How To Use Push-Push Through Body Language (4 Specific Ways to Flirt with a Girl Non-verbally)

the_malaysianmamba · 2019-05-03T20:30:41+00:00

TLDR;

One of the most potent ways to flirt with a girl is by using PUSH PULL through body language rather than just verbal flirting.
4 ways to use PUSH PULL through body language are: Eye Contact, Vocal Speed, Proximity and Light Touching.
For Eye Contact, you can hold eye contact with her for just a little longer than normal. But here's the caveat, you should ALWAYS try to be the one that breaks eye contact first. By holding eye contact for a little longer, this is essentially a “pull”, and by breaking eye contact first, that would be a little “push”.
For Vocal Speed, speak slowly. This “seductive” slower way of talking will be a form of “pulling”. Then, speak faster, which will make it look like you're being more friendly and platonic, or “pushing” her. By constantly switching the speed between slow and seductive, to fast and friendly, you'll be pulling and pushing effectively.
For Proximity, Leaning in slightly, and leaning back out is another great example of push/pull. If you want to make this trick even more effective, combine this with what we just learned about vocal speed. When you lean in, speak slower. Then when you lean back out, talk faster again.
For Lightly Touching, Some “safe” spot that you can lightly touch are her fore arms, her shoulders and her legs if she's sitting down. DO NOT try touching places that are too overly sexual like the small of her back, her butt or her hips, unless you know for sure that she's already into you. A good way to lightly touch a girl is to do so WHILE you're saying something, as a way to emphasize a point. That way it doesn't seem like a big deal, wheras if you're completely silent and then just randomly touch her in the shoulder, chances are she's gonna think you're a creep.

Title	How To Use Push-Push Through Body Language (4 Specific Ways to Flirt with a Girl Non-verbally)
Author	the_malaysianmamba
Upvotes	3
Comments	1
Date	May 3, 2019 8:30 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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