I'm an ENTP so I'm not at all empathetic. Which has hindered me in many interactions with women because I come off as "cold". We all know that women are emotionally based so when they talk to a guy like me they run as quickly as possible. Because I'm boring/too logical? Yes. I remember watching an interview with Elon Musk & he talked about how in his younger days he would go on first dates & he would talk to the girls about electronic cars & they would just leave or think of him as a loon. I can relate to that because I'm a guy who likes to explore new ideas & really find a solution to problems SO I tend to talk about these things quite a lot :( I can have very interesting conversations with people but they are never really "hooked" if that makes any sense.

I remember I was talking to a female friend of mine & she told me that once a guy makes her feel a bunch of different emotions she would fuck him. Not that she wanted to but that she somehow ended up fucking those guys that can trigger her emotions. So I want to be able to do that but don't really know how?