Recent male college graduate here who recently got a 6 figure job in STEM. I've been with my gf for a good year and dating for 2. she only recently became more submissive and agreeable when I got the job. She was really down with the fact that she could potentially become a housewife.

But prior to me getting this job, she was a typical modern feminist who rebels. She of course have gotten better over the year and even went into therapy to become a better person for me. But I think it just baffles me that after this job, her actions are day and night. Yes before this job I was poverty level college student and so was she.

Is there a way to spot if she is genuinely being submissive or doing so because of my money? I might be super naive right now and feedback would be awesome!