How's this opener?

exophrine · 2016-02-19T16:39:08+00:00

That's a terrible opening.
"Let me take you out because you're beautiful"
Why would she want to go out with you because she's beautiful? Where are you in that?

theplug_ · 2016-02-19T16:37:00+00:00

nope. Don't walk up and say that, because it is a yes or no question. Ask her name and say you want to know if her personality is as beautiful as her. But not the coffee part.

Not2original · 2016-02-19T18:24:20+00:00

Too forced. too many words, if you're nervous you'll shudder and look like an idiot.

Short, and to the point.

Hi, I'm (x). Do you prefer, coffee or tea? Great, let's go ::Hold out your hand::

upgrayed · 2016-02-19T18:05:41+00:00

Ditch openers. See her. Eye contact. Smile. Walk over. Have a grown up conversation.

NEVER invest that highly right off the bat. Only addressing her physical beauty, you have no idea if she's obsessed with Hitler maybe. Does that still make her beautiful? Whenever I see a 9 or 10 I always open with something along the lines of: "Hi, I'm Upgrayed. I saw you from over there and thought you could be really interesting. What's your story?"

Title	How's this opener?
Author	talkhonesttome
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	February 19, 2016 4:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/46lfhn/hows_this_opener/
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