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Oh yeah, Execute The Program, I did forget about that. It is good.
/r/seduction21/03/18 08:39 PM
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As /u/WIA20XX mentions, Tyler's stuff is good if you're late intermediate/advanced. If you're a beginner/early intermediate, I think it's nearly useless. I think overall Todd's stuff is the best--check out what he's doing with his new company. I'm a follower of Todd. I don't think the direction Julien is going in is useful for most people, especially if you supplement your Pickup related reading/pursuits with general self-development already. Madison's Bootcamp at home may have some utility, I h…
/r/seduction21/03/18 08:14 PM
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Thank you for taking it calmly and maturely lol.
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:50 PM
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I think that guy is wrong (and so silly he might actually be a troll) and I lean more towards your views of things, but I don't think this kind of aggressive comment is a productive way to respond. He strikes me as a kind of ideologue who feeds off of this combativeness, he is addicted to it.
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:05 PM
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Maybe all guys know how to be fuckboys? Certainly not, otherwise we wouldn't need this sub haha Not that I or most guys reading this material aspire to be "fuckboys"--most of us aspire to be quite the opposite and want a pretty normal long-term relationship. By "normal" I don't mean the average relationship people get into that one might call "co-dependent", or where one person is clearly more invested/needy about it than the other. Instead, a mutually supportive partnership, etc etc.
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:59 PM
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Being a virgin is basically just a binary thing; not sure how you're WAY MORE of one than someone else. Like, have you never jacked off or seen a naked woman before or something lolol
/r/seduction13/03/18 05:56 AM
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I haven't, but I have some of his products from his RSD time and they're great. My friend is starting online coaching with his company, so he and others will be able to start providing reviews/testimonials in a few months. I may also start the online coaching, and will definitely be doing his Immersion program at some point in the next year or year and a half. I'll do it multiple times if it's good. It looks like an amazing deal if he does it in your city, but yeah, if you have to travel it turn…
/r/seduction25/02/18 11:16 PM
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Neither of them are really "methods". Personally, I like Todd for actual game mechanics, and self-development/introspection is kind of just a part of my life on the "inner game" side. Manson's Models is a solid book, but it's about just one inner game problem that comes up for a lot of guys. It's overrated, IMO.
/r/seduction25/02/18 02:59 AM
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More people each year are killed by knife attacks...would you even consider banning knives? That would be ridiculous. Just like a bus for example: when a terrorist runs over 50 people with one of them, do we ban buses from driving around? Of course not! Are you familiar with the statistics you are citing? Total fatalities from knives or cutting implements may have been greater than for rifles for 2016--however, the total number of fatalities from firearms dwarfs those from knives. However, I thi…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 08:15 AM
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Was subscribed to this sub for 5 minutes, but most of the posters here seem to be just as fucking loony as anyone who wants to blame gun violence on masculinity or men.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 06:46 AM
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The 2nd Amendment exists to defend the people. The 2nd Amendment was originally about state militias, not individuals or "the people" defending themselves. Regardless, there is no reality in which owning assault rifles somehow guarantees reasonable protection against the US military. The line of thinking that guns will somehow allow people to protect themselves from the government is delusional.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 06:42 AM
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nmmng wat
/r/seduction18/02/18 09:49 PM
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I am by no means an expert on this or any other game-related topic, but I think I do a pretty good job with most of my FRs. I think a good approach broadly speaking is to write about the interaction in as much detail as you can/seems relevant; then write what you did well, what you did poorly, and what you would do differently next time; and then perhaps post questions to the community if you want/need to.
/r/seduction18/02/18 09:46 PM
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You should note the city you are in.
/r/seduction18/02/18 02:36 AM
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Cool. Me and a couple other Sedditors are starting a new subreddit where we hope to engage in richer (and primarily outer-game focused) discussions of game than take place on r/seduction. I will shoot you a link and invite you to post there when we create it, which should be this weekend. I know you're thoughtful and have a lot to say, so I'd love to have your posts/input on there.
/r/seduction16/02/18 02:46 AM
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Don't get down on yourself for anything other than not approaching at this juncture. The AA will decrease significantly at some point.
/r/seduction14/02/18 03:41 AM
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Good FR, good list of things to correct. I had done countless approaches before this, but I felt as though it was day 1 all over again. I've started to try day game recently, and this has been my experience exactly!
/r/seduction12/02/18 05:39 AM
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You know, the funny thing about that dude coming into the first set was that he was this kind of guy we would assume does better than us automatically. But even though had initial interest from the girls, the two he spoke to were the ones that bounced, not the one I was talking to. :P
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:42 PM
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Hey you did well in the set that did hook though. 3 second rule will be good, but you clearly got bothered by your AA last night and I think that alone will provide emotional leverage to help you make approaching a habit.
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:03 PM
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Thanks. AA is not a problem, but I am not good at opening yet.
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:00 PM
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SHE is ruining her marriage (or maybe they both are, who knows). You didn't deliberately. You know that--"it's not your fault" is what you posted this to hear. Even worse, she wants to continue sleeping with me This is not "worse", this is irrelevant, because it doesn't align with your values and you won't do it again.
/r/seduction09/02/18 09:52 AM
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Cool! I'll PM you.
/r/seduction08/02/18 07:12 PM
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Who cares? Go out and game hard regardless.
/r/seduction07/02/18 11:07 PM
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even a newbie can be having sex within the first 2 months, I think you may be overestimating where a lot of guys are starting out from man I 100% believe most guys want the hotter girls without put up with the work. (workout, eat healthily, read, learn improv). I think you are probably right about this. I have a buddy who's not into game who loves The Abbey lol, I have yet to check it out.
/r/seduction07/02/18 08:10 PM
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I echo the "drop the video games"
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:17 AM
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You're right about the importance of logistics overall. My point though is that if he's new (and this depends on the individual obviously) he could be too far from any such success for it to even matter. For many guys in the beginning (myself included), small wins that keep them motivated might very well be like pleasant interactions of ~5-10 minutes, having a night of very little AA, getting a number even if flaky, etc. What are your favorite venues in LA?
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:16 AM
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To work on basic social skills and do only very light cold approaches. Read a lot of stuff you wouldn't normally (whatever that means for you).
/r/seduction06/02/18 07:51 AM
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Why should he be worried about pulling? He's new, and he's going to move within the next several months anyways.
/r/seduction06/02/18 12:30 AM
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Yes, don't make it too complicated. Add on only a bit at a time.
/r/seduction05/02/18 08:54 PM
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Oh yeah I saw that haha. I love that you had a thought and went and immediately tested it out. I wish the community was more like that nowadays.
/r/seduction05/02/18 08:49 PM
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Thanks for the encouragement!
/r/seduction05/02/18 05:48 AM
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r/gothamseddit PM me your email, I can DM the mod to add you to the Slack. He has been bad at checking Reddit.
/r/seduction01/02/18 09:22 PM
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I don't think it should matter. I think one of the main things people miss about this phenomenon is that there is a difference between a professional context and a social context. I believe women wish to be treated differently in each. I worry more about that shit affects professional life, tbh. Gonna have to go fucking Pence-style when I have my career and never be alone with a female colleague.
/r/seduction01/02/18 09:15 PM
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I think you're stretching the meaning of that proverb buddy
/r/seduction29/01/18 09:23 PM
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You have to be pretty like rigorous about what you watch from them. If a video seems dumb, just cut it immediately, it's unlikely to get better. And avoid watching the newer Tyler videos. He is in a stage of narcissism. Jeffy's videos are usually good. They tend to have theses and structures. Tyler's videos from ~2013-2014 (maybe '15) can be pretty useful too. Watch Todd's videos too. He's not with RSD anymore, obviously, but if you're looking for good PU material, you could just stick to Todd a…
/r/seduction29/01/18 09:22 PM
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That makes them sound more intellectual than they actually are.
/r/seduction29/01/18 09:17 PM
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your post is sfw
/r/seduction27/01/18 03:40 AM
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It's good that it's not full of Red Pillers and Trump supporters, but it's a little too nice guy and white-washed, IMO. It also deemphasizes tactics and details way too much.
/r/seduction26/01/18 08:43 PM
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We do, and we decided we don't fucking like Roosh and many of his opinions. You say we should give him a pass on his shitty opinions because he is honest about them and because others hold them. Hardly a defense of him and his opinions themselves.
/r/seduction26/01/18 08:41 PM
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You shouldn't get "drunk" per se, but one or two drinks will probably do more good than harm. But man, you have to be able to approach sober. Why don't you make a rule that you have to do at least 1 decent approach before grabbing a drink? That's what I did when I was still uncomfortable approaching.
/r/seduction22/01/18 11:13 PM
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https://media.giphy.com/media/POql6zsXZbmcE/giphy.gif
/r/seduction22/01/18 10:25 PM
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It's impossible to know/help without seeing you, but this line indicates some shit to me: Night game still scares me, people are all in groups and it's easy to feel inadequate. There's a lot of guys who find night game intimidating and do day. Doesn't make sense to me. It's normal to approach during the night. It's abnormal during the day. I think if one has a confidence problem that would inhibit them from going to a bar and chatting up wimminz even though that's a very normal behavior, then th…
/r/seduction21/01/18 10:19 AM
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Hey man, Good stuff, I think you did well. That was a lot of work for one night. I thought it wouldn't be long so I grabbed a seat. But dude, have you even played Monopoly before? LOL You learned the hard way on that one I guess edit: I hate when I fuck up. I hate it so much more than getting rejected. If you look at RSD videos and stuff, they don't mention fucking up enough, but once in a while they do. I take solace in the notion that they've fucked up so much they forget how much it can sting…
/r/seduction21/01/18 10:14 AM
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You know, this sub is probably predominantly composed of dudes who didn't get laid in high school lol
/r/seduction21/01/18 09:48 AM
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The salient point, for the purposes of this convo, isn't so much whether that stuff is advanced. It's whether that stuff is the real shit that needs to be discussed as opposed to helping dudes with one specific girl or giving them platitudal pep talks because they come on here asking how to improve self-confidence
/r/seduction19/01/18 10:01 AM
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Let's make a sub that champions this kind of ethic. I am down. edit: what could we call it? r/realpua? r/realseduction? r/seriouspickup? no matter what it is called, one should have to PM mods for access and there should be serious warnings and even bans if people post dumb shit.
/r/seduction19/01/18 09:56 AM
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I am annoyed by this as well. I'm a beginner, but I want to talk theory, strategy, and tactics, and also exchange views on FRs. Posts about what to do in a specific situation with a specific girl should just be removed and banned. There have also been a lot of posts lately along the lines of "durr how do I get more confident thnx" or "how can I not be awkward". It's like motherfucker, that's what the whole sub and endeavor are about. Then there are the high schoolers and the self-promoting wanna…
/r/seduction19/01/18 09:54 AM
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No it isn't. Being both unattractive and having no confidence/game is obviously worse. It definitely comes across as a stupid humble brag. Go approach and execute.
/r/seduction16/01/18 10:54 PM
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What exactly makes you think this was a shit-test? From the information we've been provided (which is obviously pretty incomplete), the girl just went from positive-positive-positive to suddenly quite mean and rude (unless OP just totally didn't get that she was teasing or something). It's not mean to ask "do you find those girls hot". Sounds pretty shit-testy to my inexperienced ears. However, it's very rude of her to then call OP ugly (if she was indeed serious), which makes me think it wasn't…
/r/seduction16/01/18 09:36 PM
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He must help himself, first and foremost. You cannot solve his internal problems for him.
/r/seduction16/01/18 08:47 PM
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(my mom attends my college) wat kind of life is this ;_;
/r/seduction16/01/18 05:55 AM
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Yeah I think that idea might be a little outdated. The bigger problem for most guys is acting too disinterested and just getting platonic interactions. Good stuff from Jeffy on the subject: https://youtu.be/obci7c9qpNI?t=296
/r/seduction12/01/18 07:50 PM
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Its a great ay for you to REALLY to open the door for their pussy. I lol'd IRL
/r/seduction11/01/18 07:40 AM
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Cool! I don't have a Facebook, so can't RSVP, but planning on coming and maybe bringing one more. Also, r/LosAngelesSeddit
/r/seduction09/01/18 10:36 PM
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The only PU books I can recall reading are The Game and Models. I recommend reading some Mark Manson to balance out the Red Pillish shit you're reading. I've read some books, which, like How To Win Friends..., are social skills related, but none I would particularly recommend. I am currently reading The Book of Pook, and do recommend that.
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:21 AM
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But if they fake infield I also think they would fake for all his instructor while Ozzy and Luke barely have any good infield. I would believe it's because they just can't run a good set or pull for real... Indeed. I get the impression Ozzy just dgaf though; he doesn't put out products, so he doesn't need the advertising. He just makes a living doing European bootcamps and it works for him.
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:15 AM
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Many of us have a lot of thoughts re: them. I have several RSD products. Todd's are by far the best; pay attention to what he is doing at his new company. I certainly am, and am more interested in taking a Todd Immersion than an RSD Bootcamp, personally (that being said, I am interested in both). Unfortunately, I haven't taken a Bootcamp or seen any of them game extensively enough to judge whether they are legit in person. I have seen Tyler, Todd (erstwhile, etc), and Jeffy out in LA, but the on…
/r/seduction09/01/18 06:04 AM
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I did an Amazon search for Roosh V because my interest was piqued; lo and behold motherfucker: https://smile.amazon.com/Day-Bang-Casually-Girls-During/dp/1463765045/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1515476363&sr=8-1&keywords=roosh+v
/r/seduction09/01/18 05:40 AM
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I haven't really gone out and opened sets yet, but I don't know if I should be following Manson or the more common ideas I've found. Put the books down and go open sets u fuq The only theory you should be consuming is some simple/basic stuff about opening. edit: LOL what has become of this sub and the PU community if people get downvoted for telling someone who hasn't done any approaches to stop reading a book that comments on some inner game stuff and actually talk to some damn girls? This is a…
/r/seduction08/01/18 08:50 PM
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I mean, hey, why judge if someone did want to date a woman a few years older than them? If I met a great girl in that age range, I wouldn't disqualify her just on the basis of age alone.
/r/seduction06/01/18 10:49 PM
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haha What if she was super hot? She wasn't amazing hot, but she was cute, and I liked her. I don't think age is a reason to disqualify them off the bat. But anyways, I'm into older women. Not exclusively and not for serious dating, but it has appeal to me.
/r/seduction06/01/18 08:41 AM
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This advice doesn't make sense, man. The value of Models aside, it can't teach someone who is super awkward how to approach, build attraction, etc. It has some good inner-game perspective, but it's not even comprehensive in that area.
/r/seduction04/01/18 09:20 PM
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What stuff could I do to become less boring? There's a ton of stuff, but I would say start with just reading a variety of things and pushing your comfort zone. I would also suggest watching funny stuff (stand up comedy, funny tv shows). Also, yes I recognize I can't relate to people my age in a social way - I think we just don't share the same interests maybe? You have too much of a rigid idea of what your interests are. I was like you when I was younger. There's no way your only interests are "…
/r/seduction04/01/18 09:17 PM
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Interesting. Thanks!
/r/seduction04/01/18 09:02 PM
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This situation isn't a thing in the world in which most of us on this sub reside.
/r/seduction04/01/18 08:05 AM
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Well in the immediate term, go on Meetup.com and find some meetup you might be interested in and go. Then find some wings and do some light daygameish stuff like asking people for directions or trying to hold eye contact when walking down the street. I didn't really read your whole post, but you sound like you're succumbing to a common issue in this field, which is the desire to remain the same you that you currently are, yet get girls. To be frank, you also sound quite boring, and the fact that…
/r/seduction04/01/18 08:03 AM
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wow congrats! If you have time, could you elaborate more? edit: did it start with losing weight, or was that concurrent with learning game? after you got your first little successes (numbers, dates), were there any unexpected road-blocks or just smooth progress?
/r/seduction04/01/18 02:58 AM
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You're getting laid from online but your self-esteem is being damaged because people on the street in fucking New York don't make lingering eye contact with you? Come on, guy
/r/seduction03/01/18 06:20 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction01/01/18 05:16 AM
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If she actually was serious about it, you'd be in the moral wrong to try to get into her pants. However, this girl isn't a serious Muslim if she's posting pics in bikinis (I don't put much stock in the dude saying he banged her; dudes will lie about that shit. You know the guy, so your call whether to believe him). edit: anyways I think just do what you normally do. If she's really hot and dresses like that, she's used to getting hit on and knows how to reject you.
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:56 AM
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r/fpua
/r/seduction28/12/17 10:57 AM
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thanks, there's good info in there, a lot of skills that slipped my mind
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:41 PM
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Yeah, true. I suppose some people would say the inner stuff is all in the base, and that the base isn't complete without the inner stuff. But it could also be that there is some inner game stuff one can't fully get until they date a lot, or something.
/r/seduction16/12/17 02:39 AM
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Yeah, I see what you're saying. Part of me is like "just focus on the base skills for now--don't care about trying to pull or do anything until you know exactly what you're doing for the beginnings of interactions", but I suppose learning this stuff is much more hectic than learning other things. Even if you go out with the intent of practicing something specific, you are presented with learning experiences that could be about something totally different, it just depends what happens in the inte…
/r/seduction16/12/17 02:38 AM
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I don't see any reason to say "FUCK" about this--you did good in all aspects.
/r/seduction12/12/17 12:33 AM
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From the title, I thought you were gonna be like "who lies more; men or women?"
/r/seduction07/12/17 07:21 AM
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I actually do listen to The Art of Charm and I used to listen to the Ask Women podcast. Art of Charm is valuable, but its goal is to hit a broader audience, as you mentioned (they also very randomly hit like a US special forces and intelligence agents audience for some bizarre reason that I don't they preplanned). Do you get value from the Ask Women one? I felt it could be good dating advice, but not insightful in terms of the actual act of picking up/learning how to do so. What I would want is …
/r/seduction07/12/17 05:11 AM
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FWIW, I second the podcast suggestion simply because there is an opening there. There is no good podcast about pickup (to my knowledge).
/r/seduction06/12/17 11:52 PM
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That's such a farcical claim.
/r/seduction02/12/17 09:58 AM
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wtf, cool dudes cold approach all the time haha
/r/seduction01/12/17 08:52 AM
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I am not saying that evolutionary psychology as a field is bro science (though it's a broad field and some of it isn't "science" in the purest, testable sense). I am criticizing the explanations given by PU thought-leaders for why their techniques or viewpoints work or make sense. The crap I am referring to is stuff like "approach anxiety is due to the fact that in 'caveman times' [when/whatever those were] if you approached a female who wasn't yours, you'd get your head bashed in with a rock". …
/r/seduction29/11/17 09:27 PM
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r/fpua
/r/seduction28/11/17 06:59 PM
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I agree, I hate the pseudo-sciencey evo-psych explanations bandied about in this field. Like, the broad strokes of such explanations make sense, but sometimes PU dudes try to get too specific, and also venerate too much some romanticized idea of what pre-agricultural human life was like lol I think there are rules/laws of male-female seduction though. For example, lead, be unreactive, etc.
/r/seduction28/11/17 06:58 PM
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Great timing since this seems to be the year that we can confidently say all the significant discoveries in game have already been made and the only new things will be small tweaking and adjustments for logistical factors. Hasn't this been a consistent mistake some scientists have made about as far back as we can trace the history of science?
/r/seduction27/11/17 07:31 PM
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I am 27. In what way does it have an affect?
/r/seduction26/11/17 02:35 AM
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haha how topical
/r/seduction23/11/17 03:45 AM
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Yeah 2013-2015 was his top period. His other periods are odd and less helpful for various reasons.
/r/seduction22/11/17 01:51 AM
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haha thanks
/r/seduction22/11/17 01:01 AM
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I envy you. I'm struggling but you're REALLY struggling. hahaha This can take a little time but its going to be worth it and you're gonna come out far superior. I appreciate your confidence in me. I can only get myself to believe that 30s at a time.
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:55 PM
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hmmm
/r/seduction21/11/17 11:43 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/fPUA For both sexes, how you carry yourself and act is important. More-so for men, but still so for girls. I went on a few dates with a girl a few months back who wasn't that hot, but I remember thinking she could be way more attractive and have me be more into her if she just carried herself more sexually and tried a little harder. There was another girl from college who was into me who had a lot going for her but who just didn't seem to try to be that attractive and fe…
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:52 PM
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I don't see how this could be better than getting small wins, which are tangible and provide the brain with proof.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:39 PM
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Thanks man.
/r/seduction21/11/17 08:52 PM
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Don't fail your classes, come on guy. That is step 1. Having said that, I know more or less exactly how you feel. Hence, I put some effort into this post. I wish I knew someone older to smack me around, steal my booze and weed, and tell me this kind of shit when I was a senior in college. From where you are at, you need to develop some perspective on life. Read some literature, develop strong academic interests or some kind of mission that transcends your personal happiness. Trust me when I say …
/r/seduction21/11/17 03:05 AM
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Yes, I know, but is it a Catholic school in the Jesuit tradition (the answer is apparently "no"). I was just going to suggest that being Jesuit educated is also something in which to take pride, since that tradition is rigorously intellectual and instills good discipline, both of which are, to me, important aspects of being a man. Also, Pierre Trudeau was educated in the Jesuit tradition (as was Justin). They went to all boys Catholic school too--and yes, I know they want to an uber elite rich s…
/r/seduction21/11/17 12:03 AM
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Do you go to a Jesuit school?
/r/seduction20/11/17 09:40 PM
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I'll probably be making it to the east coast in the spring. Yeah, let me know if you are ever in LA!
/r/seduction20/11/17 09:19 PM
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Ah, I see. Glad you see my point though.
/r/seduction20/11/17 06:36 PM
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I thought something like that may be the case, and I still say attending a private school is a privilege. Are you in the US? I would actually point you first to Elliot Hulse on YouTube. I think that's more digestible for young men. He recommends books from time to time. The point, with videos and books, is to find someone who makes sense, even if you don't agree with them 100%, and sort of understanding the way they think. Very little will seem like it applies directly to your life. I think one …
/r/seduction20/11/17 06:02 AM
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These words will likely be wasted on you, but here goes. Don't worry about this stuff. If you're going to an all boys school, I assume it's a private school, and if that is the case you are in a very fortunate position in life. Focus on getting good grades. Read material that can help instill an idea of what going to such a school can be good for (i.e. some of the 50 thousand novels set at all boys schools). Read some philosophical stuff that helps develop your perspective on life. Make sure you…
/r/seduction19/11/17 11:41 PM
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btw, nice username lol I'm in LA, what about you?
/r/seduction19/11/17 09:04 PM
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Thanks man I definitely didn't qualify enough, and I certainly don't have your experience and go-to tactics to flirt, etc. So I would love to hear them (and see you apply them more ;D) Though in this case the problem is I didn't keep myself around long enough to employ any...lol
/r/seduction19/11/17 08:22 PM
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thanks!
/r/seduction19/11/17 08:20 PM
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excellent
/r/seduction19/11/17 06:34 AM
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Yeah that's not that different. It's not like there are a bunch of FRs and quality-sounding posts, and there are several standout junk threads.
/r/seduction19/11/17 03:48 AM
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To which city did you move?
/r/seduction19/11/17 03:29 AM
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Needed to hear something like this tonight. +1
/r/seduction19/11/17 03:28 AM
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This is the place you decide to ask this question?
/r/seduction06/11/17 06:57 PM
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Don't know why you got down-voted so much. 5 years is definitely a long ass time to be floundering around in the "it's a huge effort to do approaches" stage of this.
/r/seduction06/11/17 05:06 AM
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There is no real "try" sometimes, if this is a huge hangup for a person. I don't have problems with AA to the extent that this guy describes, but I can see where he's coming from.
/r/seduction06/11/17 05:04 AM
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Am I the only one who wants to know what the name of the entree was?
/r/seduction23/10/17 12:51 AM
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Jeez, if one's wife starts flirting with some smooth-talking rando while you guys are sitting around, I think that might be a sign one wifed the wrong female.
/r/seduction11/10/17 05:37 PM
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thanks
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:01 PM
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Don't do it at the school you attend, probably.
/r/seduction04/10/17 07:55 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction04/10/17 07:30 AM
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I have a question(s): Can one grow themselves and improve themselves into the latter category? And if so, what is the path to there, aside from doing?
/r/seduction04/10/17 07:18 AM
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For any other vendors who keep trying to share their clickbait wannabe RSD videos, you should look at this guy as an example of how to correctly participate on the sub. He provides value for free and has established himself that way, and then just points people in the direction of his other material so they can check it out if they find value in what he says. +many
/r/seduction29/09/17 05:56 PM
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I recommend moving to a city if you are serious about improving your lot. It doesn't even have to be permanent. It could just be for a few years and then who knows maybe you get good, and you land a wife, and then you decide to return to your hometown to raise a family, where you must reconcile with the brother who never made it like in a movie.
/r/seduction28/09/17 06:09 PM
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Start with smaller things than just like a club. Clubs can be very overwhelming--they are designed that way. What is your line of work? Start with some professional networking meetup, and then escalate to explicitly singles mingling type things, then graduate to bars, and so forth.
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:49 AM
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lol wtf, sounds like a kind of social suicide bomb
/r/seduction23/09/17 06:26 PM
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Yeah dude, move it to Slack
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:04 PM
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I understand the feel and problem very well. You simply have to do less.
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:18 AM
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+1
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:44 PM
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I'm pretty inexperienced, so maybe I shouldn't dispute stuff, but from a common sense type perspective I am very skeptical of the idea that women have "mistake" thresholds and that they count mistakes in game or something.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:36 PM
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This guy's a tool, but I am also curious as to why Todd's YouTube channel was deleted. Unfortunately, I am not curious enough to suffer through watching this guy, so my curiosity will have to go unsatisfied for now.
/r/seduction16/08/17 09:07 PM
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Looks like you guys don't have anything in LA :|
/r/seduction11/08/17 01:48 AM
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cool, thanks!
/r/seduction10/08/17 11:23 PM
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He's just talking about talking, not grabbing-by-the-pussy.
/r/seduction10/08/17 09:53 PM
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I have a question for you guys, as a company: what differentiates you from RSD? Is there some philosophical difference...are your programs different in any salient way?
/r/seduction10/08/17 09:51 PM
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It has helped, but not in the sense of excising trauma. It has helped me practice disengaging from negative thought loops. To bring it to the specific situation(s) described by this thread, for example: it helps me be less impacted by the pain-body attacks because I am more able to avoid getting caught in obsessive negative thoughts. But it's like taking cold medicine; it might help blunt the symptoms, but I want antibiotics to rid myself of that shit lol
/r/seduction19/07/17 03:49 AM
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I'm trying to figure out what it consists of. For all the verbal vomit on their site, they do a rather poor job of explaining it. For example, how does the x months of The Transformation Series differ from the other content? Are any live events included? Seems like a huge part of it is doing it live with other people.
/r/seduction18/07/17 09:34 PM
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I meditate, and it's helped even though I don't do it for long enough/am really bad at it I don't see how that's enough for deeper trauma though
/r/seduction18/07/17 09:28 PM
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Thanks for the advice! Trust me, the amount of failures I've had with girls, especially ones that I KNOW would've been down if I made a move, stings me to no end. It's even worse when it's a girl that you were really into and knew the feeling was mutual. Don't let it stop you. Proceed through that pain and grow from it. Yeah, this right here is the worst for me. It's the most salient thing about the string of rando encounters that constitutes my "dating life". Good to know I'm not the only one a…
/r/seduction18/07/17 12:52 AM
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Ah, yeah, forgot about Transformation Mastery. That was something I was considering doing a few months ago actually. I should reacquaint myself with it and maybe do it soon. Have you done it?
/r/seduction17/07/17 11:41 PM
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Well, to be clear, it is not simply getting blown out or rejected that triggers them; in my few months of going out, I've sustained some pretty bad rejections without a scratch. What is specific about these incidents is that I am reminded of college--the girls in college, my awkward self in college, etc. I've basically had two of these episodes while doing this: one was when I was getting interest from a chick who I thought was really hot, but with whom I wasn't really manning up properly. So I …
/r/seduction17/07/17 11:40 PM
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His clothing has always been pretty on point though. Nah dude, I gotta disagree; he and the other PU dudes dressed like total tools during the early oughts. He definitely looks good now; beard suits him and he puts effort into grooming/fashion. But previous he has looked weird. There are at least 4 iterations of him you can find on the internet. Early, where he is chubby and frankly a little off behavior wise. Mid, where he drops a lot of weight, goes on health kick, and is weird in a different …
/r/seduction20/02/17 09:38 PM
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Kiss.
/r/seduction14/02/17 10:31 PM
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This isn't a PU question, this is about dealing with the vicissitudes of modern life. Sounds like you don't like having a high powered job. Drop it then. Why are you working in college if you don't have to? And not to be rude, but why can't you like...deal with this? I honestly don't get it. I mean, I know I sound insensitive, but you're working some high stress job in college when you don't need the money and it's making you unhappy--seems clear cut, why ask strangers on the Internet about it? …
/r/seduction25/01/17 07:17 PM
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Miami maybe (I've only been there once and hated it for the superficiality and venality, but that's because I sent to Ultra and went to South Beach, so...), but Los Angeles is a more diverse city than people realize. Logistics fuck Los Angeles up though. New York might honestly be better from the perspectives of logistics, target-rich venues, etc.
/r/seduction19/01/17 07:47 PM
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Nah, it's a thing with him. The impression one gets from consuming his content is that his technique is very sound and he's very good at breaking things down. https://youtu.be/W3PRAgwyKDA?t=135
/r/seduction18/01/17 12:26 AM
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Check the sidebar for some "lair" subreddits. If you're in LA, PM me! Would probably be a good idea to put your location in the Q :p
/r/seduction28/12/16 01:30 AM
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Yeah. Luckily it seems like this body of knowledge, as led by RSD, is moving beyond evo-psych pseudo-science. In the broadest strokes, that stuff makes sense, but people take it too far.
/r/seduction23/12/16 04:57 AM
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The admins on here are proper gay. Are you like 14? You had some good advice in that post, and it shouldn't have been removed even if it was found to be offensive or stupid by some people. Likewise, some of the criticism of you on here might be extrapolating a bit much from your post, but I think you justify a lot of it with your reaction.
/r/seduction21/12/16 09:46 PM
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So your saying the one who didn't open should wait until the set hooks before going in right?
/r/seduction19/12/16 08:07 PM
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Hmm yeah, I think we should probably talk to each other more in set to bring them into our reality.
/r/seduction19/12/16 08:06 PM
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My first thought was that this is one of the least cynical communities/bodies of knowledge. Obviously, we've got a spectrum of cynicism, that I'd say goes from TRP <----> RSD, but in general guys are on here because they believe in self-improvement and that they can attract high quality women even if they haven't in the past. Cynicism would be "no, girls only like tall guys with big dicks" or "only rich guys" etc.
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:38 PM
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Hmm I'm a dev who might be down to collaborate depending on what you need and where you wanna take it.
/r/seduction01/12/16 08:34 PM
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Where do you live? There are subreddits for finding dudes to go out with. If you live in LA (or OC) PM me. You can also find wings by going to RSD Free Tour events.
/r/seduction01/12/16 02:41 AM
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One thing I noticed when I was looking at the product page a couple days ago was that his "before" picture is not good looking. He put in some work on style and grooming and exercise to become good looking. I know you're putting in the work too, but just saying.
/r/seduction24/11/16 07:51 PM
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Well this yielded more LA guys on here out of any thread on r/LosAngelesSeddit/ lol If anyone needs wings, PM me, I go out with some dudes not from seddit and some dudes from seddit.
/r/seduction22/11/16 11:24 PM
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Oh ok. Still doesn't explain how the girls don't comment upon or get weirded out by Tyler creeping on dude's shoulders and whispering into their ears constantly though.
/r/seduction24/10/16 03:57 AM
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I live in a Middle Eastern country with a Muslim majority. I don't want to specify which country though and which ethnicity. I can't help you with game, but as a Muslim American who knows a bit about Muslim countries and cultures, who has a few years of life experience on you, and who has come from like basement-dweller social skills to almost average social competence, I think I can give you some fair advice about social calibration. And really kind of just talk some sense into you; you already…
/r/seduction27/09/16 07:19 PM
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I know that from the post it sounds like my friends start bragging about banging hotties every time we get together, but it's really not like that. Plus, as I noted, I've experienced girls liking my friends and disliking me multiple times in life. I can imagine one of my friends having embellished a lot of his tales, MAYBE, but I have no reason to believe that, so how would it be healthy to be like "well all my friends are just lying--it's impossible that they're attractive!" I know that jealous…
/r/seduction26/09/16 09:16 PM
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Thanks for the advice. It sucks when you hear your buddy brag about his successes when you're in a rut, but giving up won't help. Keep trying, but get in the right state of mind first. You gotta be positive, confident, and keep playing. I guess a large part of the problem is that I don't have any of my own successes, so it's not just a "rut". And I have friends who are on the total opposite end of the spectrum from me; I'm a 25 year old virgin who has barely spoken to any girls in life, and many…
/r/seduction26/09/16 07:03 PM
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Butdo these 'losers' have game? yes. But, for example, one of my friends is in his 30's and manages a clothes store, and he's slept with lots of 16 year old girls as he is their boss, and he just hires pretty young girls so that he can try to bang them. (An example of 'lifestyle') Even if the age of consent is 16 where you live, that's creepy. Anyways, just wanted to point out that Tyler touches upon this scenario in the Blueprint--basically, in the context of the store, your friend acts alpha b…
/r/seduction14/09/16 01:42 AM
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I'm looking to start going out in a couple weeks. I've done this before. More serious about it now that I'm out of college and have to confront reality a little harder, and if I can, I want to find wings who I would be friends with outside of PU, you know what I mean? I live in Westchester/PdR, but am down to go wherever (further from west side preferable to me, actually).
/r/seduction07/09/16 11:11 PM
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