don't think there will be any difference from standing still. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:45 PM |
| 9 | Introverts of Reddit, how do you handle being socially exhausted during going out?Did your friends actually let loose and danced? Like near rave crazy? | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 04:03 AM |
| 18 | Introverts of Reddit, how do you handle being socially exhausted during going out?Usually, I take a few minutes to rest, and then go back in. I recently discovered that if i bring a bunch of friends to a nightclub that are willing to stay with me and dance for the night, I would never need to rest and recharge. But I bring 1 or 2 friend that stands still the entire time and doesn't vibe along, I feed off their negative boring energy. You MUST LET LOOSE and have fun. Stop over analysing. Personal preference. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 03:45 AM |
| 2 | My tinder game sucks!Why don't you daygame or night game? And why are you flirting over text? You're #1 top priority is to take the girl on a instant date and proceed the pull from there. Rarely are you suppose to grab the number, unless it is a inconvenient time for the two of you. | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Have any of you expirenced people not liking you for trying to learn seduction?How to explain it to community people? Well first of all you shouldn't. But I have told my friends about it, some agreed and lots of them disagreed. And guess what, to the ones that disagreed? They haven't even had a girlfriend or gotten their first kiss. Anyone that holds you back from self-improving and going for what you want, you should just drop and find new friends. They are not worth your time and effort, they will only hold you back. Once they see you having abundance of girls, they will… | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl is texting multiple guys, how to win her?The not seeking for validation part, I'm a bit confused on still to this date. May you please give me am example of it? "The real secret in all these techniques is that you don't even care what her response is gonna be which is actually lacking in most of the guys out there, they are not outcome independent they always try to get some response out of her and they say what might get that response not what they really want to say." | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl is texting multiple guys, how to win her?Thank you very much, that some extremely good information :) | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl is texting multiple guys, how to win her?So basically a guy that doesn't care. But at the same time is value offering. This is ironic because I am also dating 2 other girls. But they all have a few backup guys | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl wants to text/skype before meet up?Yea, I was thinking that I may have put the ball in her court for a big percentage. Since I was the one that ended the interaction last night. Should I just wait for her to text first? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/16 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl wants to text/skype before meet up?Yea one week is a longass time before a meet up. She asking if we can skype before hanging out. She also suggest that her friend comes. It seems as if shes paranoid. I tried setting up a date at a local mall. I do have her snapchat though, hope it will loosen her up. Since I was the one that ended the interaction last night. Should I just wait for her to text first? She seems to be looking for a boyfriend. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/16 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Tinder girl wants to text/skype before meet up?Yup. I told her to meet me at a mall. She doesn't know where it is and says she wants to skype before meeting up. Yea, I'm talking to another 2. Trying to set up a date as well | /r/askTRP | 30/05/16 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Teenage girls wants more texting before hang out? TINDERHaha probably. But I asked to meet her at a local mall. So i dont think that might be it. | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 04:03 AM |
| 8 | [Question] How to approach & pick up girls at a concert/festival?Search on youtube. Rsd chaotic environment. And also Richard La Ruina Night game | /r/seduction | 29/05/16 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Can you guys or gals help me with my tinder profile?Why is your tinder profile description so serious. Lay back and be creative/fun with it. Throw some personality and fun on to there. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 04:26 PM |
| 1 | I need help conversingThis is all a chain of problem he has. Tyler made a video on this. Try conversing with strangers and the girls you aren't attracted to. And then applying those to girls you are after. | /r/seduction | 28/05/16 04:06 AM |
| 1 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.I'm surprised. Most of the time, that's Asian parents. Asian myself | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.Rsd is superior compared to simplepickup imo. The information they give out for free is extremely vague and almost useless. Mean while rsd youtube videos are basically their paided contents scattered all over | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 05:16 PM |
| 1 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.Not true. Reading and watching materials along with infields have helped me understand it better. But overall best way to understand it is to first approach. Op, go out there, approach 5 girls. Come back and look up what you had trouble with. Op needs someone or something to pressure him into approaching | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 05:15 PM |
| 13 | I am a 25 year old virgin here for advice to get rid of the burden.Your past... Forget it because there's nothing you can do to change it. But what you can do is improve yourself and over rule the old you. What got me into approaching was pressure. I stumbled upon a thread on here saying that the best way to destroy approach anxiety is by asking a friend to hold your money. If you don't approach the girl, he keeps the money and you gotta deal with it. If you attack in him anyway, then friend goes bye bye. This other method i learned from RSD. Think of it this w… | /r/seduction | 26/05/16 01:51 AM |
| 1 | IS there any pick up artists that make youtube videos? or videos on any website that is based in australia? i am trying to learn how to pick up girls but would think it would be best to learn from a dude who picks up girls in my own country?Look up RSD Alex. He's Australian | /r/seduction | 23/05/16 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Night club/Rave with extremely low acceptance. Need few opinions and tipsHaha i love your way of "pea cocking". I usually wear this really bright yellow tank top with the emazing light logo. And i walk around getting compliments all the time. | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 07:19 PM |
| 4 | Night club/Rave with extremely low acceptance. Need few opinions and tipsThanks I'll keep that in mind next time | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Night club/Rave with extremely low acceptance. Need few opinions and tipsBut if i get them to face directly toward me either how, would it still matter? And yea i see where you are coming from, about grabbing them from behind | /r/seduction | 22/05/16 04:42 PM |
| 2 | What EXACTLY do you mean with K-Close?N Close = Number Close K Close = Kiss Close F Close = Fuck Close or Full Close It's not what's usual for second date. Its how far you can escalate and how comfortable the girl is | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Who the hell do I listen to!? (which PUA)There is no program guaranteed to work. It's how much you invest and the amount of effort you put into pick up. Honestly, Richard La Ruina aka Gambler, RSD, and Sasha are one of my favorites and possibly Hayley Quinn. Check out all of them and see which one fits you the best. RSD, Sasha, Gambler is mostly natural/direct game. The videos found on youtube from RSD are essentially the stuff found on their programs. But it takes a bit longer to actually put together. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=… | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 02:24 AM |
| 1 | I suck at eye contact I just cannot do it help!I find it helpful trying it on friends. When they are talking to you, try to keep the eye contact for as long as you can. But its completely fine to break it from time to time, just not too often. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Favorite rsd channel?It's probably because of the media outrage a few years back. Julien took a picture of him "choking" a girl that he did pick up on. Search up the most hated man. Juliens up there | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 03:10 PM |
| -1 | How to make a Comfortable Bed?haha | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 12:12 AM |
| 4 | Any book recommendations about attractive body language and manner/behavior ?Models By Mark Manson The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed by Mystery A must! | /r/seduction | 01/05/16 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Favorite rsd channel?I feel like Tyler and Julien gave me the best knowledge. Todd game is entirely different compared to the other Rsd instructor. He seems to be more passive, I'm not sure what exactly. Meanwhile Tyler and Julien are full on hard core escalation. Its best if you focus on one instructor first, and then branch off when you know a bit more about game. They each contradicts each other lol. Also try not to watch a few videos of RSD and then watch something completely different like Sasha or Valentino, i… | /r/seduction | 30/04/16 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Not sure if I'm reading signals wrong...Hey bro, there's no way to tell unless you take action. Goodluck | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 07:20 PM |
| 3 | Online daters, how do you get a girl to trust you enough to meet you in person?Agreed. I find girls to be way more receptive in real life than on Tinder. Op, remember that half of the guys that are texting her has absolutely 0 game. | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Not sure if I'm reading signals wrong...She agreed to go out with you, but am unsure if you showed any intent to start off with. If you were just a guy friend, im sure girls wouldn't perceive you as a threat. So unless you show intentions and escalate from there, it would be hard to tell. But so far, she is comfortable going out with you. Tip: Next time escalate a bit further, take her to a bar and proceed taking actions that reveals your intentions (Hand hold)(Kino)(Kissing). | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you add numbers of girls to snapchat?Good point! | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 06:04 PM |
| 20 | I'm starting to think girls don't like good guysShame on you for thinking that he was pathetic! You have to realize that girls of your dreams doesn't chase you, they don't magically appear and be your girlfriend. You have to work for it. Go back to your friend and learn from him. Check out the books he read. | /r/seduction | 27/04/16 04:16 PM |
| 1 | When should I be apologizing for saying something stupid / insensitive?Don't ever apologize for anything unless you truly feel bad for what you've done. | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 03:07 AM |
| 1 | About to graduate college and have not been on a single dateAgreed. The sidebar and this sub reddits top post, are extremely helpful. If there's a problem that you want to solve. Face the problem and actually do something instead of sitting and complaining. | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Am I getting fooled, or is this girl interested in me?Assume attraction. You don't know if she is interested in you. Want to find out? Go and get her number! Do something! | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 03:33 AM |
| 4 | I don't know who the fuck I am and it's killing meNicely said! | /r/seduction | 23/04/16 03:31 AM |
| 3 | So shy I can't even get a small talkThis is all in your mind. You lack the confidence to talk to these girls. In Order to change your mindset, you first have to understand it. You have to realize that the ugliest guys with the greatest games can easily get laid. Although if you are average and unattractive, the chances of girls approach you is very small. And being attractive is just a small boost. I'd suggest reading the top post in this forum. It will help you significantly and possibly get you motivated to go out and do pick up… | /r/seduction | 22/04/16 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How to stop self doubt/ Fear of Rejection?You're not alone. I was also stuck in your state after coming out of a LTR. But after several more rejections without any real success, it matter less and less. To the point where a rejection isn't shit but just simply a girl declining a offer you have sent out(mindset). If you have to, by all means you should. Go out to malls, clubs, and try to grab as many phone numbers as you can. I can only say that from experience, only about 1/5 of them would actually text back or have any real interest. A… | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 09:10 PM |
| 2 | How to stop self doubt/ Fear of Rejection?You shouldn't be focusing this much all in one girl. Despite the fact that you've spent so much time with her and have yet to escalate onto another level. Now responding to your title. The ONLY way to minimize and reduce doubt/fear of rejection, is by being rejected. Get rejected 100 times and I could almost guarantee that those fear of rejection would go away. You've spent enough time with her. Now get going and ask her out. If you feel like taking her to the aquarium will increase your chances… | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 07:51 PM |
| 1 | My game is good, but I can't go for the kissWell i mean, i did foreplay before even getting my first kiss haha | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 03:54 PM |
| 1 | My game is good, but I can't go for the kissYou probably lack escalation experience and knowledge. Did you kino at the very start? Or do you kino at all. If you never touched the girl before and went straight for the kiss, that wouldnt be congruent. It would be awkward and weird. https://m.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1dvnem/above_the_game_part_7_physical_escalation_sex | /r/seduction | 19/04/16 03:35 PM |
| 1 | She lost all attraction when I didn't send a dick pic?Did you try to confirm that she wasn't a catfish? | /r/seduction | 18/04/16 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Why is texting looked down upon?Because you can't really reveal emotions during text. And it's really easy to fuck up during texts. Jokes that come off cocky or rude, Texting more than 2x in a row, etc. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 08:47 PM |
| 2 | I approached a stranger for the first time in my life!!You could of pushed through her "excuses" by saying a bit more. But good job though! Most guys in this situation would bitch out without even saying a word. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do I keep expecting women to use and manipulate me?Well then that explains why | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 03:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night Out At ConcertCorrect. I usually use lines such as "dont mind if i steal your friend from you for a second" | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep expecting women to use and manipulate me?Pua is about picking up girls and improving yourself. Its about becoming the best version of yourself. People like life_uncivilized will just hold you back from such goals you have. People learn from this industry because they were previously affected negatively by girls. Now unless you have depression, all of this can easily be corrected with time and dedication | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep expecting women to use and manipulate me?You dont realize that he posted in the seduction sub reddit. If he knew he needed help else where, he wouldnt of posted on here. Assuming that his goals were to get girls. I have been through what he has and honestly it was just my mind set. Thinking about depressing thoughts all day. Once i just forgot about those and started lettng loose, i felt way better. Also you have problems if you dont think its not ops mindset. He speficially said "im not attractive enough to get sex" | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep expecting women to use and manipulate me?Ans this is all a string of problem that you have to resolve step by step. That includes, abundance frame, confident, assurance, good inner game, outer game. Just buy Models By Markmansion and read up on it | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 02:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night Out At ConcertBecome friends with her friend and then isolate her away. You never go in, grab girl and get out. Thats not how it works, because their friends will cockblock. And seduction/pua i about getting the girls and being able to fuck them and makeout. And environments that loud, is where all the fun happens. Thats the highest points, so there will be tons of girls and guys making out. | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 02:31 PM |
| 1 | She thinks I'm cockyLol, you should of said that when shes out with you. As long as you get her to go out with you, this no longer matter. Try not to be like that next time. And if you do, make it seem like bantering. | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep expecting women to use and manipulate me?Your mindset is bad Change that. You dont need to be attractive to fuck girls. Look at some puas for example. They are ugly as shit and short, yet they get mad pussy. Why? Because they work on their game and themselves. And they dont give a fuck what other people think about them Tldr: you have no confidence. Learn to gain some. Bend the rules and go out with attractive girls by playing the numbers game. | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 02:13 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Night Out At ConcertYou are lying to them by saying just be friends. I mean you obviously want some make out and sex lol. First of all this was a bad fr because you havent done shit besides hug a few girls and got their social media.... thats why you are getting undervoted. Last but not least, you didnt even attempt to escalate to makeout or sex. | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do I keep expecting women to use and manipulate me?Why would you even care? As long as you get the sex and whatever the you wanted out of the girl. Its a win win. There tons of girls out there... just think about that. Why would you wanna get all downy over a few girls trying to "use" you? | /r/seduction | 16/04/16 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What if its impossible for a woman to be physically attracted to you? (look like your 12 years old)Op, how many girls have you approached so far? | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 03:27 AM |
| 4 | As a Asian guy how do i become more confidentSo I'm guessing that you are unconfident about your physical appearance. check this out! But remember, like most of us, we are born looking average. Don't have a mindset that's like "Oh, since look doesn't matter, i don't need to work out, i don't need to dress nice, and i don't need to groom. Because looks don't matter" No that's not what hes saying. He is saying that even though looks aren't extremely significant, you still have to work on yourself. And do it for you, not the girls, not anyone… | /r/seduction | 15/04/16 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp?Just go rsd if yu have the money. They teach mostly inner game, which wil help you more than the guys teaching outer game shit."go up to her and say..." | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Is it justifiable for RSD or other companies to charge 3,000 dollars for a bootcamp?If they guarentee a life changing skill to teach you, then yes 3000 is worth. Considering it will help you significantly, such as your social life, entertainment, happiness. And like one of the guys stated, all of the stuff they teach you, can be found online all over the internet. But the truth is, you are wasting time. To research all of the essential things to help you on women would take considerably long. And bootcamps, you can literally learn everything they know in under a week. So worth … | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Don't let fear control you. A short movie on the fear that grips most men when confronted the opportunity to meet a beautiful womanI'm surprised how so many people haven't seen that video yet. Sasha's amazing | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 11:40 PM |
| 2 | How To Start A Conversation With A Stranger When You Don't Know What To Say (And Why You SHOULD Talk To Strangers) [x-post from /r/socialskills]Nice post! | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Going out specifically to meet women or not?I assume that his teacher was only teaching him outer game, completely missing out on inner game. Such as walking with her instead of stopping her from letting her get where she needs to go and talking slower. | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Going out specifically to meet women or not?I think you need some motivation | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 03:59 AM |
| 10 | I Read This In A PUA Book - Have you guys tried this? Would you try this?That last part seems more like being a dick lol | /r/seduction | 11/04/16 03:48 AM |
| 2 | Note to self: You can pull, but don't scare the girl.I'm not sure if you heard of this before. But research shows that girls are more into guys that are unsure about whether if he likes her or not. Example: Guy tells girl that he likes her a lot Guy has vague intentions (Being mysterious) Guy tells girl that he likes her | /r/seduction | 09/04/16 04:19 AM |
| 2 | (These are long list of tactics and techniques I have written down over my months of learning pua) Tips/Advice/How-to'sThank you :) | /r/seduction | 28/03/16 07:56 PM |
| 3 | (These are long list of tactics and techniques I have written down over my months of learning pua) Tips/Advice/How-to'sThank you :) | /r/seduction | 28/03/16 07:56 PM |
| 8 | (These are long list of tactics and techniques I have written down over my months of learning pua) Tips/Advice/How-to'sLets say you pulled a stripper. And the only way she went home with you was when you said "lets come to my place to grab some pizza. But your main objective is to fuck her. If you said, lets go to my house and fuck. And if someone questioned her on what happened, she would look like a slut because the guy said " lets go fuck", which she agreed to. Now if you said "lets go grab pizza at my house" and then fuck her from there, then if her friends ask her, she would say "oh he just said lets go gra… | /r/seduction | 28/03/16 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Unable to open 5 sets aloneYea and on top of that. Unless you're extremely attractive, you would have to go in with a indirect approach so that her friends wont cock block. Also have you heard about opening with "Hey, how's it going?". Supposedly, that makes her friends think that you guy each other so that they will give you both space | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 07:55 PM |
| 1 | When a girl replies extremely lateHaha, may you please rephrase that sentence to make it not dry like the Sahara? I don't know what would be and what wouldn't. Your approach is what I am aiming for. Light banter and deep conversation. Deep conversation for her to open up. And banter to spike emotion. But at this point of the conversation, would asking her out be the best choice? Or should i keep on talking?(Trying to hook her still) | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 06:18 AM |
| 2 | When a girl replies extremely lateIn all seriousness... If you introduced yourself to a girl and asked for her number straight away. And then texted her to go out on a date. Wouldn't your chances of being rejected be way higher than if you were to talk to the girl for a bit, establish some sort of connection, and then ask out? I mean unless if that person is extremely confident and has great game that could make that 1 minute interaction amazing or is extremely good looking. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 02:37 AM |
| 0 | When a girl replies extremely lateBut aren't girls more likely to reciprocate and go on a date with you, only if you had established a deep connection and have spiked her emotions? Or would that be on the first date, and heading to the second date? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 01:58 AM |
| 2 | When a girl replies extremely lateAt the very start of the interaction, i have asked to get to know her better. But unfortunately she has transferred schools, I usually see her on campus. When i have stated "You seem cool, we should get to know each other better on campus". She replies with, "i transfered school". She hasn't replanned anything so i assume its because we barely know each other and it would be awkward to do so with only knowing so little. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | 50+ Approach, but no success...Whoops, my bad | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 01:15 AM |
| 1 | How to talk about your height if average or below without sounding insecure and letting it interrupt a cocky/confident frame?How tall are you? Try not to give tht much shit about your height because once you start to really be insecure about it. Girls you talk to will notice and question you more often. | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Lacking emotional connection?Sounds good. Yes it is true that i only approached her because she was physically attractive. But once i am able to talk to her, i attempt to get to know them better. So detective like you stated, i guess that means asking more personal questions? I did a few compliance. She responded really fast at first but then fell off. I think its because i said "omg i never met someone so mixed before. You look more white than anything else" she responded with "yea :/". After that she stopped being extreme… | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 03:59 PM |
| 8 | First night out at a club... got rejected by everyone. I feel crushed... is this normal?Yea im pretty sure thats what op is lacking in his game. Possible natural introvert and just needs a better warm up | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 03:50 PM |
| 32 | First night out at a club... got rejected by everyone. I feel crushed... is this normal?You werent being congruent with the environment. Thoughts, feelings need to be aligned. Get in a higher energy and high intensity state before entering a night club. Along the way, just say hi to random people and compliment them. Hope that helps for a warm up. Next, when u are in a night club, you want to be high energy and high intensity. If you were to walk into a night club like a chode hoping to pick up girls, than you're wrong. Walk in with low intensity and low energy, and expect to not b… | /r/seduction | 27/02/16 03:41 PM |
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