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| 3 | Dating apps and cold approacheHey guys how and what did you do to change your dating life and getting better looking and quality women This is a good place to start. Read everything in the sidebar, search youtube, pua blogs, online courses, etc. There are countless resources teaching this stuff. Im 31m so i wanna know what can i do to attract women younger than me(i am short,chubby but not too big, just too much body fat) Start fasting and hitting the gym. Don't eat until late afternoon. Get lots of protein. Ride a bicycle i… | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Infield Daygame Example - Coffee Shop RedheadYou can learn it. It takes a lot of practice. And most guys let their AA get in the way of actually getting practice. You need to look at it like learning anything. Like guitar, or a sport, or coding. One step at a time. Today, push pull, tomorrow, story telling. But AA is the first thing. You need to be calm. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Should you pickup alone? or is it best to go with someone?Of course it's easier for your brain to wrap itself around the whole idea of cold approaching when you have a wingmen. And wingmen provide support. However, you can learn a lot by going out by yourself. Funny that I just made a video on the same subject. And yes, I've gone out alone ALOT and picked up many girls while out alone. But a good wing is priceless. https://youtu.be/zuB1nnSUejs?si=0pkcWiu1GWn0r4zS | /r/seduction | 24/07/24 03:43 AM |
| -2 | How to stop being the good/nice guy and be more dominant/confident?You can read loads of information out there for free, but when you're stuck and can't seem a way to move forward your best options are: Join a community. Find a wing to push you into approaches and hold you accountable. Hire a coach. Do a bootcamp or get long term video coaching. Sometimes just being able to talk about your issues helps a lot. I'm a coach and I have heard the same story as you hundreds of times. Every guy thinks they are broken, there's something uniquely wrong with them. I know… | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 06:25 AM |
| 43 | What’s everyone’s experience seducing women in Japan ?Women hate being approached on the street. Yet I had two dates in the last week from women I approached on the street, and they loved it. It's called Daygame. | /r/seduction | 12/07/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | I feel like giving upI have a 5'5" friend who does amazing with women. He cold approaches a lot, like 50 girls a month minimum. You may not be as tall and good looking as your friend but with some work you can still get girls. | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 01:01 AM |
| 40 | What are things that worked for you guys that got you laid in day game?I slept with dozens of girls from daygame, almost always from an indirect approach, but also direct. Here's what works... massive leads at the top of the funnel. The more girls you approach, the more opportunities you have. Then you just improve a little each approach. Improve your verbals, your body language, touch, vocal tonality, number closing, texting, instant dates, sexual escalation... etc. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 02:28 AM |
| 0 | I suck at flirting help pleaseIt's free dude. Why don't you go check it out for yourself. I've been teaching game for 15 years. I'm in the sidebar here on Seddit under coach interviews. Tony D. | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 02:25 AM |
| 0 | I suck at flirting help pleaseIf you think pickup advice is bullshit, why are you even here ... lol | /r/seduction | 07/07/24 01:26 AM |
| 9 | Been told I am funny, but not “flirty” or “charming”?You can convey more sexual vibe by including light touching in your flirtation. | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 03:26 AM |
| -1 | I dont know how to hit on this girlRight, and my 3 million words of blog content, two free books, 100 Youtube videos, free community, and 10 hours of free course material, plus the countless hours I've spent answering questions on Reddit. I just want your money! | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 03:17 AM |
| -1 | I dont know how to hit on this girlIt sounds like you're a nice, thoughtful guy. This is probably what's holding you back from scoring with women. You care a lot, and this just isn't the best strategy or mindset. Women are attracted to ambition, dominance, leadership, and aggression. Not violent aggression, but romantic aggression. Here's an article on why nice guys struggle. Maybe it can give you some ideas. https://www.absoluteability.com/dating/9-reasons-nice-guys-never-get-laid/ | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 02:40 AM |
| 0 | First date convoAlways be positive. Avoid negative topics like boring jobs, shitty weather. Make it fun, interesting, tell stories, ask deeper questions. Learning how to talk on a date can take a lot of practice, and study. I have a free course in my skool community with two hours of content covering every seduction verbal game technique you can think of from push pull, sex talk, cold reading, and more. It's called "Conversation Genius." You can find it in the classroom. https://www.skool.com/absolute-ability-8… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | I can’t get an instant date, any suggestions?No I haven't lived in Canada for the last five years. Sorry. But I have a lot of guys from Vancouver in my Skool community if you need a wing. Or you can find guys on Game Global, or even here in Seddit. My group: https://www.skool.com/absolute-ability-8668/about | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 01:50 AM |
| 15 | I suck at flirting help pleaseIgnore this black pill doomer crap. | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 01:48 AM |
| 9 | I suck at flirting help pleaseIt sounds like you need to work on your verbal game. There are many styles, but I've found the oldschool "pua" type stuff to be very useful. Concepts like: Push pull, teasing, rapport building, story telling, cold reading, dhv stories, etc. You can learn a lot of this stuff by reading the side bar here on this sub. You can Google "What to say to girls" and watch vids on Youtube from the hundreds of experts on there. Look up "daygame" and "How to pick up women," etc. Go on Amazon and download boo… | /r/seduction | 06/07/24 01:48 AM |
| 0 | I can’t get an instant date, any suggestions?I usually ask "What are you doing right now? Oh nothing? I know a cool coffee shop up here, let's go." Something like that. Or you could just keep walking with her wherever she's going. Here's a video of me going on an insta date with a girl I just approached. It was only about ten minutes but that's all you need. https://youtu.be/-utW-cWi9gc?si=tEF5fm1O4AD1GhYH | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Why do women attracted to me act so bossy?Here's an article I wrote explaining my point a bit clearer. https://www.absoluteability.com/dating/masculine-feminine-polarity/ | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Why do women attracted to me act so bossy?I'm not talking about some weird S&M relationship. I'm talking about men who are too "nice" and "Feminine" to attract feminine women. Only weirdos want women who are more dominant than themselves. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do women attracted to me act so bossy?Ok you can be the submissive one in our reddit relationship. SUBMIT TO MY DOMINANT LOGIC | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 01:15 AM |
| 4 | Why do women attracted to me act so bossy?This is because modern society has had a gender role, polarity flip. Men are taught to act feminine, and women are taught to act masculine. Because we've forgotten how to embody our natural roles, we project what we would imagine as an ideal mate. Men act nurturing, thoughtful, caring, empathetic (feminine). Women act dominant, bossy, assertive, determined (masculine) This is how we envision our ideal lovers and project. Therefore we have "nice guy" feminine men, and "bossy" masculine women. I t… | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 04:40 AM |
| 1 | When did you start getting success?Both. Sometimes alone, sometimes with wings. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 11:36 PM |
| 14 | When did you start getting success?I lived in Montreal. 7 nights a week nightlife. I would nap after work and go out until 1 or 2 am. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 12:12 PM |
| 49 | When did you start getting success?I went out 90 nights in a row back around 2007 before I finally pulled a hottie from a house party. It was a real grind because I had high levels of social anxiety. Then I'd say it took about two years before I felt extremely confident at cold approach pickup. | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Best places and times to do day game in downtown vancouver?Lol. That's my blog. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Best places and times to do day game in downtown vancouver?Granville and Robson. The little pacific center mall. The beach. | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 03:13 AM |
| 0 | How do I become absolutely magnetic?This is a very broad question. Start by reading and watching everything pickup and self improvement related you can get your hands on. This sub is a start. But then pick a guru who you relate to and follow their advice. Also, if you give more details as to your situation people will be able to give you more feedback. It's like going to a car mechanic reddit and saying "How do I fix my car?" Too vague. I have a free community with free courses on pickup and more. You can come try it out if you wa… | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 06:42 AM |
| 0 | Is my mindset in the right direction?It sounds like you could use therapy more than dating advice. However, if you're looking for more motivation to get out and approach women, consider that your life can fly by very quickly, and you need to experience more of it. I made a video about the mindset for motivation to approach more women. I hope it helps. https://youtu.be/a_DNesAEBaw?si=IxImSpZzn-gEVY8V | /r/seduction | 27/06/24 03:28 AM |
| -9 | How to make a move on a friend who’s had a glow up?Well you can lay her on her stomache, and if she finds it more comfy, ask her to take her bra off. If she's like "Look, yo, that ain't happening!" Then take a step back. If she's like "Okay" then that's a pretty big ioi. Then you start telling her, wow I can't help but feel pretty turned on right now. Your skin, your hair, etc... See how she responds. Then you can put your body down with a good lean, and let your dick press up against your cheeks so she can feel your stiffness. If she hasn't pro… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 06:38 AM |
| 36 | How to make a move on a friend who’s had a glow up?Offer her a massage. Oldest trick in the book. Just say, "I really want to try out my new massage technique on you." She will say yes, of course, to a free massage. Then nature should take its course. Also tickling, palm reading, play with her feet. Use any excuse to touch her and then just admit you want to kiss her. She will either say "Me too!" or reject you. In that case, you can go kill yourself. KIDDING. Read this article I wrote about the friend zone and how to get out of it. https://www.… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 03:27 AM |
| -1 | Are my results typical considering my stats?I'm a dating coach, and to me it sounds like your verbal game sucks. 20 dates and 1 lay is really bad. Most guys can't get 20 matches with attractive women from online dating. 20 dates is like winning the lottery. I would suggest hiring a dating coach and studying verbal game. I have a free course in my Skool community that teaches verbal game. If you want it let me know. | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How do I get back in the game?Fuck dating apps. Learn daygame. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How do I get back in the game?Here's my group. Come start a thread there and I'll help. https://www.skool.com/absolute-ability-8668 | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 08:42 PM |
| 2 | How do I get back in the game?Sounds like you're exhausted by it all. Your mindset is SUPER important with all this stuff. There's a wealth of resources on the Internet and on this sub for how to improve your game. | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Who's the best day game coach rn?I've been teaching it full time for 14 years. Here's my free DG community. https://www.skool.com/absolute-ability-8668/about | /r/seduction | 02/04/24 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I left my social skills back in 2020😭You could get coaching I suppose. There are courses, masterminds, private coaching, and bootcamps. | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Love the game at 49What do you love about it? | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | I left my social skills back in 2020😭What kind of help do you need? There are so many courses online you could study. Go on Amazon and buy some books? | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Not making any progressionIt's not useless it's just not a high converting tactic. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Not making any progressionThe number is NOT useless. I've dated lots of girls after getting their number from a bar or club. Yes, you should be aiming to pull that night, at least out of the bar for a lounge, after party, or food. But preferably to your place. However this idea that you can only pull and numbers or social media won't convert is a myth. Mostly, you're realizing club game is hard. It's really hard for the average guy. That's why I quit focusing on it years ago and switched to daygame. Also, outside the clu… | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 06:01 PM |
| 33 | Are girls that subtle?I don't know why men are so obsessed with women looking at them. Is there some guru out there teaching you need women to look at you to pick them up? I'm 5'8", white guy, and women never look at me. I've still picked up over a hunded women. How? I approach them. I don't care if they look at me. It's not in their nature to do this anyway. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 07:00 PM |
| 3 | How do we feel about Daygame?I love daygame. I've travelled all over the world doing my own, and teaching daygame. I used to go to bars and clubs, and while fun, takes its toll on your wallet and health. I drank too much, and I never really liked these places. For older guys, DG is where it's at. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:21 PM |
| 0 | Which seduction course should I start with?If you want to learn daygame there are free courses and livestreams in this Skool community. | /r/seduction | 29/02/24 05:50 PM |
| -4 | Course on dating/seduction for autistic guysWomen aren't algorithms. It's an art. Pickup "Artist." The closest thing to a structured approach might by Mystery Method. | /r/seduction | 26/02/24 12:34 AM |
| 2 | What books/courses of Seduction do you recommend?Free on Amazon. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 01:53 PM |
| -2 | What books/courses of Seduction do you recommend?This one and it's free on Amazon. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Can’t get over my fearWhich links? | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 11:03 AM |
| 7 | Can’t get over my fearTo lose your fear you need to do immersion therapy. That means subjecting yourself to the fear that triggers the emotional/adrenaline response. It's the same as jumping off a high dive. The first ten times it causes adrenaline, and your little voice says 'Don't do this, you don't have to do this." But you have enough anecdotal evidence to know if you just keep your feet pointed straight down you won't get hurt. So you don't think. You just step off. Stop thinking, start doing. That's the only wa… | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 09:06 PM |
| 16 | 8 years of relationship and My Gf Cheated on me. 23MI'm sorry man. The best thing to do is learn how to approach women, get dating again. Lots of resources for that. | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 06:35 PM |
| 0 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?Here.There are free courses on opening, conversation, free books. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 04:34 AM |
| -5 | Not on Social MediaCold approach is king. It is the lynchpin that will hold everything else in your life, sex or otherwise, together. If you don't have the ability to approach a woman, tell her she's attractive, and get her contact... you're screwed. Lucky for you, there is Seddit! The ultimate community full of knowledge about game, masculinity, mindset, philosophy, daygame, bargame, relationships! So much more. If you want an "easier" way to meet women, host parties, dj, play in a bad, a sports team, become a ph… | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 10:11 PM |
| 20 | Are "Mystery Method" and "The Game" still up to dateNo. He hasn't evolved his teaching, or added anything new since The Game was released. I was just in his free group on Skool. com and the whole community is just a circle jerk of cultish oddity. "What neg should I use after A1?" All respect to Mystery but he needs some new material. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Struggling with romance on datesThe two easiest ways to escalate on a date are a. Touch her more. A lot more. b. Talk about sex. How to touch her? That's a long and complicated post. Good thing I wrote thousands of words about this already. How do you talk about sex? I'm currently writing that article, but I have a video about how to talk about sex and turn her on fast. I hope these help. | /r/seduction | 31/01/24 05:50 PM |
| -16 | What are the best environments to find highly intelligent, witty women?Intelligent people in general are relatively rare. And intelligent people tend to get depressed easy... we just know too much. Dumb people are usually happier. So, you get hot, happy and dumb. Or smart, sexy and tortured. Men in general are just more intelligent that women. So it's easier to find intelligent male friends than female ones. If you do find smart ones, they aren't going to want to talk about politics, crypto, and high brow sci fi. They're out there, but they get snatched up pretty q… | /r/seduction | 28/01/24 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Tips for making out for the first timeSpam | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 05:27 PM |
| 1 | How to crush approach anxietyI just created an hour long video on how to destroy AA. TLDR, learn to control your adrenaline levels, heart rate. Learn to control your mind and emotions. This involves a lot of work, knowledge and practice. You can do it. | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 03:59 PM |
| 19 | Do things work for 40 year olds?I'm in my forties. I wrote a few thousand words and made a Youtube video on pickup and dating after 40. https://www.absoluteability.com/dating/attract-younger-women/ TLDR... mindset shift, dress better than normal, learn cold approach, be optimistic, take action. A lot more than that, but you're still young and healthy. You can do it man. You're in your prime. | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Controlling emotionshttps://youtu.be/x2ffFtqYx3w?si=fbgcK1howvima3sP | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Controlling emotionsYou're living in a dream world and you're set for the rude awakening of reality | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 07:48 PM |
| 6 | Is it a bad idea to just be yourself?Just be yourself is the worst advice in the dating industry. That's because if you're here, chances are yourself is supplicating, needy, jealous, insecure, inexperienced, and boring at conversation. Study courses, get a coach, approach a thousand women, learn female attraction psychology, hit the gym, dress better, absorb 200 self help books to change your mindset, learn a new skill like bartending or guitar. Etc... Then when you're awesome... be yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:23 PM |
| 8 | How to ask a girl on a date through text ?"Hey, what are you doing (day)? I know this awesome (place). You have to risk being rejected. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:21 PM |
| 8 | Controlling emotionswe used to call this "Oneitis." And the advice was "GMTOW." Go meet ten other women. I think that advice still stands. You can't "stop" emotions but you can learn to control them. This can takes years of work, self awareness, meditation, experience with women, experience with men. You can't let a woman dictate your emotions. It's not masculine, and it WILL cause her to lose attraction for you. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 05:10 PM |
| -4 | Physical escalation tips?Most people will cite Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder, which you can find with a simple search. Physical escalation starts with small probing touches, and can move up to petting, massages, tickles, makeouts, and finally sex. How you arrive there depends on the situation. I have a very long guide to touch here. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 12:11 AM |
| -9 | Physical escalation tips?Most people will cite Vin Dicarlo's escalation ladder, which you can find with a simple search. Physical escalation starts with small probing touches, and can move up to petting, massages, tickles, makeouts, and finally sex. How you arrive there depends on the situation. I have a very long guide to touch here. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 12:11 AM |
| -11 | Which is best game/sex course that has helped you and you would recommend it to everyone?This course is free. | /r/seduction | 26/01/24 12:07 AM |
| 5 | Is it okay to verbally ask a girl if she is interested in you, while on a date?You should probably hire a professional to help you. | /r/seduction | 09/01/24 04:35 PM |
| 5 | John Anthony Lifestyle Scam And Worst PUA In The WorldJmulv is one of the biggest sociopaths in the scene. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | How do you know if a "dating coach" is legit?Dating coach here. Been doing this for over a decade. Anyone who tells you dating coaches are pointless, or useless, has never worked with a good coach. It's sort of like asking, how do you know if a football coach is legit? How do you know if a psychologist is legit? The only way to know is if their clients get results. So, you need to speak with previous clients perhaps. Or you can just read their books, watch their youtube vids, and come to your own conclusion. In the end, you have to move yo… | /r/seduction | 15/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Don’t judge a dating coach by how many receipts he hasI don't know any good coaches who brag about how many girls they've banged. I know some sociopaths who do. If you want to know if he's a good "pickup" coach, just ask to see some of his infield videos. Listen to him speak and if you like what he says, give him a shot. I'm not talking about listening to his promises about what he can do for you. I mean, his or her wisdom. Their ability to teach. A good coach doesn't really give advice. That's consulting. A consultant just tells you what to do, ho… | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 04:35 PM |
| 1 | What the hell happened to the PUA community?Anyone who talks openly about pickup without sugar coating it to blue pill Nirvana gets censored. We weren't supposed to talk about fight club. Maybe it's better, maybe worse. I'm still making content. | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Pua BooksWelcome to Seddit. Would you walk into a Christian church and ask if it's a waste of time to study God? | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Im really bad at conversation and need help.You're looking for something called "Game." Welcome to the world of pickup advice. Start reading and watching Youtube videos. Read a few books. There are many recommendations here. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Failing at day gameIt's impossible to tell from the post. But on average, expect about 90% of the girls to flake. This is normal even for the best of us. | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 1 | If you don’t try then you’ll never know...What's the point of this post and why is it #1? | /r/seduction | 22/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | I’m a 27 years old virgin guy who is successful in every other part of life except dating. What should I do? Is it too late?I started when I was 27. By my thirties I was sleeping with beautiful younger women... a lot. I don't know why you'd think it's too late. You're just getting started. | /r/seduction | 09/08/20 01:14 AM |
| 1 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooI used to live in Montreal. That's where most of my memoir is set. Yes, my website is www.absoluteability.com. I'm Tony D. You can pm me if you want. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Advice for asking this girls number at workJust ask her to "hang out" sometime next week. "What's the best way to talk?" It's normal for people to want to keep in touch. But if you want to seduce her, that's something else. | /r/seduction | 28/07/20 02:22 AM |
| 19 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooOh, everywhere. Mostly night and street fun times. Hipster bars, dive bars mostly. But in Montreal, that's where the hottest arty girls went. I like em weird too. Self promo... I wrote a novel about it. Kind of a big deal... ;o | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 15 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooDad age plus ten | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 11:06 PM |
| 10 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooSeddit is a good start. Check the sidebar. I started at 27, and I was a wreck too. So don't stress. I won't lie, it's going to be a long, hard road to calibration. But you can do it. Many men have done it before you. Lockdown doesn't mean you can't socialize. You just have to deal with the masks, and the fear. If you do daygame approaches, going direct for example: "Hi I thought you looked great, and had to meet you. I'm Turiya" she might be watching your body language. "Is he nervous? Is it bec… | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 1 | I finally got really hot girlfriends... and then lost them. Don't make these mistake tooThat depends on where you live, and what your favorite methods are (i.e. daygame, bars, social circle, online.) | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 08:58 PM |
| 4 | What are good alternatives to saying “do you come here often?”Instead of taking value, give it. You could tell her your opinion of the place. "I don't come her often because..." Or... "I come here often because..." She will naturally add her own observations, give you her information, without you asking for it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Such on point advices are what we need!Well, that's some really dumb advice. I've been teaching dating, pickup, whatever you call it, for over a decade. If you're waiting for the women to let you know they like you, well, you just don't have game son. Sometimes it takes a little time for feelings to develop. She can think you're a pig one minute, and be shoving her tongue down your throat the next. Think of that scene from Empire Strikes Back. Leia wants nothing to do with the scruffy nerfherder, and the next thing you know, they're … | /r/seduction | 21/07/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | How to get a second date. A 3500 word guideI didn't know it wasn't allowed to post links anymore. I've been posting links to my website here for years, but bounced out of Seddit after it became too big. The mods at one point just asked I give a description of what I'm posting to before I do, rather than just a direct link to the url. I'm over there in the sidebar AMA as well. | /r/seduction | 08/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 1 | 7 Tips For Better Verbal GameI did mine at VCC. Vancouver Community. It was cheap and fun. Though it was ten years ago. They might be more now. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:05 PM |
| -7 | RSD World Summit Review/Rant (Las Vegas: August 5th-11th, 2018).Okay. First off...you're thinking like a consumer, which you are. But instead, you need to think like an entrepreneur. I know you know this, as you've said, but it needs to said again. As an entrepreneur myself I understand this concept: Businesses need money. That phone or laptop you typed this on, it costs money. It costed money for Elon Musk to hire people, to create the Iphone. People need money to feed their kids, to travel, for everything. RSD is a business. Their job is to help men get la… | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Guys, what is your first default text to a girl after getting her number?I see lots of joking and no solid advice. My first text is always one word... "Tony." She will either reply with her name, a long, highly invested text like, "It was really great to meet you. I was thinking about what you were saying...." followed by emoticons, or she won't reply at all. Now she knows my name. I don't have to remind her. She can choose whether or not to invest and I'm not chasing. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Wow a 9-5 life is hardI learned game when I worked 40+ hours a week. I'd sleep when I got off work, a nap, and then go out at night. Every night for about two hours at least. And I'd DG on my lunch break. That's how I learned it all. Now I have a small business and I work all day and night but it's fun and rewarding. I can take time off and travel whenever I want to. But I like working. | /r/seduction | 18/07/18 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Did anybody actually get from zero to an adequate pua? Can you tell your story?Sure I did. I even wrote a novel about it. | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Make Day Game practicalthe 1/10 ratio is very true for newbies. For myself I'd say it's about 3/10. But I've been at this for 12 years. NG has it's advantages for sure, but also the disadvantages. Like staying out until 1-5 am, being surrounded by drunk people, or drugged people, and just the vapidity of the scene. I'm good at both but just too old for bars and clubs. I mean they're just not that fun or productive, and I lose a day to sleeping in. If you want to be really effective at meeting a lot of women, best to b… | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Make Day Game practicalI don't know. I've slept with dozens of women over the years who I met from random street approaches. Sure you can also meet girls who work in stores, or cafe's. There definitely is a high flake ratio, since this is cold approach. It's a numbers game, and a skill game. But if you have the skill you need the numbers. Then it just comes down to luck: meeting a girl who is open to dating someone they just met. | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 10:25 PM |
| 1 | The Six Best Products Other Than ModelsI don't think anybody is "right." Everyone who isn't a fake has some insight to be learned. It's up to you to try it all out, and learn the fundamental lessons. When 60 wrote that book everyone worshipped Mystery the way everyone worships Mark Manson now. Mystery Method was turning a lot of guys into social robots. But most robots eventually become self-aware. | /r/seduction | 08/05/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Hardcore Social AnxietyYour question is too vague really. It's a complex issue. My advice unless you have a specific question, or experience you would like to explore, is to hang out on forums like this, read, and practice. I'd say read all the recommended books and go to the Youtube channels of coaches, and go out. Otherwise I'll have to write a "How to fix hardcore social anxiety rulebook" for you. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Girl I been talking too is sending mixed signalsI have what I call an open door policy. That means, the door is always open. If she wants to run away, the door is open. Women are like cats. If you chase them they run. If you leave the door open and food on the counter, they'll always come back. Let go of the "need" to be perfect. Be imperfect, and assume the sale. You are good enough. You are attractive. And if she can't see that then find another girl. You are too invested, and she will tell. When you have the chance to escalate with her, to… | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Girl I been talking too is sending mixed signalsFlip the script. She's calling you a friend because either she is actually afraid of your rejection, because perhaps she see's you as particularily high value, or, she's leaving the door open to actually just be friends. You can flip the script a little bit. Say something like, "Thank god we're just friends, you can be my wingman." Or you can be more direct: "I have enough friends." I wouldn't use this except right before you try to kiss her. But basically it's a test, and you have to just ignor… | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Third date, still no balls to kiss herIf you don't have the guts to just lean in and try, then maybe use a line. Here are a few classics: I'm trying so hard not to kiss you. How good of a kisser are you from 1 - 10? Let's find out. I'm going to kiss you now. Most girls will reject the first kiss if you just lean in. But you almost always get it on the second try. This is normal. Get used to it. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Hardcore Social AnxietyHow could I help? | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:40 PM |
| 1 | 0/7 Matches at a Speed DatingWith most speed dating events if you don't make a match you're allowed to go back. So go back, and meet 10 more women, try again. Also, bring a phone, hit record and leave it on the table. Then you can listen back later to see if you're saying anything odd, or boring, etc. It could be any number of factors from bad vocal tonality, eye contact, awkward/boring subject matter, nose hairs. Without more information it's impossible for us to tell. Just go back, and try again. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Hardcore Social AnxietySo what's the question? You think you're the only one? This whole forum, and almost every pickup forum is dedicated to men with social anxiety. I had very intense social anxiety too. I did the regimen, worked on it for many years, now I'm a dating coach. If I can do it, anyone can. You have my permission to keep working on yourself. You can do it. I believe in you. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:35 PM |
| -1 | Almost 60 approaches. Was bold/direct. Never got a date. Most ostracize/distrust/creep shame me. (college)Come back when you're done 600. By then you should be getting a bit better at this stuff. 60 is nothing. | /r/seduction | 07/05/18 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone actually gone from having bad social skills and depression to being successful with women?Once you learn how to get over your approach anxiety, and learn how to approach women, you'll gain a sense of confidence. Then you'll eventually pickup a girl, or ten, and get a girlfriend. This will give you a sense of purpose and self worth. But just talking about it and analyzing it won't do a thing. Going to the gym will do nothing. Only learning how to cold approach will fix it. Take a bootcamp if you must. The process will take several years. | /r/seduction | 05/05/18 03:54 AM |
| 2 | It happened. I caught oneitis, and now I'm kicking myself.Modern women often see sex as a potato chip. They can eat the whole bag and become a life long fan, or have one and leave the bag in the cupboard. Most often they just leave the bag in the cupboard. They know that if they continue to have the chips they will grow fat with love and affection for you, so they only have one chip. Men are different. We can eat the whole bag and then buy a different brand, while still eating our old favourites. | /r/seduction | 01/05/18 06:01 AM |
| 3 | To those who have done a bootcamp, was it worth the money, travel, and time?Having taught bootcamps myself for over a decade, I can tell you, yes they work. However they depend on the coach, and what your own personal work ethic is. Bootcamps are great for guys who have a lot of approach anxiety, to the point that they're making zero progress. Sure you can go out with friends, but are they going to stand beside you for 12 plus hours, motivating, critiquing, and demonstrating? Likely not. They'll have a couple of beers, talk to girls and disappear. That said, pickup take… | /r/seduction | 26/03/18 09:36 AM |
| 1 | My review of 3 bootcamps with 3 different companies - Tony D, Love Systems, CloudI pm'd you. If you really are an ex client, I would address your concerns. Hope to hear from you anyway. | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 06:17 PM |
| 2 | My review of 3 bootcamps with 3 different companies - Tony D, Love Systems, CloudBro I don't know who you are, but you definitely didn't take a bootcamp with me. Most likely you are this Cloud guy. | /r/seduction | 17/03/18 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Really concise pickup guides?I'd say start with Mystery Method videos, and Annihilation by Style, aka Neil Strauss. You could also read Double Your Dating by David Deangelo, or my book for daygame, I Hope It's Sunny Out. Most newer stuff focuses on inner game because in reality, all game comes down to confidence, self-esteem, and belief, with a dash of technique. All your techniques are useless if you have panic attacks just thinking of approaching. But approaching is the only way to develop game, outer and inner. Another g… | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 07:00 AM |
| 3 | The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective Players Part 2Nice. I actually made a video a few years on this same topic a few years ago. | /r/seduction | 01/02/18 06:10 PM |
| – | Don't understand why this sub-reddit is full of newbie posts and not intermediate/advance advice/questionsIf you want advanced answers, ask advanced questions. The truth is Reddit works on a vote system, and is not exclusive. So the majority of users are newbs, and they click up the newb stuff. Advanced stuff is beyond their experience and just gets ignored mostly. Your best bet is to join a forum. | /r/seduction | 19/01/18 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Merry Christmas Seddit. Two Free Pua BooksUhuh nice | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 08:23 PM |
| 2 | Merry Christmas Seddit. Two Free Pua BooksHave a great 2018 | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | A YouTuber's Success StoryCool. I'm more a battlefield guy myself ;). Curious, did the adpocalypse affect you too? | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 05:51 PM |
| 1 | A YouTuber's Success StoryWhat's your channel, or what is it about at least? | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 05:46 PM |
| – | I feel this cycle of sadness a couple of times a week and I want to know how to cure itLearning game is like learning a martial art. It takes years of dedication. It's super fun, and incredibly rewarding, but the otherside, the rejection, the bruised ego, can suck. You have to pay the price. The alternative is suicide. So you have no alternative. Try again, and again, and again, and again, and again, until you get it. | /r/seduction | 14/12/17 06:04 AM |
| – | I've highlighted every instance of negative language in a Seddit poster's conversation. Learn from it.Izzy, one day you have to grow up | /r/seduction | 02/12/17 07:07 PM |
| 1 | I've highlighted every instance of negative language in a Seddit poster's conversation. Learn from it.Autistic screech!!!!!! | /r/seduction | 01/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I've highlighted every instance of negative language in a Seddit poster's conversation. Learn from it.One of my biggest fans! I encourage you to explore his blog further. Learn his deep wisdom. | /r/seduction | 30/11/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | I've highlighted every instance of negative language in a Seddit poster's conversation. Learn from it.You don't know a thing about seduction. Black Tall sent me a private message thanking me for the advice, and we've been in communication ever since. | /r/seduction | 21/11/17 09:06 PM |
| 90 | How should i approach girls at the club that make eye contact?At your stage it doesn't matter what you say, all that matters is that you open everything. Open everything. We used to call it burning the place down, as a metaphor for opening every single pretty girl in the club. Spam it, because that's how you will learn. Does it take 20 attempts? 30? 40? Still nothing? Good. Go to the next bar and try again. Do this every night for a year. By then you'll be pretty good at cold approach night game. | /r/seduction | 03/11/17 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?Thank you | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?5'7" | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?They act disinterested because you lack energy, and you're nervous. You don't have game. Learn game, study club game. RSD has a thousand videos on this. Night game is all about fun, energy, enthusiasm. Learn how to express that, and you'll find women. Also, you have to do a lot of approaching at night. Thing 20 to 30 attempts per night. If you try once or twice, you will never meet a girl who's down. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?Earphones mean nothing. You just motion for them to take them out. If you let a girl being on a phone stop you from approaching, then expect to never meet women, because they're always on their phone. This is 2017. Everyone has headphones in. Be more interesting than her Ibiza mix. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?I'm an average looking guy. I can do it. So can you. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-utW-cWi9gc Also I'm 39 and still dating women in their twenties. So .... | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?Well a good start is to look at your current belief system and internal dialogue. Affirmations perhaps. "I am good enough. Women are attracted to me. Women want to meet me. I am confident. I have game." Second step, approach women. You say you don't know how, but this is what I call "bullshit." You know what to do, you're just not "doing" it. When clients ask me "how" do I approach a girl, I tell them this: Move your left leg, then your right. Force air through your lungs. Form vowels and conson… | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?You CAN. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Should I try daygame if I don't receive IOIs?You don't need ioi's. What you need is game. Grow a pair, approach the girl and introduce yourself with a smile. There are literally a thousand hours of infield daygame footage on Youtube. Check out Madison from RSD or Justin Wayne. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | A List of Approach InvitationsYeah everything but the glasses and headphones. I meet women with both of these all the time and have had clients do it hundreds of times. Not a big deal. Excellent post. | /r/seduction | 24/10/17 08:53 PM |
| 1 | College Girls always Looking--IntrovertedWho cares about eye contact. Just approach them. That's what game is for. To learn how to approach women. Just do it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 11:13 PM |
| -1 | Afraid of being called creepy? Banned from a bar. Video.Cheers | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 01:53 AM |
| 4 | Realistic Daygame StatisticsI've been daygaming for ten years and can attest to these odds. And I'm a teacher. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 05:31 PM |
| 1 | The Rational Male, Positive MasculinityAwesome I'll check it out. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/17 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward?Cancel it. Set it up again on your terms. | /r/seduction | 24/07/17 08:00 PM |
| – | What if she see's you chatting up other women? Nice guys and daygame.Izzy...you are a nutjob. | /r/seduction | 20/07/17 07:05 PM |
| 9 | For those who are really looking to improve their dating life start working out / exercising immediately.On the other hand you can learn an instrument and start a band. Punk rock, the last refuge of skinny guys who get more sex than athletes. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Any of you have infields?I have some daygame vids from Vancouver Canada https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-utW-cWi9gc | /r/seduction | 21/03/17 09:17 PM |
| 2 | My "best friend" keeps hitting on the girls I likeI had the same problem with my "best friend." I gave him a stern talking to and he agreed to never do that again. My girls are my girls unless you ask for my permission. Though, we're not friends anymore for other reasons. | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | My three favourite success books (Looking for reviews of the novel I gave away last week)I didn't find much new or interesting in Models. I like Mark though. | /r/seduction | 22/02/17 01:04 AM |
| 1 | My three favourite success books (Looking for reviews of the novel I gave away last week)It's actually a fiction novel about a young man who travels to SE Asia looking for his brother who went missing two years earlier. I'm about 50% done the first draft. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | My three favourite success books (Looking for reviews of the novel I gave away last week)Power of now focuses more on how to be present, and a little bit on ego and pain body. A New Earth focuses more on Ego and Pain body, and a little bit on being present. | /r/seduction | 20/02/17 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameThanks I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 10/02/17 05:16 AM |
| 3 | 7 approaches, 0 numbers. Who cares?I've never met one. I've had virgin students, and escort addicts. But most get laid in at least a year. Most in the first three months. Some the first day. | /r/seduction | 09/02/17 05:51 AM |
| 2 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameI think you downloaded the preview? Click on the kindle unlimited link. One version is written by T.D.Newton and the other is TOny D. Get the Tony D version. Amazon fucked up. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameIt's not a pickup guide. It's a novel. Take what you can from it. I published this book three years ago and am working on the next. Most people say it's addictive and they read it in one or two sittings. Thank you though. If you like it, leave a review on Amazon, if not, don't. Or do. I don't care. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | 7 approaches, 0 numbers. Who cares?Good for you man. That's the right attitude. I've taught hundreds of men irl how to approach women, and I've never seen a guy that once he had the basics down not able to get at least 1 out of 10 attempts right. It might take you twenty tries, but you can do it. The odds only get better with practice. This is assuming you have good body language, grooming, eye contact and vocal tonality. You don't seem like a nervous wreck and you try to number close every attempt no matter what. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 07:40 PM |
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| 1 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameGood. Less competition for the winners. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameAll I hear is a bunch of crying. Suck it up you ugly bastards. Get it done. | /r/seduction | 08/02/17 01:36 PM |
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| 11 | Free Pua Novel For Seddit. Ten Years in The GameThe point is don't focus on what you can't change. Focus on what you can. In that regard, your looks don't matter. | /r/seduction | 07/02/17 07:11 PM |
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