How to get a second date. A 3500 word guide

Woujo · 2020-07-08T17:37:24+00:00

How is this guy allowed to link to his site and not me?

recyclablebanthas · 2020-07-13T03:47:57+00:00

TL;DR Summary:

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How To Get a Second Date With Her

Be entertaining: You want to know how to get a second date with her? Don’t bore her to tears on the first one.
Challenge her: Everybody appreciates what they’ve earned, more than what’s given.
Use intrigue: Don’t be so eager to give up all of yourself to her on the first date. Leave little hints that there’s more to be discovered.
Don’t buy her affection: Over spending on a first date just comes off as try-hard, and desperate.
Build sexual tension: On a first date, you want to build the sexual tension. You can do this through touch, talking about sex, and generally enjoying your time together.
Allow her to express herself: Instead of just saying, “Cool,” when she tells you about her life long passions, show genuine interest and you’ll know how to get a second date with her.
Find common interests: Surely there’s something that you both have in common. You need to find it.
Tease her: One of the reason teasing girls is so effective in creating attraction, is because it’s different than the supplicating, buying, pleasing nature of most men. It shows you’re a bit of a challenge, playful, and willing to risk screwing up the date by being a little silly.
Leave open conversation threads: Like intrigue, open conversational threads leave something for her to discover.
Use future projection: You can create a second date scenario in her mind, before you even have it. For example you might say: “I know this really amazing park nearby. I’ll have to take you there next time.”
Make a time-sensitive-offer: When asking how to get a second date with a girl, you can utilize a time sensitive offer. For example, there’s a really great beach nearby, but the nice weather is due to end in a couple of days.
Show interest in a second date with her: If you really like the girl, it’s okay to just tell her “I had a fun time. I’d really like to see you again.”
Touch her: Too little touching and she’ll think you’re scared of girls, asexual, or you don’t really like her. Too much and you’ll come across as pushy, or creepy. You want to start small. A light touch on the arm, shoulder, or leg, wipe an eyelash off her cheek, playfully poke her in the belly.
Give her what she wants: On the first date, ask yourself what might she want? Most likely it is: to have fun, get to know you, express herself, feel comfortable, and enjoy some sexual tension.

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This is what I mean when I say that the article needs to stand on its own. Note that all I did was basically take your list and drop a sentence or two from each point on the list.

I copy pasted all this in 5 minutes while speed reading your article.

There's still plenty of reason for people to go to your article on your site for more details, but a summary like this gives value here and it stands on its own.

Posts that don't meet this bar, get taken down.

manonpoint_com · 2020-07-08T04:49:14+00:00

good guide, I like it.

John_Wick_Detroit · 2020-07-08T18:17:24+00:00

Everybody tryin' to cash in

Title	How to get a second date. A 3500 word guide
Author	TonyDCoaching
Upvotes	5
Comments	9
Date	July 8, 2020 2:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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