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Don't need to read any further once you said you married a dead beat mom. What did you expect?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/05/26 11:19 PM
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Not a wife. But during my younger years I dated this girl who was very disrespect to me. We had sex and saw each other often but she would always some how get mad at me and call me names. I became super successful financially, and I decided enough is enough. So I started checking her, calling her shit out and putting boundaries. She had no choice but to submit to me because I was the best option to her. But regardless before I became financially successful, I was still jacked and consistently tr…
/r/askMRP21/11/24 10:36 PM
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You're not a man if your wife makes more than you. Swallow the pill and man up. That's like saying I'm a redpilled man but my women has more muscle mass than me.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/24 08:24 PM
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After COVID. All the PUA and Red pill subs went to shit. Most comments are literally cucks and afcs responding. you can't find much geniune rp guys. Where did everyone go
/r/TheRedPill23/09/24 11:31 PM
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Nice post. Needed to hear this. Majority of online girls are indeed trash
/r/TheRedPill14/06/24 09:33 AM
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Lol you just defended my point. Thank you, come again
/r/TheRedPill22/02/24 04:39 AM
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Look at cry baby trying to defend his frail ego with emotions hahah
/r/TheRedPill22/02/24 04:38 AM
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The most successful people have an online presence. If you're a brokie just say that
/r/TheRedPill10/01/24 03:06 AM
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You're missing the point. Why would someone of status/value want to network with a broke loser.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/24 03:04 AM
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Posting on social media takes less than 1 hour. So i don't think your point is valid. I cold approach, drop Instagram to baddies, they see my lifestyle, and then easy pulls. I meet high value dudes, show them my Instagram, now i have a strong network. Where as you meet someone in real life without a good social media. You gotta do the work to show that you're high value. Waste of time
/r/TheRedPill10/01/24 01:09 AM
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Lol the entire redpill is so bad at keeping up with the technological revolution its actually terrifying. Social media is one of the largest and most efficient ways to network with high value men and women. Where else in the world would you be able to talk to hb10 and millionaires across the globe? If you aren't doing well with social media, then you are probably doing one or more things wrong. You're life is so boring and uninteresting that you have nothing to show off and talk about. You're to…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/24 12:43 AM
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I relate to you on a personal level. You dont know what you lost until shes truly gone. I wish i could've turned back time and change things but it seems like shes gone emotionally. What led to my demise is always wanting more and more women. It led to me being a fucking whore addict that would stare and approach every chance i get. Even on dates with her. So this destroyed our relationship
/r/TheRedPill02/01/24 12:42 AM
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It's not wrong to defend someone who has helped you in areas of life. You're defending the ideology moreso than the person. The other point of my post is more chodes in this sub getting upvoted for invalid points.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 11:56 AM
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Honestly his comment is a prime example of what I'm talking about. Dude got 3 upvoted for saying bs.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 11:53 AM
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This post is fucking gold bro! Thank you so much for sharing. All the mass joins of recently modern feminist and simps really ruined seddit. This should be at the top with hundred of upvote right now.
/r/seduction16/05/22 10:36 AM
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You're right. But those cuckoldry fetish and men wanting to be degraded and watch their wives being fucked are called outliers. Most of time when people say all or just using a gender to specify. We mean most, 99%. Surprisingly women who are more intelligent, aka higher IQ or have more educational success. They are less likely to be married or courted.
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:25 AM
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The term high value is universal across everyone. Also know as sexual market value. For men it's "high salary, social proof, good looking" For women it's "submissive and good looking"
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:00 AM
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All the information you need is on this YouTube channel. He is undoubtedly one of the best PUA. RSD the largest pick up community unfortunately stopped putting out content due to social back lash. I've learned a lot from this guy. https://youtube.com/channel/UCanxC-SZpsNCUYO8LRxKPDw
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:33 PM
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I'm a 5'4 Asian and PUA works wonders for me. You guys just haven't been trying hard enough
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:52 PM
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Can vouch for you. The members of this forum has gone down. It's been degraded by the overall corruption of leftist and mainstream media advice. Most legit and helpful posts are downvotes because it doesn't "fit the narrative".
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:51 PM
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A member who has been here since 2015. I can without a doubt say that this sub is plauged by simps and feminist. There are very small minority who actually does game and wanna suceed. It's not what it use to be. A Pua forum. Now it's more of a mainstream media self help Group. Sad to see
/r/seduction08/02/22 07:48 PM
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The advice in this sub Reddit has gone to shit. It's a bunch of mainstream media advice. Stick with PUA content not "from a girls" advice. You need to control your environment. You had the ability to lead the girl but instead you walked away. Next time bring her with you. She was with the other guy because you didn't build enough value.
/r/seduction02/01/22 06:05 AM
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gay jokes. Sounds like you've been taking it up the ass for some time now. Your daily internet times up, wife's gonna be home after being run through by a train.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 09:31 PM
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Thanks for reaffirming my assumption. Obese whale internet jockey aren't welcomed here. Please go back lurking on Reddit, what a shitty job
/r/askMRP01/01/22 09:26 PM
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If anything your posts reeks fat turd with a declining marriage.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 09:23 PM
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I'd be ashamed to have 100k points as a married dad. Nothing going on in your life other than posting on Reddit.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 09:21 PM
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Married with kids isn't a measurement of anything. Any cuck putting in a bit of work could get married with kids. It's the quality of marriage and the understanding that matters. You're probably being fucked right now and have no clue of redpill. If you haven't realized by now, all successful happy marriages involves the many traits/actions suggested in redpill.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 09:08 PM
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In her frame by punishing her indifferently and having her emotions mess up mines? The other mitigation is take away attention and affection so she feels the need to work for me more. Thanks for your comment, but can you explain your response further?
/r/askMRP01/01/22 09:05 PM
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100k points, all your top posts are random shit posts. internet geek jocky trying to tell me how social dynamics works haha. check my top posts and comment, when you're giving value back to the men community then come back with a better reply.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 08:47 PM
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Alpha Male Strategies makes the girls lick his ass and suck him off as a punishment for leaving and coming back. So no I don't understand your point. AMS is a reputable redpiller
/r/askMRP01/01/22 04:10 PM
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He's making general assumptions based off my posts. Just correcting it. Edit: I don't know the answer, no one has replied with a logical and rp reason as to how my method is wrong. Asides from Horn dabbling into why it could be wrong.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:30 PM
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Operant conditioning, negative reinforcement. Massages are exhausting due to the amount of pressure required. She's asked to do it weekly, and so when she feeling the exhaustion. Then she understands not to throw tantrums again. Can you explain how you perceive the way Im approaching this is wrong?
/r/askMRP01/01/22 07:49 AM
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Psychology 101, also called operant conditioning. https://explorable.com/operant-conditioning It applies to ALL living things. But we want to specifically apply it to women. Check this out. Dude is reputable https://youtu.be/QurYJ5XSz4g
/r/askMRP01/01/22 07:31 AM
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A fucking massage. An exhausting one.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 07:05 AM
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Lol she can't do girls night out, wear/dress provocatively, or act masculine. It's not that she can't, but if she does. To the streets she goes. Controlling is when you force someone with no other options. By me giving her a choice, it's no longer forcing.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 07:03 AM
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I can see why you ask that question. Half these cucks are giving bad advice. I've been in the red pill and pick up scene for nearly half decade now. Diving into other areas to get a sense of balance Is great for self improvement.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 07:00 AM
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She's fine with massaging me. It's just that doing it daily could be exhausting. I understand where you're coming from. But it's more about keeping her in check. Because at one point, all women will test and give shit to you. It's how you handle it. You must always keep a women in line one way or another.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 06:59 AM
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There really is no correct way. It's what works for you and her. Assuming you're socially calibrated. Been doing the massage punishment to keep her in line for a year now. Each time I do it, she's been acting better. If you watch AMS strategies. He tells girls to eat his ass or suck him off daily as a punishment. And he's fucked hundreds of girls. He's currently dating 3 girls atm.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 06:55 AM
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I'll spank that ass if you don't keep urself in check
/r/askMRP01/01/22 06:51 AM
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Looks like you don't have a full understand of social dynamics. Women act up in a relationship when there is too much certainty. By showering her with gifts and attention, I'm giving her the certainty. Therefore she feels the need to not be as careful with her actions as opposed to someone who would walk instantly. That's why women tend to act better in the beginning of an relationship rather than later. Because the certainty is not yet fully established. You will often hear how men marry women …
/r/askMRP01/01/22 06:45 AM
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I showered her with gift and attention this holiday to show my appreciation for bringing value to my life. For example, she cooked lunch and dinner everyday this year as just an LTR. She does wanna fuck me multiple times a week. To point where I turn her down a few times because it's too much sex for me. But massaging because I get really tense from working out.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:44 AM
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Trolls are generally low value men. The act of trolling is a feminine behavior. Better stick to the side bar
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:28 AM
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Lol she wants to fuck me every day. To the point where I reject her advances few times a week. Got any more solid advice?
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:27 AM
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1 year. Surprisingly massages keeps her in check. Massages because I'm always tense from working out
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:04 AM
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Thing is I always tell her she can make her own decisions to not massage me. But that comes with consequences
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:03 AM
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It's sad but reality is harsh. Men are loved conditionally. Maybe our parents give unconditional love but that's it. Good brother, keep at it and watch everything fall in place
/r/askMRP01/01/22 02:00 AM
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Explain. Every women needs to be trained to become a good wife. There are no unicorns
/r/askMRP01/01/22 01:56 AM
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You are fat as fuck and a disgrace to men if you continue with this life style. There is no reason to be fat in the 21st century unless you're some LGBT Fat Shaming activist. She doesn't want to fuck because you physically look unappealing. Get your health in shape and watch her want you more.
/r/askMRP01/01/22 01:45 AM
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This sub reddit has turn into a hippie nesting bunch of fags. Her history absolutely matter in terms of long term relationship. Anyone who say it doesn't, is 1 aren't well versed with psychology, and 2. think women and men operate on the same playing field.
/r/seduction05/11/21 10:38 PM
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You've been a virgin for 40 fucking years and you're doubting our advice? Go out and approach. Its normal to socialize with strangers outside. London, New york, Vegas, etc. You're a virgin cause you're too pussy to approach and go out your comfort zone Edit, not 40 but either way you're in mid 20s.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:14 PM
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That's a hella good response. Definitely using it next time. But in my case would you say I lost frame? And be won?
/r/seduction01/10/21 12:39 PM
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Lol this is definitely not unrealistic. Checking every single thing off? Debatable. There is so much information on here and you decide to shit on a post giving value to the community? Sounds like you're toxic and pessimistic, maybe once you start checking off the list you'll start feeling optimistic. > I’ve won 2 natural shows on top of 8 years of competitive powerlifting and Olympic lifting while competing in competitive contact sports through my late teens all the way to my late 20s. Good job…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/21 11:19 PM
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5 foot away is like 3 steps.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:19 AM
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5 feet away implies it was said immediately. Judging by her facial expression, she was bothered. There's a clear difference between that and a shit test. This was straight up attempted sexual assault.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:18 AM
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i swear half of these dudes are pacifist. If you're all about peace, go become a monk. Not trper
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:16 AM
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I like how you broke down the scenarios and interaction. I wouldn't have done so if she she didn't look so bothered and frozen. Ass grab (sexual assault) is beyond battery and stealing. A step above that is rape, which you are legally allowed to kill for that reason alone. Secondly, mate guarding deals with everything besides physicality to an individual of which you care for. Verbal shit tests, etc. So no your definition doesn't apply to this senario
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:15 AM
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Attempt, burglary, rape, murder are all charges even if its an attempt. Does not matter if it took place or not. If someone attempted to grab your mothers ass without consent and you let it go. You're a bitch. To put it nicely. In this scenario it would be attempt sexual assault. Just a step above that is rape. You are legally allowed to kill someone for in the act of performing rape.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 04:06 AM
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Though he was talking softly and innocently when I was grabbing him and just bitching at him aggressively. He denied everything. I settled down and I walked away. Thats when he decided to yell back
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:12 AM
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I pushed him away when he got too close to comfort. Right after pushing him away my girl told me that I pushed him away at the right time before his hand almost slid down her ass. Yes I went after him because that is sexual assault or at least attempt
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:03 AM
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I had my thumb on his windpipe, to be specific. I have some background in boxing. In a chaotic environment where its hard to hear people and the energy is generally very high. I thought it would have been better to be higher energy and intensity than everyone/thing around me to settle the situation
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:02 AM
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The thing is that I'm already shredded. I have been working out for 5 years. I am short, 5'4. But I dont know what else it would have been?
/r/askTRP14/06/21 12:56 AM
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there is no rules in fighting
/r/askTRP13/06/21 11:44 PM
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It was a concert with my favorite DJ
/r/askTRP13/06/21 10:13 PM
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You'll probably learn one or two sticking point. But you need to realize most naturals don't know why they're doing what they're doing. That's why they are called Naturals. The gist is that you wont learn much from him. Highly unlikely to emulate your dad by listening to his perspective of getting woman unless you're good at game and know how to translate his words
/r/seduction12/05/20 11:14 PM
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thanks, more exposure and social calibration.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:37 PM
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AMS talks about this. As im aware, hes probably one of the more experienced redpill coaches
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:27 PM
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Thanks bro, this pretty much clarifies the entire situation
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:33 AM
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Hmm, shit test aren't an issue. The problem is what to say if she's saying that out of insecurities
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:27 AM
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I already do 2 times a week. She wants to see my at least 5 times a week. She said im confusing because im not giving her attention on a daily basis
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:19 AM
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Agreed
/r/seduction18/03/20 06:05 PM
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These are not direct ways to get better results with women. Have you seen the homeless guy that picks up women? Yea... These are things to become the better you. But not better with woman. Correlation is not causation. Just because you have your life together does not mean you will get better with woman. Getting better with woman is an entirely different subject that is sometimes learned solo. You learn to get better with woman by practicing picking up woman. You learn to get better with money b…
/r/seduction18/03/20 06:04 PM
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Tough one. There are some girls who break rules for that one guy. You fuck a girl by communicating through emotions, not logic. Still go for it. The worse outcome is you get told hard "no" in which case back off.
/r/seduction13/03/20 07:01 AM
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Men communicate through logic, women communicate through emotions. You can never convince a women to bed with logic. Doesn't work that way. In order to learn Pick up well, you need to know how women work. This is through experience and reading materials. Matter fact, some girls do the same. Learning to feel the vibe of an interaction is greatly important. Oversimplified, but have you ever seen two toddlers get along? They dont even speak proper english. Its through smiles, giggles, and intention…
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:41 PM
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A healthy normal man who exercises have high testosterone in his prime. Does that mean all girls want to rape him? No, correlation is not causation
/r/seduction10/03/20 03:31 PM
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Approach should be a way of life for anyone learning social skills/seduction. Would you give a big applause to a toddler drinking water? You wouldn't. It makes no coherent sense to over-blow something that should already be normal. Because mainstream has so much self-help content its like entertainment for people now. Pulls, more intermediate topics have been posted, but rarely is it they ever up-voted. There is too much applause for something that should be the norm. So I dont see your point.
/r/seduction06/03/20 10:57 PM
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This sounds very familiar to julians program videos
/r/seduction27/02/20 05:03 AM
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This is so right and wrong on many levels. Firstly, cold approach is no gimmick or failed concept to get better with women. Cold approach works when done right. This means you must still have a fundamental of social calibration. You must understand how to adapt to your environment in a smart way. The only reason I wont see cold approach working is if you go at it blindly hoping approaching ALONE will work. There's no reason why cold approach along with social calibration will not work.
/r/seduction10/02/20 09:55 PM
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You're right. Dont ever tell a girl you straight up like her. That ruins your agenda most times. That is unless she's been chasing you or has high attraction towards you DESECRATIONSMILE4 is obviously the fish. Based off her response that is one solid reason you should never take advice directly from women. Also never try to obviously impress women.
/r/seduction05/02/20 06:30 AM
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Some of these user advices are cancerous. You provide girl with challenges by disqualifying her. "Beauty is common but what else do you have going on besides looks"? You challenge by congruently, in a conversation. Throw in hoops for her to jump through. "Usually my type is blue eyes blond hair, but I like your personality". Obviously these lines/tools should be used with social calibration. Never spam it. Using it sparingly is the trick
/r/seduction05/02/20 06:15 AM
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Agreed. Push/Pull is a tactic used to make the girl more engaging and invested. If she is already invested and you just keep pounding her with lines and tools thats used for a fresh cold approach. Eventually you will just kill the set. She realizes that you aren't being authentic and have zero social calibration.
/r/seduction04/02/20 07:20 PM
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You fucked up by not fucking! Fuck and make decisions later. You can f close and keep her around. Eventually if you see her enough she will bring up the relationship part. Give her time, persue other girls and just realize that you messed up this set
/r/seduction04/02/20 06:23 PM
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Try younger women, bet you will feel more satisfied with results. As women age, their SMV drop. Opposite goes for men. I dont seen any reason/benefits for dating women your age. Good start though. Challenge yourself. It's fun and rewarding
/r/seduction25/01/20 07:14 PM
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Girls dont like been seen as the "slut". Doing it in private saves face.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:52 PM
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AS a female... This bullshit again ahahah. Just because you are a single female, does not mean you represent the entire general population of women. Those are your opinions and means shit when comes to learning seduction. Ask a fisherman how to fish, not the fish
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:51 PM
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Those aren't assumptions, its fact. It's clear OP is getting kisses, not sex. Older women has lower SMV, that is a true statement.
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:47 PM
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Hmm, 48 dating same age group. Not so smart on your hand for jumping back into a relationship so quick. If you want a challenge, date younger ladies and learn to be a pimp. Yes you haven't gotten new pussy for many years. Congratulate you for taking action and putting yourself out there. But... A kiss doesn't mean shit, nor should that be your goal. Yes, connecting and vibing with women is a great thing. But you should also be looking for sex... Not kisses, that's middle school shit. Old dogs ca…
/r/seduction25/01/20 06:44 PM
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Julian is the god
/r/seduction24/01/20 11:38 PM
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Its a fake number app. It's used for when you want to keep your real number private. Download it on Google store or Apple store. My real number is 123-456-7890 With google voice i can change it so that i can call and text using 456-789-1234 That way when you text her. She wont she your previous msg
/r/seduction22/01/20 06:04 AM
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Here, psychology tip. Open up about yourself, show vulnerability but not weakness. Share a little personal story about yourself and she will most likely reciprocate. This lets her know you guys are beyond small talk and want to talk about little something more. OR Make statements that baits her. Example "back in my days, i use to go swimming with friends on a sunday night at 3am while it was 50 degrees out. Our parents thought we were crazy, but I thought of it as breaking my fears and being spo…
/r/seduction22/01/20 05:58 AM
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If you fucked and you're asking her out. A drink means shit. Just do it. If anything get her to invest and frame flip. "Only if you get me one".
/r/seduction22/01/20 05:52 AM
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Lol, here again. 1 year ago is a long time. Anything could have happen to her. While you are busy gaming other girls. If you happen to see her again, approach with familiarity but keep it mysterious. If your frame is strong enough, she will fall for it. Download Google Voice and give her that number.
/r/seduction22/01/20 05:50 AM
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"and i kind of want to call people up and see if theyd let me try stuff to become more confident." You're lacking social Dynamics. Best advice I can give you is go out more with friends and enjoy socializing because from what I'm reading it seems like you're missing a whole lot on social calibration.
/r/seduction21/01/20 04:34 PM
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Take that negativity as motivation to push you foward. Enjoy the process, results are fun too. But the journey is what matters. Think of this as your first step. You will suck, fail, and mourn over rejections. Embrace and accept it. It happens to everyone. Read up on pua material as you progress! Good luck
/r/seduction21/01/20 04:29 PM
1

anyone who opposes the game of todd should be exterminated.
/r/seduction18/01/20 09:36 PM
4

So glad to see real seduction content being posted on this sub
/r/seduction18/01/20 12:54 AM
1

Was he extreme for posting the picture of hands around neck. Yes, but we all know the intent wasn't to sexually assault the girl. If you actually watch the infield, the girl was into him. Otherwise we would have seen charges by the supposed victim. Either way, medias portrayal of this topic is less than positive. Feminists have gone an extra mile to make the situation worse
/r/seduction15/01/20 12:32 AM
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To each of their own. I appreciate your breakdown of my post. But the mainstream media topic still holds. Have you heard of the "julian blanc scandal". Matter fact look at how society perceives seduction/PUA. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pickup_artist ​ A majority of topics in seduction/PUA are related to something negative.
/r/seduction15/01/20 12:13 AM
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Agree. But AMS is more about keeping women after meeting them. So I would follow AMS in combination with a Pick up artist.
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:45 PM
1

Best quote I've heard
/r/seduction14/01/20 11:05 PM
2

sadly these people dont think you can create your own reality. It always has to be stuck on some past...
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:58 PM
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If you want advice from women, there's a requirement. You need someone experienced to interpret the women perspective. Most people on this thread aren't going to do that.
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:45 PM
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u/Hardlander Here's another fine example of someone clueless about seduction and dating. Hardlander rarely knows about the perspective of women and men. Biologically we are wired differently, which affects the way we think. This is why most the time men shouldn't listen to women advice on seduction. We are not talking about relationship. That is an entirely different subject. ​ Go ask your grandma how to survive a jungle against predators. It is not hardwired in women to fight for survival . Yes…
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:30 PM
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agree. But recently there has been an increasing amounts of these responses especially from people who just post random bs.
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:24 PM
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General talk at best. You tell your parents, friends, teacher about learning dating/seduction. You will be shamed. That's almost a certain, maybe not 100% of the time. But it has been done. Now think of multiplying the audiences and spreading the idea of PUA, Seduction, Dating advice knowledge.
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:22 PM
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There must be more new moderators, carefully selected
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:21 PM
5

We both seem to have different interpretations of stoicism. Stoicism in my sense is used when shit is being thrown your way. Always being stoic is not health, i agree.
/r/seduction14/01/20 10:20 PM
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In your defense, if a newbie asks 'is game legit' and another person does the same. Then he must be plagiarizing. Still have no idea what tangent you are on about. Either way you should probably change your RAS focus to something more purposeful. Good luck
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:37 PM
1

Never heard of groping women as a tactic. Most of the time be yourself is used entirely incorrect. so I believe it is safe to exempt that from useful advice
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:32 PM
1

Haha I was skimping over your post. Thanks for catching it
/r/seduction14/01/20 09:27 PM
2

No one person has a solitary idea. This is from my view and experience with responses in this sub.
/r/seduction14/01/20 08:52 PM
2

I agree but you can develop yourself into a better version, more refined in areas of life you were naive about.
/r/seduction14/01/20 08:35 PM
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Can agree. It's a fact that most women give horrible dating advice. This has been said over and over again in the history of pua. Though there has been a handful of females giving good advice such as kezia noble
/r/seduction14/01/20 08:30 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/el43fq/comment/fdfho8n Here you go!
/r/seduction14/01/20 07:54 PM
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Women make a lot of emotional decisions.
/r/seduction14/01/20 05:13 PM
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Nope all are the same. Because it's part of who you are. In terms of where you want to lead it, you verbally define it.
/r/seduction10/01/20 05:51 AM
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Second dates occurs only after a great first date. It's clear that you are having trouble keeping the date man to women. Since we have no feedback about what went on with your dates. I can safely concur that the issue is kino and charisma. It's a simple fix in terms of just steering the conversation to be more sexual or potential to lead to emotional conversations rather than platonic. ​ Hence "you'd be better off as a friend". You showed the women that you don't have a dick. Try learning KINO a…
/r/seduction10/01/20 04:54 AM
2

Ask him to hang at a bar/club and make an excuse to head back to your place or his. Get him up and do your thang. Or if you're feeling confident, be direct
/r/seduction08/01/20 01:53 AM
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Exactly my point. People like him have zero empathy/sympathy, therefore should not give out self-help/dating advice. Being yourself is the worse advice anyone could give to someone struggling having conversations
/r/seduction07/01/20 07:06 PM
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She probably wanted to talk to you. Just keep her on your radar and occasionally say hi or drop comments. There were lots of other machines but she for some reason asked you
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:36 AM
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That's means she is really interested or she just has a blabber mouth. Its called investment. Girls invest in people they see value in. Whether its looks, connections, etc. Either way you are in charge of leading the conversation and how the interaction goes. Hope you tried pulling or at least kiss
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:33 AM
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This is bullshit advice. People like you should not comment because it makes newbies like him worse than better. Please gtfo, doors ->
/r/seduction07/01/20 02:23 AM
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"i admire your confidence" hints, appreciate you approaching me. But ultimately I see you below me in the SMV, I see you more of a friend than a potential mate.
/r/seduction20/11/19 01:07 AM
1

Jesus fuck this is the type of shit that gets hundreds of upvotes by horny PUA Content nerds on seduction forums. Lmao what a joke. Nice story to tell
/r/seduction01/10/19 05:26 PM
1

Thought does he steal attention from you unknowingly?
/r/seduction30/09/19 03:52 AM
1

added me to her close friends
/r/seduction25/09/19 11:16 PM
0

It was through close friends list
/r/seduction25/09/19 02:14 PM
1

True, but at times kissing and then pulling back. Builds even more sexual tension if she decides to chase
/r/seduction22/09/19 01:23 PM
1

I need pills
/r/seduction22/09/19 01:23 PM
2

Depends on college size... Do not cold approach with direct or constantly doing so in a small school. You will get fucked over. Practice social circle game and apply your methods there. Cold approach is nice for college bars and parties though. For some reason college girls are wired different. The more social proof you have, the better your results.
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:29 AM
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Maybe your standards are too high... Unfortunate but sad truth. Possible conclusion of the thousands. But guys pump and dumb girls below them. Keep the girls that are of same smv or higher
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:27 AM
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Read the side bar and use google search. Seriously you will get better answers. This question has been asked millions of times.
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:24 AM
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So many variables come into play. Is the bar big or small? How's the volume? What type of college are we talking about. Either way general gist is to be a social butterfly to make things easier for you. Talk and get to know the bouncer, bartender, hosts, anyone who is big there. This gives you leverage when approaching. You won't be that weird guys sitting alone and hitting on girls constantly. Your main focus is to enjoy yourself. If it's a small college, try avoiding super direct as it might r…
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:17 AM
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Last quote rephrased!
/r/seduction14/09/19 08:43 AM
1

thanks man!
/r/seduction04/09/19 07:30 PM
3

Solid, tho how about kissing?
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:09 AM
1

Possibly, anything can happen. Literally anything! Went chode mode with a girl i met 3 years ago. And then pulled another few years later. Take it slow because it's in school. Dont ruin your reputation
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:59 AM
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Very surprised people still watch Kezia Noble
/r/seduction24/08/19 01:55 AM
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Even though some people finds this post scripted, the mindset and belief system should still stand true. Short asian guys can't get xxx chick was another self-limiting belief a while ago.
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:31 AM
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"less normal and serious" possibly states there is a mental blockage in his normal interactions with women. Similar to how being serious can often correlate to having anxiety causing the seriousness in ones interaction. Although OP lacks information about the issue, there is no way in hell you're going to get laid using logic. Women are lead by emotions and validation. In this case, being serious usually means they lack the knowledge to push further into the interaction or is afraid of the uncer…
/r/seduction24/07/19 09:00 PM
0

This is stupid advice to "be more light-hearted and sexual"
/r/seduction24/07/19 08:10 PM
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You have to establish premise, so what that means is instead of telling her "you like her or you're interested in sex". You instead give compliments, teases, and "push/pull" in ways that are sexualized. So for example replace cute and beautiful with hot or sexy. That way you set the tone of the interaction as men and women. You still are required to perform these in a calibrated way. That requires more approaching and investment in altering your ways of game/approach. ​ High energy attracts, tha…
/r/seduction24/07/19 07:34 PM
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This is generic advice from social media about self-improvement and definitely shouldn't be implemented unless under extreme circumstances. Getting rid of negativity in your life is like telling someone to block a natural vibration. The only time this type of advice should be followed is if the person is negative MOST of the time and is impacting you heavily. Everyone at some point will be negative whether it is their fault or not. If you cut off low vibrational energy, you would basically be cu…
/r/seduction02/07/19 12:34 AM
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Sum up some more for us
/r/seduction15/06/19 05:46 PM
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I agree. Many new guys that have come into game eventually falls in love with that ONE girl. Usually because it's comfortable and gives them a sense of accomplishment. "I've already made it, lets take a rest" and from then on, they completely halt self-improvement. This is a very important point to hit on because it can become progressively worse if you don't catch yourself
/r/seduction21/05/19 11:12 PM
1

Happens all the time. Move on with it, next time just approach to meet her. Action defeats overthinking
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:01 AM
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Sounds like you are very indecisive. Your primal instincts wants her, but your logic says no? I'd say just go for it but you had already blown yourself off. It's just a single girl, I'd rather put the energy into meeting new girls
/r/seduction15/05/19 11:59 PM
1

Read the sidebar of this sub reddit
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:39 PM
1

Hes awesome
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:09 AM
1

Sidebar is all you need tbh
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:08 AM
2

Definitely matters. But to an extent. Id say if you have a solid 4.5 and above and you know how to work it. Then you're good. Need endurance and be able to go longer than 5 minutes
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:07 AM
1

Haha as if only it was that easy! I like your approach on this though
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:03 AM
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Said no one ever... I've done well over a few hundred approaches and banged a few girls during the journey. Im here NOT in jail to tell my story and give inspiration! Perhaps you should take a couple advice hahah.
/r/seduction14/05/19 11:01 AM
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Like how you do it at events or library
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:46 AM
1

Yup
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:32 AM
1

Its fun, give it a go haha
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:28 AM
1

From what i heard on this PUA youtuber, Latin america really is one of the least racist place.
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:26 AM
3

10 women isnt even remotely enough to produce any sort of analytical statistics. Approach more often and come back with results my dude
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:20 AM
3

Indians are chinese's bestfriend. Same stereotype my guy
/r/seduction14/05/19 05:02 AM
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Lol that is the reality of things. 10 to 20 is too high. Think of it as population and approaches. You may get 10 or 20 percent in terms of number closes. But out of those 10 or 20 only half will respond. And out of the half that responds. Only half will commit to doing something. Sounds crazy but 1% is amazing. 1% of 100000 is 1000. Fucking 1000 women is crazy enough. Imagine 10%. Not possible unless you pay up
/r/seduction14/05/19 04:56 AM
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Thanks for the read!
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:03 AM
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Yup, many redditors here deem it cultish. But there is so much value to attain from them that it's hard to avoid it all together.
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:03 AM
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If you're in school, it makes meeting women a lot easier. I met a majority of the women in center city downtown. Clubs mostly, that's night game. During day time, I like walking around popular crowded places. For example, Manhatten, New York. I've seen many approachable women on my walks down there. Tinder and online game helps. ​ Game is seen as part of life. It's not something you switch on and off. But try not to cold approach on your own campus. Dont shit where you eat
/r/seduction14/05/19 12:00 AM
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Thanks for the input!
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:59 PM
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That''s typically true about Asians. They are cold, emotionless at times. Though it's mostly how you were raised. Thanks, I'll add it to the post
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:52 PM
1

Damn bro, just another story to prove that Asians can pull stunners!
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:49 PM
3

Thanks for the input
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:47 PM
1

Thanks for the read!
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:46 PM
1

Thanks for the read!
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:45 PM
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Ditto. I'm glad you took the time to read this!
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:45 PM
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I dont know why you guys are so focused on that. But i guess its a matter of what stage you are in self-development. You shouldn't be putting energy into areas out of your control! It's useless and a waste of energy. Rather, put more emphasis on what you can manipulate and change. Which is yourself
/r/seduction13/05/19 11:42 PM
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Is your attire fitting and stylish? How is your hygiene? Does your haircut match your head shape and face? Groomed? Are you physically in shape? Are you socially calibrated? Were you staring creepily? How were you coming off? Are you generally very social and easy to make friends with strangers? ​ All of this comes into play. Start getting rejected and learn from it. You're probably not taking enough action. Action defeats overthinking. Everyone can make it bro.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:38 PM
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All limiting beliefs bro. Follow some of my advice and keep going out. Expect to pull 1% of the girls you talk to
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:37 PM
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Thanks! Yup, some people here are misinterpreting the message. This post is towards everyone that is different and have limiting beliefs. Not just asians
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:29 PM
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Lmao naww bro. It's just preference. You dont need every single girl to like you.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:26 PM
3

Started reading material at 15. Had conflicts and doubts of this working. I went to many free RSD seminars and honestly with a room full of players, it has done nothing but push to start sarging. I'm 19 now.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:21 PM
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Bro i see my black friends killing it all the time. I can't speak on your behalf. But it should all generally be the same if you have limiting beliefs. Though there are lots of racists, I see many girls that are into African Americans.
/r/seduction13/05/19 09:19 PM
2

Haha some people just needs a tough pep talk. Great post
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:33 PM
5

On it
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:27 PM
4

You're right. But many people lacking social skills wouldn't even know where to start. Especially if you're in areas where all odds are against you. Game comes a long way. Building a solid foundation to help with "seduction". People that live in places where Asian men are generally looked down upon in the dating scene wouldn't be able to come up with the idea that there are girls out there into Asians.
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:18 PM
1

Even I need this from time to time
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:16 PM
2

hahah hell yea
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:15 PM

Don't think you're able to comprehend this post lol. This post is to help guys that thinks everything is against them. The media, society, and so on. I'm not sure what ethnicity you are. But if you fit with the majority of Asians, you would resonate. I've had friends sending me the statistics for Asian mens desirability in the dating scene. That would definitely kill the slightest hint of "you can do it". And bitch you are not right, lol
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:11 PM
1

Agreed!
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:10 PM
1

UNITED STATES, east coast big city! The part where women gives you the most shit. You're right, countries definitely affect the pull %
/r/seduction13/05/19 08:08 PM
1

If that's the case, become a pornstar..
/r/seduction09/05/19 04:14 PM
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Everyone questioning why this is so contradicting and/or doesn't work when they have tried. Needs to realize that every girl is not the same. Every guy is not the same. There could be millions of reasons why OP worked with using that tactic, but when you tried it didn't work. ​ The girl could have been looking at your signals wrong or you could have came off a little too much on the opposite end. She could have been a little smarter or one of those hot girls with a low ego. Game and its tactics …
/r/seduction13/03/19 04:46 AM
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This is what we're all looking for! Nice post! I think this pretty much destroys the height debate, "Short guys cant get tall hot women". Throughout this journey, what kind of pua content did you watch?
/r/seduction15/10/18 11:57 PM
1

the second you say 'Hi', you won
/r/seduction22/09/18 06:23 AM
1

you're thinking too much about this bro. Just text her something cool/funny, keep it short and simple. Save it for when you fuck friday night. You wanna be a little mysterious. It wont be fun if you keep texting the throughout the day. Then again, every girl is different. Just keep it simple
/r/seduction06/09/18 04:03 AM
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This one's all yours ;)!!! Just be sure to text her an hour or two before the meet up for confirmation that the dates still on. She explicitly states she doesn't have a bed time. That's already a good sign
/r/seduction06/09/18 02:51 AM
2

Nice job bro! I'm glad that you didn't give up after so many years and continued hitting it!
/r/seduction04/06/18 03:03 AM
2

lol this is confrontational, especially to us teenagers with high ass egos. Be ready in case he tries something
/r/seduction29/05/18 10:53 PM
1

Playful, ehh there isnt really a how to method. You need experience it genuinely. Best way i found to do this is to go out and chill with naturally charismatic playful friends. Thats the exact same playfulness you want with a girl, but with just a little female to male interaction. Humans dont remember much of what happened logically. We usually remember how that person made us feel, its the feelings you give them.
/r/seduction04/03/18 05:49 PM
2

Regular conversation like "wyd" are very blunt and habitual. What you want to be is the unusual. The one that spikes their emotions and make their day. You have to figure out your intentions too obviously. What do you want from them? I suggest that you flirt and make it "playful". Thats probably the easiest way to get a phone number and the quickest way to see if shes interested. If shes not interested, she will most likely not be receptive to you flirting. The surface reason why girls give fake…
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:59 PM
1

I hope you arent the one to give a kiss and pull your dick right out lmao. Learn how to touch the girl to turn her on
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:45 PM
3

Without knowing anything about the approach, its hard to tell. Tell us some info so we can give you a direct answer
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:37 PM
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Yea, high points are usually the easiest to do nearly anything. Keep it playful. If you're getting fake numbers keep on trying until you get real ones. Learn from your mistakes and shorten your learning curve. Theres no easy method to this, just dedication and hard work.
/r/seduction04/03/18 04:33 PM
2

I ask close friends for a reality check. Realest and easiest way to know whats wrong with you. Assuming you guy arent in the same boat.
/r/seduction03/03/18 12:17 AM
1

Yea, these tricks and techniques aren't ment to work 100% of the time. Even 5% of the time is still considered a high percentage because you're not meant to be attracted to every single women. 5% of the 125 million women is around 6 million. Thats a shit tons of chances if you ask me. I'd be happy if it works at all. . That still a large proportion of people.
/r/seduction19/01/18 10:33 PM
1

Id still like to hear your feedback with Todd in replacement to Mystery and Owen. Not just your analysis of each pick up instructor... CasanovaJester
/r/seduction19/01/18 10:22 PM
1

Lol, okay chill bro. Just please pull the dicks outta your ass. You're taking this too seriously. Like seriously...
/r/seduction19/01/18 07:05 PM
3

Lets use good old Todd Valentines for example. When his rep wasnt fucked over by RSD. There were a variety of videos about physical escalation and outer game.
/r/seduction19/01/18 06:16 PM
1

Not even kidding, this is damn hilarious. You're arguing with someone a lot younger than you are. Work must've taken a toll on you. Take a rest old guy. I find this as hilarious as you do.
/r/seduction19/01/18 06:11 PM
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I agree, but if they have half a brain. Then they can figure out that THIS is a long term process. Which is probably most of the people who are very interest in getting girls or having trouble with women.
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:53 PM
1

Lets say beginner questions are those having trouble with confidence, talking to girls, awkwardness when around girl, and such. Then intermediate is where there are different levels of confidence. Sure the newbie could have gone out and pretended to be confident to get a kiss. But he soon realizes that pretending to be confident only lasts for so long if he doesnt keep trying. Because sooner or later, that "confidence" will wear off. That is until you learn to be confidence as a whole. Not just …
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:46 PM
1

Jester, not sure when you started gaming. But many people (Owen Cook, Mystery) started with just techniques and "outergame". Owen became amazing at pick-up because he also used inner game when he figured out that all outer game wont do it. I dont use it as much, but its definitely useful in situation where I've already figured out the girl.
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:28 PM
2

Yea, fucked your mom back in the days. I should've listened and left the condom on.
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:21 PM
1

Lol, I guess???? I'm beating a dead horse. Its best that I stop here, until you can learn to read exceptionally better. Knucklehead... Not to worry, I'll work on my grammar. Least I can do is be open minded, not arrogant like some people.
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:03 PM
1

You still seem to be very dumbfounded by the main purpose of this post. This is literally elementry school comprehension. Sub reddit stated, "advance/intermiddiate post are to be made here.". This points to all other beginner and personal related questions to be made in "AskSeddit". Perhaps reconsider taking an 8th grade english class again... if you haven't already. And we'll discuss why this post was made in the first place
/r/seduction19/01/18 04:41 PM
1

Your logic seem to be flawed in this area. Just because someone is experience doesn't mean they dont have value to give or questions to ask. Entirely irrelevant to what I'm attempting to insinuate. But since your name is Stringdaddy does that meant you're a Daddy of strings? Yea i dont get it either. Point is, more than not, repeated questions that were answered thousands of times are being posted here. And this isnt the sub reddit it should belong in. It pushes down others with better more expe…
/r/seduction19/01/18 04:05 PM
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Most forums now a days pretty dead unless you pay to get into one of those rsd ones. I can easily find advanced questions being asked/answered in RSD special telegram group chat. But thats not the point. And yea i understand what you're getting at. Though the mods arent doing jack to moderate postd
/r/seduction19/01/18 12:39 PM
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Im not talking about me specifically. Im referring to the sub reddit itself. Advance/intermediate topics such as hook points, when and how to pull, gaming a girl with an over protective friend, social calibration. All of the good stuff. If you havent realized yet. Most the questions being asked are simple beginner questions being reiterated over and over again Edited: by advance/intermidiate im referring to ideas/advice that are ONLY RELATABLE if you have been approaching for quite a bit. For ex…
/r/seduction19/01/18 07:03 AM
2

If she's talking and investing her time into you. then she's hooked. But try to realize the different between a friendly hook and a sexual hook.
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:28 AM
3

Well, you must have done something wrong to start off with. The feelings you experience during those first few months happen all the time. But then what keeps her attracted to you in the long run, is your true self. You can only pretend to be someone you aren't for so long. You need to step up your game and work on yourself before worrying about her. You barely gave any information about yourself. By the sound of it, you dont have much going on in your life. Love/treat yourself well, others will…
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:17 AM
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I found that the deeper I am into self-development and pick-up to becoming the best version of my self. The more girls will chase after me, especially in school. I've noticed this over time and it's something I would have never expected before starting this journey.
/r/seduction19/01/18 05:09 AM
1

lol, i dont quite understand
/r/seduction18/01/18 01:09 AM
2

Never try to express emotions through text with a girl you barely know. Unless she truly knows how you act and who you are, I suggest not using sarcasm and any other "expressive" lines.
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:12 AM
1

Yes. Don't kiss her to build up the emotions so that she will be even be more horny.
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:11 AM
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I'm pretty sure this is common especially for beginners in this area of life. This will last for a bit, but will eventually go away like the rest of us (hopefully). You just need to know how to have fun. One of the ways I've learned to have fun is by partying. I've done a year of straight partying with no drugs or alcohol. And then another year with "stuff" and alcohol and I realized that it shifted my mindset and changed me as a person. Though i believe i could achieve the same results not doin…
/r/seduction04/01/18 05:09 AM
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Yea, it took me 3 years. I met this girl 3 years ago and she was interested. Nothing happened because I was an introvert and completely "creep" that's what i was called. I always had her on social media so it was easy to see each other social life. 3 years later, I texted her and we hung out and all was history. She seen the change and complimented me on it as well. Walk by and just give her a Hey/Hi. Don't be needy, because as of now. It seems as if that's the only girl you're available to.
/r/seduction11/12/17 01:19 AM
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You're reading too much and not taking action. If RSD instructor is your role models, then you should know that they recommend dozen approaches per 1 hour of taking in theory. You learn to calibrate not by reading, but by experiencing. That is the only way... Unless you're a robot.
/r/seduction11/12/17 01:16 AM
1

But most guys don't watch those type of porn... We like that weird shit that rarely ever happens in one night stands and real life. But yea i see where you're coming from about the couple stuff
/r/seduction09/12/17 08:42 PM
2

Where did this theory come from? Sir
/r/seduction09/12/17 08:23 PM
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+1 I can vouch that alcohol fucks with being able to get hard
/r/seduction09/12/17 08:22 PM
70

Stop jerking off to porn. Its frying your brain!! The type of pussy you see in porn is different from real life. Cut off the meat beating and im sure you'll be thirsty to fuck.
/r/seduction09/12/17 04:15 PM
1

?
/r/seduction31/10/17 06:42 PM
6

Lol, so contridicting. Your game is not solid if you can't cold approach. As simple as that. You know what to do for improvement. Game more ofte .
/r/seduction19/10/17 09:30 PM
1

You know the damn answer. It's just that you have to take it as what it is and move on... there's logistical problems in your way and obviously shes more interested in the guy that had the "audacity" to ghost her. She has all the validation from you, but the guy who ghosted her. You're probably not on par with her and she finds him more physically attractive. Since the guy ghosted her, i assume he has more abundance. Game on bro. This isn't worth the effort. You can spend this time out gaming ot…
/r/seduction19/10/17 09:07 PM
1

You should use this chance to improve your AMOG game. Yes learn what he uses to take attention away from your girls. If you do it back to him and he gets aggressive, then you need to talk to him about it. Or just cut him off.
/r/seduction25/09/17 03:02 AM
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How you carry yourself as a person is utmost important. This is the same as RSD Tyler doing the eye stare challenge. He goes up to a girl, looks at her eyes and see if the girl stays. If you by any chance seem needy, reaction seeking, she will walk away without a doubt. Move them around the club and meet their friends. Meeting their friend and taking care of their logistical problems are YOUR top priority when trying to pull a girl. Gaming girls not sober are sometimes easy and sometimes hard. I…
/r/seduction25/09/17 01:13 AM
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No I said I'd beat the guys ass for clearly disrespecting my relationship. If your friend was hitting on your girl and suddenly they were fucking while acknowledging that you're in a relationship with her. Both are at fault. Beat him up and dumb her. Lol. On the other hand if the guy fucked my girl but didn't know she was in a relationship. I'd congratulate the guy and dump her ass. There's a difference
/r/seduction22/09/17 08:58 PM
1

If he knew I had a girlfriend and still continued on hitting on her while your girl doesn't resist. Might as well beat his ass and dump her.
/r/seduction20/09/17 07:17 PM
2

I've had this exact experience before. That's how we broke up and it's pretty sad. Chances are that he's already seducing her. Ever heard of kino? We'll they interact physically in a romantic way no matter what dance it is. They are touching in intimate ways when dances requires it. Im not trying to think cynical, but you'll eventually lose her because of him. And acting upon this such as confronting him will make you look "insecure". I'd beat his ass for disrespecting your relationship and brea…
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:09 PM
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You hit that point nicely! OP talks down about himself. He talks about how hes more successful professionally than the rest of his friends which is essentially bragging rights and useless in pick up. Hence why his friends have more success than him in this area of life. He also seems to be very formal and boring. OP if you are reading this, please take none of this to offense. I'm a 5'4 chinese.
/r/seduction30/06/17 12:54 AM
1

I seen a this hot blonde at the gym the other day. She look really good in general but her face was ehh. I noticed that she was judged by her overall appearance, not just her face.
/r/seduction26/06/17 10:16 PM
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Short Asian here as well, 5'4. Acknowledge that you're fucking short and there's nothing you can do to change that. Though you can make yourself look taller, but not by much. Wear fitting clothes, it will help significantly. Go for shorter girls, but not too short. From what I've experienced and heard, shorter girls usually go for really tall jacked buff guys. While girls 5'4+ usually go for average height guys. Idk why this is, but its just is. You're Asian, so you will be at a minority disadva…
/r/seduction15/06/17 02:39 AM
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My school has 4k people. I approached 2 popular girls in my school as a complete introvert, whilst lacking in social intelligence. So essentially i came off as a complete creep toward girls and had no prior cold approach references/experience. That literally freaked the girls out and words went around... i was called a creep, werdio, "that guy". I agree, if i had all of what i have now. Then the approaches shouldn't have ruin my rep.
/r/seduction30/05/17 12:09 PM
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My school has 4k people. I approached 2 popular girls in my school as a complete introvert, whilst lacking in emotional intelligence. So essentially i came off as a complete creep towards the girls and had no prior cold approach references/experience. That literally freaked the girls out and words went around... I went on a journey of self-development. I made a social media, added tons of people from my school. Cold approached in my city day and night. Daygame/nightgame. Then soon i was able to …
/r/seduction30/05/17 12:04 PM
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On spot!
/r/seduction30/05/17 11:58 AM
2

Yea but when you arent a bit at all known, quiet, and awkward socially, thats a big problem haha
/r/seduction30/05/17 11:58 AM
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A text that offers value, reply is not needed. "Was waiting in line today and seen a grandma carrying 2 bottles of Vodka, must have been a crazy party girl" Look up re-start text
/r/seduction30/05/17 03:45 AM
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Build up your social circle. Go to clubs, activities, frat parties, college. Therese tons of places to meet people. Until you have done good in social interactions in general, girls shouldn't be your main priority. Because if you don't even have a small social circle, how can you pick up a chick?
/r/seduction23/05/17 12:31 AM
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But what if I'd actually like to learn the technical stuff haha. I've done it tons times through daygaming and clubs. But often very little with dates.
/r/seduction22/05/17 11:22 PM
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persist
/r/seduction22/05/17 11:04 PM
1

Hey, i couldnt find the Madison video. But here is todds video, essential same concept. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojfp1nN-SL0
/r/seduction22/05/17 09:31 PM
2

May you elaborate on "once you have build attraction". Thanks
/r/seduction22/05/17 09:27 PM
6

We'll probably because you had a good upbringing. Good for you that you dont have to go through this. We're here to improve with women, not be a random douchebag going around saying "be yourself".
/r/seduction22/05/17 08:32 PM
3

Ive lost my virginity with my last gf, its just that this time i want to go through the process while learning at the same time. And fixing the mistakes ive made
/r/seduction22/05/17 08:27 PM
1

Yup. Having a quality instagram and snapchat can increase your value to girls. Just build it up. Find your friends, follow them. Everytime you meet a new person, ask for their instagram or snapchat.
/r/seduction12/05/17 05:09 PM
1

Solid. Thanks
/r/seduction12/05/17 04:29 PM
1

Sure sounds nice. Would be willing to try it. What do you have in mind
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:48 PM
0

Girls who are like this drives me crazy and confused. Like im currently also talking to another girl, and we set up a date on saturday. But like she responds to me on snapchat but confused on Instagram
/r/seduction12/05/17 12:48 PM
1

Oh shit haha. I meant her friend told me that the girl currently ignoring me finds me attractive. Hence why she hit me up
/r/seduction12/05/17 12:47 PM
1

She was also the first one to hit me up. Cuz her friend said i was attractive.
/r/seduction12/05/17 11:39 AM
1

Its a public place in downtown
/r/seduction12/05/17 11:36 AM
2

You sound very outcome dependence. Drop that shit and enjoy the moment.
/r/seduction09/05/17 02:46 AM
6

Well first of all build up your instagram and post quality pictures. Or else no chance unless you're super attractive. And do follow her
/r/seduction08/05/17 10:56 PM
3

If she posts stories on instagram often, you can comment on that.
/r/seduction08/05/17 10:25 PM
1

Go to center city and game in that general area
/r/seduction01/05/17 01:58 PM
1

It takes me 40 minutes to get to downtown from my place. I do it every weekend. No excuses bro. My friend use to take a 2 hour bus to NYC for work and game. Take that 40 minute route! use http://articles.rsdnation.com/groups/ to meet up with people with your same goals
/r/seduction01/05/17 02:40 AM
1

Now thats difficult for you. Take transportation to cities if possible. Because there will be no way for you to game in a 500 people town. Nearly impossible. Everyone who games, does it in at least a semi-popular town. But for now you should work on your social circle. That is how guys get girls without PUA. It's also one of the easiest way to get girls. Work on it at school :)
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:07 AM
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First of all, are you taking care of your body, hygiene, personal health? Are you working out and keeping your hair in check? Are you intentionally going out to socialize and meeting new people? If you have all of those check, then work on your inner game. If you have yet to finish any of those, then proceed to do so. People say looks dont matter, but they do. If you look like you take care of yourself you are way more attractive. We're both the same age yet I'm under average at 5'5. I have ever…
/r/seduction30/04/17 11:49 PM
1

Gain emotional intelligence/social intelligence. If you keep seeing yourself as a cringey person, you will reinforce that and actually become more cringey.
/r/seduction28/04/17 10:06 PM
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Have fun with her. Make everything playful and fun, but at the same time be serious if needed. Do talk about your jobs, career, etc if she brings it up. Natural chemistry will help make sure you guys dont stop talking., if its really there. Fuck the people who says dont kiss or touch on the first date. Hold hands. If she rejects it, dont be butthurt. Try kissing her, if she backs off, then at least you have the balls to go for it. You tried and thats all it matters. A walk in the park on a sunny…
/r/seduction26/04/17 12:02 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6665z0/lets_forget_getting_laid_for_a_second_how_do_you/?st=j1pi7nds&sh=0054a93f Check this out. Same post
/r/seduction19/04/17 09:42 PM
1

Holy hell this is so mind boggling. Everybody has their own theory. I guess the only way to figure this out is to only approach girls taller than me
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:31 AM
1

Yes. I couldnt take it because she was fucking tall as shit. I just exited myself from a possible pull lol
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:16 AM
1

Yes its too time consumimg to choose wisely.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:10 AM
1

Yes. Its too time comsuming to be choosing wisely.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:09 AM
1

Tip : Look better. Take better pic. Swipe right on all
/r/seduction18/04/17 02:17 AM
2

Its hard to tell if your question has been answered because you only tell us whats bad. You never give us a direct response on whether you understand what we're saying or not.
/r/seduction18/04/17 12:40 AM
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Use other methods like online dating apps. Tinder, bumble, etc. Trust me, your first lay with a little knowledge of Pick up knowledge will make your lay so much more solid and smooth. You will learn a lot. But keep on approaching man. That alone feeling, hold onto it and use it to leverage your approaches. Always approach with 100% effort and never HALF ASS the approach. With emotional leverage by your side, you can literally do anything!
/r/seduction17/04/17 11:03 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction15/04/17 06:40 PM
1

If you think that you guys are fit and compatible. Go ahead, make the move to date her. Ask her out to movies or hiking. After several dates, you can ask her to be in a relationship with you. Or after enough dates, she will eventually ask "What are we"
/r/seduction14/04/17 10:11 PM
1

Find your motive. What do you want from this girl and what are you asking us?
/r/seduction14/04/17 10:02 PM
1

I noticed that if i try to tell my bestfriends about pick up and seddit, they will never listen. They'll think its cool and interesting but never actually take action. UNLESS you literally go out with them and let them see you approaching girls and getting numbers, making out, etc. My bestfriend never really was interested in pick up. Until i went out, fucked a girl and poured it into his face on how pick up is not a scam and its an actual thing. He does it daily now.
/r/seduction14/04/17 05:16 PM
2

Do not persue a girl that is taken. You and your girl broke up and yet you still attempted to get her back. You feel desperate and insecure. Dont try to break someone elses relationship to feel better and validate yourself. You wouldnt like someone taking your girl
/r/seduction06/04/17 07:02 PM
2

How tf do you know?!! Did you talk to 99% of the girls from where you're from???
/r/seduction06/04/17 10:52 AM
1

First find out what the heck you're trying to do. Are you looking for a one night stand, fuck buddy, or relationship? But do hit her up to meet up again
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:48 AM
0

You want get laid? Pay for a hooker. You have the internet, everything you need is on here. Go on utorrent, download rsd tengame
/r/seduction06/04/17 02:38 AM
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I think your problem is out of our reach. Seek a therapist
/r/seduction06/04/17 12:34 AM
1

I recently just got back on my path. I hit the gym 4 times a week for the past 3 years. On top of my school work. And make time to enjoy my own time and hobbies. I have pretty good friend circle. Just that the problem is girls. There must be things I'm missing ;/ I was told to break it off at the beginning of the relationship due to other issues, but I persisted and ended up learning shit tons of things.
/r/seduction03/04/17 11:09 PM
4

Shes 18 im 17. She hasnt found out about my age until we progressed further into the relationship
/r/seduction03/04/17 05:59 PM
1

Thanks bro. This is a nice insight on everything that's been going on. It seems as of everyone on here figured out whats wrong. My goal is off point and i have to maintain one to keep developing and keeping my masculinity
/r/seduction15/03/17 04:58 PM
1

Game as in Rsd Max the natural program. I read models by mark manson. Started my own path in self development. We went on a couple of dates. All of the dates were initiated by me and I have been making all of the big moves. But she was the one to ask me about where the relationship was going after we had sex on a regular basis. She agreed with everything i wanted to do. When I found out that she asked about the relationship too early. She got mad because i confronted her about asking way to earl…
/r/seduction15/03/17 04:46 PM
2

How does that solve the problem though?
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:25 AM
1

Why is the most interesting topics being down voted? "How to get laid" gets 1000 upvotes.
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:16 AM
2

Models By Mark Manson. Everyone should know this book by now haha
/r/seduction15/03/17 02:15 AM
3

She gamed you?
/r/seduction07/02/17 02:38 AM
1

Yea I wonder if anybody has a good insight on this
/r/seduction04/02/17 02:52 PM
1

I'm asking if that's a indicator of something else?
/r/seduction29/01/17 05:56 PM
1

thanks!
/r/seduction27/01/17 12:18 AM
1

I have already fucked her. But there are certain part of gaming her that i have yet to understand
/r/seduction26/01/17 11:53 PM
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Congrats! Hard work pays off. Remember, the game doesn't end here. If you stop working on yourself, she will leave. Be sure to continue gaming her to keep the sparks alive
/r/seduction18/01/17 02:35 PM
1

I'm 17 years old and started at 15. Got my first lay a few weeks ago. You miss every shot you don't take. Instead of getting girls only after you're done self-improving, which should be never. Go for girls while on your journey! Go talk to her like a friend. Do this for a few days. Get her SnapChat. Let her see your cool and amazing life outside of school. Ask her to hang out with you. And fuck what other people think. What got me here is the chaos i have put myself through when i first started …
/r/seduction13/01/17 02:08 AM
2

Yes. ALWAYS confirm. Some people end up at the location just to find out the girl was "busy". Before heading out, text the girl "Hey (name), I'm going to be 15 minute late. Lets meet up at ...)". Or if you haven't set up the time and place yet then... "Hey "name", looking forward to see you tmr" or "... Still on for tmr?"
/r/seduction13/01/17 02:01 AM
2

So i shouldnt embrace it?
/r/seduction09/01/17 12:47 PM
3

Thanks. Also may you elaborate on "cute shit " lo
/r/seduction06/01/17 08:11 PM
3

A few days ago i full closed my first white girl and it turns out im her first asian guy shes been with. I thought there was no hope. But eventually with dedication and work, i got there. Fyi, im chinese 5'5 and lean
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:43 PM
1

I'm sure there are people who goes out. Just take your time to find them
/r/seduction03/01/17 10:49 PM
1

You're approach is all that matters. Not even the best text game can help you with a shitty initial interaction. I up Lynfast. The problem lies else where
/r/seduction03/01/17 08:35 PM
2

I live in Philly and started "reading theory" at 15. Trust me, cut that shit off right now. The second you spend 6 month learning theory and not approach. You will literally forget everything when you do approach. Find a RSD Inner circle group in your area and game with them. Also what is your city population?
/r/seduction03/01/17 08:33 PM
1

I one up BJLMAG. Focus on developing yourself as more social individual before diving deep into pick up. I mean you can use cold approach as a form of improvement, but you will need volume in your area. Else girls will know you as that creepy guy. One thing not to do is cold approach in high school, I've been there and done that...
/r/seduction17/12/16 09:40 PM
1

Nice you're realizing. Not sure why people are down voting these post, 99% of the post in this sub are literally newbie stuff thats been getting massive upvotes
/r/seduction11/12/16 10:46 PM
2

Solid advice. But those 2 types of approaches and methods comes with different results and skills. So i wouldn't say to completely cut off cold approach unless its appropriate. Cold approach comes with its own positives and negatives, so does social circle game. But working on both at the same time would make you a beast. Some of the stuff you listed were true, such as cold approaching in at the school you attend, words spread fast. But through that you can get girls and they can see you with th…
/r/seduction06/12/16 03:53 AM
8

DO NOT COLD APPROACH IN HIGHSCHOOL. But do social circle game
/r/seduction06/12/16 03:48 AM
1

Yea bro look for a RSD inner circle in your city on Racebook. In every city there's a Facebook group page made for guys like us. http://articles.rsdnation.com/groups/ Good luck!
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:43 AM
1

Show them you go out having fun. Usually on your social media. They might be interested and get engaged by that. Then invite them out with you to have fun
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:33 AM
2

Don't shit where you eat. To be completely honest, girls say "I have a boyfriend" because your game sucks. Its a way for them to say "please back off". But there are many times where they honestly do have a boyfriend. But I believe every girl has the time to stop and converse with people. If you are good looking and working out, but girls don't acknowledge you then you are not confident. Go out more bro, do street game with a buddy of yours and have them give you feedback
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:28 AM
1

2 years ago i was a extremely scrawny dude. 5'4 101lb. Seriously 101lb... I wouldn't get much respect from guys and girls in general due to my confidence. And what caused their initial judgement of me was my appearance. As i got bigger and more lean, I've noticed girls glancing at me and get way more respect from guys. I can't believe that in a 2 year time I got called being a skinny guy to buff. But no seriously, confidence is what matters the most. But that doesn't mean to not go and work on y…
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:24 AM
2

25 approaches is what i do a single night. Geez. Don't count how many approaches you do, it does no good. Focus on what you're doing wrong and right. Write a field report for every single approach you've done because it will help with your game 2x. 2x the results is what you will get from doing fr. Just know that every single time you talk to a girl, you get better. Doesn't matter how big of a improvement you get, every single approach will do you better than not approaching. You can get good fa…
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:16 AM
2

Look man. The uglier you are the better your game haha. Look at RSD Tyler for example, for godsakes hes a fucking balding ginger.
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:11 AM
2

That's not how you use the program sir. Doing this will cause you to be extremely in your head while out there infield. What you do is for every 1 hour of video you watch, should be 2 hours out approaching and gaming. Watch some videos and game some. Bit by bit. It will be better than watching the entire thing and then going out. This is through experience and tons of stories
/r/seduction05/12/16 04:04 AM
1

Haha i read shit from bodybuilding... Sometimes it can be taken the wrong way
/r/seduction05/12/16 03:52 AM
1

But why would that matter? At the end of the night, they're all gonna forgot about you anyways. And yeah I see where you're coming from about women noticing me getting blown off.
/r/seduction05/12/16 01:25 AM
1

Why was this post removed?
/r/seduction21/11/16 04:04 AM
1

Hahah
/r/seduction11/11/16 03:00 PM
1

Fix your inner game. Read some books about inner game. Models by Mark Manson Day Game By V Roosh Watch RSD videos on self-help and self-improvement. RSD Julien video "Happiness Manifesto" that video is fucking amazing! I'm telling you right now! If you want to improve and become the best version of your self, take the damn time and read/watch the books/videos. Change comes slowly, it can take months before you notice significant changes. As long as you keep persisting and going for the change, y…
/r/seduction07/11/16 03:01 AM
2

Nice job! I wish i knew game back when i was 15 and clubbing hahaha. I lost so many opportunities at raves with girls. Totally beta and shit with girls. Now im 17... But the clubs are not 18+ so basically fucked for another year and no night game.
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:55 AM
2

This particular situation happened to me when I was trying to daygame along the first time. Best bet is to join a Facebook RSD Circle Inner group and approach with a guy that has experience
/r/seduction06/11/16 01:12 AM
3

It gives me confidence, at least for me. It depends on how you perceive your physical appearance. For people with higher game like Luke Or Tyler says, your physical appearance probably won't matter at all. But for beginners and people who are starting off, looking good can help quite a bit
/r/seduction30/10/16 04:58 PM
1

Do social circle game
/r/seduction25/10/16 10:45 PM
2

Im surprised that you have never heard of RSD (Real Social Dynamics). http://articles.rsdnation.com/groups/ https://www.youtube.com/user/RSDTyler It's a group/community. Basically a group of guys that goes out and do pick-up and is involved with the RSD community.
/r/seduction25/10/16 10:30 PM
3

I've noticed this. The Moderators aren't doing much. Majority of users on here are just posting beginner stuff to help reinforce their reasons into not approaching. All of the tips are either in the sidebar or in this sub-reddit.
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:48 PM
2

One way i got out of my way and approached was gaming with someone more knowledge and experience than me in game. Weird huh? When i tried approach while out with my regular friends, i couldn't do it. But when i went out with a group of RSD guys, i could easily approach. Idk what's behind it, but it works. Try it out.
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:45 PM
1

Yea may you please delineate whwt you are looking for
/r/seduction25/10/16 12:47 PM
2

Numbers arent results. If the interactiom was not solid, the number is most likely going to be non responsive and flakey. Based on this interactiom, he literally broke everything in "game" haha. A girl giving out her number can be her way to get rid of you, i know from experience. I dont wanna bash on op, but what made me cringe the most was his tonality. He sounded extremely reaction seeking, aka seeking rapport.
/r/seduction25/10/16 12:13 PM
2

I learned lots of inner game from RSD Videos. Happiness Manifesto, tylers newest video, max the natural killing it, etc
/r/seduction25/10/16 11:55 AM
1

Never. I always text/call her before leaving with the number :)
/r/seduction23/10/16 04:54 AM
1

One problem im having is keep the conversation going. I could dabble on about random shit for like 3 minutes. But i dont think so for 15 minutes. Any tips or videos you would recommend?
/r/seduction22/10/16 05:16 PM
1

You put the ball in her court by giving her your number. Next time, try always getting her number into your phone.
/r/seduction26/08/16 10:05 PM
1

I'm in highschool too. If you suck at game or you're a newbie. Do not smash through with cold approaches and get on a rejection spreed. You will ruin your reputation. My advice is to become friend with the hottest most popular girl, and then social proof from her. Ask her to hook you up with her friends.
/r/seduction18/08/16 09:51 PM
3

You'll see her everyday at work. Best bet is to not cold approach and fuck up, because you will be in the same area every day. It would be extremely awkward. Approach her as if you're trying to make a new friend
/r/seduction18/08/16 09:49 PM
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Weren't some of these notes taken when watching the new RSD Todd video? He explained the concepts exactly the way you wrote here. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UZXdGDMShk
/r/seduction15/08/16 05:22 PM
1

Turns out that she said "i will pay you back"
/r/seduction06/08/16 04:25 AM
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Sorry, i worded it wrong. But what i meant was the lonely guys that was not able to get a girlfriend because of something blocking them mentally, could either be social anxiety, lack of social skills, or/and afraid to talk to women. On the other hand, you didn't want a relationship until your late 20's which is fine. But I'm essentially talking about the guys that have been trying for a while and haven't succeeded with any girls.
/r/seduction04/07/16 02:19 PM
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+1
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:33 PM
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Thanks man, that got rid of any confusions i had along the way reading your post. I appreciate your straightforward honesty. Great post! :)
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:31 PM
1

If you're ugly you have to work as twice as hard. The end result, you will have better chances with girls or equal to those with good looks
/r/seduction30/06/16 08:20 PM
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I agree and disagree with this. Growing up as a introvert significantly impacted my social life and my happiness. I stayed in most of my childhood due to strict parents, so hanging with friends and going out playing wasn't a option for me. Now that I am moving up to a junior in highschool, I have been given much more freedom than ever. HOWEVER IF I HAVEN'T discover seduction and self-improvement, I would of stay the introvert non-social guy forever. If you're stuck as a introvert growing up, the…
/r/seduction30/06/16 07:48 PM
1

It should be lighthearted. Mine is "All about them aesthetic. Looking for a fun distraction from my hard work saving little African children. #IDoYouCondom
/r/seduction24/06/16 04:13 PM
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You're main objective is to get her out.
/r/seduction24/06/16 04:10 PM
1

We don't know that until we've actually dug a little deeper.
/r/seduction24/06/16 02:19 PM
1

I can confirm. They can be the nicest thing the first few minutes you meet them. But then if you do something that aggros them, they are one of the bitches girls you'll ever meet
/r/seduction24/06/16 02:17 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5OVZ9xk1B-o Check that video out. You have to realize you're not getting the girls because you fucking suck. Go through the pain and allow it to affect you. But at the same time, know that sitting there whining like a bitch won't help either. All of us went through this stage. Honestly, it only gets easier
/r/seduction24/06/16 02:36 AM
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Because you have pointed out each and every single one of the technique you have learned and used during the interaction, he states that you are "over exaggerated pickup shit". You were just being extremely explicit about the things you've done during the interaction. Nothing's wrong with that. At best, it helped us understand what went on.
/r/seduction18/06/16 12:23 AM
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You have to experience both the overly gamey guy and the under gamey guy in order to know and find the balance. For example, cooking. Let's say you're cooking something and it would taste bad if you didn't cook it long enough, but at the same time it would also taste bad if you cooked it for too long. You won't know the balance in between those 2 until you have either pushed too far, or pushed too little. Check out Real Social Dynamics. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U2cr3hPEdKE
/r/seduction17/06/16 11:48 PM
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Welcome to pick up!! You shouldn't be too invested with girls you haven't fucked or been on a date with. You clearly are trying to change her mind instead of her mood and you were easily aggravated by her rejection. That is not how you should be doing pick up. Think of it logically, this is only 1 girl. There are millions of chances for you out there. Expect this to happen a few hundred times if you're approaching or talking to a lot of girls.
/r/seduction16/06/16 01:01 PM
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This question should not belong here. You shouldn't base your game off of ethnicity. Also read the side bars. Creating friends here are the same. No difference from India.
/r/askTRP16/06/16 04:53 AM
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The worst that could happen is you getting rejected and learning from that.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 11:55 PM
3

I do that with old ladies walking down the street
/r/seduction13/06/16 01:21 PM
1

Maybe you are not congruent with who you are. The first few seconds you're mr.nice guy and the next second your all touchy and sexual. That comes off creepy and weird. Maybe try showing more intent straight from the beginning instead of being the friend at first
/r/seduction13/06/16 01:15 PM
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I just tend to not give them any attention. But if you're talking about an amog. You shouldn't ignore them if they are around are going for the girl you're after
/r/seduction13/06/16 01:13 PM
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If she's really hot and has a big social cricle. Use her to social proof, meet her hotter friends. But it looks like she's willing to invest in you. But I'm not sure if you're coming off as friend to friend or male to women. If you are friend to friend and try to escalate. You would come off as a creepy and incongruent
/r/seduction13/06/16 04:54 AM
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I'm 16 as well. If you have yet to come close to dating a girl. Thats a sign you need to work on yourself! The first thing I did when starting pick up, was to self improve. I noticed that with a bieber cut from 2010 wouldn't get me anywhere, especially with below beginner game. So I decided to improve my looks by a significant margin. But that only helped me a bit. Possibly just getting a few girls attention, but since I am the minority (asian). I know that I'd have to work harder and improve my…
/r/seduction13/06/16 03:13 AM
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I've tried this line a redditor came up with. "If I was giving out grades on your call back skills, you would definitely get an F!" 10/10 would text back Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/t5qc5/texting_trick_that_has_never_failed_me/
/r/seduction13/06/16 03:08 AM
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WHy dont you wait a few days and snapchat her again. Or better yet text her. Just remember to try and set up the date every other text
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:57 PM
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You aren't suppose to be their tinder text buddy. You throw out a funny opener that spikes their emotions. Do a little small talk, grab their number and set up a date for the 2 of you. And are you sure that you're pictures aren't blurry and shitty? That would affect your matches significantly.
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:43 PM
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Yea man. Don't be the orbiter guy. You have to escalate to achieve what you want
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:33 PM
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You spent to much time being her sc/text buddy. You should of escalated faster and set up a date right on the spot. I've experienced this tons of times. Its either I didn't ask for the date fast enough, or I became their text buddy and lost interest through text. I'm almost certain you didn't spike her emotions. Therefore she didn't feel the need to reply back.
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:26 PM
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Yea women makes first move. But it's the small subtle things, and thats as far as they go. Unless you are super attractive or have a high SMV value. The rest are for you to figure out and take action on.
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:21 PM
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It could be that shes playing hard to get. Why don't you go up to her in real life and ask her on a date? Then later escalate from there.
/r/seduction12/06/16 11:20 PM
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If she sees you better than her boyfriend. She will happily drop him
/r/seduction12/06/16 04:46 AM
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Approach all! Minimize time between approach. The longer you wait to approach, the more you're going to get into your head and the more excuses you're going to come up with. Just know that you would probably never see those girls again, so go all out. Get them to push you to your limits!
/r/seduction11/06/16 12:06 AM
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If you're doing mild dancing, slow especially. I don't think there will be any difference from standing still.
/r/seduction10/06/16 11:45 PM
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Did your friends actually let loose and danced? Like near rave crazy?
/r/seduction10/06/16 04:03 AM
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Usually, I take a few minutes to rest, and then go back in. I recently discovered that if i bring a bunch of friends to a nightclub that are willing to stay with me and dance for the night, I would never need to rest and recharge. But I bring 1 or 2 friend that stands still the entire time and doesn't vibe along, I feed off their negative boring energy. You MUST LET LOOSE and have fun. Stop over analysing. Personal preference.
/r/seduction10/06/16 03:45 AM
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Why don't you daygame or night game? And why are you flirting over text? You're #1 top priority is to take the girl on a instant date and proceed the pull from there. Rarely are you suppose to grab the number, unless it is a inconvenient time for the two of you.
/r/seduction09/06/16 04:11 AM
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How to explain it to community people? Well first of all you shouldn't. But I have told my friends about it, some agreed and lots of them disagreed. And guess what, to the ones that disagreed? They haven't even had a girlfriend or gotten their first kiss. Anyone that holds you back from self-improving and going for what you want, you should just drop and find new friends. They are not worth your time and effort, they will only hold you back. Once they see you having abundance of girls, they will…
/r/seduction09/06/16 04:05 AM
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The not seeking for validation part, I'm a bit confused on still to this date. May you please give me am example of it? "The real secret in all these techniques is that you don't even care what her response is gonna be which is actually lacking in most of the guys out there, they are not outcome independent they always try to get some response out of her and they say what might get that response not what they really want to say."
/r/seduction05/06/16 04:12 PM
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Thank you very much, that some extremely good information :)
/r/seduction05/06/16 03:16 PM
1

So basically a guy that doesn't care. But at the same time is value offering. This is ironic because I am also dating 2 other girls. But they all have a few backup guys
/r/seduction05/06/16 03:10 PM
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Yea, I was thinking that I may have put the ball in her court for a big percentage. Since I was the one that ended the interaction last night. Should I just wait for her to text first?
/r/askTRP30/05/16 04:01 PM
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Yea one week is a longass time before a meet up. She asking if we can skype before hanging out. She also suggest that her friend comes. It seems as if shes paranoid. I tried setting up a date at a local mall. I do have her snapchat though, hope it will loosen her up. Since I was the one that ended the interaction last night. Should I just wait for her to text first? She seems to be looking for a boyfriend.
/r/askTRP30/05/16 03:59 PM
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Yup. I told her to meet me at a mall. She doesn't know where it is and says she wants to skype before meeting up. Yea, I'm talking to another 2. Trying to set up a date as well
/r/askTRP30/05/16 03:57 PM
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Haha probably. But I asked to meet her at a local mall. So i dont think that might be it.
/r/seduction30/05/16 04:03 AM
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Search on youtube. Rsd chaotic environment. And also Richard La Ruina Night game
/r/seduction29/05/16 01:14 PM
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Why is your tinder profile description so serious. Lay back and be creative/fun with it. Throw some personality and fun on to there.
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:26 PM
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This is all a chain of problem he has. Tyler made a video on this. Try conversing with strangers and the girls you aren't attracted to. And then applying those to girls you are after.
/r/seduction28/05/16 04:06 AM
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I'm surprised. Most of the time, that's Asian parents. Asian myself
/r/seduction26/05/16 05:23 PM
1

Rsd is superior compared to simplepickup imo. The information they give out for free is extremely vague and almost useless. Mean while rsd youtube videos are basically their paided contents scattered all over
/r/seduction26/05/16 05:16 PM
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Not true. Reading and watching materials along with infields have helped me understand it better. But overall best way to understand it is to first approach. Op, go out there, approach 5 girls. Come back and look up what you had trouble with. Op needs someone or something to pressure him into approaching
/r/seduction26/05/16 05:15 PM
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Your past... Forget it because there's nothing you can do to change it. But what you can do is improve yourself and over rule the old you. What got me into approaching was pressure. I stumbled upon a thread on here saying that the best way to destroy approach anxiety is by asking a friend to hold your money. If you don't approach the girl, he keeps the money and you gotta deal with it. If you attack in him anyway, then friend goes bye bye. This other method i learned from RSD. Think of it this w…
/r/seduction26/05/16 01:51 AM
1

Look up RSD Alex. He's Australian
/r/seduction23/05/16 03:10 PM
2

Haha i love your way of "pea cocking". I usually wear this really bright yellow tank top with the emazing light logo. And i walk around getting compliments all the time.
/r/seduction22/05/16 07:19 PM
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Thanks I'll keep that in mind next time
/r/seduction22/05/16 04:43 PM
2

But if i get them to face directly toward me either how, would it still matter? And yea i see where you are coming from, about grabbing them from behind
/r/seduction22/05/16 04:42 PM
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N Close = Number Close K Close = Kiss Close F Close = Fuck Close or Full Close It's not what's usual for second date. Its how far you can escalate and how comfortable the girl is
/r/seduction16/05/16 02:29 AM
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There is no program guaranteed to work. It's how much you invest and the amount of effort you put into pick up. Honestly, Richard La Ruina aka Gambler, RSD, and Sasha are one of my favorites and possibly Hayley Quinn. Check out all of them and see which one fits you the best. RSD, Sasha, Gambler is mostly natural/direct game. The videos found on youtube from RSD are essentially the stuff found on their programs. But it takes a bit longer to actually put together. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=…
/r/seduction16/05/16 02:24 AM
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I find it helpful trying it on friends. When they are talking to you, try to keep the eye contact for as long as you can. But its completely fine to break it from time to time, just not too often.
/r/seduction16/05/16 01:39 AM
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It's probably because of the media outrage a few years back. Julien took a picture of him "choking" a girl that he did pick up on. Search up the most hated man. Juliens up there
/r/seduction01/05/16 03:10 PM
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haha
/r/seduction01/05/16 12:12 AM
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Models By Mark Manson The Mystery Method: How to Get Beautiful Women into Bed by Mystery A must!
/r/seduction01/05/16 12:09 AM
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I feel like Tyler and Julien gave me the best knowledge. Todd game is entirely different compared to the other Rsd instructor. He seems to be more passive, I'm not sure what exactly. Meanwhile Tyler and Julien are full on hard core escalation. Its best if you focus on one instructor first, and then branch off when you know a bit more about game. They each contradicts each other lol. Also try not to watch a few videos of RSD and then watch something completely different like Sasha or Valentino, i…
/r/seduction30/04/16 10:27 PM
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Hey bro, there's no way to tell unless you take action. Goodluck
/r/seduction27/04/16 07:20 PM
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Agreed. I find girls to be way more receptive in real life than on Tinder. Op, remember that half of the guys that are texting her has absolutely 0 game.
/r/seduction27/04/16 07:19 PM
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She agreed to go out with you, but am unsure if you showed any intent to start off with. If you were just a guy friend, im sure girls wouldn't perceive you as a threat. So unless you show intentions and escalate from there, it would be hard to tell. But so far, she is comfortable going out with you. Tip: Next time escalate a bit further, take her to a bar and proceed taking actions that reveals your intentions (Hand hold)(Kino)(Kissing).
/r/seduction27/04/16 07:13 PM
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Good point!
/r/seduction27/04/16 06:04 PM
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Shame on you for thinking that he was pathetic! You have to realize that girls of your dreams doesn't chase you, they don't magically appear and be your girlfriend. You have to work for it. Go back to your friend and learn from him. Check out the books he read.
/r/seduction27/04/16 04:16 PM
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Don't ever apologize for anything unless you truly feel bad for what you've done.
/r/seduction25/04/16 03:07 AM
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Agreed. The sidebar and this sub reddits top post, are extremely helpful. If there's a problem that you want to solve. Face the problem and actually do something instead of sitting and complaining.
/r/seduction23/04/16 03:35 AM
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Assume attraction. You don't know if she is interested in you. Want to find out? Go and get her number! Do something!
/r/seduction23/04/16 03:33 AM
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Nicely said!
/r/seduction23/04/16 03:31 AM
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This is all in your mind. You lack the confidence to talk to these girls. In Order to change your mindset, you first have to understand it. You have to realize that the ugliest guys with the greatest games can easily get laid. Although if you are average and unattractive, the chances of girls approach you is very small. And being attractive is just a small boost. I'd suggest reading the top post in this forum. It will help you significantly and possibly get you motivated to go out and do pick up…
/r/seduction22/04/16 02:19 AM
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You're not alone. I was also stuck in your state after coming out of a LTR. But after several more rejections without any real success, it matter less and less. To the point where a rejection isn't shit but just simply a girl declining a offer you have sent out(mindset). If you have to, by all means you should. Go out to malls, clubs, and try to grab as many phone numbers as you can. I can only say that from experience, only about 1/5 of them would actually text back or have any real interest. A…
/r/seduction21/04/16 09:10 PM
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You shouldn't be focusing this much all in one girl. Despite the fact that you've spent so much time with her and have yet to escalate onto another level. Now responding to your title. The ONLY way to minimize and reduce doubt/fear of rejection, is by being rejected. Get rejected 100 times and I could almost guarantee that those fear of rejection would go away. You've spent enough time with her. Now get going and ask her out. If you feel like taking her to the aquarium will increase your chances…
/r/seduction21/04/16 07:51 PM
1

Well i mean, i did foreplay before even getting my first kiss haha
/r/seduction19/04/16 03:54 PM
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You probably lack escalation experience and knowledge. Did you kino at the very start? Or do you kino at all. If you never touched the girl before and went straight for the kiss, that wouldnt be congruent. It would be awkward and weird. https://m.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1dvnem/above_the_game_part_7_physical_escalation_sex
/r/seduction19/04/16 03:35 PM
1

Did you try to confirm that she wasn't a catfish?
/r/seduction18/04/16 01:53 AM
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Because you can't really reveal emotions during text. And it's really easy to fuck up during texts. Jokes that come off cocky or rude, Texting more than 2x in a row, etc.
/r/seduction17/04/16 08:47 PM
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You could of pushed through her "excuses" by saying a bit more. But good job though! Most guys in this situation would bitch out without even saying a word.
/r/seduction17/04/16 02:37 AM
1

Well then that explains why
/r/seduction16/04/16 03:33 PM
1

Correct. I usually use lines such as "dont mind if i steal your friend from you for a second"
/r/seduction16/04/16 03:21 PM
1

Pua is about picking up girls and improving yourself. Its about becoming the best version of yourself. People like life_uncivilized will just hold you back from such goals you have. People learn from this industry because they were previously affected negatively by girls. Now unless you have depression, all of this can easily be corrected with time and dedication
/r/seduction16/04/16 03:18 PM
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You dont realize that he posted in the seduction sub reddit. If he knew he needed help else where, he wouldnt of posted on here. Assuming that his goals were to get girls. I have been through what he has and honestly it was just my mind set. Thinking about depressing thoughts all day. Once i just forgot about those and started lettng loose, i felt way better. Also you have problems if you dont think its not ops mindset. He speficially said "im not attractive enough to get sex"
/r/seduction16/04/16 03:13 PM
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Ans this is all a string of problem that you have to resolve step by step. That includes, abundance frame, confident, assurance, good inner game, outer game. Just buy Models By Markmansion and read up on it
/r/seduction16/04/16 02:33 PM
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Become friends with her friend and then isolate her away. You never go in, grab girl and get out. Thats not how it works, because their friends will cockblock. And seduction/pua i about getting the girls and being able to fuck them and makeout. And environments that loud, is where all the fun happens. Thats the highest points, so there will be tons of girls and guys making out.
/r/seduction16/04/16 02:31 PM
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Lol, you should of said that when shes out with you. As long as you get her to go out with you, this no longer matter. Try not to be like that next time. And if you do, make it seem like bantering.
/r/seduction16/04/16 02:17 PM
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Your mindset is bad Change that. You dont need to be attractive to fuck girls. Look at some puas for example. They are ugly as shit and short, yet they get mad pussy. Why? Because they work on their game and themselves. And they dont give a fuck what other people think about them Tldr: you have no confidence. Learn to gain some. Bend the rules and go out with attractive girls by playing the numbers game.
/r/seduction16/04/16 02:13 PM
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You are lying to them by saying just be friends. I mean you obviously want some make out and sex lol. First of all this was a bad fr because you havent done shit besides hug a few girls and got their social media.... thats why you are getting undervoted. Last but not least, you didnt even attempt to escalate to makeout or sex.
/r/seduction16/04/16 02:10 PM
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Why would you even care? As long as you get the sex and whatever the you wanted out of the girl. Its a win win. There tons of girls out there... just think about that. Why would you wanna get all downy over a few girls trying to "use" you?
/r/seduction16/04/16 02:03 PM
1

Op, how many girls have you approached so far?
/r/seduction15/04/16 03:27 AM
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So I'm guessing that you are unconfident about your physical appearance. check this out! But remember, like most of us, we are born looking average. Don't have a mindset that's like "Oh, since look doesn't matter, i don't need to work out, i don't need to dress nice, and i don't need to groom. Because looks don't matter" No that's not what hes saying. He is saying that even though looks aren't extremely significant, you still have to work on yourself. And do it for you, not the girls, not anyone…
/r/seduction15/04/16 02:52 AM
1

Just go rsd if yu have the money. They teach mostly inner game, which wil help you more than the guys teaching outer game shit."go up to her and say..."
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:47 PM
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If they guarentee a life changing skill to teach you, then yes 3000 is worth. Considering it will help you significantly, such as your social life, entertainment, happiness. And like one of the guys stated, all of the stuff they teach you, can be found online all over the internet. But the truth is, you are wasting time. To research all of the essential things to help you on women would take considerably long. And bootcamps, you can literally learn everything they know in under a week. So worth …
/r/seduction14/04/16 05:35 PM
1

I'm surprised how so many people haven't seen that video yet. Sasha's amazing
/r/seduction11/04/16 11:40 PM
2

Nice post!
/r/seduction11/04/16 07:11 PM
1

I assume that his teacher was only teaching him outer game, completely missing out on inner game. Such as walking with her instead of stopping her from letting her get where she needs to go and talking slower.
/r/seduction11/04/16 04:08 AM
1

I think you need some motivation
/r/seduction11/04/16 03:59 AM
10

That last part seems more like being a dick lol
/r/seduction11/04/16 03:48 AM
2

I'm not sure if you heard of this before. But research shows that girls are more into guys that are unsure about whether if he likes her or not. Example: Guy tells girl that he likes her a lot Guy has vague intentions (Being mysterious) Guy tells girl that he likes her
/r/seduction09/04/16 04:19 AM
2

Thank you :)
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:56 PM
3

Thank you :)
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:56 PM
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Lets say you pulled a stripper. And the only way she went home with you was when you said "lets come to my place to grab some pizza. But your main objective is to fuck her. If you said, lets go to my house and fuck. And if someone questioned her on what happened, she would look like a slut because the guy said " lets go fuck", which she agreed to. Now if you said "lets go grab pizza at my house" and then fuck her from there, then if her friends ask her, she would say "oh he just said lets go gra…
/r/seduction28/03/16 03:41 PM
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Yea and on top of that. Unless you're extremely attractive, you would have to go in with a indirect approach so that her friends wont cock block. Also have you heard about opening with "Hey, how's it going?". Supposedly, that makes her friends think that you guy each other so that they will give you both space
/r/seduction26/03/16 07:55 PM
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Haha, may you please rephrase that sentence to make it not dry like the Sahara? I don't know what would be and what wouldn't. Your approach is what I am aiming for. Light banter and deep conversation. Deep conversation for her to open up. And banter to spike emotion. But at this point of the conversation, would asking her out be the best choice? Or should i keep on talking?(Trying to hook her still)
/r/askTRP04/03/16 06:18 AM
2

In all seriousness... If you introduced yourself to a girl and asked for her number straight away. And then texted her to go out on a date. Wouldn't your chances of being rejected be way higher than if you were to talk to the girl for a bit, establish some sort of connection, and then ask out? I mean unless if that person is extremely confident and has great game that could make that 1 minute interaction amazing or is extremely good looking.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 02:37 AM
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But aren't girls more likely to reciprocate and go on a date with you, only if you had established a deep connection and have spiked her emotions? Or would that be on the first date, and heading to the second date?
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:58 AM
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At the very start of the interaction, i have asked to get to know her better. But unfortunately she has transferred schools, I usually see her on campus. When i have stated "You seem cool, we should get to know each other better on campus". She replies with, "i transfered school". She hasn't replanned anything so i assume its because we barely know each other and it would be awkward to do so with only knowing so little.
/r/askTRP04/03/16 01:47 AM
1

Whoops, my bad
/r/seduction02/03/16 01:15 AM
1

How tall are you? Try not to give tht much shit about your height because once you start to really be insecure about it. Girls you talk to will notice and question you more often.
/r/seduction27/02/16 04:20 PM
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Sounds good. Yes it is true that i only approached her because she was physically attractive. But once i am able to talk to her, i attempt to get to know them better. So detective like you stated, i guess that means asking more personal questions? I did a few compliance. She responded really fast at first but then fell off. I think its because i said "omg i never met someone so mixed before. You look more white than anything else" she responded with "yea :/". After that she stopped being extreme…
/r/seduction27/02/16 03:59 PM
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Yea im pretty sure thats what op is lacking in his game. Possible natural introvert and just needs a better warm up
/r/seduction27/02/16 03:50 PM
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You werent being congruent with the environment. Thoughts, feelings need to be aligned. Get in a higher energy and high intensity state before entering a night club. Along the way, just say hi to random people and compliment them. Hope that helps for a warm up. Next, when u are in a night club, you want to be high energy and high intensity. If you were to walk into a night club like a chode hoping to pick up girls, than you're wrong. Walk in with low intensity and low energy, and expect to not b…
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