I've been dating this girl for 5 months, and the first 4 months were great, but this last month it seems like the spark is dying. I was on her computer the other day, and saw in her web history that she recently logged onto her dating site (which she said she deactivated) and checked out her messages. She also texted her friend and said she just wanted to go out for the night and meet a guy instead of hanging out with me. I didn't confront her on these things because she would be mad I was snooping around.

Anyway, I need some good tips to get the spark back in my relationship so she can lose any doubts about being with me. I plan on having a serious talk with her soon to discuss where we are, and be honest about a few things. Any advice for this situation. We are both in our early 20s.