Im asking this not because i want a girl that used to be special and all that corny stuff. i've been there, it's a nasty place, what im looking for is how to get tthem in a normal context, my main goal is a coworker who tried to make something abussive and i reacted like if she was a guy and she has became really upset and hostile towards me, i would normally dont mind about her but she somehow has some power over me, any tips?