In the UK so some differences from US approaches.

Whever it comes to messaging whether its on Tinder or texting I have absolutely no game. No idea what to say or how to stay flirty I find myself just being polite which never gets any results and getting ghosted.

Ive noticed being more blunt or almost aggressive brings more results going from saying You're incredibly cute lets geab a coffee is nothing but saying your neck could use my hand as a neckless does and ive never got that.

Any advice is appreciated.