Girl is texting multiple guys, how to win her?

NewbieCasanova · 2016-06-05T08:21:08+00:00

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nike747 · 2016-06-05T07:53:42+00:00

Put yourself in their shoes.

Also women always have backup. For everyone woman, there are 10 dudes in her life waiting/trying to bang her.

KKavi · 2016-06-05T12:40:32+00:00

Most of the guys out there are trying to win her, all you have to do is stop trying to win her and just be yourself. Tinder is all about text game and what most of the guys lack is that they don't know how to catch her attention and stand out of the crowd.

First of all, Stop having small talk over texting and save it for the date with her. Use texting to banter, tease and flirt with her. Just remember that the text you are sending her especially the first one shouldn't make her think too much it should simply put a nice smile on her face and just get a simple response not a very well pondered one.

Tease her so that she would know that you are not intimidated by her good looks at all, for example what i usually do is tease her along the lines such as "she looks like a cute school girl" even if she doesn't, your tease doesn't mean that it is actually true, it simply means that you are not wooed by her just yet. What i am doing here is i am giving her a insult wrapped inside a compliment. Cute- compliment. Immature school girl- insult. ;)

That would make you as a challenge for her and trust me boy they love a challenging guy who is not wrapped around her finger already, because believe me most of the guys dance like a monkey just by her one signal.

Girls are like cats who would play with a string that is getting away from her (You). she would leave the one that is just lying on the ground(Other guys).

Flirt with her in a manner like you don't look like a sleazebag, just flirt like you are a guy who is used to hanging around beautiful women. don't get mistaken by flirting I DO NOT MEAN THAT YOU SHOULD GIVE HER COMPLIMENT, i never do that. Compliments are only appreciated whenever they are least expected and she will jump like a little girl inside.

Flirting for instance when some girl tell me that she is cooking this or that for her dinner then i simply say that "Me-You know what.. i actually get turned on by girls who can cook amazing food." Then they simply get back on me either with "yeah, all my friends say m a great cook." or " i don't know whether it's amazing or not but my friends love it every time i cook something for them." or may be something else.

What she doesn't even realize is she is trying to prove herself to me. ;)

Always remember that do not use texting so much it is not the real thing it is just a way to get both of you a date. So use it for planning out dates not for getting to know each other.

The real secret in all these techniques is that you don't even care what her response is gonna be which is actually lacking in most of the guys out there, they are not outcome independent they always try to get some response out of her and they say what might get that response not what they really want to say.

I have tried to be as brief as i can, sometimes i just kept on going and going about all this stuff. i just want to help everyone because i know the pain and that feeling of being a looser with the girls, i have given one big chunk of my life to get that part of me fixed and now boy it's just as easy as getting a cake ;) Lol

I hope it helped you, if you have some other question you can just ask. i would love to help you. :) Thanks. :)

InBaggingArea · 2016-06-05T10:05:59+00:00

Don't win her. Fuck her.

redinkinc · 2016-06-05T12:13:55+00:00

I tihnk the best looking guy will 'WIN' and he'll be fucking her.

If that's you then good!

tylerrags · 2016-06-05T19:46:39+00:00

Eat her out. Girls love a guy who is a generous lover. Works every time.

Title	Girl is texting multiple guys, how to win her?
Author	NewbieCasanova
Upvotes	2
Comments	11
Date	June 5, 2016 7:25 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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