Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questions

PICKUPACCOUNT2 · 2018-01-19T09:54:37+00:00

I am annoyed by this as well.

I'm a beginner, but I want to talk theory, strategy, and tactics, and also exchange views on FRs. Posts about what to do in a specific situation with a specific girl should just be removed and banned.

There have also been a lot of posts lately along the lines of "durr how do I get more confident thnx" or "how can I not be awkward". It's like motherfucker, that's what the whole sub and endeavor are about.

Then there are the high schoolers and the self-promoting wannabe RSD guys whose videos mostly suck (not all of them suck, but damn do a lot of them).

Lambdal7 · 2018-01-19T11:52:59+00:00

Because 90% of subscribers here are newbies and haven't approached more than 10 women in their life.

MrDiece · 2018-01-19T17:48:05+00:00

Because to learn game takes a lot of work, persistence and you have to deal with getting rejected which most guys simply cannot deal with.

You have to be going out often and you have to dissect your nights and days out, figuring out what went wrong what went right etc.

I think this is where people get game wrong, and I definitely do the same.

There was a book I was reading called "Mastery" by Robert Greene.

It talks about a pilot who was absolute shit at flying and everyone was better than him, but he really wanted to becomes the best and a "top gun".

So what he did was spend hours upon hours, going over every part of the cockpit, practising the same motion for the same instrument thousands upon thousands of times.

After doing this for an extended period, eventually things started to click and soon he was flying the plane on intuition rather than thinking about what to do.

That's sort of the way game is, you have to practice the motions, learn how to open, how to build comfort and etc. You cannot skip that learning process.

But instead, people read advice like "be more vulnerable" and think oh that's how you do it, I don't have to do any of the hard work.

That's wrong, you have to go through the trenches. You have to practice and after many years, you will have ingrained the techniques and your mindset to the point where you can walk into a bar, point at a girl you like and take her away.

But there's a lot of stuff going on underneath that simple interaction, its the years and years of experience that makes that possible.

You cannot skip steps, you have to work on "outer" game whether you like it or not.

benisbenibus · 2018-01-19T06:05:50+00:00

This sub is 75% repeated newbie questions that should be in r/askseddit and 25% Bradicus

TonyDCoaching · 2018-01-19T08:59:48+00:00

If you want advanced answers, ask advanced questions. The truth is Reddit works on a vote system, and is not exclusive. So the majority of users are newbs, and they click up the newb stuff. Advanced stuff is beyond their experience and just gets ignored mostly.

Your best bet is to join a forum.

Ragondux · 2018-01-19T09:48:32+00:00

The funny thing is that the inner game advice is often much more difficult to implement that the outer game one, and as such could be considered advanced. Seddit often tells people what they should work on, but gives little advice as to how.

UoAPUA · 2018-01-19T09:55:08+00:00

There's advanced necessary to be successful with women really. I think older PUA stuff failed to realize that. If what you mean is that there's a lack of outer game discussion here, then yeah I agree.

iHasABaseball · 2018-01-19T14:09:16+00:00

Because this isn't anybody's job and people mostly come here for advice or to kill time.

Stringdaddy27 · 2018-01-19T14:34:55+00:00

Those of us who are more experienced tend to lean on our own results more often than not. Are we wondering if something will work? Instead of asking the sub, we'll just go out and try it. What's the worst thing that can happen honestly?

Also, your name literally has "newbie" in it. Kind of hard to sling mud at newbies when it's in your title.

InertBrian · 2018-01-19T17:35:51+00:00

What are you looking for/consider as intermediate advice?

Socializing works mainly off of momentum (think trying to move a wheel) by getting someone off their feet, pointed in the right direction. From what I've gathered, most people here want to use this sub to get at least a ONS or girlfriend & move on (could be wrong it's just a hunch). Once people have at least gotten a rough idea of what works for them they roll with it.

Only thing I can think of that tends to be trickier is figuring out social cues, but that stems from being able to comprehend a multitude of social contexts all together.

And AskSeddit is used for advice on situations that people are in (whether that's the purpose of it or not, it's what people use it for).

physicalbitcoin · 2018-01-19T18:06:30+00:00

A good poster should be able to take a beginner post "OMG THERE'S A GIRL IN MY CLASS AN I LIKE HER." and turn it into an intermediate/advanced conversation. It's on you/them to ask the advanced questions and take it to a higher level.

It's the same old story just repeated 1000 times.

CaliBboy · 2018-01-19T06:32:43+00:00

What advance topics you need to learn?

In my view the only advance topic in game is how to prepare yourself to transition out the game to one woman. The fact is there comes a time when you can longer game younger women (under 30 years old) and have to settle down with either one women for time (months or years) or lower your standards and settle down with a through bottom bitch.

Title	Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questions
Author	NewbieCasanova
Upvotes	47
Comments	68
Date	January 19, 2018 5:26 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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