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Rian has a video for that. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=rxiG_79AWOs
/r/askMRP15/01/22 01:50 AM
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This kind of stuff comes free with every vagina. Either have fun in your own frame or next her and bring a gay man on your next business trip.
/r/askMRP13/01/22 04:40 PM
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Why did you leave out your weight, BF, and lifts?
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:25 PM
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We'll see. Good luck dude
/r/askMRP07/01/22 05:21 AM
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No you fucking moron. You are not being assertive in your interactions that you describe in your OP. NMMNG teaches you how to be assertive. The answer to learn how to deal with your problem and any future ones lies in you reading that book and mapping it to your life. Only a retard comes to ask internet strangers how to deal with their MIL.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 02:35 AM
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The point is, NMMNG has the answer to your post.
/r/askMRP05/01/22 09:42 PM
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Stop asking dumb questions on reddit and start working through the sidebar and losing your weight.
/r/askMRP02/01/22 05:24 PM
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Why do you want this sub to be the judge of your choices?
/r/askMRP01/01/22 03:55 AM
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No. This is the retard playpen. There is a NMMNG sub though. Try that one.
/r/askMRP31/12/21 04:51 PM
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Thanks, physical precious metals are all I can come up with too that isn't crypto that will provide anything above what I am already doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/21 04:15 PM
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The way you've phrased the question, no one would care really as that is not what this sub is about. If you instead asked "what does the man in an LTR bring to the table?" then we could answer with "being the oak and having a strong and fun frame for her to enter." Honestly the rest of your posts/questions are so far away from coming from an RP perspective that it is not worth it to answer. Hit the weights and the sidebar and come back when you understand why what you are asking is from a BP per…
/r/askMRP31/12/21 01:49 AM
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A storm is coming, and you don't want to lose all you've worked so hard for. There are many blue-pill normie investment ideas, all about being a bag-holder for the stock and bond markets. Is the only way to prepare for such a storm crypto? I'm not 'there yet' on crypto so I am preparing for hyperinflation by concentrating in healthcare, utilities, energy, real estate, and consumer staples. I'd be fine in a market crash / depression but not in an armageddon / government takes over the corporation…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/21 06:49 PM
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​ What am I gonna do? Go to a bar and watch some moronic sport on TV whilst eating chips... Drink a beer... Have a conversation I'm not interested in I don't think you have anything to worry about because it probably is not going to work that way. Men typically socialize by coming together to do something or work on something together. So you're not going to make guy friends by going to a bar and drinking a beer with a stranger or getting together to "watch the game on TV". In addition you are a…
/r/askMRP29/12/21 03:13 AM
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Nice covert contract bro
/r/askMRP28/12/21 06:22 PM
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The absolute most favorable interpretation of this is that your wife was jealous / had some competition anxiety and she reacted poorly by saying “I don’t care anymore I WILL cheat on you.” However there are a lot of other things that could be going on here, all much less favorable than the interpretation you settled on. Like kid not yours, pregnancy faked, cheating happening while you're at work despite you thinking there is no way, wife's light switch flipped off, you're unattractive, etc... If…
/r/askMRP27/12/21 07:52 PM
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Holy shit this is absolutely trash advice. Nice job taking all the tools and completely fucking up how to use them.
/r/askMRP27/12/21 03:11 PM
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There is probably another man in her life already. Continue with your MRP journey as stay plan = go plan however... Also talk to a divorce lawyer on Monday and don't talk about or agree to anything with her until you know the implications as there is a good chance this is where you are headed.
/r/askMRP26/12/21 11:32 PM
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I don't think anyone can help you here. The tools are based on evopsych + men swapping notes, and there have been limited notes swapped for your scenario. Do the reading but don't except there to be notes & tools that have been field-tested. Some mistakes you are making that are probably not helping: I essentially made the ultimatum ultimatums come from a point of weakness Should I feel angry your feelings are not there to help you (your feelings are bad and you should feel bad for having them a…
/r/askMRP26/12/21 10:32 PM
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So you are in a dead bedroom for one or both of the following reasons: You are not physically attractive Your behaviors are unattractive Only you can figure out whether it is #1, #2, or a combination of both by some honest self-reflection. I think your DB post mentioned she said you were needy/clingy or something - that is #2 above. The MRP sidebar has all of the tools you need to unfuck yourself and fix whatever combo of #1 and #2 you are. Your wife may or may not get onboard if you use the too…
/r/askMRP24/12/21 08:51 PM
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Great, what are your lifts?
/r/askMRP24/12/21 05:53 PM
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If only it worked that way there would be no need for the red pill. I'm assuming you've just read a couple posts and aren't working your way through the sidebar and lifting. You can have some fun with her stupid request for a backrub but you can't expect to make "overt contracts" like you did and get anywhere. Her: I could really use a backrub. You: [laughs obnoxiously as you walk out the door to go to the gym] HAHAHAHA! You: [playfully as you walk out the door to go to the gym] Well maybe if yo…
/r/askMRP24/12/21 11:15 AM
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Am I fucking up? Yes and no. Your situation reminds me a lot of mine. If you were a career beta turned drunken captain for a long time then I would say what you described, while certainly not optimal, represents you applying the tools you are learning and calibrating them as you go. Sure you could have done better by cutting the conversation off and turning your broken record into "I'm not talking about this anymore". If you are going to end by saying 'sorry' just make sure it is in the corey-wo…
/r/askMRP23/12/21 02:57 AM
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I married my highschool sweetheart. I cringe while reading the sidebar, because I committed every Beta sin there is. The great thing about AWALT is that even if you make all these mistakes, when you turn things around, she is going to respond as programmed to the new you (as it sounds like she is already). Try to avoid thinking back to all the shit you did before knowing about MRP/the sidebar unless it serves a purpose to you now like to find motivation.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 01:59 PM
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Wow congrats dude! Hit the sidebar and have a great life!
/r/askMRP20/12/21 04:23 PM
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She wanted to burn When I Say No I Feel Guilty and No More Mister Nice Guy? You can't fall off a wagon you weren't on.
/r/askMRP17/12/21 11:56 PM
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so where do I go from here? The gym. When you get back, finish your post to include the nuclear part.
/r/askMRP17/12/21 06:38 PM
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I know dude I love him too. It's great how you neg him by misspelling the name. Clever. It will be your turn with him soon I just know it.
/r/askMRP15/12/21 07:39 PM
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No, there is no RP content focused on this as far as I am aware. The best you can do is find a twitter account here or there that might be RP and a dad. But most everything that pretends to be RP and dad focused is just building better betas (like a certain short bearded alcoholic sailor who married the only woman to ever have touched his penis [this means dude has n count of 1] but claims to know that 'picking up girls is easy' and posts picks of his family to get you to pay for his fraternal o…
/r/askMRP15/12/21 04:58 PM
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You have no frame You lift pink weights You put more effort into this post and DEERing to commentors than you put into improving yourself. Maybe one day you'll take a red pill concept and apply it to your life. Good luck dude, I hope you start soon so your life can improve.
/r/askMRP13/12/21 10:43 PM
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It's sound like the lightswitch went off in her mind for you. If so, it's never coming back on. Do whatever you need to to maximize your interest in your upcoming divorce, even if it means playing dumb, etc. Cut your losses and start over. Good news is you are not even at your peak yet and no matter what happens, you will be ok.
/r/askMRP11/12/21 05:49 PM
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I'd suggest you read "Goodnight Moon" by Margaret Wise Brown and any of the pigeon books by Mo Willems. They are all written at a level you should be able to understand and apply easily.
/r/askMRP08/12/21 06:17 PM
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All good points. I'd also put "you've got to kill your oneinits for your kids" in there. Not sure who gets credit for that in a post but it's important to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/21 09:36 AM
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Nice. The part that helped me with oi and dngaf was understanding and internalizing that "no matter what happens, I will be OK". Zeroed out, divorce, kids taken from me, leg cut off, etc... doesn't matter. I can handle it either way.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/21 09:32 AM
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Yeah most of these RP strategies have little effectiveness when you are fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 12:02 PM
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Now combine that with another paper by the same author and you'll lose 2 lbs fat every 3 days. Bit.ly/winternevercomes
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/21 06:11 AM
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If this is a Boundary for you (which is only for you to decide, not us), two things tell me you won't be able to enforce it without nuking the relationship. You came to the retard playpen to ask advice If she thought you were someone worth a damn she probably wouldn't be putting you in this situation. Both of those points signal that you're a giant piece of crap. So enforce the boundary or don't, and fix yourself or don't. No advice anyone gives you will help if you cant figure out how to deal w…
/r/askMRP21/09/21 06:56 PM
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I noticed both of the items you were over eating had significant fat content. Read this paper on why we store fat: bit.ly/oxidativepriority Then reverse engineer it to figure out how to lose quickly and efficiently. Let me know if you need it broken down after reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/21 11:03 AM
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Holy fuck, you are stupid. The reason people say "take this seriously, not literally" is because you can't take a phrase meant to represent one single scenario or mental model, split it up to its component words, open up a dictionary, then apply the dictionary definitions to the entire universe and wonder why it doesn't make red pill sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 11:49 AM
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Well you either need to read WISNIFG and then go to the gym, or you need to change the time you go to the gym. Why the fuck is this so hard? It is simple scheduling yet you are making it out to be this ridiculous issue. Nut up dude and figure out which of the two options it is. Flip a fucking coin.
/r/askMRP15/09/21 12:45 AM
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You've got to take a step back and apply this to your situation. If it is the right time for you to go to the gym, then who gives a shit was she says? STFU and go to the gym. But as someone else has pointed out, maybe you should go to the gym at a better time for your crew, captain. Only you can say for certain what the right call is, but when you make the call, nothing she says should matter. Speaking for myself with 2 kids, going to the gym after work is fucking retarded. That's when dinner ti…
/r/askMRP15/09/21 12:17 AM
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Everyone seems confused as to what stfu means. Stfu is to be used first, then you don't have to DEER or do other unattractive things. Instead it seems you fucked up, got butthurt, were worried about her feelings, said stupid shit, then tried to stfu. You just needed to go to the gym without saying anything. Or on your way out the door to the gym kiss her forehead, pat her ass, say something playful. Nmmng or wisnifg aren't even needed here if you can just shut your mouth from the beginning .
/r/askMRP14/09/21 11:44 PM
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Your wife is right. Shut the fuck up. Maybe she reads reddit and is trying to help you?
/r/askMRP14/09/21 06:10 PM
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You have no clue what you are doing. ...had an event where I told the wife I will no longer tolerate her disrespect and shitty attitude. That is the opposite of STFU. Instead pull your time/attention/commitment. ​ After a midday initiation was met with a hard no, (OI) she invited me to a kids party with a bunch of our friends. I went... That is not OI, that is rewarding bad behavior with your time and attention. A kids party? Really? Makes me think this is a troll post. ​ ...so I went out for th…
/r/askMRP14/09/21 05:08 PM
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What are your stats?
/r/askMRP11/09/21 08:15 PM
2

What stopped you from making the appointment and taking the kid yourself?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/21 11:02 AM
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Congratulations on learning the words "congruence" and "test". Now you just need to learn the meaning of "congruence test". Holy fuck you are dumb.
/r/askMRP09/09/21 11:14 AM
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Diagnosis: He's fucked.
/r/askMRP09/09/21 01:05 AM
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The point is, anyone can tell you the "perfect response" to any one theoretical question. But if you aren't learning the material and adapting it to your own situation then there is no point. You'll just fuck up after the next thing she says and you'll have nothing to fall back on. If you want to fix yourself, all the necessary information is in the sidebar. Tread very carefully, because if you are a dysfunctional captain AND showing weakness with anything, even a chronic disease that isn't "you…
/r/askMRP09/09/21 01:03 AM
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I also want to let her to know that im not feeling the best while giving her somewhat of good response So you are saying you have read none of the recommended material? Her: How are you feeling? It looks like you had a rough day... You: I feel...horny!
/r/askMRP09/09/21 12:50 AM
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You've got nothing in your post or history that I can see to describe where you are at, and you seem to be looking for "tips and tricks," which is not a good sign. Budesonide 3mg capsules are generic. Its not the cheapest generic but if you can afford to build your PC you should be able to afford Shop around or look on line for price comparisons. The fact that you haven't and just gave up when the insurance didn't cover it is also not a good sign. You can buy a vertical GPU mount and shop for a …
/r/askMRP09/09/21 12:26 AM
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Then you are concern trolling. You reply to every comment with a DEER. It's so obvious to everyone but you. I hope you fuck off and never return.
/r/askMRP07/09/21 01:14 PM
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People have handed you the keys to the universe and you have been here over two years and you consider yourself new to the material and are still "working on " your ego. The only way left for you to be helped is to be slapped senseless and until technology advances words on reddit are the only way to do that.
/r/askMRP07/09/21 11:59 AM
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At this point in your journey you have no business suggesting to anyone what they should do after STFU. Ask me how I know.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/21 06:32 PM
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You have no frame and your premise is wrong. Feminists don't want equality they want power and free stuff. If you want to win an argument with your wife, you are operating in her frame. Taking advice from random internet strangers is weird but taking advice from comedians is worse.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/21 05:22 PM
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The whole thing is shit. Nut up, dude.
/r/askMRP05/09/21 07:33 PM
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But nothing you describe requires marriage to make happen
/r/askMRP31/08/21 03:06 AM
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There is no point, even to have kids.
/r/askMRP31/08/21 12:24 AM
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Cuddles ain't free. Don't reward bad behavior. If she is yelling at you, kiss her on the mouth. Game your wife all day. How can all of these be true? Nuance. Experiment with when to use each. There is no single correct interpretation.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 11:47 PM
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Remember the half of Rian's rule that applies to this. They don't like physical intimacy with you.
/r/askMRP27/08/21 04:56 PM
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Have you tried talking about your feelings more to her?
/r/askMRP27/08/21 01:20 AM
6

Try listening to Rian's sidebar series on YouTube for each of these. None of the sidebar material beyond Rollo's book have actually been written by red pill men (Yes that includes the antibiotic nuke by IM) and if you don't "get it" yet then you can use Rian's commentary to sift out the blue pill bullshit from the sidebar texts.
/r/askMRP26/08/21 03:27 PM
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What post or sidebar reference did you get the idea from #2 to not initiate unless you are certain to succeed?
/r/askMRP26/08/21 03:03 PM
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Just switch from reading reddit for 3 hours a day to reading the sidebar for 3 hours a day and everything should be fine.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 11:02 AM
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Most dudes that you know that are married with kids live lives of quiet desperation, are in a sexless marriage, and walk on eggshells around their wife in fear of upsetting her.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 08:39 PM
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Nah, it's just the natural consequence of being a drunk captain. He's earned the level of disrespect he's getting. Ask me how I know.
/r/askMRP22/08/21 02:29 AM
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As others have pointed out, she is a walking bag of contradictions (move in together vs move away) because she is headed to epiphany phase exactly on schedule (see Preventative Medicine). Remember she is just responding to her genetic programming, not trying to orchestrate some Machiavellian plot to frame-shift. The way I see it, you either do nothing different and let her decide to stick around or next herself or you get just a little bit more forthcoming about your rules related to living toge…
/r/askMRP22/08/21 02:25 AM
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How about you stfu until your rule 9 ban is over, then make your 2nd oys post all about how you grew a set of balls and a frame to hang them on.
/r/askMRP21/08/21 04:48 PM
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Day 1 in MRP. The guys have the exercise plan wrong. I'm going to change that right away because lifting heavy is hard. Also I can see right away that there's too many books on the sidebar and I just need one of them. Should be giga Chad in about 18 more hours, then back to regular sex with the wife and I can focus on Pokémon again and ride off into the sunset. Sometimes I wish everything wasn't so easy, but that's the price to pay for being a genius.
/r/askMRP20/08/21 01:28 PM
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Be careful with youtube. Anyone can call themselves red pill. If they've been a host of rule zero, that is a good barometer. Same as with guests of rule zero for the most part. But remember, red pill is teaching you how to think, not what to think. So when myron says you need X to be an entry level HVM, that's not RP. That's him running his mouth about the scene in Miami. Rian Stone is the only one doing RP content for guys in LTRs. Rich cooper, Troy Francis, and MLD might be in LTRs but that's …
/r/askMRP19/08/21 03:27 PM
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That's fine, its your choice. Resentment and dry dick or no resentment and 3 blowjobs a week.
/r/askMRP19/08/21 02:51 AM
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If you were going to learn more about solopsism from a RP source, where would you search?
/r/askMRP19/08/21 02:49 AM
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The wive's don't need to worry about frame because they come with a version installed by default - solopsism. That's why people say (or at least Rian phrases it this way) that RP is female strategy adapted to male sensibilities. Frame is your version of solopsism. It's adapted to male sensibilities by being rational self egoism or a benevolent dictatorship, so unlike female solopsism those close to the man still benefit. As far as your issue with backrubs and blowjobs, you just need to be more p…
/r/askMRP19/08/21 01:47 AM
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Yes you should. Get used to her doing things for you.
/r/askMRP18/08/21 05:52 PM
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Its not what he's doing, it's how he's framing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/21 03:05 PM
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What's happened is that you haven't used a single RP tool. Not one is even mentioned or hinted at here. Sure you might have read trp stuff for 6 years but you're not using any of it. It's OK though, they allow gays in the marines so you will still be entitled to half of your pension, less child support payments. Good luck reading RP stuff and then trying to fulfill your blue pill fantasies.
/r/askMRP18/08/21 03:30 AM
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That part about your diet and sleep and magnesium whateverthefuck sounded super gay. That's fine if you take it up the butt, no judgment here. But if you're not gay you might want to knock that shit off.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/21 03:08 AM
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Be very careful about bullshit excuses for stopping lifting. This stems from your lack of discipline and can lead to you stalling or back sliding for years if you don't catch it.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/21 02:10 PM
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I am fresh on my second rule 9 ban - and this helped me see the validation lens I use I hope you are reading this /u/BullishScentedCandle At least this dude is not scared to post and get banned and realizes the purpose of the ban.
/r/askMRP12/08/21 08:14 PM
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Being the Oak Are you being an oak or a rock? I feel little emotion anymore towards them Sounds like a rock to me. Do you know the difference? Do you know why the oak is better?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/21 09:40 PM
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I don't think you understand. Number 1 concern. None of the tools here work very well if you are a fat disgusting slob. You don't need to be ripped with a 6 pack. You just need to look good in clothes and have enough strength to pick your wife up and carry her to the bedroom. Your fatness is more of a problem than your daughter's diapers and your messy garage.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/21 09:28 PM
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Your wife doesn't have any problems. She is a bag of meat just like everyone else's wife, and she contains the exact same programming all the other women with two X chromosomes have. AWALT. Use the right tools that are outlined in the sidebar and either your wife's shit will disappear or you will be prepared to leave for a better life of younger hotter tighter women. ​ You on the other hand have demonstrated that you have no frame of your own. You're in your wife's frame when you're at home. You…
/r/askMRP11/08/21 08:56 PM
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Holy shit dude will you stop being a pussy that is afraid of words typed on the internet?
/r/askMRP11/08/21 06:41 PM
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I find it almost impossible at times to stfu and not say things like. I worked all day. Went to the gym. Fixed shit around the house. Cooked. Cleaned. Played with my son and you’re complaining your tired and annoyed you have to change a diaper. Dude, this is solopsism. It comes free with every vagina. You have to chose. Either playfully brush this off, or leave your wife for a man. If your son's first words are "Daddy, you're such a poopyhead!" would you be able to playfully brush that off? Trea…
/r/askMRP11/08/21 05:55 PM
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OK then, the point is still the same. Make your responses playful. You're not trying to win a contest and make her feel stupid for opening her mouth. She's not supposed to be your enemy. You're supposed to be a charming asshole but not a straight up asshole with no charm. A lot of the things you will read are contradictory. You need to figure out how the tools map to your situation and your life. Have you heard Rian talk about OODA loops? Observe, Orient, Decide, Act. Do this slowly until you ca…
/r/askMRP11/08/21 04:44 PM
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I have no clue what actual work and progress you have made with lifting and the sidebar, so I'll assume zero and you're still a hideous piece of shit with no frame. If the only thing that was wrong with you was the words that came out of your mouth, then I'd say you need to be more playful in your responses. You're supposed to tease her playfully (ideally in a sexually charged manner), not burn her with every comment. Plus you're in bed, you are supposed to be sleeping or fucking, not on your ph…
/r/askMRP11/08/21 03:03 PM
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lately my wife keep asking me if everything is all right. Have you read any material about comfort tests yet? Do you think that is what she is doing here? Also where does the line get drawn between being a leader and pretending your wife is dead. I don't think you are applying these concepts with any nuance or consideration of your own circumstance. This place is a giant toolbox and each tool has its purpose. You didn't have a dead bedroom according to your one OYS post. You just need her to be …
/r/askMRP11/08/21 12:08 AM
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Which series would you recommend at this point? Unfortunately the advice is peppered through the red mornings and other material so you would just need to always have it on in the background, while driving, working out, etc unless you can just take the one-liner that I gave you above and run with it. My main problem with diet is giving in on weekends. I’m great during the week but then blow it on weekends. Mostly due to drinking, then eating shit. You basically need to decide whether or not you …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 02:16 PM
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I think you'd benefit from watching Rian's material on YouTube. Diet: Hunger is a suggestion, not a command. Mini-main event: no such thing and you did not have one. Divorce being brought up: all threats are honored. Tell her next time she brings it up you'll file. Only catch is you have to mean it. Weights: don't go for vanity numbers on the squat you'll fuck your back up.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/21 11:06 AM
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Ah shit I knew I should have read comment history.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 01:25 AM
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Hey congrats on your first post, maybe try and edit the paragraph under "there is no fresh meat" to not include illegal activities. It sounds like you're doing OK for a guy that doesn't lift.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 12:11 AM
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I'm not concerned with giving bad advice to someone that calls themselves "trengod"
/r/askMRP08/08/21 01:52 PM
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No its not but this sounds super gay. If your wife is asking you to do stuff rhe moment you walk in the door, playfully tell her she's not allowed to say your name when you get home until she gives you a glass of water or a backrub. Of course she won't do it because you're not worth it, but repeat this a while and she should get better.
/r/askMRP07/08/21 06:46 PM
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My kids were a few years older when I found this place. If I were to give myself advice for back then it would just be to be an awesome/interesting person and bring my kid along.
/r/askMRP07/08/21 01:39 AM
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Good. You don't want him to grow up a pussy and need this place.
/r/askMRP07/08/21 01:06 AM
1

How much can your son bench?
/r/askMRP07/08/21 12:45 AM
0

Exactly. OP is clearly a defective woman.
/r/askMRP04/08/21 07:56 PM
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Men say 'k' but faggots who live in the frame of internet strangers say 'K.' You can't even give a reply that isn't something you learned from these forums. Go read the "stick your head in this bucket right now" post and then forget these forums exist if you want to find happiness (whateverthefuckthatis).
/r/askMRP03/08/21 09:04 PM
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Do you even lift, bro? I didn't see any stats in your post.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/21 04:31 PM
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>Ok, so this is going to be a little different Oh you special little snowflake you. >Why am I still not happy? Who the fuck cares? That's not our job. Go masturbate at trp.red or wherever the fuck you belong. Start doing something for yourself that doesn't come from an idea posted by a random stranger on the internet.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 04:28 PM
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Right now all you are is an angry piece of shit with zero frame of your own. I threatened to... Be careful threatening anything because you are not worth a damn right now and therefore your threats have no value. Plus direct communication like this is for the powerless. How do I get her into my frame? You are way ahead of yourself here. First you get out of her frame. Then you build one of your own. Then you can try to pull her into yours. I tend to get a lot of attention from women when I’m at …
/r/askMRP03/08/21 04:04 PM
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Here are some ideas on what to tell him: ​ Next the bitch and spin plates. Please talk to me before you kill yourself. She's not yours, it was just your turn. The advent of the internet allowed a bunch of nerdy D&D players to collaborate to reverse-engineer female behavior and when combined with an evo-psych viewpoint has allowed the development of a new set of books that completely explains what is happening to you and what you can do about it. If you're not LARPing and this is really happening…
/r/askMRP02/08/21 02:59 AM
3

>Then out of the blue she asks did you find a couples counselor. I say, No. She asked why not. Fog or broken record at this point that you don't want counseling anymore. Remember you're allowed to change your mind at any time. Or you can say "it's a man's prerogative to change his mind whenever he wants" with a big shit eating grin on your face. >How do I get through this without blowing the lid on finding this place? Have a frame for fuck's sake. Don't talk about fight club. Remember she doesn'…
/r/askMRP02/08/21 12:28 AM
5

Ah fuck you, you're just a piece of shit. Good luck asshole, chances are you don't have what it takes.
/r/askMRP31/07/21 01:14 AM
0

And be careful. This is technically the first few steps of dread which when used during pregnancy can be fatal to the relationship. Maybe that matters and maybe it doesn't but you're in no shape to decide right now.
/r/askMRP31/07/21 12:20 AM
10

Just shut up and read and don't implement anything until you can answer that question on your own. Get the free stronglifts 5x5 app and do that now in the gym.
/r/askMRP31/07/21 12:14 AM
7

You're fucked up in countless ways. The good news is that in your shotgun approach to cross posting your pathetic story, you hit a bullseye. The bad news is that implementing the sidebar and dread when the woman is pregnant isn't recommended. Read and lift until the hormones are no longer influenced by pregnancy.
/r/askMRP30/07/21 11:13 PM
2

I don't understand how you've read the sidebar and listen to "rp podcasts" yet still have this as a question. Who exactly are you listening to? You've got solid guidelines from Rollo about not picking through the trash and 30 broads before 30. Adapting them to your personal circumstances would make sense but instead you are flat out ignoring them. Why do you think that is?
/r/askMRP28/07/21 02:27 PM
1

When you read evolutionary biology at a graduate level, did you come across a paper on LDRs? What did you read about LDRs in Rollo's book/blog? Maybe you're one of those guys that is so smart, they can't see what is right in front of them?
/r/askMRP28/07/21 03:50 AM
1

You've given no information about yourself or what stage you are at with sidebar, lifting, etc. That usually means you're clueless and unattractive. No such thing as an LDR generally. It's considered an imaginary friend. You can't do dread in an imaginary friend relationship. The first few levels are things you should do anyway, so have at it.
/r/askMRP28/07/21 01:06 AM
2

Many of the sidebar books are not written by RP authors, rather they contain essential mental models for unplugging. You still need to read them with an RP filter. I haven't watched them in a while but I'm sure Rian covers this exception in his youtube sidebar series on the title in question.
/r/askMRP27/07/21 06:33 PM
18

That is like "passive pegging" instead of "active pegging"
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 08:47 PM
23

You basically have 2 options Read the sidebar, lift, etc... Buy your wife a 12 inch strap on and admit to her that you just want to be taken from behind whenever she wants and that lube is optional. Generally this community is fine with whatever option you pick.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/21 07:02 PM
8

Yeah dude, then you can flirt with the realtor in front of her for dread level 13.
/r/askMRP26/07/21 04:42 AM
1

Exactly. Somehow he didn't need anyone's help or guidance to turn things around from being a drunk captain. But because the sidebar material didn't say anything about hookers he needs to come here to be told what to do.
/r/askMRP25/07/21 01:05 AM
7

Fuck you, you are DEERing random strangers on the internet.
/r/askMRP22/07/21 06:19 PM
16

"it worked didn't it" /u/WB2E 's post is right but doesn't go far enough to say that this is absolutely horrible and counter-productive - the absolute worst response you could have had. She does not want to be with a faker. You need to become the game. You need to reflect on why your opsec was so shitty as to have this happen and as to why you still have zero frame and came up with the bullshit retarded response that you did. Re-read the chapter on fogging to learn how to deal with shit tests th…
/r/askMRP22/07/21 04:17 PM
1

I gave you constructive criticism in my first reply. You're just too dumb to see it. Few people were dumber than me when I started, but it's not supposed to be a retard pissing contest.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 06:19 PM
1

You really are a fucking moron. Good luck.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 05:22 PM
2

There's no way you've done more than skimmed any of the information here or in the sidebar. Only a retard would ask a question like this.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 04:30 PM
6

The sidebar has at least one recommended book on sex that you haven't mentioned in your post. Rule Zero frequently has a panelist on that also has books/resources on this topic, and you haven't mentioned him either. These things are not hidden from anybody that is actually working their way through understanding this material.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 01:39 PM
2

...vet a woman... Red flag #1 ...redpill aware... Red flag #2 ...a unicorn... Red flag #3 Does married red pill suggest a timeframe before tying the knot Red flag #4 Dude, you have more red flags than most women. If you keep going through life with these mental models, chances are that you'll be fucked.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 01:34 PM
4

Now that we're talking about calling your wife out or not... We're not talking about calling her out or not. You are in the dumpster fire forum. Don't take some other sperg's title and infer that has anything to do with behavior that will get your dick wet. If you had done any reading or watching Rian's videos you would know the solution to problems initiating late at night, both to avoid seeming butthurt when you leave and to have a better chance at success when you're no longer seen as a pussy…
/r/askMRP19/07/21 05:48 PM
2

So what in your mind is the difference between ASD and LMR?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 04:18 AM
5

Other than ignoring it (which puts you at risk of SA accusations), what are all the ways you currently know or can think of to deal with ASD?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/21 01:01 AM
5

You can't ignore the ASD. You need to use charismatic words get past it.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/21 11:16 PM
1

Ok then, tanner guzy and well built style have some programs/services that might help you. I also like Jose Zuniga on YouTube. As far as modern books on gaming, look up Troy Francis, renegade dating blueprint
/r/askMRP18/07/21 03:33 PM
5

You should be at your peak. Instead, you're the shitshow and you're not talking at all about what you've done to fix your blue pill mental models. If someone gives you a link to the best gumroad course on how to game women, what makes you think you're not just going to screw things up again with someone else?
/r/askMRP18/07/21 03:14 AM
2

This sub is literally purposefully built to be a contained dumpster fire. "Adding to this sub" is not something to be proud of or aspire to.
/r/askMRP17/07/21 04:00 PM
5

Some dude took the time to completely connect the dots of the "feminine mystique" and completely decoded what was formerly unknowable into a playbook you can read so that you'll be able to recognize and predict female behavior in a way that let's you make the optimal decision for your life and your benefit. And all you can do is to shit on the format of the book and take personal shots at the author. Fuck you. You're a giant piece of shit. If your English is good enough to get through the comple…
/r/askMRP17/07/21 03:58 PM
5

Don't cum on me bro, I'm not into that.
/r/askMRP02/07/21 02:27 PM
5

For me, I've determined this type of silly mental masturbation is not helpful, so I stopped doing it.
/r/askMRP02/07/21 01:48 PM
0

I can never fully wrap my brain around why my ratchet set is so anti-super glue either man. Some of this world's mysteries will never be solved.
/r/askMRP30/06/21 08:32 PM
9

You fucked up with your first response to this shit test. If she has been giving you a lot of these and you want to be direct you can say "I put them away to my standard. If you want something different, you can redo it how you like it " But 'k' would have been a better response.
/r/askMRP25/06/21 07:04 PM
0

What you perceive as hostility is expert advice. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/21 01:44 AM
0

Why the fuck are you in MRP? What the fuck is wrong with you? Get the fuck out of here and go to TRP and don't look back.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/21 05:19 PM
1

I think you are talking too much. Also, get lifting heavy weights as soon as you can without anymore bullshit excuses. No matter what happens, or how much initial success you have, or whatever bullshit excuses your male hamster comes up with, don't ever stop lifting heavy weights 3 times per week.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/21 05:13 PM
10

Who cares? You literally have no investment in her. Kick her out or move out if you moved into her place. Or be roommates for 10 more months if you signed a lease. Then turn yourself into someone a woman would want to fuck. Most importantly, get the fuck out of the MRP subreddit and go over to TRP and don't look back.
/r/askMRP20/06/21 11:36 AM
1

My best guess based on what you wrote is that he soft nexted you for lack of paragraphs and formatting. Go over to the red pill wives sub and ask them to help with your word processor game.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/21 10:13 PM
1

calling her a bitch isn't going to help anything out and seems resentful Totally agree. This is the typical female trick where they say the worst thing possible to bait you into a response, then they make it all about your response. Several years ago when my wife said some horrible shit to me I (still bp) called her a cunt. While this was accurate, she would often bring it up, years later. What I tell her now (with a big grin) was I meant to say "you were acting cunty". Same thing here with OP. …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/21 10:58 PM
3

Only an idiot sees these concepts as conflicting. An idiot or a literalist sperg. Whatever you do, don't read the 48 laws of power until you're not too dumb to see nuance.
/r/askMRP15/06/21 11:45 PM
2

Dude, I am not exaggerating at all when I say that my wife and my 11 year old son both squat more than you do. That's your problem in a nutshell.
/r/askMRP10/06/21 07:26 AM
2

You're in the trash forum for mrp, standards are much looser here than the main. As far as real life success vs backseat driver, I would imagine it's no different than the rest of the anonymous internet and their are lots of losers larping.
/r/askMRP04/06/21 12:53 AM
2

I'm married and a father and I might answer your questions but first I need to know how much you squat and benchpress and the date of the last time you lifted.
/r/askMRP03/06/21 11:39 PM
9

Wow this place has gone to shit. OP is a fuck up, you want to bang his wife and several others are asking for pics of her. Its like beta thirst has made it all the way to this corner of the internet.
/r/askMRP03/06/21 05:46 AM
2

So you're saying you haven't started to lift yet?
/r/askMRP02/06/21 05:17 PM
11

At best she just doesn't care about your struggles. At worst you're making yourself less attractive to her. Either way, there is no benefit to you for sharing this. Its not personal, she's just not wired that way so stop trying to get her to act in a way she's not capable of acting.
/r/askMRP01/06/21 01:22 AM
5

What the hell is this shit and why is it in MRP? There is literally nothing in here that is going to help a guy who's wife won't fuck him. If you are messaging a girl for more than, say, an hour, you are probably over doing it. I can accept that covid and dating app culture might warrant bending the idea that 'texting is for logisitics only' but this is just plain stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/21 05:09 AM
2

I have been reading TRP/MRP material for a handful of years now, prior to my current situation. ​ recently became engaged back in October ​ age 28 What in the fuck are you thinking?
/r/askMRP31/05/21 04:51 AM
1

I didn't read it but if you don't want to reply "k" because that's too short of a reply say something like "that's cute" instead.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/17 04:17 PM
-1

Thanks man! It definitely is highly effective. I got the idea from one of my daughter's books on "how to be a princess". The book basically details good manners, posture, attitude, fashion, etc... Bluepill me disliked the book but redpill me sees the value. Now I use several different variations on this response: I need you to be more lady-like I need you to be more graceful I need you to read daughter's book on how to be a princess The main thing I've learned is that you can't over-do a generic…
/r/askMRP25/10/16 04:25 PM
1

Your problem is that you answered the first text.
/r/askMRP25/10/16 10:33 AM
-4

Her: "I'll pat you on the head then" (she hates when I do this to her now... I only do it when she is being a ridiculous cunt) Me: As long as I can choose which head you pat, sure! ..... Some of my favorite ways to pass the random nonsense shit tests now is to say "you are wearing to many clothes" or "I need you to be more lady-like (or graceful)"
/r/askMRP24/10/16 04:52 AM
3

Hey nice post, where is the other half of it with all the important details?
/r/askMRP21/10/16 08:40 PM
9

No fool, you talked to her too much.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 01:56 PM
6

Holy shit so much fucking talking...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 01:07 PM
1

You don't always need to confront it directly to get her to not talk that way. For example, do you lift?
/r/askMRP20/10/16 03:54 AM
3

You failed the test, bigly. She barks disrespectfully: "go in there and get the baby now. Someone in this house needs to hold her besides me". You: "You are so cute when you're angry" or pat her on the head and say nothing, then go get the baby or "I need you to work on being more lady-like" or something...anything from the shit test encyclopedia in the sidebar. What you did was just dumb. Don't grab her arms, just duck out of the way. Don't hold the food away from her, that's gay. Don't say shi…
/r/askMRP20/10/16 03:52 AM
0

Yes, given the circumstances it seems that he needs to go along and act as you described
/r/askMRP19/10/16 02:10 AM
3

Nice hamstering. How about... It is completely inappropriate for her to even connect with an ex on Facebook, let alone talk with, let alone meet up. Forget about saying I'd meet up with an ex of mine, I'd be scheduling lawyer appointments if I was in this situation.
/r/askMRP19/10/16 01:53 AM
1

How did you get in this situation? Do you lift?
/r/askMRP19/10/16 12:22 AM
1

Maybe stop trying and start doing? Why all of a sudden do you want to remove the phone example?
/r/askMRP18/10/16 09:44 PM
4

Yeah that won't work.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 09:43 PM
4

Only faggots bring their phone to the dinner table with their family. Try leading.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 09:01 PM
2

Personally the reason behind it would matter to me. If any part of not changing is related to feminsim/power/feeeeelings/bullshit it would be a non-starter. Can you make your maiden name your middle name and continue to publish that way yet still have his name as your last name?
/r/askMRP18/10/16 06:32 PM
2

You've tried 24/7 coddling and pampering and that hasn't worked? This is serious. The problem as I see it is this: You need to be more receptive to her. Buy her a strap-on dildo and ask her to fuck you in the ass. Boom - problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 02:29 AM
1

I guess I was vague in my comment. What you posted there is a lame excuse. Of course you don't act that way, but you also don't whine that you have it so much harder because of that guy's behavior.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 01:34 AM
1

Unfortunately, I don't want to pull the same emotionally abusive, guilt-tripping bullshit that he uses on his kids. So, it's not really a fair fight. I not only have to be manlier, I have to do so without resorting to his absurdly abusive tactics. I just couldn't imagine how a man could say the above, so troll was the only other thing I could think of.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 12:35 AM
1

Are you a troll or a pussy? I can't tell.
/r/askMRP18/10/16 12:19 AM
1

Oh my. Read the sidebar, start to lift.
/r/askMRP17/10/16 08:59 PM
1

First of all, don't ever stop lifting. I know from first hand experience not to do this. Second, fucking stop the drinking you faggot. Third, are you sure you have your head on straight with what it is that you actually want? Are you sure the firstmate is an idiot that is not capable of giving any meaningful input? I would have my kids homeschooled in a heartbeat if I could - even if my wife was average intelligence. It would allow me great flexibility to supplement and plan things for where she…
/r/askMRP17/10/16 08:52 PM
1

Yeah that's it. Better communication would definitely fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/16 03:52 PM
1

Ocham's Razor. He hasn't lifted. He needs to lift.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 08:16 PM
1

If he had made meaningful changes his wife would be attracted to him.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 06:51 PM
0

plenty of dumb fucks get a reply from a red name and have a stupid / defensive reaction like yours. Try taking some time to reflect on it. If you buy a new car I suggest you use the method at fightingchance.com.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 05:07 PM
1

When are you going to get serious?
/r/askMRP14/10/16 03:56 PM
1

Basically death grip / edging led to poor performance in too many scenarios.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 02:45 PM
1

Yeah, it is pretty obvious that you haven't made any meaningful changes. It doesn't start until you lift.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 12:47 PM
1

In my experience motivation just doesn't work for the lazy. I spent a long time "finding the right motivation". -Do it for me -Do it so the wife will fuck me -Do it so I will fuck my wife in the ass again -Do it for the kids -Do it so my son will never have to go through what I have blah blah blah, nothing happened or there were false starts. Nothing stuck until I literally said "I'm just doing it".
/r/askMRP14/10/16 12:46 PM
4

You are devastated? You should follow blue pill curriculum. you are studying for exams??????!?? fuck you are so lucky to be so young and unplugged GTFO of here and go to trp. You are free. Enjoy.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 03:05 AM
1

I have not yet achieved the success I am looking for so I hesitate to say much until I have proven it works. Take this with a grain of salt for now: I read this book and follow the 6 steps as best I can (meditate, affirmation, visualization, exercise, read, journal). I deleted / threw out all porn. The last thing I need is for my son to find my stash like I did my father's. Porn fucked up so many sexual experiences for me the more I think about it, it makes me sick. I get 6 hours of sleep each n…
/r/askMRP14/10/16 03:00 AM
1

I was fatter than Stuart to start with so I needed a better affirmation. In all seriousness though, I was a career beta, and the unplug was difficult not for the reading, fogging, passing shit tests, wrapping my mind around the theories. It was difficult for undoing my laziness / getting my shit together. I had/have a gigantic self-created hole to dig out of. I am using the affirmation and other tricks to un-fuck my mind.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 02:25 AM
2

You're lazy. I resisted lifting for too long because I was lazy too. Try a daily affirmation to get yourself out of the lazy mindset. Here is part of mine : I was lazy for 20 years taking care of my body, my house, and my life. I am not lazy anymore. I will endure the pain, hunger, and discomfort necessary to get what I want out of life.
/r/askMRP14/10/16 01:34 AM
2

There you go again "trying" Good luck
/r/askMRP12/10/16 03:46 PM
1

No. You don't get it. It's not frame in the relationship. It's who you are and how you exert your will on reality independent of any relationship. You really need to start from the beginning.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 02:17 PM
1

Do you have a frame? It doesn't sound like you do.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 01:47 PM
1

Do or do not. There is no try.
/r/askMRP12/10/16 01:47 PM
1

Completely agree
/r/askMRP12/10/16 01:06 AM
2

If we all could be as lucky as you to find out this way. Do you lift?
/r/askMRP12/10/16 12:23 AM
4

Your definition of level 10 alpha is fucked up and wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/16 07:11 PM
2

Tease her by saying "what's the magic word?" Tell her you need a blow job in return
/r/askMRP11/10/16 03:12 PM
1

Stop being a Douchebag
/r/askMRP11/10/16 03:06 PM
1

Whoops sorry I mistook you for the trololol
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 08:14 PM
4

This is pretty bad. I can't decide if you should go home and apologize and hope for the best before or after you read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/16 06:50 PM
20

I found this place a couple months ago I have never lifted in my life
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/16 09:13 PM
0

Some people would rather eat the steak.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/16 07:57 PM
1

How can I maintain my own frame when she shifts her bossiness around to always feel or appear in control of me? What the fuck does this even mean? It is not possible for someone to run around with their own frame and ensnare you in it. Leaving your frame is an active choice that you make.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/16 07:08 PM
5

Lol. Almost every time I ask someone how much of WISNIFG they have read I get radio silence. I was going to make that into a post at some point. You fucking suck boy.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/15 07:19 PM
1

Yes I would, i'd probably do better than you you are supposed to say: "Drop the soap and lets find out!" and then initiate Later, I pressed her about it This was dumb. How much of the course prerequisites have you actually read? I couldn't help it fucking bullshit you dumb ass pussy you could help it if you weren't so weak now what are you going to do about it? edit: I just noticed your history commenting in red pill goes back over a year. How the fuck is it you come out of your frame so easily …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 08:16 PM
1

I'd say STFU is more like gasoline, radiator fluid, or oil.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 04:39 PM
5

I don't understand how consuming a podcast could be considered a hobby.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 04:16 PM
2

Podcasting
/r/askMRP07/10/15 01:49 PM
3

Stop texting that many words at a time. I'm not going to work today. I had a nightmare blah blah blah You: K That is enough via text. Deal with the rest in person after reading WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 09:57 AM
1

I asked a similar question at first. STFU worked great for me
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 09:51 AM
1

You sound like a pussy with all the excuses. If it is so hard for you just hire it out.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 10:59 PM
1

Have you read anything? Don't respond to these texts you are too important
/r/askMRP06/10/15 08:17 PM
1

Thanks again. This weekend she pulled the same venom spewing shit. I told her it wouldn't be tolerated and that she can get the fuck out if she keeps talking like that. She liked the boundary and stayed inside it. She's still a harpy but I feel better.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 03:45 AM
15

Thoughts? Right now you fucking suck. Go read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/15 09:31 PM
9

That is fucking lovely. It sounds like you aren't married and don't have kids. So why would you stick around?
/r/askMRP05/10/15 09:26 PM
1

I'd say it's only a good response if she's fat
/r/askMRP05/10/15 07:42 PM
3

I like what /u/FearDearg2015 said. Re-reading it though, it does sound like he didn't fail it. I took it to mean "of cource i'm not doing that" but if you read it literally he agreed without amplification. It is more like he was lobbed a softball and he bunted instead of hitting it out of the park.
/r/askMRP05/10/15 09:42 AM
3

What do you think is slowing you down? You are several months in and shit tests should be easier for you. Have you read WISNIFG, MMSL, NMMNG?
/r/askMRP04/10/15 11:16 PM
7

That's a no. Don't worry, you'll get the next one. Edit: did you read the shit test encyclopedia?
/r/askMRP04/10/15 09:16 PM
4

That is dread level 1, passing a shit test. Edit: and the first shit test was rewarded with a second. Did you pass it?
/r/askMRP04/10/15 08:30 PM
1

If you think you are a sigma, you're not.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/15 11:41 PM
3

What is taking you so long to read? Don't skip just put the time in.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 11:54 PM
1

How much of WISNIFG have you read?
/r/askMRP02/10/15 10:32 PM
1

Let me know of you want to do something like this in your next venture http://www.smartpassiveincome.com/millionaire-mastermind-groups-jaime-tardy/
/r/askMRP02/10/15 04:43 PM
1

Nope, completely unrelated and I can't say more and be doxxed unfortunately. Affilates, your own products, sponsored posts are all ways to try and monetize a without having add in the show. Keep at it and before you know it you will have built Rome.
/r/askMRP02/10/15 04:26 PM
1

Hey look! You've made the cut now! Too bad your OI is so advanced by now you wouldn't possibly give a shit about what a random stranger posts on the internet anymore!
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 09:49 PM
2

You are not maintaining frame at all it sounds. You must accept that as the man you must be "always on" in front of your wife (and children if you have them). Coming out of your frame occasionally is nearly as bad as not being in one at all (and may be worse if it makes your wife feel she can't count on you). I think about frame not as something I break or hold or maintain. I stand in my frame - that is my default/passive location. Each action I take or response I give determines whether I stay …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/09/15 09:47 PM
1

Yup. I'm focusing on getting my body where it needs to be, and I am putting about 30 hours per week into a podcast and platform where I deliver amazing content that helps people be awesome and that I will eventually monetize.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 08:36 PM
0

I agree with your edit. Also at this point I can't imagine any woman bringing value to my life beyond the few seconds of time I am actually orgasming, so not worth the hassle to me right now. I can hardly believe I feel that way but I do at this stage.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 08:05 PM
3

I believe it was BPP that taught me: Tease her with "what's the magic word". When she responds with "go fuck yourself" you say: that was the magic word, but now it's changed. Try again (with a grin ). The important thing is, if she doesn't start to talk how you want, stop conversing with her until she turns it around. I did that and now if she is rude and I Tease her about the magic word she usually turns around without anything else.
/r/askMRP30/09/15 10:29 AM
1

If you have not read yet or it has been a while, refresh your mind on the fogging section of WISNIFG. That is what you need most to pass the main event imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/15 10:18 PM
7

OK. Do you understand now that she does not have a low sex drive?
/r/askMRP29/09/15 12:15 PM
3

More like basically read WISNIFG
/r/askMRP29/09/15 09:55 AM
8

How many times per week do you lift?
/r/askMRP29/09/15 01:07 AM
3

You just need to spice things up with her. Buy her a strap-on and Google "pegging", that should work. It's in the sidebar I think.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 02:05 PM
1

Thanks, She is still in my life because I am hoping to make my marriage work for me. I probably do give too much leeway to the negative shit, thinking that is what she needs, and that is just causing it to continue.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/09/15 11:30 AM
2

Provide more context. Were you acting butthurt?
/r/askMRP28/09/15 10:29 AM
1

Your two main posts in this thread are purple pill. Your history is of posting in purple pill. Get off my lawn.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 11:17 PM
1

Could you take this to the appropriate subreddit please?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 10:44 PM
2

Lol OK but the happiness gotten in the end should be roughly the same. I talk about level 4 dread like it in the sidebar, or something. Not like it is a game. So if I don't apply your analogy correctly, and BPP doesn't apply your analogy correctly...maybe your analogy isn't correct?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 10:42 PM
1

Yes, but I laid the ground work for all of it so I should be able to change it. Check out my early posts :)
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 10:10 PM
2

The sex has returned, it is regular and not starfish. But she still speaks like a harpy, and needs me to be a Great Oak for her. For example, she had a rough day at work Friday. It's been 21 days since her last period. She broke down in tears from exhaustion, hunger and stress. I hugged her, said it would be alright. She stopped crying, told me a bit of what was going on, and asked for water and food while she took out her contacts. I brought her both but she didn't want to eat upstairs. I broug…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 09:45 PM
1

Honestly, I still wonder the same about my wife. She seems so low quality with her bitchy attitude and need to shit all over her oak tree. I've just decided to give it the full 1 month per year of beta before I give any consideration to giving up on her. She wasn't always so low quality, and I was full beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 05:57 PM
3

No shit. Your husband is a man and not some beta pussy. Of course things are going that way for you. I can only hope your purpose is to motivate the OP to know that one day, he could have that type of relationship with his wife. Otherwise it is like you are taunting him.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 02:25 PM
1

You'll make it, if you want to. Good luck bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 01:13 PM
4

There is enough garbage in your post that it is worth highlighting so others realize it. You talk about doing things to make yourself happy like that is a bad thing. OP is responsible for his own happiness. He should be doing things to make himself happy. She can come along if she wishes to but he does not need to make sure "the happiness gotten at the end should be roughly the same". your wife is a terrible partner. OP was a terrible man, of course she is a terrible partner right now. I know pe…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 10:44 AM
8

Hi. How much of WISNIFG have you read so far? Edit: Also, jesus christ stop with the fucking excuses about western media, feminism, and her father being the biggest beta.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/15 08:54 AM
1

Totally. Did your flair change? Congrats.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/15 11:27 PM
1

I guess it is different when you bring your wife, but you can't get much more blue pill than a strip club. The reason people appear "serious" is because they expect value in each post they read here. Maybe you'll do better on your 3rd try.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/15 09:37 PM
16

You got butthurt over the comment and were passive aggressive with the spaghetti. You were pulled into her frame. You need to give less fucks.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 08:41 PM
6

Yeah I agree. I keep hoping he'll figure it out. Instead I think he is just hoping for validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 08:33 PM
4

Every reply is you splitting hairs and mincing words. How much of WISNIFG have you read so far?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 08:13 PM
0

I don't understand how you don't see this the same as calling her worthless.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 07:41 PM
5

Dude, you seem extremely resistant to the advice of even the most respected members of this community.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 07:35 PM
26

No bj might mean no dread. As for the rest... Do you even lift?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 01:14 AM
5

I hope that one day (hopefully tomorrow) you will look back on this post and realize what a pussy you are (were). Edit: good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 09:14 PM
2

One action is you can read the sidebar, weiner.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 08:49 PM
2

Now it sounds like you are hamstering away your working relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 05:10 PM
1

Search for /u/bluepillprofessor posts on this issue. He has a method that involves you approaching someone close to the man in question.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 03:48 PM
1

It is your choice whether you operate in your frame or hers. Everyday I tell myself I am going to have a great day and no one can take that from me without my permission. Don't work on it or tell yourself it is difficult. Just do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 03:43 PM
16

OK this post confirms you haven't read jack shit. Only you are responsible for your happiness, no one else is.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 05:17 AM
23

Yeah that's nice. I had sex twice in 6 years with my wife. Then I read the sidebar. Things changed. All of this is your fault. No one here cares if you stay or if you go. Reading redpill subreddits doesn't cut it bro. You gotta buy the books and spend the time reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/15 04:59 AM
1

OK so you don't know what the 80/20 rule is. Thanks. I hope you get past this day brother.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 11:47 PM
1

This is definitely male hamster
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 11:45 PM
0

Free thinking is great, shit thinking is not. But I'm just the Hive Mind speaking of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 11:43 PM
1

How exactly are you using 80/20 here? I constantly see the so called 80/20 rule thrown out as an excuse for sloppiness. You appear to be doing this.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 11:24 PM
1

Stop getting visibly upset. Of course she had plans, didn't tell you and thinks her plans are more important than your daughters birthday. You should expect this kind of stuff because she is not capable of anything else. This is solipsism.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 10:26 PM
-1

But she wouldn't have left him, and that apparently (sadly) is the measure of success being proposed.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 05:49 PM
1

Hello straw man argument.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 05:32 PM
4

Slightly overweight is fine? I stopped reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 04:56 PM
3

Fuck. You were distraught by a missing part. Everything after that was horrible. You need to deliberately reconstruct your masculinity so that a missing part doesn't phase you.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/15 04:01 PM
3

I'd put most of my money on 'no' and a little bit on 'not yet'.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 07:19 PM
6

Are you a man worth having hotel sex with?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/15 02:39 AM
21

This sounds fucking ridiculous.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/15 09:11 PM
1

I love posts like this, because they bring the male hamsters out of the woodwork. Through my journey so far with trp I've gone from reducing to minimizing to eliminating video gaming, and I am a better person for it.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 01:48 PM
1

Sweet!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 08:54 AM
1

I have completely stopped gaming for now as I continue to pull my shit together. It is a distraction I just don't have the time for. Eventually I see myself playing magic online again every once and a while. I enjoy the chess like strategy of that game. Mmo games end up being a 2nd job for me so I don't think I'll ever play one again.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/15 03:27 AM
12

You starfished the post, and have no history. Read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/15 06:07 PM
2

I use the app pocket and it's embedded text to speech feature to read any of the red pill blogs to me like they were a podcast.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/15 03:12 AM
1

The side bar has all your answers
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 04:14 AM
1

You are playing with fire going so slow on the 3 course prerequisites.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/15 01:17 AM
1

Thanks man. You really pointed me in the right direction. I'm still with a long way to go but I am absolutely killing it right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 10:38 PM
0

That's fantastic. Most of us are not married to people like you since We have been shitty captains Our wives are low quality harpies All of the above.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 05:44 PM
1

Just follow your dreams and be true to yourself. Your wife may get upset but that is nothing that True Love's Kiss won't fix. P.S. Do you even lift? Have you read the sidebar prerequisites?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/15 01:46 PM
1

Thanks! They have saved my life in the same way others describe here.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 09:27 AM
1

Why is marriedredpill left out?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 05:08 PM
1

Why do you leave out /r/marriedredpill?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:58 PM
6

You are doing way, way too much talking. I recently went from sex twice in 6 years to several times a week. I didn't negotiate a minimum, I just kept initiating. Yesterday my wife said "we need to make a schedule " and I said "ok, let me know which 2 days you want off". She said she wanted 3 times a week and I said " I won't be satisfied with anything less than 5 days/week. We can do 3 nights and 2 mornings if you want." Then I walked away. My point of Sharing this is she brought up frequency, n…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/15 03:34 AM
2

This seems more for /r/asktrp Especially because you seem to think LTR = marriage. You have not already fucked up by entering into a debilitating legal contract and having kids with a woman. Remember that before you fuck up your life. Here is a specific example for you: It's late at night and you initiate. She declines because it is so late. Then she wants to talk / have her feet rubbed / have your attention for something else. Consider the impact of withdrawal of affection here vs cuddling or t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 04:43 PM
2

Male hamster alert in this post. There was no excuse for the phone call to begin with.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 04:30 PM
1

Why did you ask a woman where the screwdriver was? That is just screaming "PLEASE SHIT TEST ME I CAN'T FIND THE MOST BASIC OF TOOLS AND CAN'T FIGURE OUT HOW TO BORROW ONE FROM THE CAR PLACE"
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 03:12 PM
2

Hey its a starfish post. More info please. Is it OK to ignore her in response to a shit test? Yes. Or do you mean stop initiating sex? Or do you mean ignoring her offer for sex? Or do you mean ignoring her no matter what is going on?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/15 04:09 AM
2

Do you know what you are doing on the dance floor? I am not a dancer but it seems like dancing is foreplay. Do you think it makes her wet for you to ask "why did you turn?" Why can't you just playfully grab her and say "whoops I wanted you to go straight there babe" or something?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 11:30 PM
3

this isn't even about dread anymore It never was. Pay attention, listen, drop your defensiveness, learn something.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 11:37 AM
1

Perhaps this was just last minute resistance that you could have pushed past? I did so late last night with my wife. It took talking dirty about what I liked that she did last night, and kisses on her neck (which I know drive her wild). By the time hand went to pussy it was soaked.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 02:42 AM
17

Are you trolling? Go to the wiki and read the 12 steps of dread. This stupid idea of texting your feelings to another woman isn't on that list, and that's no accident. This is an incredibly beta move on so many levels.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/15 01:50 AM
2

Every verbal attempt to get her to put the phone down fails and just gets her agitated. Yes IDNGAF but if I don't have to box the hamster then I am happier so I will stick to this as an action. I am not sure how to reward this other than not displaying any omega behaviors, which she already sees I have cut out. Basically she benefits more from this limitation on the browser than I do.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 07:40 PM
1

Thanks, she is all over the library. She is usually working but will be home for the next few weeks. I'm sure she is bored/lonely. We had a long, miserable period in our marriage where we essentially alienated all of our friends and made our lives all about the kids and that was it. She realizes that the reason she is up late at night making the kids lunches for the next day is because she spent 90 minutes on the celeb stuff after dinner. She just has little willpower in her, and why would she? …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 05:37 PM
5

If you are arguing you are not in your frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 04:57 PM
2

Why the fuck are you starting arguments? Build a frame and stay in it. I don't understand - you are nagging her to take out the trash or she is nagging you? Either way, if you see the trash needs to be emptied why are you not doing it immediately? You want to model things after a celebrity reality TV show? WTF?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:43 PM
1

Check out the resources at Eofire.com Smartpassiveincome.com To get you started. Good luck
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 11:26 AM
1

just took it to pm
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 03:53 AM
1

I'd love to help you out with the set up. I've just spent a huge amount of time getting it right on my site and I think I can repeat it but with less effort for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 02:59 AM
1

You could make this a funnel leading to the purchase of your book. You'll do well to host a self hosted Wordpress (not wordpress.com ). If you haven't published to itunes yet you want the site first so you own your own rss feed incase you leave podbean.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/15 01:12 AM
2

Yeah, you starfished it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/15 07:36 PM
1

Check out Bootcamphub.com Personalized body weight intervals, in your living room strength alternating with cardio. I believe they have a free trial.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 07:08 PM
4

What I said is fogging/negative assertion. A&A is agree and amplify, not question and sarcasm
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 05:36 PM
1

I must be confusing you with someone else. Your reply though makes me think that WISNIFG has arrived and you are reading it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 04:01 PM
1

I agree with you. I must be confusing OP with another new poster. There was someone recently who started "live blogging" and was set straight in the comments to post valuable content not just regular updates.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 04:00 PM
2

Thank you for taking action on this.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 03:22 PM
2

First of all, glad things are going well for you. We share a special bond in that /u/jacktenofhearts kicked both of us in the teeth to get us on the right track. You agreed in your initial thread that you would post no more than weekly, and only valuable content. Then you came out with these daily updates. I suggest you do some introspection on why you did that, as this should help you in your journey. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 03:21 PM
1

Read the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 03:16 PM
9

I think why would I need to stand up to you? Is fine but everything else you said is too sarcastic / unnecessary / not a good idea to say
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 03:10 PM
1

Are you fucking kidding me?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/07/15 03:05 PM
3

I'd be done after that behavior. You should be getting up and doing something at 7am on Saturday anyhow. Work on abundance mentality and start to not give a fuck. Edit. I still would be done with that but what the fuck. You handled this in the worst possible way. Were you paying attention during your years of lurking?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/15 07:16 PM
9

You just sound like a whiny bitch. I can change my mind too, and I don't need to offer a reason why. Read the sidebar books, especially WISNIFG.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 04:48 PM
3

If this happened to me I would not give a fuck. That is how I would "fight it". Edit: if you had read WISNIFG you would understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 03:23 PM
1

How about you give an example of how team womyn usurped you.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 01:49 PM
1

Sounds like you still give a fuck in areas where you should not.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 01:46 PM
1

I am not sure where you are getting that shit tests are won by not giving in. Shit tests are passed, usually in a charmingly aloof way to demonstrate that you are not affected by the shit. When WISNIFG finally comes in the mail, get straight to reading. It is tedious but you really really need it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/15 01:41 AM
2

He put the same effort in with me. You better listen up son.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 08:43 PM
2

Voice activated recorder for sure. Check state 1 party or 2 party consent laws.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 03:28 AM
1

Hey, have you finished the 3 prerequisites yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 03:01 AM
0

I hope you are not replying to any texts. You were right to tell her calm down once more when she threatened you, but starting with calm down to her initial pissyness probably not the best way to handle that shit test. Go to the wiki, shit tests, section 5 passing shit tests to see some other methods of deflecting her pissyness. You will also need to learn to fog ASAP from WISNIFG. How to deal with the violence at this point I am not sure. Has she done that before? Could just be her probing your…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 02:31 AM
-4

You're lucky, you have a real life morpheus there. Be like him.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/07/15 01:55 AM
2

Holy shit boy wake the fuck up to what is going on here.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 11:52 PM
0

It's not as simple as reading about dread and applying it. You'll need to put in some serious work on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 11:50 PM
7

The relationship is already negatively affected. Have you done any sidebar reading? If you are really so close to this wedding lock yourself in a room and read for days straight.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 08:42 PM
19

This is why I dislike reading non married posts in this sub. Fucking next her with zero consequences like I wish I could.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 07:33 PM
1

In the meantime before getting your shit together, how do you think your daughter feels hearing mom and dad argue over taking her to the bathroom?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 12:21 PM
1

Something like this https://www.godaddy.com/hosting/wordpress-hosting.aspx?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 04:08 AM
2

Ok backup. What nursing reason puts you in a different bedroom?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 01:03 AM
2

I have done the leaving when rejected with good results. So far she hasn't shit tested back with "why do you always leave when I say no" like op is predicting. I get plenty of "you only want me for one thing" which is now simple for me to a&a. In some of my previous posts it was pointed out that my wife's hamster is 800lb and that I need not engage all the time so that I am just on hard mode, not nightmare mode. For this reason I have been looking to shit test responses that pass but don't Rev u…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 12:51 AM
1

Thanks again for this! I have just launched my own (unrelated) podcast using soundcloud. Hosting is actually free for the first few hours per month of audio. Do you have a shared wordpress hosting set up on that domain you got?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/15 12:38 AM
1

I see what you mean about pressure flipping leading to a discussion. I know "didn't realize, I gotta go " would ratchet things up to a larger shit test with my wife. Perhaps this should be done anyway so the hamster tires itself out quicker?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 11:31 PM
1

Review wiki _ shit test encyclopedia _passing shit tests section why are you denying me sex? Would probably need some amused mastery sprinkled on top.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 08:45 PM
1

I would treat that like a shit test. Maybe a pressure flip would work well.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 08:10 PM
1

Sure, but I don't care other than to point out that the op left his frame. And I only care to point this out to help op realize it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 04:23 PM
1

I moved the kids slightly closer to her than me. They loved it and it defines which end of the rectangle is the top imo.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:59 PM
1

To me, words matter. If I think it I become it. I probably place more attention on this than is necessary. This is how I am unplugging and it is working for me. Also I don't think a checkmate analogy works with trying to develop captain/FO model and if I think of things as a chess match that will get in the way of my success. Snarkiness should not be an issue to care about. Stepping out of your frame is.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:54 PM
2

He means op should not give a shit about my opinion of his analogy, probably should not have responded, and certainly should not have made a pissy comment about my flair. His frame should have been "I made a quality post and IDNGAF if some random Internet user doesn't like my analogy "
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 03:29 PM
1

Rumor is that /u/bluepillprofessor has a great post somewhere about overcoming that last minute resistance...I can't find it readily though perhaps you can take a stab at it. So what's the best option if (C) fails? A or B alternating if you ask me.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 12:18 PM
1

Sweet, I'd love to hear how it goes.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 04:37 AM
-1

You sound butthurt. You're not letting me judge you, are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 01:12 AM
3

Meh. Good advice but the analogy still stands. You swallow the pill and then you unplug, hence the flair. Also I don't like the chess board analogy better than the matrix one. I plan to rebuild myself into someone (a man) that bends reality to my will. I swallowed the pill almost 3 months ago. I am diligently unplugging and learning kung fu. I know there is no spoon. I can dodge bullets but I still need to. Maybe it is like a game right now but it will be my reality in a year or so. I do believe…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 12:19 AM
6

Plan ahead. I am the chef in the house so I use dinner to exert dominance (thanks /u/jacktenofhearts I believe for the suggestion) I rearranged the seats from 2 on each long side of the table to 1 on each side with me at the head. I plan a 21 day menu and take requests onlyn in the few days before i plan it out. I make sure I tell her "it is time for you to come to dinner now" We don't eat out since restaurant food is garbage. One family, one meal. If they don't like it it is on them to fix that…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 09:47 PM
2

There you go. I think you picked the best ones, plus the AM modeled by /u/whinemoreplease . sure will you tie my sneakers for me before I go next time?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 11:05 PM
1

don't eat anything that comes out of a can, box, or bag I am doing this with great succes. You are what you eat eats. I get grass fed dairy/beef, pastured eggs/pork, mostly organic stuff. I have 1 serving of whatever I make with those ingredients and that's it. Pay triple, eat half.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 07:53 PM
3

How much of the prerequisite material have you read? I responded Why did you respond? it would be nice if you'd ask me... Not a comfort test Go to the wiki, find the shit test encyclopedia, go to the section on passing shit tests, then post here an example response for each method of passing shit tests for your scenario. Then we can help you.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 07:07 PM
5

...this poor girl... Ditch that thinking bro
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 03:21 PM
1

Nice. This place is my morpheus right now. Sounds like you are on the right path. Good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 03:18 PM
3

I don't think I would call it a shit test. I think you dealt with solipsism and unrealistic time management by setting a boundary and not wavering. I do wonder if saying "it's too much " comes across as weak. Maybe you couldn't do it because you had other plans would have been better. I'm looking forward to hearing from others take on this. Edit: do you know how to fog yet? I waited too long to read WISNIFG and my life was harder for it. "You're right they are our friends and we probably don't s…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 11:02 AM
1

But you are not in an ltr...
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 08:32 PM
1

Everything sounds fine except for the penalty idea to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 03:56 AM
1

I listen to the art of charm. I was told that the host is hostile to trp, but honestly anything BP seems few and far between, with the notable exception of the recent "your wing girl" episode.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 12:07 AM
3

Once you build your frame, you won't fight. Once you read WISNIFG, you will know how to respond to "I can't believe you would say that" Once you read NMMNG, you won't think "everything I have done for her this week is out the window " Now I understand, these day one reports don't have value for the poster or the community.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 10:42 PM
1

I'm with you, just wishing OP would get there by answering "why would she do that". Covert contract in my post! Also, good to see you again.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 10:38 PM
1

/u/rpalternate42 is correct, an injection of progesterone would prevent pregnancy, not cause it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 06:49 PM
3

You are in the right place. Read the prerequisites ASAP.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 06:22 PM
5

In the US, a lab would not give an injection. Sounds like you were given an itemized bill for 1 drawing the blood and 2 testing for progesterone. A progesterone level would be helpful trying to figure out fertility issues due to irregular cycle. The suspicious behavior makes me wonder though.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 06:15 PM
1

What is most concerning to me is that the way you present this, she has done a good deal behind your back. Why might she have done that?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 03:49 PM
1

In addition to getting my shit together, I plan to use dread to combat this. She is already complaining that I am dressing up just to run errands, and she has definitely figured out she is at the wall (not far from 40)
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 11:36 PM
1

Let's not stop until it's in the red pill encyclopedia!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 07:34 PM
1

no problem, good luck!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 12:18 AM
1

Coming to this realization that its all on me as I reconstruct my masculinity from the ground up has helped me understand what it means to be a man and why she (or any woman) will never understand what I feel. This has helped me avoid laying my emotions on her like I used to. I am still second-guessing my entire pre-RP life but I cannot think of a situation in the first few years where she displayed such low value. That does make me think I've got a chance it will turn around after I put my time…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 12:16 AM
2

I bet you just want to look at my butt [as I walk to the door to close it] This also seems like it would have been a fantastic first reponse to what she said. Everything else is still way too many words IMO. Then "feel better soon so I can take care of your back door!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 12:10 AM
4

This seems like a starfish post to me. Read the material, ask a specific, and thoughtful question.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 09:14 PM
2

Seems like way too many words used. What would have happened if your first response was "thanks" am then you continue upstairs? Then you could just fog whatever comes next. Edit. ..or fog from the start. .. I don't understand, would you like me to close the door for you ?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 07:08 PM
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2.5 months in, I am noticing that essentially everything is on my shoulders. If I don't set up the workout video, she won't work out. If I don't portion healthy food for meals, she won't eat healthy. If I show even the slightest non alpha behavior, she loses her mind. She is still keeping up with the housework and shit testing me often so I don't see her as checked out. I don't recall her being such a low quality woman before our relationship slid downhill (I've always been beta). I accept that …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 03:57 PM
1

Nice! I am thinking to do a bumper sticker that says: I SUPPORT MRP TESTICULAR STEM CELL RESEARCH
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 03:55 AM
2

Good luck. Other useful ones are Smartpassiveincome.com Sidehustlenation.com Iwilleachyoutoberich.com They have awesome free content. Maybe you know something about being a pastor that can be sold to churches?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 10:49 PM
2

Try listening to a few episodes of eofire.com and especially the last interview question which is : If you were taken to a world exactly like this one but you knew no one, your food and shelter were taken care of and all you had was $500 and a laptop what would you do in the next 7 days?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 07:14 PM
3

No wonder you "feel trapped"...you have zero balls. This place can help you regrow a pair.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 04:19 PM
6

You are in the right place, welcome. Check out the wiki, the beginners guide, and the course prerequisites. we very much love each other Be prepared for your understanding of love to change a bit. I do...computer gaming What do you mean, you play games in your spare time? This doesn't make the wife wet. fitter, more affectionate, and patient. First one good, next two bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 11:45 PM
2

How did it go?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 11:16 AM
1

As others have said, less talk more doing. I have found early on that anticipating a shit test is counter productive. You have done better than I could, not making any changes for so long. Hopefully you built yourself a frame to stand in over this time as well. You'll be ok whether you pass the test or not, so just let them come.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 01:38 AM
4

I'm no expert, but I am also doing hobbies in the house so that I don't always need to leave it. Building an online business, starting a podcast, playing an instrument. The podcast is great because I get to tell her not to make noise on the first floor so as to not screw my recording.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 12:23 AM
2

So far I just imagine myself as captain of a ship with a first officer, a lieutenant junior grade, and an ensign. If I see something that needs doing and I have nothing better to do for myself or the ship, I do it. The other thread seemed to be about picking up after a messy wife. Recently when I got sick of the kitchen being strewn with dirty dishes I set aside 1 plate/bowl/knife/spoon/fork per crew member and stuck the rest in a bin in the garage. Things aren't as messy anymore. Edit: there is…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 10:26 PM
1

Have you read WISNIFG yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/15 10:26 AM
1

Thanks for these, I binge listened (text to speech) after you reposted the first one. ..super helpful!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/15 01:31 AM
7

If this is the most important thing to you, I suggest you make WISNIFG your first read, as it will teach you how to have a conversation about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/15 11:33 AM
1

nobody ever died from embellishing You are right. ..even Brian Williams still has a job!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 10:54 PM
1

So glad it is working well. If you haven't yet, skip to and immediately read the fogging section of WISNIFG. This will pull you out of any fuck ups you might get into
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 10:16 PM
1

Very nice. What exactly do you think is working for you? Hopefully it is clear now that the db sub is sad and not helpful.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 09:37 PM
-11

I believe frames don't buckle, aren't lost, broken or maintained. See this copy paste below on how I view frame and how that helps me stay in mine. After /u/whinemoreplease straightened me out on what frame is, I don't like the phrase "hold frame". It's like I am holding on to a frame for dear life while someone tries to pull me out. I also don't like maintain frame, break frame, lose frame as they all don't capture what frame is. Since frame is my reality, I can choose to stand in my frame or s…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/15 12:44 PM
1

I'm pretty sure he appreciates the effort made to draw a little more context from his initial post so that he could actually get some meaningful advice. You worked hard on that too it looks like. I consider it like we double teamed a starfish.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 07:08 PM
0

Can't have it not smelling like a locker room in here!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:50 PM
8

Nice job. This is a feature, not a bug.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 03:48 PM
5

It's been way too long since you've posted, thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 12:13 PM
1

Fucking nice. It took me way too long to read that book. You are in the fogging section by now, right?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 12:07 PM
0

There was a nice discussion not to long ago about "lifting is not a hobby" and I agree with that. I don't think it was unanimous though. I am definitely going to see if I can get "starfish posting" in the wiki or faq.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 11:50 AM
1

How much of this book have you read in the past 17 hours?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 11:40 AM
1

You will be OK, whether you pass each shit test or not. Have less fucks to give and it will be easier to not give a fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 11:38 AM
2

I will try, but easier said than done Pussy.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 11:11 AM
3

Going to the gym is level 2, part of your MAP. Leaving when the wife is misbehaving is not dread, it is a response to the wife's misbehavior therefore it is an answer to a shit test. I believe there is a reason "just leave" doesn't appear in the wiki for shit tests. This is difficult to do without appearing butthurt, and I have screwed it up at least once since starting with TRP. Edit: nuke is probably not the correct word. I suppose "don't act butthurt" would be more accurate.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 10:51 AM
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What time does your kid go to bed? Do they stay in bed when put down? What time do they wake up? What time do you wake up? What hobby exactly do you find yourself unable to do without being an absent dad? What are your other hobbies? Wait a minute! don't want to be an absent dad by getting wrapped up in work or going out a ton. How much of WISNIFG have you read? Did "absent dad" come from your lips or hers? Are you letting someone else judge you?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 10:26 AM
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Has anyone coined the term "Starfish Posting" yet?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 02:04 AM
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I have yet to see anything that indicates you have read about the 12 levels of dread in the wiki. We want to help but it doesn't do either of us any good if we are spoon feeding you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:54 AM
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I think I get what he's asking. I don't understand how you think you get what he is asking from that post wife misbehaves at 5pm, I'm not simply going to walk out until midnight Then don't use a nuke for your level 1 dread lots of shit needs to be done with there's children involved. I agree, I have 2.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:49 AM
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Would you care to offer some clarification? Would you care to offer some clarification?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:30 AM
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You've got some reading to do. The fact that you are wanting to do anything about this shit test after the fact shows you have zero IDNGAF. I offered to just eat cereal Too much talking, not enough doing. Just eat the cereal already why do you need to talk about it? couldn't even think of anything to say and just turned away from her. Outwardly you may have passed the test with this (ignore) as long as she couldn't see you were at a loss for words. Obviously inward there is not a frame there yet…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:25 AM
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Hello zero karma no context (troll?). The only level of dread that could possibly have a negative impact on a child is 9+.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/15 01:13 AM
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I try to hold frame After /u/whinemoreplease straightened me out on what frame is, I don't like the phrase "hold frame". It's like I am holding on to a frame for dear life while someone tries to pull me out. I also don't like maintain frame, break frame, lose frame as they all don't capture what frame is. Since frame is my reality, I can choose to stand in my frame or step out of it into someone elses. [Edit] and no one can push me out of where i stand because I am 40 fucking feet tall. [/edit] …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 07:37 PM
2

I made the same mistake. Finish WISNIFG right now! Passing shit tests without knowing how to fog is a recipe for disaster.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 06:32 PM
1

I just need to say thanks again man. Tonight I blew through a comfort test like it was a shit test and fogged for about 45 minutes to right the ship. Had you not posted this I do not think I would have had fogging on my mind and surely would have done worse than I did.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 05:27 AM
1

First create your amazon affiliate account at https://affiliate-program.amazon.com/ Set up an affiliate link in amazon, then post the link with the relevant video. Some people host a wordpress site and use a plugin to shorten the links like in this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xu2QNUY5iyk I am pretty sure there are rules about marking them as affiliate links and not having copyright in your videos. So I believe you could have marriedredpill.com/NMMNG point to your amazon affiliate link…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 05:24 AM
1

Nice content and nice job with the voice, thank you. I am still concerned for you with the music, especially because you have a real chance to develop a loyal audience and a funnel to sell your book or other products to. At about 20:40 in this podcast the 3 hosts discuss copyright issues, including 1 who got a cease and desist order (not for music though): http://podcastersgrouptherapy.com/podcasting-copyright-issues-17 Edit: that's 3 books you mentioned. You could have an amazon affiliate link …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 01:51 AM
2

Nice point about fogging that hamster
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 11:39 PM
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This would be a tough one for me, as I used to eat my emotions. when I politely decline Maybe less talking, more doing is the way to approach it? Ignore Just leave the food right where she brings it no matter what. Amused Mastery Take the sauce and make a smiley face out of it on the plate, or if she brings you a mango [peel it into a flower like this](www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXWxT21UJYI) and place it in a vase. Disagree and amplify I can't eat strawberries they go right to my hips Agree and Pre…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 08:48 PM
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It's like you became a fucking unicorn. Well done and I plan to follow the example. I suppose I should have mentioned that up above so as to not appear trolly.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/15 03:05 AM
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Very nice. My favorite comment : The guy's name is blue pill. The guy talks like a 15 year old about a girl hitting on him for the first time. Non-nerdy looking profs get hit on all the time. Most profs look at ideas like the red pill with disdain. Most profs have superiority complexes that look down at non-profesors' opinions. Professors spend their lives getting a job at a university and they sure as hell wouldn't come to reddit asking if they should risk their life's work for a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 11:50 PM
4

Ethically speaking I am opposed to pointless mental masturbation.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 03:30 PM
1

I don't think what you said counts as A&A. It sounded snippy. In the podcast BPP points out that of you A&A everything you come across as a clown. AM would have worked, or ignore, or A&A maybe would be to kick your feet up, stab a piece of steak on a fork and say "yup I'm a shitty cook alright " as you close your eyes and savor the food.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 11:32 PM
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I like the Congressional nomination analogy for shit tests. Last night I got a "fuck you, you kept me up late " which because I didn't lose my cool soon turned into "fuck me doggie and don't hold back".
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/15 07:34 PM
2

Read this post
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 07:38 PM
1

I actually think this is a good response. Maybe also pressure flip such as "what makes you think I would want to dress up for someone else?"
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 03:27 PM
0

It's a shit test for sure. The text can be ignored or your vague answer can be repeated. Make sure you don't fall behind on your reading. Dressing better is level 5 dread read the wiki in the sidebar about the 12 steps of dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/15 01:40 PM
2

Check the wiki link in the sidebar. Lots of answers/links there. Look on the wiki for 12 steps of dread.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 01:32 PM
2

Welcome and thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 02:35 AM
2

Sex doesn't come with any nice gesture. Read!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 01:09 AM
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You don't stop buying flowers. You stop buying flowers for her with the covert expectation that she will then do something nice for you. If it pleases you to have flowers on the table at dinner, then you buy them and place them there to make yourself happy. If it does not please you to have flowers on the table then you just don't buy them. Same thing with a massage. My wife has asked for several massages since I swallowed the red pill. Each time I just laugh. However I did give her a massage on…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:45 AM
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Lurk means read but don't post for a while Trp, mrp are The red pill and married red pill are the Subreddit you should be concerned with . Primarily the sidebar content. Smv is your social market value, discussed in no more Mr nice guy You don't get mad because you develop outcome independence, and you choose to not let the behavior of others change how you feel.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 12:08 AM
1

Start with the beginner post which will give you the best order to read the 3 course prerequisites in. The sooner you read them the better!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 10:47 PM
1

Great info, thanks for this!
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 08:04 PM
1

Everything I have read says this is a sexual strategy, not something for all aspects of life such as work.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 07:46 PM
2

I feel like i am spamming this but i think it is relevent to you. this video helped me release the anger. this man died and was brought back after being hit head on by a drunk driver. He was told he would never walk again. His anger phase was real and genuine but he allowed himself 5 minutes of anger before moving on. He walked 3 weeks later.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 05:23 PM
1

You are right, I described it in far less detail than previous posts. Thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 03:20 PM
1

I don't understand what you mean by "no context".
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 02:15 PM
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Hey, maybe what worked for me won't for you but this video helped me release the anger. Edit: this man died and was brought back after being hit head on by a drunk driver. He was told he would never walk again. His anger phase was real and genuine but he allowed himself 5 minutes of anger before moving on. He walked 3 weeks later.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 12:58 PM
2

You sound like my twin. If you want read some of my earlier posts to find out how I fucked up early on and how as a career beta I am unplugging. But most importantly you need to read the 3 course prerequisites , non stop if possible. Edit: there are no guarantees about family life but you should focus on being the best you. That is the best thing you can do for your family anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 12:52 PM
2

I think you left your frame and could have used amused mastery or redirection to deal with the cooking comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 04:58 PM
3

For about 4 weeks I had an intense urge every time I was unsure of myself to make posts like these. For the most part, I resisted the urge and it has passed. I made a low value post and it got removed. I turned out OK. A few times I used the own your shit weekly thread to post something in. I'm glad that thread is available.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 11:27 AM
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Oh good, the twice-a-day NAWALT post. I was beginning to think theredpill was banned or reddit was down or something.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 08:17 PM
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Mid life crisis sounds to me like something invented to keep you plugged in.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 11:13 AM
0

Just think for yourself...will it be like my passwords, when everday I typed it in and that cemented how i thought my company sucked? If not, fuck it, I am just some random idiot on the internet.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 11:09 AM
1

Cool, glad you liked it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 03:18 AM
8

Why in the world are you texting her?
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 01:59 AM
1

It sounds like your frame is weak.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/15 01:28 PM
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I would plan to be in monk made for the c section recovery time. Also, I think you made a similar mistake to my last FR, in that you went against the hamster head on. Maybe you could have teased her with "what's the magic word" when she asked for lunch. You were closer and she does need to limit stairs so I do not think it was an unreasonable request / shit test
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 06:55 PM
1

Nice, welcome! The one thing I wish I did at the very beginning was....read faster!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/15 01:41 PM
1

I just don't want you to be subconsciously held back since you type that in several times a day. Maybe pretend it is Fatal bino ninja?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 09:13 PM
4

Try searching for AWALT. it's sure to turn up.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 08:25 PM
1

You didn't say how old the baby is. I read someone say that lingerie is her gift to you and you should not buy it for her. I wonder if telling her to put on something sexy is similarly the wrong thing to do.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 05:17 PM
4

Awesome, thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 02:30 PM
1

There you go. /u/ianironwood also gave you some good examples. Pick some and try them out.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 01:58 PM
1

Thanks. Maybe the user name stuff is too preachy. The way I think about it is, if you are typing something in your computer day after day, or staring at the phrase, or assuming the persona, you are going to become what you type. It's no different than an affirmation. My work passwords at xyz company always used to be XYZblows01, XYZblows02, etc... I have changed them to Success01, Success02, etc and this is helping me change my outlook at work. I could certainly add the unplugging flag, or the r…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:56 AM
-1

Wrong flair buddy, keep at it!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:07 AM
2

Yes thanks, any sidebar content is up for TTS in Pocket - from Reddit or outside it!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 03:07 AM
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No. It teaches you to not rely on women emotionally. Edit And that you are the prize And that PUA IS NOT TRP edit2 LOL it also teaches you that if you listen to Rollo's stuff using Pocket's TTS feature you'll miss clicking on the spoiler link.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 12:27 AM
5

Why don't you list the known ways to pass shit tests and give us an example of how you think each one could be applied to the book situation?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 10:26 PM
1

Your plate is not an rp woman. She understands AFBB which is in her DNA to understand. You understand AFBB because you swallowed the red pill.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:51 PM
1

Yes it's normal but you have the choice how long you stay in the anger phase. Feel it, understand it, but know that after 5 minutes of this feeling if you do not choose acceptance that is because you chose to remain angry.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 01:59 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 10:05 AM
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Don't men "give each other shit" all the time? I know I did with my buddies. It must be just as natural as female shit testing...they need to know if you are an alpha good enough to lead a pack? Don't take this as anything other than a newbie guessing but there you go.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 03:20 AM
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I know it man, the best thing for me has been seeing my other posts cited as "how not to do things" as it drives the message home very effectively! No shit taken, I'm laying it out there for all to see and hopefully as I learn so can others
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 01:01 AM
2

I know that Wednesday - Thursday guy... he has provided a lot of examples!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/15 12:30 AM
1

So transcribe them and message them back to BPP! It takes 4 times the length of the audio content to produce it, even longer for videos...the guy works hard enough already for us.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 11:19 PM
3

You are a beta exactly as usually described here. Why do you need to be off your computer for a month? Game much? Sounds like you have beta and omega issues to identify before you progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 10:44 PM
1

Alright here we go. Why are you relying on her strength for this? Of course she resents you, she doesn't want to do this, it makes you look weak.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:57 PM
4

There is that theme about mrp vs trp again. You sound like a manipulative bitch. I could be wrong but I think you need to re read everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:25 PM
3

If I had to guess I'd say the rp part you are missing is frame. Edit: it's not about whether you sent the email or deleted it. It's about you wanting to send it in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:13 PM
0

I don't understand what you mean by "I was expecting a different response from MRP."
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:05 PM
6

BPP suggested the ultimatum 7 months ago to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 08:54 PM
6

You've been around trp a while but still want to send an angry email? How much reading have you done of the sidebar material? What was the result of the paternity tests?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 08:51 PM
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The hamster is strong with this one.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 06:03 PM
4

You are right on, but as you can see by the voting a good portion of the audience here is still plugged in to this omega activity. Lots of male hamsters running wild in these comments.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 05:56 PM
6

Nothing is wrong with it, just follow the formating rules so I can down vote your shit post.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 01:11 PM
2

These are great, thank you. They say if you are not embarrassed by your first 10 podcasts, then you waited too long to start. I am concerned that the Led Zeppelin use is going to become an issue, especially if you try to monetize. You probably know more about fair use than I do, but all of the podcasters I listen to have their own royalty free bumper music.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 01:00 PM
1

Keep it up please these are valuable!
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 02:59 AM
1

Thanks so much for this. Tonight the hamster came out swinging hard. The wife says "I hate you " for of course no good reason. This is where I would have said "ok, conversation is over" and not interacted with her in any way until tomorrow. Instead, I breathed through my balls, teased her mercilessly for about 10 minutes, the hamster got tired, and I ended the night on my terms, without ramping up the hamster.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 02:41 AM
1

The down votes are because this is fucking stupid mental masturbation
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 06:03 PM
1

I call bullshit on this. No such side effect reported. Use dutasteride if you really feel the medication is doing this.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 05:58 PM
2

I don't understand how you can post to reddit but not get these ebooks. Reading slowly/taking days off from reading contributed to foolish choices on my part which made my life much harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 02:23 PM
2

You are hurting your position by not getting through the prerequisites fast enough. Clear your schedule and do it immediately. I started less than 6 weeks ago and just barely survived what might be my main event due to getting through enough of WISNIFG.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/15 06:28 AM
2

I don't think this belongs in any rp sub
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 08:43 PM
1

I agree with everything but the gardening (I don't garden but that is productive). Sure let them have their leisure but who gives a shit about a detailed post and theory etc etc
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 03:02 PM
0

Oh I see, AWALT unless you are a special snowflake (AWALTUYAASS).
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 10:50 AM
1

Yup I've gotten that cringe comment many times. Easy to see the source of it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 01:23 AM
1

I don't understand. What is wrong with identifying these people among the sea of trolls/amateurs/misinformed reddit users?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 07:30 PM
2

It's not a hobby, it's a distraction.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 02:50 PM
1

Thanks for the repost, this helped me tonight.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/15 03:08 AM
-1

I don't understand why you care about this omega activity
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:02 AM
2

I have tended to do the withdrawal too abruptly and not after a sufficient attempt at other, less severe techniques. ..see my last post/FR
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 11:10 PM
1

Cool. I don't know how much is my inexperience but each time I have anticipated her mood and predetermined withdrawal as my strategy after a brief attempt at other things it hasn't gone easy for me. Geez frantic calls, kids at the doctor, principal retirement. ..either we are married to the same woman or AWALT.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 09:41 PM
2

Just listened. Thanks to you and BPP!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 08:26 PM
1

Got it, thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 10:28 AM
-1

Thanks, I did pick out a show that I know she likes, but I see what I did wrong/abruptly.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 01:44 AM
1

Thanks again, this is plain as day to me now - and not just because I spent much of my teenage years playing DOOM on NIGHTMARE mode.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 01:40 AM
2

My wife just the other day told me a guy on a health show she listens to said "happy wife, happy life" and she added herself "it's a fact. " I laughed so suddenly I snorted. Then later in the day she was trying to get the kids to do something and I said "remember kids - happy mommy, happy mommy. "
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 11:20 PM
4

Agreed, I have been planning to post something to this effect over on mrp
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 11:15 PM
1

Thanks for the great content! The mic sounds much better! I'm running your file through auphonic now and will see if that helps. If you are clipping that can be fixed by mic positioning or possibly a limiter function in audacity. ..I'll try and play around with it some this weekend
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 10:48 PM
1

Hey buddy, you're in the right place. You've got a lot of reading to do...good luck.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 10:20 PM
1

I have kids and am doing it. Working so far with the bonus that I also don't enter my kids frame or yell at them anymore. Who cares if it goes over well or not with her? Took me just under 4 weeks of this to get sex started again. For yourself maybe, I don't know. Together then concensus seems to be no
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 12:22 AM
1

Have him read my 2nd post, and tell him that is what his life will be like if he becomes a career beta
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 12:49 PM
2

Waste of time to be worried about this.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 02:42 AM
3

The hold the purse thing I consider the equivalent of a dog pissing on a fire hydrant, with you being the hydrant.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 10:42 AM
1

Try the Pomodoro Technique
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 12:47 AM
2

I thought it was [white knight example]
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 12:12 AM
9

Look up the Tom leykis hail Mary pass buddy
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:22 PM
3

What page does it say you should be worrying about mother's day nearly a month after it happened?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 09:44 PM
3

Where the hell did you come from? Now I agree, troll.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 09:41 PM
2

Since you haven't done anything related to redpill strategy here, can you please explain where you are with the sidebar materials?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 09:36 PM
2

Doesn't look like you are doing any of the standard things suggested here. Search for mothers day posts, there were a couple at the appropriate time. What parts of the side bar have you read? I wish this was as easy for me to do as slapping on some cologne...
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 09:31 PM
6

Word is its a fake (but very believable) video
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 08:30 PM
1

My reddit IM must be borked. Have you gotten any from me? I haven't gotten from you.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 06:58 PM
1

I meant an app to talk with instant messaging. ..which do you use? Or did you mean instant messaging on reddit?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 03:32 PM
1

I am not sure if my direct message is working. I am on line, or can get on whatever app you use.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 11:21 AM
2

Great. Do you have a mac or windows pc? The single best thing you can do at this point is to buy a better quality microphone. You need a dynamic mic, not a condenser mic. I have the audio technica atr 2100 usb/xlr dynamic microphone and it gets you an 8.5/10 sound. So far you are really doing audio, not video content. And yes, these producers can make lots of money. I am not sure you will be able to keep your anonymity though. Art of charm, sex with emily, one extraordinary marriage, loveline, T…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 02:32 AM
1

I can help with this as I have been studying it heavily lately. What type of budget do you have for this and what type of computer do you have? Edit: budget both in up front outlay and monthly cost
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 12:29 AM
1

Point taken, Thanks. I was actually being too touchy Feely during the day and that made me worry about seeming needy...nothing to do with sex I see now
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 09:35 PM
2

Thanks so much for your continued effort with me. I am passing shit left and right, and practicing breathing through my balls. Yesterday her period came. That means the sex was in the pms period, which makes me feels pretty good. Much work to do still, thanks.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 09:27 PM
3

He is not the only mod. They will handle it. Even if it stays I received value from it. Have patience.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:35 PM
3

He has to let the other mods handle it, otherwise it will make her think he gives a shit that she is posting here. I hope the thread stays just for the OI lesson it offers.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:16 PM
3

I take this as a phenomenal display of OI on BPP's part. He knew how this would go down, but he is letting her figure it out for herself.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:12 PM
6

That's cute, but only your husband can give us what we need in that department.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:00 PM
2

Very nice user name to show you have your priorities straight. Your husband means a lot to us as he is helping turn our lives around dramatically. Here is a question. Would you please surprise him this week with a mind blowing BJ & happy ending?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 03:00 AM
1

I fit that archetype, and would appreciate the ideas!
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 11:26 AM
0

It's not ad revenue the link gives, but "google juice". Add the tag rel="nofollow" to take away the Google juice. <a href="signin.php" rel="nofollow">sign in</a>
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 10:33 AM
4

I think you'll do better if you interact less with her over text.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/15 10:16 AM
1

Our kids go to soccer together, I >meet her regularly there and we >banter. I now make it a point to socialize with men or pop my ear buds in during social situations with shitty moms.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 08:59 PM
2

Use incognito mode in Google chrome
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 10:31 AM
1

Thanks again for this advice . I am at the very beginning of WISNIFG, and hadn't actually read for a couple days. Last night, after we both stayed up late cleaning the house for company today, and we were both exhausted she pulls out a book to read for a few minutes. I immediately head under the covers and start rubbing her, and the book goes away. ...And we actually fucked for the first time in god knows how long. I won't take this as meaning anything other than plow deeper into this stuff and …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 12:06 PM
1

Thanks, that sure would have been a better way for me to go about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 01:21 AM
1

Thanks, above I posted the outcome so far. I've started recording as much as I can of our conversations hoping to catch more of this crap so that I have what I need if it comes to it. Also because she essentially said she would claim I am abusive so that I would lose my professional license and children. She always says the most hurtful stuff she can come up with, but since finding this sub I haven't been hurt by it at least.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 12:25 AM
1

Thanks. I ended up ignoring the email completely. A little while later I got: "Not one minute of today was positive between anyone in this family. The only real consequences are relationships and self esteem destroyed." I ignored that too. Then about 30 minutes before dinner, she let me know she wanted to address it with the 4 of us at dinner. She did what I would describe as the bare minimum to qualify as what I had told her I wanted said. I did walk back my "there will be a consequence for you…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 12:04 AM
2

Yeah, I see what you are saying. I don't think I am in the strong position needed, and while I realize the relationship might be beyond repair, I was prepared to put in a year or 2 to fix it. This was her response to me: I'm not emailing this but please read. I said something I wish I very much wish I had not said out loud in front of [son, 5] about you as a parent. I would have said I was sorry right away had you not said there will be a consequence for me to the kids. [Daughter, 7] was as stun…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/15 08:07 PM
2

Yeah, so far she has not addressed and so I am not interacting with her at all. But that is a good strategy to use.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/15 06:31 PM
1

Cool, thanks on both points.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/15 05:32 PM
1

In that thread he choose a dumb time to play video games imo. All the advice from stopping to selling the ps4 was good advice for that person given the scenario. Are you looking here for validation from others that it is "OK" for you to game?
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 08:06 PM
1

Interesting, thanks. This podcast and the one on attraction seemed to come straight from NMMNG, MMSL. I'll have my blue-dar on when listening.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 07:08 PM
4

I'm new here but I'll think about comparing what you did to the frame I am holding. I think you lost frame in the following ways: Talking on phone when driving home Making comment about cookies Raising your voice Letting her take over the dishes since you started doing them Chirping in a tone Urging that you hadn't intended to ruin her day Playing ps4. Poorly worded mood swing pregnancy comment So tldr is if you were me, you didn't hold frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 04:11 PM
1

This podcast talks about agree and amplify, and not seeking validation / being needy. I found it very interesting in the context of passing shit tests. "Banter is a muscle that needs to be exercised daily".
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 11:59 AM
1

Wow, my same post is being used as an example twice in one day. Talk about swallowing your pride and owning your shit while it's hanging out there for all to see! Take the whole picture into context and I think the advice that was given to me on that thread makes sense. I was being a bitchy asshole, and was a poor excuse for a human let alone a man. Taking care of long overdue car safety issues was a good way for me to begin owning it. Instead of cowering over potential shit tests I just went ou…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 11:25 PM
1

If you want body weight workouts try Bootcamphub.com
/r/MarriedRedPill22/05/15 07:50 PM
1

Interesting, thanks. I am the same age as her.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 07:57 PM
2

Thanks, I knew there had to be some BP seeping in the affirmation. I am in health care where my job is to convince captains to do things my way.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 06:46 PM
5

Would you say you have remained dependent on her for validation throughout the 4 months?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 09:13 PM
1

Do you have access to garage band?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 03:10 PM
2

Thanks! I plan on an update at 2 weeks this Thursday.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 11:23 PM
2

Yes, check the thread on my 2nd post and you'll find it
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 07:29 PM
9

Definitely the best advice I have gotten here was extremely critical. I listened, internalized and the advice set me straight. So for new unpluggers like me, I would highly recommend that you lean in whenever someone is speaking critically to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 04:57 PM
1

Thanks so much for this type of content. I'll play around with audacity to see if I can figure out some voice changing settings that are pleasant to listen to. When using a smartphone mic, try recording in the closet, maybe with a blanket over your head. Another free resource to run the audio through is auphonic.com it does wonders and is free for up to 2 hrs per month.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 12:01 PM
9

Being a career beta, I have always gravitated towards women's discussions in social situations. I am focusing on changing that. Yesterday at a field trip I made sure to sit by the other dads. One of them was talking about his shop, which is a place he and his buddy bought together where they go to get away from the wife and kids when needed. He is currently building a low rider in his shop. I had nothing to contribute to the conversation other than 'wow'. Normally at this point I would have foun…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 11:50 AM
1

I can appreciate how no one likes exaggeration. The period of time from when the kids get home to when they go to bed is non stop shit testing at this point. Too many and too frequent to count. But no, I don't need to post examples or ask for help with them despite me previously thinking/wanting to do that. That was the point of my post.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 03:52 PM
1

Thanks, the post didn't pass muster, but the wonderful peaceful feeling of control by dngaf/OI remains with me.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 01:01 AM
1

I know, that was worse than cleaning up the diaper genie, wasn't it?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/05/15 12:37 AM
2

What I am learning here is that if you are in an unhappy marriage, it is your fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 02:39 PM
1

Bootcamphub.com
/r/becomeaman15/05/15 02:42 AM
2

Yes although I try and use natural / logical consequences. In this case I can't use the natural consequence because they have a family risk of skin cancer, so I should have used the logical consequence of ok, then you can't go outside. Since I was supposed to be taking them outside so my wife could have quiet time on her birthday, I foolishly tried to power my way through it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 02:57 PM
1

The strategy for dealing with anger that I am using comes from Hal Elrod. Check his videos on YouTube or his book The Miracle Morning. Basically, he allows himself to feel anger for 5 minutes, and then accepts his circumstances and moves on. He successfully employed this strategy after waking up from being in a coma after being hit head on at 70 mph by a drunk driver. He was told he would never walk again. He walked 3 weeks later.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 02:03 PM
1

Looking forward to hearing the experts on this. My guess is #2 is a comfort test.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:44 PM
1

What else can you shave with that thing? The back of your neck? What model is it...5 or 6?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 12:01 AM
1

I agree with your analysis
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 09:32 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:58 PM
5

I'm new here, and took my pill less than a week ago so I have many, many faults. I had been doing so well holding my frame with my wife, but I let my kids get to me, lost frame and got in a power struggle with them (over something stupid...putting sunblock on). I immediately saw how my wife reacted and realized it is double important that I hold frame with them.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 11:23 AM
1

Thanks, OI has been very effective both as a relaxing feeling and getting things to calm down.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 03:25 AM
3

You should see the crumbs in my car but yeah, if I never buy them ...
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 03:17 AM
2

Hey what do you know. ..I just got home with the car and it's dark and the light is on.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 12:53 AM
1

Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 12:41 AM
1

Thanks. This was both the advice I needed and was relieved to find. Much of my weight has come from eating my sadness. She'll say nasty shit and I'll go eat a bag of chips. I am looking forward to not doing that the next time she goes nuts, as I'd never had a frame of reference that didn't involve getting hurt in past episodes. I will check my EAP regarding counseling. I wonder how I will get that scheduled without her knowledge or her suspecting I am doing something else. I assume I will be loo…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 12:41 AM
2

Thanks, I started lifting last night. This morning I did an interval workout, weeded a bit outside, and walked back from the car place (2 miles). I weigh 20 lbs more than when we were married, but I am 65 pounds over my ideal body weight. I had stopped shaving regularly, waited too long to get my hair cut, dressed sloppy, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 03:49 PM
1

I am going to reexamine what happened since I wonder if my previous way of looking at it was warped. Here is what I have always thought was the start: When pregnant with our 2nd kid, she asked me if I wanted to come to a company picnic about 30 minutes before it started. I said no I didn't want to go. She asked a few different ways if i wanted to go but because I didn't want to, and because I didn't realize how much she wanted me to go, I kept saying no. So she went with our 1 year old to the pi…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 03:46 PM
3

Thanks, I really do appreciate the lengthy and blunt response. You are spot on with just about everything, except I do make over $100k/yr.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 10:59 AM
2

Thanks for this!
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 10:23 AM
2

Thanks, fuck her indeed. She never used to be this way, but I believe I am understanding now how we got here.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 03:14 AM
2

Right, I probably got too caught up in the past there - she is always stupidly clogging up the toilet and never attempting to fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 03:09 AM
1

Yes, while she was pregnant with our 2nd things spiraled downward and never recovered. Thanks for the validation tip - I am not (consciously?) looking for it here.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/15 03:07 AM
1

Thanks to you and all the others who responded!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 10:35 PM
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