How does one avoid resentment of friends who get girls easily and never had any problems in this area?

ggGideon · 2016-09-26T20:53:02+00:00

Next time you go out with them, watch how they talk and interact with other people, especially girls. Make note of the differences between their behavior and yours. Compare and contrast. See it as an opportunity to learn. Not an opportunity to be envious.

The_Sneaky_Guy · 2016-09-26T18:54:13+00:00

When my friends talk about their sex lives

I don't know how the conversations here go on, but I'd argue you are listening to your friends' highlight reels and not their behind the scenes. It's called "getting lucky" for a reason, and I think success ultimately comes down to how many times you are willing to fail (not successfully closing for example) and not letting these failures discourage you before you hit the jackpot.

I hear where you are coming from man. A friend of mine got out a relationship recently and is pulling left and right, and I'm currently not doing too well.

It makes me feel ridiculous for thinking I should give this a try.

To overcome this, you can't give up. It sucks when you hear your buddy brag about his successes when you're in a rut, but giving up won't help. Keep trying, but get in the right state of mind first. You gotta be positive, confident, and keep playing. As long as you learn from the mistakes you make success will come. Don't be afraid to fuck up. Learning from a negative experience is ultimately a positive one.

There's also a lot of good thoughts on here so hit the recent top posts and search away.

BigTimMagic · 2016-09-26T19:54:00+00:00

You think that getting laid will make you happier overall which is bs. You maybe believe every word your friends are saying and bragging about who they fucked. Don't.

Also, don't run from a problem, face it. Every time you run from a problem, a even bigger one is right above the corner. Face it, don't run. If you have a problem with girls, learn how to deal with it and stop being little bitch. But also understand that it is just a small piece in your "happy life" puzzle.

Woujo · 2016-09-26T20:17:06+00:00

1) Your friends are lying

2) jealousy is a terrible emotion

Title	How does one avoid resentment of friends who get girls easily and never had any problems in this area?
Author	PICKUPACCOUNT2
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Comments	16
Date	September 26, 2016 6:34 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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