LTR has been acting up after showering her with gifts and spending a good amount of holidays. She has not acted up in months, but this is probably due to giving her too much validation and she's taking it for granted.

She gave me an attitude this morning dropping her off at work because I forgot to show her how to invest in crypto/stocks. For something simple, ruining someone's morning is inappropriate for the issue at hand.

Usually if she throws tantrum, screams, or drama, automatically assign her to massage me for a week. If she doesn't want to massage me, she knows exactly what's going to happen.

This is my form of punishment because 1. It's a choice and 2. It's not harmful. There are consequences to every action no matter who you are. So in this case, it's how and reward/punish bad behavior.

Do you guys think this is overboard?